Got Plans?

Every Thursday at 1 p.m. ET, washingtonpost.com's Entertainment Guide experts share their best bets for local flavor, great dates and family fun. Got plans? Great. Need plans? Just ask. We have the skinny on the bars and clubs, concerts, kitchens, theaters and special events that keep life interesting. We're going out gurus, and we're at your service.

Of course, we're happy to answer questions about local entertainment, but we need to hear from you, too. Introduce us to the coolest DJ or the fastest bartender you've encountered. Sound off on the week's best concert or the city's best burger. Tell us about the best place to amuse little kids or a big art fan. Together we can plan fun ways to spend weekdays, weekends, dates and holidays. The pleasure is ours, and yours.

Each week a different guru will act as host or hostess, but the entire staff is at your service. If you're looking for more ideas, see the Entertainment Guide.

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The Going Out Gurus: Hi, all, and welcome to this Thursday's discussion. The gang's all here and ready to answer your questions - burning and otherwise. By the bye, hope you've checked into our brand-new, quite fab (excuse the shameless self-promotion) Going-out-Gurus blog. But now, without further ado, let's get going. We cannot tell a lie; we can't wait for the long weekend.

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Washington, D.C.: Do you have any info on some hip coffee houses in the metro area. I see that most of your chats focus on imbibing of other sorts. Any good hot spots tapping beans instead of hops?

Alexa: I am an unabashed fan of the coffee at Starbucks, but I'm a keen supporter of small and local: Misha's, Murky (hello Nick), Rappahannock.

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Washington, D.C.: What are the details on the Washington Design Center sample sale this weekend? Where? when? What can I expect to find there?

Janet: Here are the details. Good luck hunting.

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Washington, D.C.: Hello fabulous GOGs! Which are the top three or four places in the metro area for the best crabcakes? An out-of-town friend and I have been craving it something fierce and we're looking to indulge our senses this w/end. Cheers!!

Alexa: Word on the floor here: Black's, Kinkead's (surely) and we're trying to think of another. Someone was telling me just this week about one they'd had, but complaining that it was just lump crab, no binder. I thought that sounded rather good. But I can't remember, for the life of me, where that crabcake was to be had. Clyde's is ok, too.

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Washington, D.C.: Hi GOGs, you guys are awesome. I wanted to know more about this Mardi Gras or carnival party at the Melrose on Saturday - do I need to buy tickets in advance? Can I buy them at the door? How much are they? Thanks so much!

Fritz: Well, you save $5 if you buy tickets in advance; Tickets are $15 in advance or $20 at the door. Head over to http://internationalclubdc.com/ to get them early. It should be a good time, with a fairly diverse crowd, if my past experiences are anything to go on.

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Washington, D.C.: When is the new Lacoste store opening on M Street? Any other new store openings?

Janet: Lacoste is due to open at the end of March on M. Other stores opening in Gtown include Intermix and a two-story Anthropologie with fashion and home accessories.

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Millenium Stage: Hey, have any of you ever been to the Millenium Stage at the Kennedy Center? I wanted to go, but was unsure about the dress as well as actually where to go when you get in the building. Are performances 1 hour or does it depend?

Jen: I've been to the Kennedy Center during a Millennium Stage performance and I think it's fine to dress relatively casually. If you're going after work, I'm sure whatever you wore to the office would be just fine. You could wear jeans for that matter (I've seen people do that) but you might want to take it up half a notch just to make it feel like a more special occasion.
The Millennium Stage set-up is on the main level, by the Concert Hall and Eisenhower Theaters. Just follow the signs and once you get to that big hallway, it should be apparent where the performance is. If you get lost, you can always ask one of the ever-helpful docents, who have assisted me on more than one occasion. Millennium performances generally are one hour, though I'm sure they occasionally run over a bit. Hope that helps.

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Washington, D.C.: Hey Gurus! My friends and I are very much looking forward to watching the Oscars together. Are there any good (and low-key) bars that will be showing them? We're looking for someplace with no cover and that will have the sound turned up. Thanks!

