Survivors of clergy sex abuse absent from debate about new pope

(GABRIEL BOUYS/ AFP/GETTY IMAGES ) - Members of a U.S.-based international support group, the Survivors Network of those Abused by Priests, victims outreach director Barbara Dorris and executive director David Clohessy, pose with pictures of them as children.

(GABRIEL BOUYS/ AFP/GETTY IMAGES ) - Members of a U.S.-based international support group, the Survivors Network of those Abused by Priests, victims outreach director Barbara Dorris and executive director David Clohessy, pose with pictures of them as children.

In 2005, David Lorenz, a 54-year-old NASA engineer and clergy sex abuse survivor who lives in Bowie, participated in a write-in campaign to the Archdiocese of Washington to remind then-Archbishop Theodore McCarrick to focus on helping abuse victims. He says he had a couple of meetings at the archdiocesan offices, but he gave up on reform when a church official told him “not to come back until I was sacramentally healed.”

Four years ago, Lorenz left his parish, and now he worships with a breakaway independent group. He also leads a small, monthly group of survivors. With the church in the news as the cardinals meet in Rome to select a new pope, Lorenz said some survivors are calling him for the first time, seeking help.

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But Catholics are divided on whether the church should now veer from the course that Benedict XVI has set.

As for the prospect of a new pope coming in and cleaning house, he said: “In 2005, I thought there might be some change. Now I’m hopeless.”

A spokeswoman for the archdiocese declined to comment.

Lorenz’s stance is emblematic of a community of survivors who have largely given up on changing the church.

Ten years after the abuse scandal exploded, creating a passionate reform movement, survivors who picketed cathedrals or launched write-in campaigns in 2005, the last time a pope was picked, say they have grown discouraged by a perceived lack of tough punishment and exhausted by the emotional toll the subject takes on them. Their efforts have shifted to changing civil laws or to general support for abuse survivors within and outside Catholicism. Or, in some cases, to simply functioning.

Ironically, this shift is happening as the topic of clergy sex abuse — once U.S.-centered — is bursting into the open in countries around the world and taking center stage in the conversation about Benedict XVI’s successor. The senior cardinal in Britain, Keith O’Brien of Scotland, resigned last week — less than two days after allegations surfaced that he had inappropriate contact with three priests and a former seminarian.

Many of the groups that appeared during the early and mid-2000s have shrunk or disappeared, and even groups whose purpose remains church reform are debating what that means: Holding individual clergy accountable? Focusing on more dramatic structural changes such as electing bishops and allowing priests to marry?

Bill Casey, a longtime national leader of Voice of the Faithful, once one of the leading reform groups dealing with survivors’ concerns, said the energy level “has diminished quite a bit.’’

“There has been a broad diminishment of expectations that these efforts will improve anything in our lifetime,” Casey said. Attendance at group events has plummeted, as have donations, he said.

Survivors have criticized the group because “it has had an interest in working within the structure,” Casey said. “Many people say, ‘You’re just dreaming; it’s a lost cause.’ ”

Terry McKiernan, head of the largest research database on clergy and abuse, said of the survivor community: “For a lot of people, it’s not a community anymore. . . . I think a lot of people who were involved in the early days, they’ve run out of steam.”

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