Boone played at Maryland, carrying only nine times in two seasons before dropping out. He delivered furniture and worked security at Rosecroft Raceway before enrolling at Carson-Newman in Tennessee. He knows the consequences of poor choices and inferior grades and how opportunities can dry up.
In turn, so does Hand, who has heard the stories from his uncle. That’s why when the brothers and their boys meet each week to dissect game film, the adults all but ignore the standout plays and dwell on the mistakes.
“You’re not impressing us,” said Damone Boone, one of about 20 extended family members who attend Woodbridge’s games and sit as a cluster. “Me and Sharif tell him, ‘Okay, Shawnie, you made the tackle here but what about the block right here you missed?’
“He has more of a love of the game than I did,” Boone said. “He’s more of a student of the game than I was. He wants to learn and that’s what it’s going to take. You have to learn your craft. I was just playing. I wasn’t thinking about the future.”
Hand always has. As an eighth-grader at Beville Middle School in Prince William County, Hand would bus to Hylton High for a geometry class. He would return to Beville in the middle of a period, so with that free time he would tutor students in math or help out in the school library. He endeared himself to the adults in the building.
“Most kids at this age, their mind doesn’t match their body in middle school,” Beville Athletic Director Hess Moore said. “But his did. He always knew what he wanted to do and when it came down to leaving [middle school] and going to high school, football wasn’t what he looked at first. It was which school had an engineering program.”
That was Woodbridge, not Hylton, the school in his zone. So Hand enrolled at Woodbridge to pursue an interest in engineering that he had developed from tagging along to job sites with his father, a construction worker.
“He would treat me like I was a natural employee, like I was an adult,” Hand said.
That’s how Hand, who has 553 Twitter followers but has issued only 24 tweets, handles his business. He once called a college-affiliated Web site to chastise a writer for mischaracterizing his interest in that particular school.
Since then, he has stopped doing interviews with team sites, but the mail from the schools they report on continues to roll in at about 15 pieces per day, Woodbridge football coach Kevin Smith said. One school sent 54 letters in one day, an homage to Hand’s jersey number. College coaches fax Hand good-luck notes the days of Woodbridge games.
Six colleges, including Virginia Tech and Virginia, offered Hand scholarships after his freshman year. Those pursuing him now include Alabama, Oklahoma and Ohio State.
Hand has talked about majoring in engineering, a rarity for a big-time college football player. “If there’s anyone out there who can handle both, I think Da’Shawn’s it,” said Carlos Castro, who helps head the Career and Technical Education program at Woodbridge and who taught Hand his freshman and sophomore years.
Hand likes to build things and tear them apart, to see how they work. But he also likes “crunching numbers and negotiation,” as he puts it, so he’s thinking about studying sports business, a major that would be easier to manage for a college football player with demands on his time.
One peek in his grandmother’s boxes of letters would indicate that he will be given every opportunity to pursue either degree just about anywhere he likes.
“Mom and my grandmas are like, ‘Oh, this is so amazing,’ ” Hand said in a jokey falsetto in imitation of the women in his life. “But my dad instills in me there’s always somebody out there working harder than you. You need to just bring it every time and don’t think about it.”