- Carolyn Hax
- Columnist
Carolyn Hax started her advice column in 1997 as a weekly feature for The Washington Post, accompanied by the work of “relationship cartoonist” Nick Galifianakis. The column has since gone daily and into syndication, where it appears in over 200 newspapers. Carolyn joined The Post in 1992 as a copy editor in Style, and became a news editor before turning to writing full-time. She is the author of “Tell Me About It” (Miramax, 2001), and the host of a live online discussion on Fridays at noon on washingtonpost.com. She lives in Washington, D.C., with her husband and their three boys.
- Carolyn Hax: Time away from best friend seems beneficial for both parties
- Carolyn Hax: When is a birthday just a matter of selfishness?
- Carolyn Hax: Facebook braggarts foster competitive feelings
- Carolyn Hax: Merry widow has friend worried
- Gray areas of truth; group gift from siblings
- Carolyn Hax Live: Advice columnist tackles your problems (Friday, June 1)
- Daughter wants another child, but Mom’s disapproval irks her
- Carolyn Hax Live (Thursday, May 24)
- Carolyn Hax: Sister lays claim to baby’s name; a pricey wedding destination
- When one divorce is enough to bear
- Carolyn Hax: Dealing with a parent’s prejudices
- Carolyn Hax: Bride doesn’t want Dad’s mistress at wedding
- Graduating together, celebrating separately
- Carolyn Hax: Choosing between Mom and girlfriend
- Carolyn Hax Live: The 15th anniversary chat (Friday, May 18)
- Carolyn Hax: Before the advice, a brief introduction
- Her divorced, longtime boyfriend won’t bring her around his adult children
- Sons resent father’s financial aid for their stepsister
- Noodlespine Mom must quit bailing out 40-something son
- Carolyn Hax: The preschoolers’ traveling father, redux
- Carolyn Hax: Wife needs to rally when husband’s away for work
- Carolyn Hax: Husband won’t wear wedding ring; bride stressed by parental strife
- Carolyn Hax: Emotional infidelity; when to get involved in a friend’s business
- Carolyn Hax Live (Friday, May 11)
- Carolyn Hax: Grandmother-to-be wants input on baby’s name
- Carolyn Hax: Friend’s estrangement calls for compassion, not shunning
- Carolyn Hax: Dealing with a volatile mom; walking in husband’s shadow
- ‘Germy, projectile-barfing poopsacks,’ cont’d
- Carolyn Hax: An emotionally destructive dance between son, daughter-in-law
- Carolyn Hax: Don’t pick a fight — pick marriage counseling
- Carolyn Hax: A controlling sister; carry messages for love-struck co-worker?
- Carolyn Hax: Conversation about gender roles can lead to answers on compatibility
- Carolyn Hax Live (Friday, May 4)
- Carolyn Hax: In-law makes family gatherings hard to handle
- Carolyn Hax: When a spouse is quick to anger
- Carolyn Hax: Too many matchmakers; not ready for kids
- She hates that boyfriend goes to bars where waitresses are scantily clad
- Carolyn Hax: Girlfriend borrows car but doesn’t refill the gas tank
- Wife doesn’t show support; let boyfriend find someone better?
- Beyond from speed-dating rejection; boyfriend overcome by emotion
- Carolyn Hax Live: Advice columnist tackles your problems (Friday, April 27)
- Carolyn Hax: Reaching out to a brother; a daughter’s relationship status
- Cosmetic surgery and when to do it (if ever)
- Loving Mom, and solvency too
- Carolyn Hax: When a son wants to have a girlfriend sleep over
- Carolyn Hax: When unmarried means uninvited
- Carolyn Hax: Ex is awkwardly intertwined in boyfriend’s life
- Carolyn Hax: Moving too fast in relationships; how to thank a generous uncle
- Carolyn Hax: Husband chats up unknown women, upsetting wife
- Carolyn Hax Live (Friday, April 20)
- Carolyn Hax: Ask pregnant wife about dating Web site e-mails
- Gee, does he have a brother?
- Carolyn Hax: Dealing with friends’ boyfriends and one’s own
- Carolyn Hax: With a dad who disappoints, adjust your expectations
- Carolyn Hax: Including the ex-sister-in-law
- Carolyn Hax: Ditched by a friend who’s joined a new crowd
- Carolyn Hax: Attend friend’s pricey fundraiser?; dating an insecure guy
- How to deal with a spoiled nephew
- Carolyn Hax: Daughter-in-law’s chilly reception; a woman looking to settle down
- Carolyn Hax: Waiting for the dating; witnessing bad manners
- CANCELED: Carolyn Hax Live: Advice columnist tackles your problems (Friday, April 13)
- Carolyn Hax Live: Advice columnist tackles your problems (Friday, April 20)
- Carolyn Hax: Squashing romantic feelings for friend isn’t a long-term solution
- Carolyn Hax: Boyfriend’s dislike of exes is a sign of his distrust
- Carolyn Hax: When a spouse’s attention wanders, what’s the next step?
