- Carolyn Hax
- Columnist
Carolyn Hax started her advice column in 1997 as a weekly feature for The Washington Post, accompanied by the work of “relationship cartoonist” Nick Galifianakis. The column has since gone daily and into syndication, where it appears in over 200 newspapers. Carolyn joined The Post in 1992 as a copy editor in Style, and became a news editor before turning to writing full-time. She is the author of “Tell Me About It” (Miramax, 2001), and the host of a live online discussion on Fridays at noon on washingtonpost.com. She lives in Washington, D.C., with her husband and their three boys. Sign up for Carolyn Hax’s column, delivered to your inbox early each morning, at bit.ly/haxpost.
- Carolyn Hax: Girlfriend’s odd complaint about beau’s freelance career sparks concerns
- Carolyn Hax Live: Advice columnist tackles your problems (Friday, May 24)
- A new mother wonders how to get past the ‘am I doing it right?’ anxiety
- A mother’s loss and the questions she can’t bear to face
- Carolyn Hax: Fear of confrontation gives kids green light to bully
- Carolyn Hax: Thinking of playing matchmaker; how to be monogamous
- Carolyn Hax Live: Advice columnist tackles your problems (Friday, May 17)
- Carolyn Hax: Committing to someone too young; a busybody grandmother
- Carolyn Hax: Contacting an estranged friend after a tragedy; explaining 9 cats
- How to get a ‘crazy cat lady’ to notice her daughter and grandson
- Male bonding, e-mail offensiveness: What does a wife do?
- Carolyn Hax: Invite truth, and don’t settle for less
- Carolyn Hax: Husband has trouble trusting again after two affairs
- Carolyn Hax: To get honesty, invite honesty
- Carolyn Hax Live: Advice columnist tackles your problems (Friday, May 10)
- Carolyn Hax: Demoting a former BFF to a casual acquaintance’; baby shower demands
- Teaching kids the art of giving
- A vacation visit by boyfriend’s sibling breeds resentment
- A woman in her 30s likes ‘Twilight’? So what?
- Breaking the ice and building a relationship with Dad
- Carolyn Hax: Wanting greener pastures, but can’t see past the fences
- Warning signs in how he deals with his ex
- Carolyn Hax Live: Advice columnist tackles your problems (Friday, May 3)
- Dealing with a husband’s destructive old flame
- How do you know if the significant other really loves you?
- Carolyn Hax: Newlywed isn’t sure her friend has found ‘the one’
- Readers share unhelpful newborn advice
- Helping the helpers actually be helpful
- Carolyn Hax: Boyfriend isn’t sure he wants to commit to marriage
- Carolyn Hax: Agreeing on a baby’s name; family trips, loaded with guilt
- Carolyn Hax Live: Advice columnist tackles your problems (Friday, April 26)
- Carolyn Hax: Worried about a daughter with marriage woes
- What to do when someone calls you ‘awful’
- Carolyn Hax: Martyr syndrome makes family hard to trust
- If you want to find love, you have to accept a little risk
- Breathing space for a pregnant woman trying to quit smoking
- Boyfriend refuses to cut off his texting ex
- Mom not psyched about Mother’s Day party; dreading a family funeral
- Carolyn Hax Live: Advice columnist tackles your problems (Friday, April 19)
- Carolyn Hax: Feeling smothered but not sure how to speak up
- Finding yourself after a divorce
- Carolyn Hax: To do right by an ailing parent, you need to do right by yourself
- What to say to a snarky, tradition-minded mother
- Different mothers, different eras, different choices
- Mom in sugar shock over son’s clandestine snacking
- Carolyn Hax: Co-worker hung up on his phone
- Carolyn Hax Live: Advice columnist tackles your problems (Friday, April 12)
- Carolyn Hax: Witness to a male friend in an abusive relationship
- Reclaiming a preoccupied, ‘checked-out’ spouse
- Caroyn Hax: Boyfriend’s misbehaving kids could be a dealbreaker
- A would-be bridesmaid, a baby and a grudge-bearing ‘friend’
- Carolyn Hax: Friend gives fair warning to woman with eyes for a jerk
- Love triangle is, unfortunately, all in the family
- Carolyn Hax: Readers offer advice on navigating relationships
- Carolyn Hax Live: Advice columnist tackles your problems (Friday, April 05)
- Readers’ turn to offer advice on bigotry and pregnancy weight gain
- Carolyn Hax: Readers’ advice on abusive parenting and comforting the dying
- Carolyn Hax: Readers’ advice on dealing with teens, MILs and bad luck
- Carolyn Hax: Readers’ advice on self-esteem and parenting
- Carolyn Hax: Readers dish on unemployment, raising entitled children
- Carolyn Hax: Readers sound off on difficult relationships
- Carolyn Hax: Taming an urgency to marry
- Carolyn Hax Live
- Carolyn Hax: Is she really ready to marry him and his family?
