Jami Attenberg’s “The Middlesteins" reviewed by Ron Charles

The author’s sharpest wit is reserved for Edie’s high-strung daughter-in-law, Rachelle, who trusts that with sufficient self-control every aspect of life can be perfected. She’s the kind of woman who would “adust the color of the sky to match her own eyes . . . so it could be just right.” The perky housewife with an iron fist seems like a well-worn part, but the novel moves past that stereotype and shows Rachelle as a sympathetic if misguided woman driven by panicked love. Attenberg is superb at mocking the cliches of middle-class life by giving them the slightest turn to make people suddenly real and wholly sympathetic.

Determined to save her mother-in-law, Rachelle begins spying on Edie, stalking her from fast food to Chinese. Even her own family can’t escape her vigilance: “They ate salmon, bright pink, flavorless, and Rachelle eyed everyone as they reached for a pinch of salt, anything to save this meal, and she whispered, ‘Not too much.’ Brown rice. ‘Drink more water,’ she commanded. Out-of-season strawberries and sugarless cookies that sucked the air out of their lives.” She ruined her book club, too, by insisting “no pastries, no cheese, no crackers. . . . No wine either. Empty calories.” It’s that witty attention to the variety of ways we obsess about food that makes this theme so satisfying. Edie’s compulsive eating is surely killing her, but Rachelle’s joyless dietary control and “the banalities of her suburban existence” guarantee a life barely worth living.

(Grand Central) - ”The Middlesteins” by Jami Attenberg.

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The plot’s subtle forward movement toward a B’nai Mitzvah for Edie’s grandchildren is periodically interrupted by a curious narrative strategy: Without warning, Attenberg suddenly glances forward a few months or many years, sometimes just an aside, sometimes a long, breathless passage of foreshadowing. It’s weirdly effective at placing the current moment in painful emotional contrast to what’s to come. On Richard and Edie’s first date, for instance, the narrator drops this deadly warning: “His happiest days were behind him the minute he met her, but he didn’t know that yet.” Much later, during a fun moment with their children, Attenberg notes, “Neither Edie nor Robin knew yet that when the kids grew older and began having ideas and opinions at odds with Richard’s he would shut them out of his affections with such carelessness.”

The range here is small. Except for Richard leaving his wife, these are not people prone to change or drama. Attenberg’s success lies in miniatures; she mutes even the few potential moments of conflict, focusing instead on the inaudible repercussions. But with a wit that never mocks and a tenderness that never gushes, she renders this family’s ordinary tragedies as something surprisingly affecting.

Charles is The Washington Post’s fiction editor. You can follow him on Twitter @RonCharles.

THE MIDDLESTEINS

By Jami Attenberg

Grand Central.

273 pp. $24.99

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