Jen: Ah, Oscar night. I can almost smell the Badgley Mischka and endless acceptance speeches already. As far as bars, here are two options: Felix's Oscar Party or the fiesta at the International Bar. Both have drink specials and are billed as viewing parties, so you should be able to see and hear all the exciting action. I'll be doing a live discussion during the Oscars that night, so if you have a laptop, feel free to include me in the fun. By the way, is it possible to e-mail me a $5 cocktail?

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Washington, D.C.: I'm going to the Brad Paisley concert (I know, I'm a hick) at the Patriot Center this Friday, and I was wondering if there was anywhere in the area, not too far off the beaten path, to eat? It HAS to be burgers, fries, wings, pizza sort of food, as my boyfriend is the pickiest eater in the entire world. Thanks for all of your help.

Fritz: Honestly, the food's not too bad at Ned Devine's, and it's exactly what you need. I think Artie's might fit the bill, too, especially if you want something more than burgers while he chows down.

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Washington, D.C.: Does the Blue Room still have a cover charge and dress code on the weekends?

Fritz: Cover -- depends on the night and time; Expect $5 or more if you show up after 10 or 10:30. As for the dress code -- yes, it's there, but I've gotten in while ignoring it. Just be cool and the bouncer will, too.

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Alexandria, Va.: GOGs - The parents are coming into town this weekend, and I'd like to take them on a day trip out of the city. Can you recommend a nice area that would be good for antique shopping (antiques at bargain prices would be even better.
Thanks!

Maura: Frederick is a short drive with enough to fill a day. Some shops are pricier than others, but there are some good finds. I've also heard good things about historic Hagerstown. Janet likes New Market and Dumfries. Hope that's a good start.

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Reston, Va.: Submitting early since I will be in a meeting. What are some fun Mexican (or Tex-Mex) restaurants in either D.C. or VA where a bunch of 20-somethings can go for a lively birthday dinner on Saturday night?

Alexa: How big is your group? You could have a splashy time at Oyamel's long table if you were wanting to be fancily Mexican. A little less swish is somewhere like Rio Grande, Mexicali Blue, Austin Grill. I also had a very nice lunch last week at the new Tacuba in a dull Alexandria shopping strip on King near 395.

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RE: Crabs: The Fairmont Hotel in Georgetown has the BEST crab cakes. Lots of crab and not a lot of binder.

Alexa: Crab information is coming in.

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Seriously good crabcakes: Can be had at Carlyle-don't-say-Grand-anymore in Shirlington.

Alexa: You don't say.

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Washington, D.C.: I like the new blog, but I don't understand why you took down the Neko Case post. As one poster said, it's not a blog if you take down a post. But keep up the good work.

Joe: OK, D.C., let's straighten this out once and for all. We took down the Neko Case post because it was recommending a show that had already passed and so it wasn't really serving much purpose staying up.

My bigger question though is, aren't blogs supposed to be whatever their creator wants them to be? I'm pretty sure that there aren't any international treaties regulating what is or isn't a blog? I find it very funny that some bloggers, who are all about freedom of expression and ideas, should be so insistent on rules and regulations for blogs. People just need to relax a little bit.

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Washington, D.C.: I'm looking for a recommendation for a bar where I could hold a birthday party for my boyfriend. I have a guest list of about 40 people, would like a private room or private area, and would like it to be somewhere in D.C.. We tend to hang out in places like Helix more than places like Buffalo Billards. Now, here's the kind of picky part. I'd like the bar to have a pricing structure where either the cost of the room is pretty low, or they have an arrangement where we promise to have a tab of at least X amount. Do you have any suggestions?

Fritz: The Blue Room and Felix would both work the discounted drink tip for you. Aroma will give you their back lounge at happy hour for free if you give them notice, and I'm sure Krishna or Lili would be able to help craft some special cocktails for the occasion (though I can't promise that). You might also want to check the new Cloud (which wasn't open on Tuesday), as the former Savino's is supposed to have a private/VIP area.

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Falls Church, Va.: Hey GOG's! Are you aware of any nice places to enjoy a cigar during Happy Hour hours? Most places I go to either don't allow cigars, or have time restrictions that are lifted much later in the evening. Thanks.