- Carolyn Hax: Single girl on a trip with couples?
- Her boyfriend stopped wanting sex
- Carolyn Hax: A word for the grandma who labels kids? Upsetting.
- Carolyn Hax: When mom abandons you
- Carolyn Hax: What, when, how to share details of a cheating past
- Carolyn Hax: Dealing with a bad boss
- Carolyn Hax Live: Advice columnist tackles your problems (Friday, March 22)
- They were right — he was bad for her, but how does she move on?
- What’s the right way to rebut Dad’s personal doomsaying?
- The guilt-edged check and a legacy of abuse
- When a wedding is canceled, write off the losses and move on
- Carolyn Hax: Giving a sibling a chance to stand on his own
- Carolyn Hax: Father’s disappointment has son hurting, too
- Carolyn Hax: A husband who gets angry when he feels disrespected
- Carolyn Hax Live: Advice columnist tackles your problems (Friday, March 15)
- Carolyn Hax: Distorted sense of body image; saying no to friends in sales
- In a hurry to finish high school, but will parents allow it?
- Carolyn Hax: Setting boundaries for Mom; wedding etiquette
- Love and politics, Part 2: There’s hope when opposites attract
- Politics, passion and a matter of respect
- Carolyn Hax: Mom wants to protect gay son from bias; dad seems too close to daughter
- Trying to avoid a bad-mouthing headache
- Carolyn Hax Live: Advice columnist tackles your problems (Friday, March 8)
- Trusting a group of 18-year-olds; dodging talk about finances
- After a breakup, a temporary no-contact rule may be a help
- Carolyn Hax: When Grandma isn’t on call to babysit
- How do I know if my communication style is right?
- The risks of defining yourself only as ‘Mom’
- Carolyn Hax: When is a hug just a hug? How to keep a sister in the loop
- Carolyn Hax: Finding meaning in more free time
- Carolyn Hax: Sharing pregnancy’s details; avoiding a well-meaning caller
- Carolyn Hax Live
- Drop the weight or drop the badgering husband?
- Dealing with inappropriate flirtation; supporting a recently jilted man
- Getting past a fiance’s first marriage
- A woman’s tough choice: Her guy or her God
- She’s scheduling his free time. He’s having a meltdown.
- Book editor wants to avoid hurting friends who want to be authors
- Carolyn Hax Live: Advice columnist tackles your problems (Friday, February 22)
- Carolyn Hax: Keeping a manipulator at a distance; setting an agenda for therapy
- Carolyn Hax: Coming to terms with an emotionally abusive parent
- Carolyn Hax: Family ties cause friction; pet-sitter’s questionable behavior
- The freedom to marry, with or without a family that is ‘nuts’
- A woman wonders about her husband’s food-sharing habits
- When celebrations collide, bruised feelings may result
- Carolyn Hax: Giving up drinking; less than happy about Baby No. 2
- Carolyn Hax Live
- Carolyn Hax: Stepping on stepmom’s toes
- Carolyn Hax Live: Advice columnist tackles your problems (Thursday, February 14)
- When an ex’s happiness is irrelevant to your own
- Carolyn Hax Live: Advice columnist tackles your problems (Friday, August 17)
- Small-town affair tempts bystander to ignore MYOB policy
- Lending a hand gives a mother-in-law a voice in family planning
- Carolyn Hax: A gossipy mother-in-law’s gross indecency
- Carolyn Hax: Issues with your issues with their issues
- Carolyn Hax: A friend who constantly complains
- Carolyn Hax Live: Advice columnist tackles your problems (Friday, February 08)
- Carolyn Hax: A mom’s special bond; three’s a crowd
- Carolyn Hax: A mother’s separation anxiety
- Carolyn Hax: A 20-something living with an overbearing mom
- Too soon for Dad to date after Mom’s sudden, surprising death?
- Surviving — and preventing — a pressure-cooker childhood
- Carolyn Hax: Wedding etiquette advice on gift requests, family dramas
- Carolyn Hax: Ending an engagement; turning down a gift
- Carolyn Hax Live: Advice columnist tackles your problems (Friday, February 01)
- Dealing with a friend’s mean new girlfriend
- Carolyn Hax: Avoiding Grandma’s negativity; a verbal tic
- Carolyn Hax: Is it fair to alternate Christmas visits when you won the grandchild lottery?
