Hank Stuever
Hank Stuever
Critic

HBO’s ‘Ethel’: A Kennedy daughter, born late, reaches into the vault of memories

They’re here, mother and daughter together, in a sun-drenched hotel suite full of cables and studio lights, to do the thing they officially dread: talk about themselves.

Members of the Kennedy family will talk plenty when and if the politics align, or the topic is just. In exchange for listening to Kennedys talk about the environment, poverty, Special Olympians, mental illness or the legacies of their departed uncles and fathers, you might — might — be able to coax something vaguely personal from them. Soon enough, they wise up, smile broadly with those teeth, thank you so much for coming and move along. That is how you keep people curious about you for more than half a century. That also keeps you safe.

Hank Stuever

Hank Stuever is The Washington Post’s TV critic and author of two books, “Tinsel” and “Off Ramp.”

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Ethel Skakel Kennedy, 84, who was married to Robert F. Kennedy for 18 years and has been keeping his work and memory alive for another 44 and counting since his death in this very city, looks warily at the digital recorder I’ve taken out of my front inside pocket. That doesn’t seem like such a good idea, she makes clear.

Her youngest daughter, Rory, 43, who has made a name for herself filming and recording people’s words and actions, is seated next to Ethel on the sofa and offers a sympathetic, even collegial half frown, as if to say: Tough break — don’t waste your time trying to sway my mother. Look how long it took me.

Rory — who has made plenty of notable award-winning and Oscar-nominated documentaries on topics as varied as Appalachian poverty, the U.S.-Mexican border and torture at Abu Ghraib — has finally made the movie many thought she would never make. The one about her family.

“Ethel,” premiering on HBO on Thursday night, perhaps isn’t what fervent students of the Kennedy mystique (which is still about half the checkout lines of America) may have hoped. People who think the Kennedy cake has been overfrosted surely won’t fall for it, even though the film is undeniably moving. No one in the film tells all, certainly not Ethel.

In the first few minutes of the film, Rory leads her mother to a chair in a well-lit sitting room in Hyannisport. “Why should I have to answer all these questions?” Ethel wants to know.

“Well, we’re making a documentary about you,” Rory says.

“Such a bad idea,” Ethel says with a grimace.

Kennedys don’t cry (as eldest sibling Kathleen Kennedy Townsend, now 61, notes in the film), and they don’t divulge. Ethel hasn’t granted an interview of any length or depth in more than two decades.

On this particular August afternoon, she’ll give several short interviews to outlets besides The Washington Post — revealing little — and then she and Rory will sit on a stage for 20 minutes before a couple of hundred critics and reporters during HBO’s session at the TV industry’s summer press tour. The writers are free to ask anything they want, including whether Ethel’s grandson, Conor, might one day marry the singer Taylor Swift, to whom he has been linked in gossip columns. (“We should be so lucky,” Ethel says. “You can just leave it at that,” Rory says, baffled.)

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