Fritz: Bistrot du Coin, Blue Gin, maybe Charlie Palmer or one of the places on the Hill ... anyone else have a helpful suggestion?

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Olney, Md.: I'm looking for a place to take my wife for a Sunday brunch in March for her birthday. She wants to go somewhere that has a great brunch, is within reasonable distance of antiquing or such and is within a 50 mile drive of D.C. I've thought of L'Auberge Provencale in White Post, or the Camus Inn in Sugarloaf, but other than that am stumped. The Maryland direction is ok since I live in MD, but Charlottesville is probably too far. Do you have any other suggestions? Cost is not a consideration but travel time is as we don't want to spend more than two hours each way. The other consideration is that we have a very large 16 year-old son (read food vacuum) who will also be attending so somewhere that has a really good buffet brunch would be the best choice.

Alexa: The Rail Stop out near Middleburg. It's not a buffet though.

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Petworth: Ok, it's not QUITE shopping, but it's related. I've got records. Lots of records. Like, 6 cases of records, ranging from 60's country and folk through 80's pop. I've sorted out what I need to keep, and am now looking to sell the rest of them. Who buys records?

Fritz: Take 'em to Crooked Beat on 18th Street in Adams Morgan (the old Flying Saucer) and ask for Neal.

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RE: Crabcakes: Eastern market. yummy. get there early though.

Alexa: Thanky.

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Washington, D.C.: Hey GOGs! You guys rule. I was looking at the entertainment section and saw that there are some Oscars parties happening. Are you going to any, or do you recommend any? Also, are any of you part of the DC Film Society or go to their events? It sounds like the type of organization I'd love to be part of, and would like your opinion on them. Thanks.

Jen: I wish I were going to an Oscars party. I will be working that night. Here are my suggestions. In addition to the two parties I mentioned earlier, there's the Oscar Night America party at the AFI Silver (which is the most expensive, but sounds like a lot of fun) and the Film Society Party you mentioned. I've been to the Oscar Night America parties in the past and they tend to be more formal. If you're into that, then explore that one. If you'd prefer something more casual, the Film Society party or the ones at Felix or International Bar might be more your speed. I'm not a member of the Film Society, but a lot of their members come to some of the same preview screenings that we press folks attend. I think that's the best reason to join the group; it allows you to see some great movies for free before anyone else does.

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Washington, D.C.: Please answer this; we're desperate. We've tried Tom four times and you twice, and we're ready to give up hope! We work in Friendship Heights and really, really need a better after drink spot than Chadwick's and Bambule, which we have done to death. We can't wait for Clyde's to reopen. Are they still on track for June? We're counting down the days.
Also, we heard rumors that a Chef Geoff's or Cafe Milano might go into a building going up in Wisconsin. Any truth to that?

Maura: We're hearing January, 2006 for Clydes to reopen in Chevy Chase, although I think the original plan said June, 2005. As for new dining options, I haven't heard the definitive word yet. I do know you're getting a Whole Foods, but that won't help much in the after-drink department.

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IndeBleu Revue: Just a brief review of the new happenin' spot--I went one night and had a good drink. But people should know the crowd there can range from younger multi-culti hip to republican convention look-alike depending on the night and time you go. So you never know. And a friend of mine definitely got the stare-down for not being dressed up last time we were supposed to meet there (happy hour). But go at least once just to get a copy of the menu!
Thanks for all the advice, Gurus!

Fritz: You know, I like the place less every time I go. Drinks have been haphazard (ordering two of the same cocktail and having them taste verrrrry different), the bar is too crowded on weekends (and it takes a few hundred $$$ to relieve the pressure and get a table). Good points: excellent DJs, great drink menu, a free coat room. If only the main bar was as well done as the upstairs dining rooms, I might not just dismiss the place as hype hype.

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CRAB CAKES: Mike's American Grill in Springfield- one of the Great American Restaurants has great crab cakes. Their food tends to be quite good, but I was pleasantly surprised at the high quality crab cake. The have a great filet/crab cake combo for about $23.

Alexa: I knew you'd all get your claws into this.

