Carolyn Hax
Carolyn Hax
Columnist

Carolyn Hax started her advice column in 1997 as a weekly feature for The Washington Post, accompanied by the work of “relationship cartoonist” Nick Galifianakis. The column has since gone daily and into syndication, where it appears in over 200 newspapers. Carolyn joined The Post in 1992 as a copy editor in Style, and became a news editor before turning to writing full-time. She is the author of “Tell Me About It” (Miramax, 2001), and the host of a live online discussion on Fridays at noon on washingtonpost.com. She lives in Washington, D.C., with her husband and their three boys. Sign up for Carolyn Hax’s column, delivered to your inbox early each morning, at bit.ly/haxpost.

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Carolyn Hax: Even in grief, family snubs fiance

It’s been made clear that her fiance is not welcome at a family funeral, causing pain on top of grief.

Carolyn Hax: Couple’s squabbling short-circuits fun in their outings

Carolyn Hax: Couple’s squabbling short-circuits fun in their outings

Breaking the scolding cycle; paying too much on Mother’s Day; bad breath could end a relationship

Carolyn Hax: Third-wheel ex controls the relationship

Carolyn Hax: Third-wheel ex controls the relationship

The reader clings to the high road as her boyfriend’s married ex spends more time with him than she does.

Wife is fed up with husband’s complaints about work

Wife is fed up with husband’s complaints about work

He’s desperately unhappy in his job, but the real problem seems to be his lack of coping skills — and hers.

Girlfriend’s complaint sparks concerns

Girlfriend’s complaint sparks concerns

A reader wonders if he should propose marriage to his sweetheart after her odd criticism of his career.

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