In her March 18 letter to the editor [“Let’s stop the work vs. home fight”], Patricia Danver looked toward the day when women’s work-home balance is free from outside judgment. However, the real “mommy wars” are internal fights women have with ourselves. When we truly own the choices we make, the war that Ms. Danverdescribed will end.
I rocked the art craft during play group today. You wowed them with your analysis in the board room. I navigated through a 5-year-old’s imaginary world today. You discussed matters of importance with colleagues. You can’t have what I have; I can’t have what you have. We made our choices.