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Del Ray: Alexa, shh! If you keep telling people about all of the great places in Del Ray, then even more people are going to want to move here. And it's getting expensive enough as is. Although if anyone wants to open a book store or video rental place on Mt. Vernon Ave, you're more than welcome. Books and movies, that's all we need and then Del Ray would be perfect.

Alexa: Did I mention Del Ray today?

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Montgomery County, Md.: Three good looking, outgoing, young professional women looking where we can go and meet young professional men. We have tried Bethesda and Georgetown and now are looking for a change in scenery. Can you help us?

Fritz: Capitol Hill springs to mind, as does Penn Quarter and downtown. What are you looking for -- lounges, clubs, after-work happy hours with martinis?

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Washington, DC: Dear Gurus:
There was a good mini-feature in the Express today on the Washington Social Club. But it's unfortunate there was no mention of bass player Olivia Mancini's other band, The Small Shouts, who are playing tonight at the Warehouse Next Door w/ De Novo Dahl (from Nashville) and The Hot Pipes. In fact, the Warehouse Next Door is entirely absent from the Express's music listings, and it's too bad because they put on a lot of good shows. Can y'all help spread the word about tonight?

Joe: Consider the word spread, DC. I haven't seen Olivia's other band, but my bet is they're good. And by the way, I know we have said lots of good things here about Washington Social Club before and we'll repeat them now. If you haven't seen this band yet, get to the Black Cat for their show this Sunday. Just great energy and smart thrilling songs. Really, these guys are that good.

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LeDroit Park: Rhomey Rhome! I hear DJ Adrian Loving has 2 wicked gigs this weekend (Sunday's Chocolate City Carnival at Anzu) and the NYC Fashion gig at Bar Nun tonight. Is there a cover charge for tonight, or is it free like the Carnival party?

Rhome: The Bar Nun set is free before 10pm. They've been really raking in the dough at that spot so get there early, they will hit you with the damage at the door with a straight face like "what?!?". Go there early then swing up the block to Uncle Q's. The Brazilian Carnival party is at Andalu this time, not Anzu. It's definitely free and it'll definitely be rocking. Word on the street is that Stevie G. might be vacating the District for warmer climes soon. You'll want to hear him as much as you can before he jets.

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Laurel, Md.: Hey Gurus! Submitting early due to a meeting, hope you can help. Got a first date with a great girl, looking for something original, and different form the dinner and a movie every other 21 year old does. Any ideas???

David: A 21-year old submitting early because of a meeting, now that's what we like to see. You're looking for something different ... well, you're already in Laurel, you can take her to the race track, see if you can win some money on the ponies. That's probably not a common first date activity. But then again, there might be a reason for that. If you can make it a morning date, how about a trip to the zoo to see the baby cheetahs? Kind of cute and romantic, and who doesn't love the day date?

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Petworth: Crabcakes - I don't eat them myself, so can't testify, but my mom and my husband both swear that the crabcakes at Market Lunch are the best. (And I love the NC BBQ there!)

Alexa: Thanks, Pet.

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Alexandria, Va.: Hey Gurus! Happy Thursday. I just had the super yummy Dominion Oak barrel stout (SO much better than Guinness, although my boyfriend would never accept that). Is there any place else in Arlington or in the Capitol Hill area that serves it? I love the beer, but hate Bailey's.

Fritz: It's so much better on draft than in bottles, isn't it? I haven't seen it anywhere recently, although I know RFD has had it in the past.

Anyone seen it outside of Ashburn?

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Washington, D.C.: Shelly's backroom near metro center is cigar-friendly. not too sure about their happy hour prices, but you can smoke cigars all night.

Fritz: Ah, good call. They have humidors near the front door, if I remember correctly, and there is a happy hour (I've been there). Thanks.

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Renting a private Room: Check out the Childe Harold - they have a great room upstairs, may be a little big for 40 people. A friend rented out for a graduation party I can't remember how much it cost, but was very reasonable, especially for Dupont. Also, the cost was definitely built into the bar tab structure.

Fritz: Yeah, but it's not as "Helix" as "Buffalo Billiards" if you know what I mean.

