“Mom, Mom. It’s Chelsea. I’m okay,” she broke in, according to several participants.
“I remember thinking,” said Reines, “she would feel a lot better talking to her daughter.”
Loyalty & friendship
Reines grew up in Manhattan with his mother, Judith, and grandmother in a rent-controlled Upper West Side apartment. The quarters were tight, but the family wasn’t.
Judith, an insurance broker, never married Reines’s father, Ionnis Papadakis, and her son met him only once, in a childhood encounter he doesn’t remember. Steven Kleiner, a classmate and frequent sleepover guest at the Reines home who’s now a psychiatrist in Massachusetts, described the partnership between mother and son as a “business relationship.” Reines acknowledges that he and his mother are not especially close. In Kleiner’s view, his friend resented his mother for neglecting the issue of his father’s absence and compounding the burden by enrolling her son in a Jewish private school with “family values of the 1950s.”
As teenagers, the two attended Ramaz, a tony Jewish academy on the Upper East Side where future spinmeister Steven Rubenstein and other children of powerful and wealthy New Yorkers populated the student body. Kleiner said they both were out of place among the elite overachievers. Reines, Kleiner said, was especially “lost.”
Reines, a lackluster student prone to day-dreaming, had a real passion for building friendships.
He lent Kleiner money from his savings account to buy an expensive tennis racket and then urged him on at tennis team practices. After graduation, the two attended the University at Albany. He left after one semester and soon followed other friends to Clark University in Massachusetts but never enrolled.
“Some people are addicted to being in a giving relationship,” Kleiner said. “He needs to always be giving or he gets lost. He needs an object to whom he can be helpful.”
For Reines’s friends, the ultimate example of his emphasis on loyalty came in 1994 when he tried to rescue a roommate who fell victim to what Reines thought was a con. The friend had invested in “EZ Score,” a startup company built around a basketball hoop that always sent the ball bouncing back to the shooter, and had given his new Lincoln to the company’s president. Reines objected. He located his friend’s car and a tow truck driver, who, for a price, was willing to repossess it. Reines recalled with pride that after reclaiming the car he sent his friend to Puerto Rico to lay low. Ultimately, he acknowledged, “the friendship fell apart.”
In 1998, at 29, with most of his friends having moved on in life, Reines enrolled in a program at Columbia University designed for students who belatedly discover their academic ambitions. On the day of his graduation in 2000, he flew to Nashville to volunteer for Gore. In 2009, he returned to his school as commencement speaker. Hours earlier Clinton had addressed the university’s Barnard College graduates from the same podium.
“As she was leaving campus,” Reines said facetiously of Clinton in his address, “she noticed that I wasn’t leaving with her, and she looked at me and asked, ‘Aren’t you coming?’ And I told her, ‘Nah, I’m going to stay and see my mother.’ ”
He then briefly saluted his mother in the audience before continuing to talk at length about Clinton and how she “might have suggested I practice in front of her” if he’d told her he was sticking around to give a speech.
“So,” Reines concluded, “if anyone happens to bump into the secretary of state between now and whenever, please remember, I was not here.”
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