To enjoy the holidays without tipping the scales, and to maintain the role of a gracious guest:
Give away fattening leftovers. One splurge won't interfere with your goals, but multiple indulgences will.
If you're afraid there won't be foods you would like, or you would like to control your intake at a party, eat a snack or a meal before going.
Don't starve yourself the day of the party, or you may overeat once you get there.
After you've arrived at the party, sip some sparkling water and wait at least 15 to 30 minutes before making a food choice. This gives you time to relax and to scope out the offerings.
Prioritize your favorite holiday foods. Splurge on two or three special delicacies you can get only once a year.
Wear close-fitting clothes to help remind you when you've had enough.
-- Katherine Tallmadge