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Crabcakes: Old Ebbitts grill, 701 have excellent ones.

Alexa: Yes. The Old Ebbitt. I think actually that's what I meant over Clyde's

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Herndon, Va.: The Gem Show is coming to the Chantilly Expo Center this weekend. Do you know if the pieces are authentic and if the prices are better than at retail stores?

Janet: Hi, there, Herndon,
Have no personal experience with the show, but I have heard that it's a worthwhile visit.

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17th St.: Do you guys know when Savino's will reopen? And, is there any hope that the new place, Cloud, will be any good? The name worries some of us.

Fritz: Worries me, too. I was by on Tuesday (after calling to confirm they were open) and all the barstools were upside down on the bar at quarter to 7. It looks pretty minimalist, and not all that exciting. We'll see, though.

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Federal Beehive: I will be going to the National Gallery on Sunday and have plans to go to brunch afterwards. I was thinking Teaism, but was wondering if the all-knowing GoGs might have any nearby brunch recommendations. Thanks!

Maura: Hmmm...as you might already know, I would never discourage you from Teaism. However, if you're looking for other options, you could walk to Zaytinya (where I had a leisurely weekend lunch recently) or Rosa Mexicana.

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Re: antiquing: Fredericksburg, Va., is a great place for antiques, just an hour down 95. Head downtown to Caroline Street, where there are lots of antique stores, and for lunch go to Sammy T's.

Maura: Oh yes, another good spot -- and lunch idea. Thanks!

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Washington, D.C. : Just wanted to give a quick thanks to you guys for starting the GOG blog.I get impatient waiting for the thursday chats and this is a perfect remedy. BTW- went to Chloe last Friday and had a great time. 20-30s crowd, good drinks, friendly bartenders and chill but sophisticated atmosphere...hope it doesn't start getting to crowded!

Fritz: I have a feeling it will, when the folks from Saki get tired of being packed into a small club space. Chloe is a lot more expansive than that Saki basement. We'll see what happens once word starts getting out.

(Although I think it already has -- rumor is one of the First Daughters was on the opening night guest list.)

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Shopaholic: Janet- do you know when are Intermix and Anthropologie opening?

Janet: The most recent update gives the expected opening date as early April. Let's hope that's true. Looking forward to both stores.

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Washington,D.C.: I am new to the area and am looking for ways to meet new people (preferably not in bars.) Any suggestions?

Maura: We get asked this question frequently and the trouble is there isn't a set answer. It's tough to meet new people, so I'd suggest focusing on things you like to do that might bring you into a more social atmosphere. Want to join a sports rec league? How about taking a cooking class? A book group is a good way to start. And there's always volunteering. Single Volunteers gets good reviews, but maybe some chatters have thoughts on meeting folks outside of bars...

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Springfield, Va.: Can anyone explain the policy at the State Theatre in Falls Church? My husband heard that Gallagher was there this weekend so I checked into prices and here's what I found. Two tickets were running about $95 but that was actually understandable, to some extent - the deal breaker for me was to read on their website that the venue is 50% standing room and all seats are sold general admission? So patrons pay $95 for a night of entertainment and then are not even guaranteed they can SIT for that price? Did I misintrepret something?

David: While that is their usual policy, Springfield, it will be different for the Gallagher shows over the weekend. Those will both be all-seated performances, no first-come, first-serve seating. And if you decide to go, remember to take your ponchos.

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Washington, D.C.: Hey GOG's!; I keep reading about the mysterious "Chloe" in Adams Morgan on this chat, but I have yet to notice it on 18th St. Just where is it?
Thanks!;

Fritz: They didn't have a sign last week, though I think there's one now -- it's next to Asylum, just south of Columbia. There's nothing more than a doorway, though.

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Washington, D.C.: Where can you DJ with an IPOD?

Fritz: Second Wednesday of the Month at Cafe Saint-Ex.

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Washington, D.C.: GOGs, went to Helix last week for happy hour. It was a lot of fun. Only problem is that it's a serious hike from any metro. Is there a place with a similar vibe and clientele closer to the subway?

