When Ann Romney took the stage at the Republican National Convention in Tampa last week, she spoke warmly of marrying while still in college and surviving on just a little money in a basement apartment. “Those were very special days,” she said.
Then this week at the Democratic National Convention in Charlotte, Michelle Obama spoke about the early days of her marriage, when student loan payments cost the couple more than their monthly mortgage payment. “We were so young, so in love, and so in debt,” she said.
Obviously, both of these women had political reasons for bringing up these decades-old memories. And, yes, both speeches have been criticized. But I was struck by Romney and Obama’s similar comments about making ends meet in their 20s. It seems that being a broke 20-something has become a required stage of life, a universal experience of sorts that older generations like to reflect fondly upon.
I’m interested in hearing your thoughts on that in the comments section below. But, first, here are some excerpts from transcripts of the two speeches:
Ann Romney: “We were very young. Both still in college. There were many reasons to delay marriage, and you know? We just didn’t care. We got married and moved into a basement apartment. We walked to class together, shared the housekeeping, and ate a lot of pasta and tuna fish. Our desk was a door propped up on sawhorses. Our dining room table was a fold-down ironing board in the kitchen. Those were very special days.
Then our first son came along. All at once I’m 22 years old, with a baby and a husband who’s going to business school and law school at the same time, and I can tell you, probably like every other girl who finds herself in a new life far from family and friends, with a new baby and a new husband, that it dawned on me that I had absolutely no idea what I was getting into.” (Full transcript)
Michelle Obama: “You see, even though back then Barack was a Senator and a presidential candidate...to me, he was still the guy who’d picked me up for our dates in a car that was so rusted out, I could actually see the pavement going by through a hole in the passenger side door... he was the guy whose proudest possession was a coffee table he'd found in a dumpster, and whose only pair of decent shoes was half a size too small...
When it comes to giving our kids the education they deserve, Barack knows that like me, and like so many of you, he never could’ve attended college without financial aid.
And believe it or not, when we were first married, our combined monthly student loan bills were actually higher than our mortgage. We were so young, so in love, and so in debt.” (Full transcript)
What about you? For those who haven’t been a 20-something in decades, what lessons did you learn during those years? And for those still struggling through, what are you learning along the way?
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