- Carolyn Hax
- Columnist
Carolyn Hax started her advice column in 1997 as a weekly feature for The Washington Post, accompanied by the work of “relationship cartoonist” Nick Galifianakis. The column has since gone daily and into syndication, where it appears in over 200 newspapers. Carolyn joined The Post in 1992 as a copy editor in Style, and became a news editor before turning to writing full-time. She is the author of “Tell Me About It” (Miramax, 2001), and the host of a live online discussion on Fridays at noon on washingtonpost.com. She lives in Washington, D.C., with her husband and their three boys.
- Carolyn Hax: More a business partner than an intimate one?
- Carolyn Hax Live: Advice columnist tackles your problems (Friday, August 17)
- Carolyn Hax: Married young, and his idea of passion has passed
- Carolyn Hax: Reclaiming one’s online reputation without seeming like a jerk
- Carolyn Hax: A boyfriend and a father’s bigotry
- Carolyn Hax: How to talk with your kids about sex
- Carolyn Hax: Dashing a relationship fantasy; a sibling who doesn’t heed advice
- Carolyn Hax Live: Advice columnist tackles your problems (Friday, August 10)
- Carolyn Hax: If your mother spews hatred, be honest with her
- Single father wants her to move in — but for what purpose?
- Carolyn Hax: Devoting energy to a grieving sister
- Carolyn Hax: Is divorce the only answer to combating porn in long marriage?
- Food Fight, Cont’d
- Carolyn Hax: When do you share hard-to-hear news?
- Carolyn Hax: Dealing with a sister’s flirting
- Burden of boyfriend’s past is on him
- She says she has a happy marriage, but she’s having an affair
- CANCELED: Carolyn Hax Live: Advice columnist tackles your problems (Friday, August 3)
- Carolyn Hax: For oversensitive people, honesty is the best policy
- Carolyn Hax: A snub for boyfriends’ parents?
- Carolyn Hax: When a jobless brother doesn’t need advice
- Carolyn Hax: Getting over your weaknesses in offering emotional support
- Carolyn Hax: Take the lust goggles off when looking at hubby vs. Sparky
- Carolyn Hax: Dealing with a friend who bails on invitations
- Carolyn Hax Live: Advice columnist tackles your problems (Friday, July 27)
- Unhappy husband must look past cliché
- Carolyn Hax: Does father know best?
- Carolyn Hax: With a baby on the way, he wants a career change
- Carolyn Hax: One-upping wife requires love, not criticism
- Carolyn Hax: How to avoid helicopter parenting
- Carolyn Hax: Keeping a husband out of the delivery room
- Carolyn Hax: Typists and talkers — the new dog and cat people
- Carolyn Hax Live: Advice columnist tackles your problems (Friday, July 20)
- Carolyn Hax: Dealing with a secretive girlfriend
- Carolyn Hax: Self-conscious about being a bridesmaid
- Carolyn Hax: A grieving relative and a wedding’s pressures
- Better to cancel a wedding than to rush a prenup
- Carolyn Hax: A fiance’s unpleasant surprise: A prenuptial agreement
- 20 years later, wife wants to see old flame
- Carolyn Hax: Looking for sympathy, not answers; parenting and time management
- Carolyn Hax Live: Advice columnist tackles your problems (Friday, July 13)
- Carolyn Hax: Taking vacation without going on a guilt trip
- Carolyn Hax: Share those cute-baby pics, but edit the recipient list first
- Carolyn Hax: Boyfriend’s bigotry has to be a dealbreaker
- Carolyn Hax: ‘Stepmom’ raises a woman’s hackles
- Carolyn Hax: Is Metro too risky for a pregnant woman?
- Carolyn Hax: Tired of relatives behaving badly; whose genes to use in surrogacy?
- Carolyn Hax: Reader advice on life post-baby, college choices, married names
- Carolyn Hax Live: Advice columnist tackles your problems (Friday, July 6)
- Carolyn Hax: Readers’ advice on dysfunctional families, breakups and more
- Carolyn Hax: Readers’ advice on teens, sex and parental limits
- Carolyn Hax: Readers’ advice on strip clubs, parental support, wedding feuds
- Carolyn Hax: Readers’ advice on toxic grandparents and more
- Carolyn Hax: Readers’ advice on privacy, weddings and more
- Readers’ views on marrying when there’s doubts
- How to end, or mend, a friendship
- Carolyn Hax Live: Advice columnist tackles your problems (Friday, June 29)
- What to do when you learn about friends’ affair?
- Is a long-distance relationship worthwhile?
