Carolyn Hax
Carolyn Hax
Columnist

Carolyn Hax started her advice column in 1997 as a weekly feature for The Washington Post, accompanied by the work of “relationship cartoonist” Nick Galifianakis. The column has since gone daily and into syndication, where it appears in over 200 newspapers. Carolyn joined The Post in 1992 as a copy editor in Style, and became a news editor before turning to writing full-time. She is the author of “Tell Me About It” (Miramax, 2001), and the host of a live online discussion on Fridays at noon on washingtonpost.com. She lives in Washington, D.C., with her husband and their three boys.

Latest by Carolyn Hax

Boyfriend is secretive about porn

Boyfriend is secretive about porn

A woman wants to know whether she needs to “just get over” her soon-to-be live-in boyfriend’s secretive use of pornography.

Carolyn Hax: Valentine’s Day advice for couples and singles

Carolyn Hax: Valentine’s Day advice for couples and singles

Carolyn advises the brokenhearted, the clueless gift-buyers, and the awkward first daters.

Baggage for two

Baggage for two

A woman traumatized by past boyfriends’ treatment finds it hard to talk to the patient new boyfriend about it.

After abuse, rebuild trust in yourself

After abuse, rebuild trust in yourself

A woman who endured an abusive relationship is having trouble trusting again.

Recent Discussions

Carolyn Hax Live (Friday, Feb. 10)

Advice Columnist Carolyn Hax takes your questions and comments about the strange train we call life.

Carolyn Hax Live (Friday, Feb. 3)

Advice Columnist Carolyn Hax takes your questions and comments about the strange train we call life.

Carolyn Hax Live (Friday, Jan. 27)

Advice Columnist Carolyn Hax takes your questions and comments about the strange train we call life.

Carolyn Hax Live (Friday, Jan. 20)

Advice Columnist Carolyn Hax takes your questions and comments about the strange train we call life.

Carolyn Hax Live (Friday, Jan. 13)

Advice Columnist Carolyn Hax takes your questions and comments about the strange train we call life.

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Carolyn Hax Live: Advice columnist tackles your problems (Friday, Feb. 17)

Advice Columnist Carolyn Hax takes your questions and comments about the strange train we call life.