Does this sound familiar? You get home from work, stressed and ravenous. You head straight for the kitchen, grab a bowl of nuts or a plate of cheese and crackers. You nibble as you're preparing dinner.
After dinner, you settle on the couch, most likely in front of the television, and zone out with some favorite snacks, such as popcorn, chips, nuts, ice cream, peanut butter or sweets -- whatever that's tasty and easy to grab.
Welcome to the typical American evening! For many people, it's an endless graze that doesn't stop until they go to bed.
Evening overeating is an issue that contributes to many peoples' weight problems. I've been surprised at just how many people struggle with this. I used to myself. Even disciplined people who carefully watch their intake during the day break down at night. I can't count how many times I've heard these refrains: "I'm fine during the day, my problem's at night," or "If I could control my eating at night, my weight problem would probably disappear. . . . " It's become clear to me that evening overeating is not just an isolated problem but the convergence of a host of lifestyle issues -- stress, exhaustion, loneliness, disorganized eating and hunger.
In today's fast-paced world, many people are constantly hopping from meeting to meeting or from chore to chore during the day and don't have time to sit down and eat a decent meal. So we become ravenous.
In the evening, there's more time for eating, so we eat not only larger meals, but continuous ones. Those who are tired or stressed find that food is an easy way to reward themselves at the end of the day. Food can provide a little companionship for the lonely or depressed. Researchers who have identified "night eating syndrome," the most severe form of evening overeating that affects about 5 percent of people who seek obesity treatment, say it is stress-related.
"We believe the night eating syndrome is a stress disorder. One of the characteristics of the syndrome is that sufferers eat at least one-third of their calories after the evening meal," says obesity researcher Albert J. Stunkard, who has studied nighttime overeaters since the 1950s. He recently co-authored "Overcoming Night Eating Syndrome: A Step-by-Step Guide to Breaking the Cycle" (New Harbinger Publications, 2004).
Evening overeating is an important problem to solve because Americans who eat most of their daily intake of food at night eat more overall calories, according to a study reported in the Journal of Nutrition in June. And that makes them more susceptible to weight problems.
"The late-night period was when the highest-density foods were eaten. Eating a high proportion of daily intake in the late evening, compared to earlier in the day, was associated with higher overall intake," researcher John M. de Castro concluded in the study, which analyzed food diaries of about 900 men and women.
De Castro, professor and chair of the department of psychology at the University of Texas at El Paso, also found that evening eating was less satisfying for people, which may help explain why they eat more.
In the evening, you get lower satiety. People tend to eat very large meals but then eat again shortly afterward, de Castro said.
For those who succumb to nighttime overeating, I recommend you attack this problem by assessing why this may be happening to you, and then devise personalized strategies for eating lighter at night. Some points to consider:
Breakfast: De Castro's study found that a "high proportional intake in the morning is associated with low overall daily intake." This finding confirms my experience of 20 years: Eating a bigger breakfast is the single most effective way of curbing evening overeating. Other studies have confirmed the importance of breakfast for maintaining weight loss.
I advise my clients to eat one-third of their daily calories in the morning. For most people, that's at least 600 calories, much more than they're used to consuming.
While solving other issues such as end-of-day stress and exhaustion is important, too, I've found that nothing works unless morning eating is beefed up first. Eating more in the morning is a scary proposition for many people who fear that they'll continue their evening overeating on top of the bigger breakfast. But my clients who bite the bullet and give it a try are amazed to find that it reduces cravings and gives them a sense of control, so that it is easier to eat more moderately later in the day.
Interestingly, de Castro found that people are more sated with the food they eat in the morning. "If they eat a large breakfast, they'll wait a long time before eating again. They get a lot of bang for the buck," says de Castro.
Organized eating: Researchers have found that most people with the more severe "night-eating syndrome" don't have regular meal and snack times. I have also found this is true for evening overeaters. Most overeating is due simply to undereating throughout the day and poor planning. I hear so many people say "I have no will power," or "I hate myself because I have no discipline." But they somehow regain their discipline and will power by simply planning and eating regular daytime meals and snacks.
That's why I advocate cooking in large batches and regular grocery shopping so that you have healthy and delicious foods at your fingertips when you get home from work in the evenings.
Trigger foods: Many people who overeat in the evenings have "trigger" foods, specific foods they crave and are more likely to overeat, such as chips, chocolate or peanut butter. The experts find the avoidance of trigger foods can reduce evening overeating.
Assessing hunger: Your body lets you know what it needs. One key to lasting weight management is being in touch with your body and its signals. In the evening, before you eat, get rid of distractions. Take a few deep breaths and stop to think if you're physically hungry. If you're hungry, eat. If you're not, or if you're not sure, you shouldn't eat.
Stress management: Many people overeat in the evenings as a way to cope with the stress and exhaustion they may feel or to reward themselves at the end of a hard day. But this is a self-defeating response either way. When you come home, never head straight for the kitchen. Instead, hop in the shower or tub to decompress, take a walk or stretch. Once relaxed, then decide what you'd like for dinner.
Of course, these actions are only possible if you've fed yourself properly during the day and you're not ravenous.
Reducing behavioral associations: Like Russian scientist Ivan Pavlov's famous dogs, we can train ourselves to salivate and crave food in connection with just about any activity. Playing cards, eat. Watching a movie, eat. Going to the mall, eat. Talking on the phone, eat. Reading in bed, eat. Watching TV, eat.
The experts recommend that you eat only when you are seated at the dining or kitchen table, without distractions, so that you don't develop an association between eating and any activity, place or person. The only stimulus for eating should be hunger. Distractions tend to reduce inhibitions to overeating.
When to eat: There is no hard-and-fast rule governing the timing of your last meal in the evening. I recommend that evening calories don't exceed lunch or breakfast calories and that you eat at least two-thirds of your day's calories before dinner. It's important to go to bed feeling light, not full. This way, you awake hungry for a big breakfast.
Katherine Tallmadge is a Washington nutritionist and author of "Diet Simple" (Lifeline Press, 2004). Send e-mails to her at email@example.com.