- Wanted: Cure for obstinacy
- When she says no, boyfriend huffs, puffs and leaves
- Carolyn Hax: Smart strategies for parent whose child drifts off course
- Carolyn Hax: Getting rid of reputation as a one-upper
- Cover-your-plate requirement a myth by greedy brides
- Carolyn Hax: Negative in-laws bring him down
- Carolyn Hax: Resolving work-life conflicts
- Husband wants to opt out of first trimester
- Inoculation against bad judgment?
- Carolyn Hax: Introvert dreads exhausting visits with extrovert husband’s family
- Carolyn Hax: In a relationship standoff, does ‘I need less’ trump ‘I need more’?
- Carolyn Hax: Impressions about therapy
- To cure the blahs, look inside yourself first
- Repaying boyfriend’s generosity; needing time solo
- Carolyn Hax Live: Advice columnist tackles your problems (Friday, June 22)
- Carolyn Hax Live: Advice columnist tackles your problems (Friday, June 15)
- Carolyn Hax: Boyfriend hedges on being in love; stuck in the role of mediator
- Carolyn Hax: A couple’s online passwords are a matter of trust
- Carolyn Hax: Keeping peace with the in-laws; disapproving of son’s girlfriend
- Carolyn Hax: Can counseling help a couple with two divergent dreams?
- Carolyn Hax: Support for parents
- What’s so ‘great’ about judgmental guy? Nothing.
- Bristling at spouse’s comments; company party attire
- Carolyn Hax Live (Friday, June 8)
- Carolyn Hax: She wants to see other men. What does that really mean?
- Expectant dad feels torn loyalties
- Carolyn Hax: Sex advice for a sibling; shutting down gossip
- Something stinks, and it’s not his socks
- Carolyn Hax: Between controlling parents and the boyfriend they hate
- Carolyn Hax Live (Friday, June 1)
- Carolyn Hax: Bridesmaid dilemmas
- Carolyn Hax: Listen to gut instincts about parenthood
- Grown child is paying for not doing it parents’ way
- Carolyn Hax: Of brides and bridesmaids
- Carolyn Hax: Fiance’s jealousy is a bad omen; friend seeks love-life advice
- Circle of friends contains an awkward love triangle
- Carolyn Hax: Time away from best friend seems beneficial for both parties
- Carolyn Hax: When is a birthday just a matter of selfishness?
- Carolyn Hax: Facebook braggarts foster competitive feelings
- Carolyn Hax: Merry widow has friend worried
- Gray areas of truth; group gift from siblings
- Daughter wants another child, but Mom’s disapproval irks her
- Carolyn Hax Live (Thursday, May 24)
- Carolyn Hax: Sister lays claim to baby’s name; a pricey wedding destination
- When one divorce is enough to bear
- Carolyn Hax: Dealing with a parent’s prejudices
- Carolyn Hax: Bride doesn’t want Dad’s mistress at wedding
- Graduating together, celebrating separately
- Carolyn Hax: Choosing between Mom and girlfriend
- Carolyn Hax Live: The 15th anniversary chat (Friday, May 18)
- Carolyn Hax: Before the advice, a brief introduction
- Her divorced, longtime boyfriend won’t bring her around his adult children
- Sons resent father’s financial aid for their stepsister
- Noodlespine Mom must quit bailing out 40-something son
- Carolyn Hax: The preschoolers’ traveling father, redux
- Carolyn Hax: Wife needs to rally when husband’s away for work
- Carolyn Hax: Husband won’t wear wedding ring; bride stressed by parental strife
- Carolyn Hax: Emotional infidelity; when to get involved in a friend’s business
- Carolyn Hax Live (Friday, May 11)
- Carolyn Hax: Grandmother-to-be wants input on baby’s name
- Carolyn Hax: Friend’s estrangement calls for compassion, not shunning
- Carolyn Hax: Dealing with a volatile mom; walking in husband’s shadow
- ‘Germy, projectile-barfing poopsacks,’ cont’d
- Carolyn Hax: An emotionally destructive dance between son, daughter-in-law
- Carolyn Hax: Don’t pick a fight — pick marriage counseling
- Carolyn Hax: A controlling sister; carry messages for love-struck co-worker?
- Carolyn Hax: Conversation about gender roles can lead to answers on compatibility
- Carolyn Hax Live (Friday, May 4)
- Carolyn Hax: In-law makes family gatherings hard to handle
- Carolyn Hax: When a spouse is quick to anger
- Carolyn Hax: Too many matchmakers; not ready for kids
- She hates that boyfriend goes to bars where waitresses are scantily clad
- Carolyn Hax: Girlfriend borrows car but doesn’t refill the gas tank
- Wife doesn’t show support; let boyfriend find someone better?