- Carolyn Hax: Can you trust a guy who subscribes to Playboy?
- Emotional and practical help for a friend whose brother is dying
- Carolyn Hax: When Grandpa’s gifts stop coming; sibling with anger toward parents
- Carolyn Hax: A move vs. a mate
- Carolyn Hax Live: Advice columnist tackles your problems (Friday, January 25)
- A daughter’s surprising news, and a mother’s response
- Carolyn Hax: Creating not one, but two willing contributors to the household
- Relationship ultimatum; learning to apologize
- Carolyn Hax: Mother’s constant bragging has friend biting her tongue
- Does ‘NFL’ have to mean ‘not for long’ in this relationship?
- Carolyn Hax: Parents obsessing over daughter’s weight
- An introverted bride, and a spotlight-seeking sister
- Carolyn Hax Live: Advice columnist tackles your problems (Friday, January 18)
- A life of giving advice is to walk the finest of lines
- Carolyn Hax: Choices beyond bowing to a mother’s bigotry
- A hasty promise; name change after marriage
- Fighting snark with tact; a fast-track relationship
- Carolyn Hax: The who, when and how of revealing you’re taking antidepressants
- A weight-obsessed mother-in-law needs to be reined in
- Wife’s job ambivalence wasn’t in his plans
- Flirting between married people; finding clarity
- When and how to tell a friend you’re dating her ex
- Carolyn Hax Live: Advice columnist tackles your problems (Thursday, January 10)
- A mom-to-be’s antibiotic approach
- Carolyn Hax: Avoiding being a jerk magnet; living together as a ‘trial run’
- She suspects her husband is straying, but doesn’t know how or whether to ask him
- When adversity strikes, here’s how to avoid self-pity
- Family’s overtures unwelcome after early shunning
- Unhappy with bride’s choice of wedding colors
- Carolyn Hax Live: Advice columnist tackles your problems (Friday, January 4)
- Carolyn Hax Live: Advice columnist tackles your problems (Friday, December 21)
- Dealing with a 4-year-old’s holiday-party behavior
- Carolyn Hax: Having doubts about an engagement
- Carolyn Hax: Is it selfish to seek support from a friend during husband’s cancer diagnosis?
- Mom worries successful daughter’s boyfriend may be a freeloader
- Carolyn Hax: Helpful paralegal must learn when to say ‘no’ to her co-workers
- Reader advice on office attraction and interacting with kids
- Carolyn Hax: Ill mother-in-law’s voicing of disappointment not welcomed
- Readers give advice on snooping, an abusive mate and children
- Readers’ advice on girls’ clothes and staying friends with a divorcing couple
- Carolyn Hax: Reader advice on wedding menus, prenups and pregnancy
- Carolyn Hax: On wanting what everyone else has and other reader advice
- Carolyn Hax: Readers’ advice on adultery, late-life parenting and more
- Readers dish advice on ties to grandparents, spouses and religion
- Give the gift of acceptance
- Carolyn Hax: Holidays and rotating boyfriends; getting a spouse’s cold shoulder
- Carolyn Hax: Her dream job vs. his change of scenery
- Trials of parenting — and dealing with parents
- Telling the truth about a friendship might be hard, but it’s kind
- Honesty is the best policy
- Carolyn Hax: Significant other’s truth-telling sometimes hurtful
- Carolyn Hax: Who should be in a ‘family photo’; questioning bridesmaid’s gown
- Carolyn Hax Live: Advice columnist tackles your problems (Friday, December 14)
- Carolyn Hax: Couple wants to replicate school of hard knocks for their kids
- Smart, 17 and unpursued. Is there something wrong with that?
- How to help a neighbor watch her step
- Working up the courage to get counseling for depression
- She broke free of marijuana. Is the abusive husband next?
- Mother bothered by having to defend drifter son
- Brothers treated differently
- Carolyn Hax Live: Hootenanny of Holiday Horrors 2012 (Friday, Dec. 7)
- Carolyn Hax: What decency demands after a family tragedy
- Before mending ties, there’s an addiction to face
- Carolyn Hax: Raising chickens, goats, ducks and red flags
- Carolyn Hax: A suspicious e-mail, suspiciously deleted
- Carolyn Hax: Accepting a live-in girlfriend
- Relationship reciprocation; severing a friendship
- Carolyn Hax Live: Advice columnist tackles your problems (Friday, November 30)
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