- Carolyn Hax: Parents aren’t invited to housewarming; stay together for the kids?
- Carolyn Hax: Man doesn’t enjoy sunflower to giver’s specifications
- Carolyn Hax Live (Friday, April 6)
- You will eat celery barefoot and like it
- Carolyn Hax: Long-distance dating; planning around a sick parent
- Carolyn Hax: Another case of Dating Hamster Wheel of Despair
- Carolyn Hax: Medical issue threatens to become all-consuming
- If overprotective mom won’t seek therapy, dad should
- Carolyn Hax: Mom is upset that daughter doesn’t fit arbitrary definition of ‘success’
- Carolyn Hax: A paranoid girlfriend; lie about sexual past?; comparing marriages
- Carolyn Hax: The right words for those in mourning
- CANCELED: Carolyn Hax Live: Advice columnist tackles your problems (Friday, March 30)
- Carolyn Hax: Sharing in therapy; using profanity; marrying a smoker; origin stories
- Carolyn Hax: Views on porn habits; friends M.I.A.; keeping up appearances
- Carolyn Hax: Responding to gossip; parenting; birthday pouting; ‘deadbeat dads’
- Carolyn Hax: Finding strength when grieving
- Carolyn Hax: Insufferable family get-togethers
- Carolyn Hax: Ultimatums on strip clubs; who brings the office-party snacks?
- Carolyn Hax: What not to do when Dad marries a virtual stranger
- Carolyn Hax Live: Advice columnist tackles your problems (Friday, April 6)
- Carolyn Hax: Boyfriend depends on family who drags him down
- Carolyn Hax: Answering the ‘is this all there is’ question; STD testing
- Carolyn Hax: Moving in with a new boyfriend; questions about affluence
- Carolyn Hax: Getting candor out of a beau
- Carolyn Hax: When a friend wears out his welcome
- Carolyn Hax: A groom with cold feet is reluctant to walk away
- Carolyn Hax: Breaking up is hard to do
- Carolyn Hax: The wisdom in not rushing to marry
- Carolyn Hax Live (Thursday, March 15)
- Carolyn Hax: Is his list of goals just a way to keep their marriage at bay?
- Carolyn Hax: Dealing with a fiance’s past, present, future
- Carolyn Hax: In time of need, best friend’s gone AWOL
- Carolyn Hax: Dealing with an estranged dad and a dying grandmother
- Carolyn Hax: Tell her no one likes her boyfriend?; a serial dater; bad breath
- Carolyn Hax: Sleeping apart but staying together; she wants kids, he doesn’t
- Carolyn Hax Live (Friday, March 9)
- Carolyn Hax: She worries that he’s seeing his ex without her
- Carolyn Hax: Relationship status; anger management; teen’s 1st job
- Carolyn Hax: Mother-to-be worries about beau’s baby steps over pregnancy
- Carolyn Hax: Groom who wants big wedding should take lead in planning it
- Carolyn Hax: Woman is more than her job and her fertility
- Carolyn Hax: Abusive dad at wedding; night-life temptation; charity e-mails
- Carolyn Hax: Sensitive about her cooking; immature boyfriend
- Carolyn Hax Live (Friday, March 2)
- Carolyn Hax: Husband doesn’t make wife a priority
- Carolyn Hax: Marry me — or else
- Carolyn Hax: Tired of being asked, ‘No, where are you really from?’
- Girlfriend feels left out when boyfriend is with female friend
- Carolyn Hax: Boyfriend gets a dream job — in a different city
- Carolyn Hax: An ex-wife with a 15-year grudge; a friend who blabbed a secret
- Carolyn Hax: Depression clouds her perspective
- Carolyn Hax Live (Friday, Feb. 24)
- Carolyn Hax: Mom’s a realistic but is called ‘Debbie Downer’
- Carolyn Hax: Boyfriend vs. social life; a couple torn between parents
- Carolyn Hax: Explaining an unwed mother to a 10-year-old
- Carolyn Hax: Emotionally charged situations; nervous about therapy
- Wife asks if husband’s friends dislike her, and they do; what now?
