Mismatched sex drives — can it ever work?

From a reader: “I’ve read lots of questions from married people who discover they have different sex drives. What about starting a relationship knowing that you and your partner have different sex drives: Can it actually work out, or is it just inevitable to end in frustration?”

So, what do you think? And if you believe it can work, how do couples keep it from becoming a deal-breaker?

— Carolyn Hax

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