Fritz: Topaz, a sister hotel to Helix, is closer to the Dupont Metro. Depending on the night, the fun little Tapatinis might work -- it's just down 8th Street SE from the Eastern Market Metro.

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Tysons Corner, Va.: Where are all the 40-something singles? As a single mom it's all but impossible to join singles groups or attend most singles events as they're typically on weeknights. I'd just like to find a couple of places I can go for drinks that are frequented by professionals my age but aren't high-brow and flashy on the surface, a la Sex and the City, or stuffy. Help GOGs, Match.com just isn't cutting it!

Maura: Tyson's, the new bar at Morton's in Bethesda might suit your needs. The crowd is professional and skews older than most other Bethesda bars (Tommy Joe's, anyone?) and they certainly didn't seem too stuffy.

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Washington, D.C.: Hi guys! A friend I haven't seen for a while is in town tonight. Where should we begin this evening if we wanna talk and drink good martinis? Thanks a million!!!!

Fritz: If you don't care about being too hip, try Off the Record (in the Hay Adams Hotel) or Le Bar, or even the Reef (crowds don't descend until 9 or so). For more of a scene, Bar Rouge is better early than late night, and Indebleu may be a good choice, as the lounge is open to everyone early.

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Arlington, Va.: Hi! Trying to put together a girls brunch this Saturday--any suggestions? Are there any must-do brunches in the city?
Thanks!

Alexa: You could do the drag brunch at Perry's. That might be fun for girls. The brunch at the Tabard. That's always pretty.

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Washington, D.C.: If you had to choose a venue for a collegial dinner with 15 coworkers - which would you pick from the following options (based on food, drink and decor): Inde Bleu, DC Coast, Firefly, Ortanique or Tallula? Which has the best food and is most fun? Thanks!

Alexa: I think I'd say DC Coast.

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Washington, D.C.: Gurus - Thanks for all your advice. I hate to admit it, but I love hotel bars. Been to the new lounge at Beacon Hotel? I have heard mixed reviews. Wondering if I should try it for Happy Hour today after work.

Fritz: Don't be ashamed of loving hotel bars -- I find they have better bartenders and more consistency than most watering holes.

Now, the Beacon -- yuck. Despite the high ceilings and huge, curved booths, it's a pretty boring space. Went with some friends and it wasn't an experience I'd like to repeat. Our server disappeared after dropping off menus, two of the house drinks tasted like cough syrup and turpentine, and they were out of the beer another friend wanted. I'd skip it.

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Washington, D.C.: Hi, all, I haven't done this before but wanted to ask a question on behalf of a D.C. Women's Group. I am new to the Board and you could get me major kudos for helping out! We want to do a fun networking event in DC at a hip, new hotel bar or restaurant, preferrably metro accessible with a terrace or easy access to outside for mingling? We are looking at April and July. Probably with the option of a special section or room for the 50 or more women (and a few men) that come to this annual Happy Hour. Any help you can provide would be most helpful. Thanks.

Maura: Well, it's not that new, but the bar at Poste has a fabulous outdoor patio. Give them a call and see if you can work something out. Helix is not quite as large, but might be another option

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The meeting people question: Well, having been here a couple of years and feeling like I'm stalled for new circles I feel the person's pain, but one thing I found very useful for getting started when I moved here is my alumni club. Most major schools, and even some of the small liberal arts clubs, have fairly active chapters with varied activities. Try your university's alumni website and look for a D.C. club. Just my .02.

Maura: A great idea. Hopefully, it will work for our poster.

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Arlington, Va.: I just started a new job in Metro Center, and am trying to figure out where people down here are going to happy hours! I met up with some friends at Fado, in Chinatown, but was disappointed that they didn't have any drink specials. Any thoughts on places that would be relatively casual but still a good time? Cap. City would have been fine, but unfortunately it seems to be closed for renovations. You guys being the gurus, I thought certainly you'd know!

Fritz: Around your way, I like John Harvard's (cheap beer and a $3 app menu), the 9th and F McCormick and Schmick's ($1.99 menu), District Chop House (go to the upstairs bar, where you can order $2.50 house drafts), Ella's Pizza (free pies and $2 beers, including Yuengling), ummmmmm ...