- Beyond from speed-dating rejection; boyfriend overcome by emotion
- Carolyn Hax Live: Advice columnist tackles your problems (Friday, April 27)
- Carolyn Hax: Reaching out to a brother; a daughter’s relationship status
- Cosmetic surgery and when to do it (if ever)
- Loving Mom, and solvency too
- Carolyn Hax: When a son wants to have a girlfriend sleep over
- Carolyn Hax: When unmarried means uninvited
- Carolyn Hax: Ex is awkwardly intertwined in boyfriend’s life
- Carolyn Hax: Moving too fast in relationships; how to thank a generous uncle
- Carolyn Hax: Husband chats up unknown women, upsetting wife
- Carolyn Hax Live (Friday, April 20)
- Carolyn Hax: Ask pregnant wife about dating Web site e-mails
- Gee, does he have a brother?
- Carolyn Hax: Dealing with friends’ boyfriends and one’s own
- Carolyn Hax: With a dad who disappoints, adjust your expectations
- Carolyn Hax: Including the ex-sister-in-law
- Carolyn Hax: Ditched by a friend who’s joined a new crowd
- Carolyn Hax: Attend friend’s pricey fundraiser?; dating an insecure guy
- How to deal with a spoiled nephew
- Carolyn Hax: Daughter-in-law’s chilly reception; a woman looking to settle down
- Carolyn Hax: Waiting for the dating; witnessing bad manners
- CANCELED: Carolyn Hax Live: Advice columnist tackles your problems (Friday, April 13)
- Carolyn Hax Live: Advice columnist tackles your problems (Friday, April 20)
- Carolyn Hax: Squashing romantic feelings for friend isn’t a long-term solution
- Carolyn Hax: Boyfriend’s dislike of exes is a sign of his distrust
- Carolyn Hax: When a spouse’s attention wanders, what’s the next step?
- Carolyn Hax: Parents aren’t invited to housewarming; stay together for the kids?
- Carolyn Hax: Man doesn’t enjoy sunflower to giver’s specifications
- Carolyn Hax Live (Friday, April 6)
- You will eat celery barefoot and like it
- Carolyn Hax: Long-distance dating; planning around a sick parent
- Carolyn Hax: Another case of Dating Hamster Wheel of Despair
- Carolyn Hax: Medical issue threatens to become all-consuming
- If overprotective mom won’t seek therapy, dad should
- Carolyn Hax: Mom is upset that daughter doesn’t fit arbitrary definition of ‘success’
- Carolyn Hax: A paranoid girlfriend; lie about sexual past?; comparing marriages
- Carolyn Hax: The right words for those in mourning
- CANCELED: Carolyn Hax Live: Advice columnist tackles your problems (Friday, March 30)
- Carolyn Hax: Sharing in therapy; using profanity; marrying a smoker; origin stories
- Carolyn Hax: Views on porn habits; friends M.I.A.; keeping up appearances
- Carolyn Hax: Responding to gossip; parenting; birthday pouting; ‘deadbeat dads’
- Carolyn Hax: Finding strength when grieving
- Carolyn Hax: Insufferable family get-togethers
- Carolyn Hax: Ultimatums on strip clubs; who brings the office-party snacks?
- Carolyn Hax: What not to do when Dad marries a virtual stranger
- Carolyn Hax Live: Advice columnist tackles your problems (Friday, April 6)
- Carolyn Hax: Boyfriend depends on family who drags him down
- Carolyn Hax: Answering the ‘is this all there is’ question; STD testing
- Carolyn Hax: Moving in with a new boyfriend; questions about affluence
- Carolyn Hax: Getting candor out of a beau
- Carolyn Hax: When a friend wears out his welcome
- Carolyn Hax: A groom with cold feet is reluctant to walk away
- Carolyn Hax: Breaking up is hard to do
- Carolyn Hax: The wisdom in not rushing to marry
- Carolyn Hax Live (Thursday, March 15)
- Carolyn Hax: Is his list of goals just a way to keep their marriage at bay?
- Carolyn Hax: Dealing with a fiance’s past, present, future
- Carolyn Hax: In time of need, best friend’s gone AWOL
- Carolyn Hax: Dealing with an estranged dad and a dying grandmother
- Carolyn Hax: Tell her no one likes her boyfriend?; a serial dater; bad breath
- Carolyn Hax: Sleeping apart but staying together; she wants kids, he doesn’t
- Carolyn Hax Live (Friday, March 9)
- Carolyn Hax: She worries that he’s seeing his ex without her
- Carolyn Hax: Relationship status; anger management; teen’s 1st job
- Carolyn Hax: Mother-to-be worries about beau’s baby steps over pregnancy
- Carolyn Hax: Groom who wants big wedding should take lead in planning it
- Carolyn Hax: Woman is more than her job and her fertility
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