“They get thrown off, like ‘Whoa,’ ” said the 16-year-old junior, who with his black-rimmed glasses, handshake as tight as a blood pressure wrap and serene groundedness can at times pass for 30.
“There are different things like that I want to know to set myself up after football,” Hand said. “NFL I was told stands for ‘Not For Long.’ And if I don’t make it to the pros, I want to make money like I did make it to the pros.”
The 6-foot-4, 255-pound Hand has dozens of scholarship offers and two boxes of recruiting letters proudly stored in his grandmother’s bedroom, but by all accounts he handles himself like a second-stringer just happy to have a spot on the roster.
That humility was ingrained early. His father, Sharif, used to instruct 5-year-old ‘Shawnie’ to wash the dishes — before putting them in the dishwasher — to give him a sense of responsibility and the value of work.
So he was Dishpan Hand before he was Da’Shawn Hand, who first played football at age 12 in Elkton, Md. He was so good so soon that kids from other teams would knock on his door and ask him when his next game was.
Now, in a sense, it’s adults doing the same thing. A man at one recent game overheard Hand’s mother, Nicole Graham, cheering for her boy. The man told her that the reason he came to games was to watch her son. Fans at a game in Franklin County, in southwest Virginia, told Sharif Hand they were there to watch Da’Shawn.
These days, everybody is.
“This is the number one player in the country,” said Rivals.com evaluator Mike Farrell, who has observed Hand on film and at combines and who plans to be on the sideline Friday night for Woodbridge’s game at No. 11 Hylton. “And I’ve seen enough number one players in the country and enough defensive ends and enough players in [the class of] 2014 to say this kid is head and shoulders above everybody else when it comes to talent level.”
Managing that talent has not been an issue, because Hand tries to learn from others’ mistakes, whether within his own family or in the cautionary tales about athletes from newspapers, magazines and books that his mother saves or suggests for him.
Sharif Hand was a junior in high school in Philadelphia when Da’Shawn was born. Sharif’s brother, 1995 All-Met Offensive Player of the Year Damone Boone, a former West Springfield running back, also became a father while in high school. Boone’s son, Marcus, plays for Woodbridge.
“Basically, he watched me grow up,” Hand, 34, said of his son. “I don’t want him to get any kind of fake impression of how this real world is, so when I talk to him, I really talk to him like he’s an adult.”