Hax Philes: Open Post (Jan. 31)

Welcome to today’s Hax Philes open post, where you can bring all the off-topic conversations that don’t fit anywhere else and get advice from other ‘Nuts.

It’s January 31 – what’s on your mind today?

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Carolyn Hax started her advice column in 1997, after five years as a copy editor and news editor in Style and none as a therapist. The column includes cartoons by "relationship cartoonist" Nick Galifianakis -- Carolyn's ex-husband -- and appears in over 200 newspapers.
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