- Carolyn Hax: Crashing their son’s elopement; drawing the line on co-worker gifts
- Carolyn Hax: A relationship that’s going nowhere; parents’ dirty laundry
- Carolyn Hax Live (Friday, Feb. 17)
- Carolyn Hax: Waffling about a crush; wary of dating someone newly divorced
- Carolyn Hax: Rebounding from life’s lemons
- Carolyn Hax: Boyfriend is secretive about porn; dispute with live-in brother
- Carolyn Hax: Valentine’s Day advice for couples and singles
- Carolyn Hax: Dealing with the baggage of past relationships
- Carolyn Hax: After an abusive relationship, rebuild trust in yourself
- Carolyn Hax: The cold shoulder for an advice giver; a bad-mouthing friend
- Carolyn Hax: Coming to terms with a difficult childhood
- Aunt lets down sister by skipping children’s births
- Carolyn Hax: They tried, it didn’t work, but now he’s back
- Carolyn Hax: Doesn’t matter who’s wrong (or right); a backhanded compliment
- Carolyn Hax: When it’s time for the kids to get out of cellphone range
- Carolyn Hax: Stepmother wants nothing to do with husband’s children
- Carolyn Hax: A single woman bristles at a married co-worker’s questions
- Carolyn Hax’s advice for woman’s boyfriend who’s secretly e-mailing exes and for a pal who keeps using a woman’s credit card
- Carolyn Hax Live (Friday, Feb. 3)
- Carolyn Hax: Overly aware of boyfriend’s dating past
- Carolyn Hax: Avoiding over-sharing about past bad habits
- Carolyn Hax: He’s not a kept man; dealing with rude relatives
- Carolyn Hax: When a boyfriend snubs you for a family event
- Carolyn Hax: A goodbye pace for you, and your friends
- A control freak, and dishonest to boot?
- What is unhealthy dependency in a relationship?
- Carolyn Hax Live (Friday, Jan. 27)
- Carolyn Hax: Competing for fiance’s attention
- Carolyn Hax: Debating couple’s counseling to save a relationship
- Carolyn Hax: Hesitating to share news with Mom
- Carolyn Hax: A baby and a grandmother-to-be’s disappointment
- Carolyn Hax: Don’t be a queen of denial when it comes to a son who bites
- An old flame would rather they ignore their history
- Carolyn Hax: Newborn wedding-crasher
- Carolyn Hax Live (Friday, Jan. 20)
- Carolyn Hax: A mother who needs to back off on expectations of a grown daughter
- Carolyn Hax: Sharing household chores; suspecting domestic violence
- Carolyn Hax: A hostess who would rather not host
- Carolyn Hax Live (Friday, Jan. 13)
- Carolyn Hax: Balancing reality and hope for an aspiring music major
- Carolyn Hax: When is it okay to ask a partner to change?
- Carolyn Hax: Can lifelong friends overcome lifestyle differences?
- Carolyn Hax: When to bring up past loves; fiance’s friend causes discomfort
- Carolyn Hax Live (Friday, Jan. 13)
- Carolyn Hax Live: Advice columnist tackles your problems (Friday, Jan. 13)
- Carolyn Hax: Taking a united stance against Mom?
- Carolyn Hax: Parents unsure how to cope with daughter off at college
- Carolyn Hax: Stressed mother is taxing her friendships
- Carolyn Hax: A homemaker feels the sting of ‘free time’ remark
- Carolyn Hax: When weddings and money mean trouble
- Carolyn Hax: What you can learn from snooping through a mother-in-law’s e-mail
- When the other woman ... is you
- Carolyn Hax: How to abandon a wedding tradition
- Carolyn Hax: Husband wants an open marriage; someone who’s newly lovesick
- Carolyn Hax: How to plan a wedding you want without alienating others
- Carolyn Hax: Husband hurts a decade after wife’s affair
- Carolyn Hax Live: Advice columnist tackles your problems (Friday, Jan. 13)
- Worried about impressing the boyfriend’s parents
- Carolyn Hax: Feeling threatened by boyfriend’s ex
- Carolyn Hax: When is family favoritism justified?
- Carolyn Hax: When two people no longer ‘fit,’ it’s time to let go
- Carolyn Hax: After wife’s infidelity, a husband plots his course
- Readers offer advice on teen sex, moving back in with parents
- Carolyn Hax Live (Friday, Dec. 30)
- Carolyn Hax: Readers weigh in on therapy, letter-writing and thank-you notes
- Carolyn Hax: Planning for a worst-case scenario
- Carolyn Hax: Children and unfaithful parents
- Control wrapped in a pretty package
- Carolyn Hax: Ignorant comments; favoritism; significant other’s children
- Carolyn Hax: She’s ‘invisible’ no longer
- Carolyn Hax: Fiancee wonders when’s the time to move in together
- Carolyn Hax Live (Friday, Dec. 23)
- Niece’s husband’s eruption clouds their relationship with aunt
- Carolyn Hax: Perils of marrying a smoker
- Carolyn Hax: Bowing out of the family Christmas
- Carolyn Hax: She wants to quit, but feels guilty
- Carolyn Hax: Jealousy over a friend’s weight loss
- Carolyn Hax: Depressed after a bleak Thanksgiving
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