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Fredericksburg, Va.: Sammy T's is not what it used to be. Other downtown picks would be: Basil's Italian Market and Pizzeria or Merriman's. Also not to be missed - Hyperion Espresso. It is hands down the BEST coffee place, better than anything I've tried in NoVa. Also Carl's frozen custard should be open again for the season now.

Maura: Who needs lunch if you have coffee and frozen custard???Thanks, Fredericksburg.

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Washington, D.C.: Looking for a fun dinner theater this Sun. night in VA/DC area. Are there any great medieval type dinner/shows in this area too? I know of one in Baltimore but that's too far! Thanks!

Jen: Hmmm ... the only one I know of is Medieval Times, but that's near Baltimore, as you said. I think that's your only jousting connection, unless someone else out there knows of one.

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Washington, D.C.: I adore croquet and would love to tinker on a real court - are there any ones open to the public in D.C. or the surrounding areas?

Joe: I hadn't thought about croquet in years, but your question reminded me how much fun it was as a kid (though it always ended with me and my siblings swinging the mallets at each other). Try this link to a listing of croquet clubs across the country. It looks like there are two in the District and several in Maryland and Virginia as well.

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Washington, D.C.: Hey, GoGs ~ I'd love some help on where to find a decent haircut for a reasonable price. I don't think I'm asking for much: a cut that is even, from a stylist who will talk with me about my hair and what I want, who will be at least CLOSE to on time for my appointment, and will not need an hour to cut my already above-the-shoulders hair. The Best Bets Guide just didn't do it for me. Your suggestions (or OTHER readers)?!

Janet: Here's a whole list of possibilities. By the way, have you tried Trim or Demian?

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Washington D.C.: Where is the best place for happy hour in Georgetown?

Fritz: Depends, but college students love Rhino ($2 beers tonight, half price drinks from 5 to 9 tomorrow) and Garrett's (half-price rail drinks and beer until 7, with nightly specials, including $2.25 PA beers tonight).

Crowds are a little older at Martin's Tavern and Daily Grill, which both have good deals; I love the half-price burgers at Martin's.

If Degrees had a happy hour, I'd be all over that.

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Relatives crowd: I have an army of relatives, kids and all coming to DC this weekend. I am planning to take them around the Mall. Where can we go for a quick lunch at walkable distance.
Thanks.

Alexa: It might be easiest for you to go to one of the museum's eateries. There are a couple of good ones -- the one downstairs at the National Gallery (the Cascade Cafe with gelato stand); the one in the Nat Gal's Sculpture Garden (the Pavilion Cafe) and the cafeteria in the Museum of Natural History.

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Missing Crunkville: Gurus (probably Rhome or Fritz), is there any hip hop club up here where a brotha can wear jeans and timbs? The jiggy clubs are cool and all, but sometimes I want to get it crunk. And as everyone knows, you can't get crunk wearing jiggyfly.

Rhome: Bar Nun on Fridays has a relaxed dress code, which is why folks will pony up that cover charge. They want a nice space and good music without the fancy club hassle. There's supply and demand in action right there. All your other non-jiggy options will take you away from mainstream music into the underground... or into less savory (re: potential for conflict) establishments that I wouldn't recommend here. Do you want a focus on furious rhyming, dj battles and b-boying or do you want to post up at the bar and talk to honeys while that new Amerie song rocks in the background?

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Re: Coffee houses in DC: There is also M.E. Swing Co. at 17th and G. It's small,local and has great coffee, pastries, and atmosphere.

Fritz: I love Swing's. Washington's oldest coffee roaster is the only place I buy my beans these days.

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Washington, D.C. : Fritz,
I am concerned: how do you know what turpentine tastes like? Care to share more of your past with us?

Fritz: No, not really.

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Washington, D.C.: My mother is coming to town for the weekend and I would like to take her to a nice Sunday brunch. Any suggestions of semi-casual places with friendly atmospheres?

