Carolyn Hax
Carolyn Hax
Columnist

Carolyn Hax started her advice column in 1997 as a weekly feature for The Washington Post, accompanied by the work of “relationship cartoonist” Nick Galifianakis. The column has since gone daily and into syndication, where it appears in over 200 newspapers. Carolyn joined The Post in 1992 as a copy editor in Style, and became a news editor before turning to writing full-time. She is the author of “Tell Me About It” (Miramax, 2001), and the host of a live online discussion on Fridays at noon on washingtonpost.com. She lives in Washington, D.C., with her husband and their three boys. Sign up for Carolyn Hax’s column, delivered to your inbox early each morning, at bit.ly/haxpost.

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Wife is fed up with husband’s complaints about work

He’s desperately unhappy in his job, but the real problem seems to be his lack of coping skills — and hers.

Girlfriend’s complaint sparks concerns

Girlfriend’s complaint sparks concerns

A reader wonders if he should propose marriage to his sweetheart after her odd criticism of his career.

How a new mom can relax and stop trying to be perfect

How a new mom can relax and stop trying to be perfect

The mother of a six-month-old boy worries she’s making the wrong call on formula and other issues.

Forestalling the unbearable questions about a tragedy

Forestalling the unbearable questions about a tragedy

A woman returning to work after losing her stillborn son wants to avert co-workers’ questions about it.

Fear of confrontation gives kids green light to bully

Fear of confrontation gives kids green light to bully

An aunt allows her niece and nephew to be violent with her kids in an effort to avoid a family rift.

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