Maura: My mom and I both loved a recent brunch at Black Market in Garrett Park. A bit of a drive for you, but a nice change of pace. We've also had a nice time at the Irish Inn at Glen Echo and Cashion's is an easy spot for brunch.

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Washington, D.C.: Hi GOGs -- had a quick question about the D.C. "scene." I have some friends, scientists by trade, coming to town in a couple of weeks for a conference. (They're astronomers from the Frosty Drew Observatory up in R.I.) I don't think they care too much about seeing politicos or "the beautiful people" but I wondered if there are places (bars, restaurants, etc.) where "the brilliant people" hang out, like Smithsonian folks, writers, scientists, etc. In short, we're thinking John Bortle, not John Ashcroft or John Riggins. Tks.

Joe: Well, if you've ever listened to John Riggins on the radio or tv, you'd know he was a pretty witty guy. So, right away, I'm suspicious. Anyway, can you imagine a more insufferable place than one populated by people who think they are brilliant?

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It's hard to meet people in D.C.: I think it's easy to meet new people in DC, the hard part is -connecting with them (don't know why this is...the political atmosphere, all the ulterior motives?). Seems like it takes several times seeing the same person over and over (although a friend connection helps) to start something up. Make yourself a regular at a neighborhood bar where the people look cool, or volunteer regularly at the same event. Or join a book club. You've got to have something in common with people in this town before they'll go out on a limb and make a connection with you.

Maura: It does take some time and you're right, a little repetition is key.

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Re: meeting people: Some people sware by Craig's List, especially if you want an activity partner for a hobby of some sorts.

Maura: Another good start.

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Bethesda, MD: Hi GOG's!; The place that used to be St Elmo Billiards, then Shark Club in Bethesda has been vacant for years. Any news on what will be opening there? Bethesda is rather boring these days with the same sports bar/ post-fraternity hangouts (Rock Bottom, Caddie's, Tommy Joes, Barking Dog, Willie and Reeds). Anything new in the horizon for Bethesda?

Bored in Bethesda.

Fritz: I've been told it's going to be (get ready to gag) a British-style pub called "Union Jack's" run by the owner of Polly Esther's and Tequila Beach. (The Rockville Polly Esther's has closed, by the way, and the other two are slated to closed later this year.)

Look for the place to open around April Fool's Day.

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Antiques: Avoid New Market at all costs...too too pricey. Frederick is good, but so is Buckeystown. Also, take Rt. 15 across the river to VA (Point of Rocks crossing), and there are lots of good places within 5 miles.

Maura: All right, an update from the antique trenches. Thanks for the tips. Now I want to take a day trip antiquing!

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Arlington, Va.: I'm new to Arlington. Other than the yuppie palace that is the Market Common in Clarendon, do you guys have a top 5 suggestions for some restaurants and bars to check out that would be walkable from there? I'd prefer neighborhood places that don't have 100 other locations.

David: Galaxy Hut, Whitlow's, IOTA, Eleventh Street ... those are all extremely walkable from "the yuppie palace," the first three only a few hundred feet away.

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Re: Meeting people: What about Smithsonian Associates? Each season they usually have a "singles" class. In my single days I took a great wine tasting class through them with other singletons.

Maura: Smithsonian Associates has great programs. Even if you don't meet someone, I think their offerings are worth flying solo for.

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Washington, D.C.: Where can one go to dance? Not a dance floor in bar i.e. Rumors, McFaddens, or a tiny lounge with good music such as Felix...Is there any type of place in the city to find 25-35's out with either a great DJ or good live band, with music ranging from popular to swing or other good dance music? Also I'm not looking for a "theme" place... Too much to ask????

Fritz: Actually, Washington, you raise a good point. Most of the big dance clubs in this city -- your Dreams, H2Os, Furs -- mainly cater to niche markets (hip-hop, house, salsa, '80s, trance). The places who have what you're looking for -- a broader appeal -- are going to be the smaller bars-cum-clubs, like Madhatter, Clarendon Grill, Third Edition or Chief Ike's, where there's just a dance floor in the corner of the room. We think that Modern and Third's are probably bigger than the places you mention, but not by much, and they get lots of college students.

Still, if anyone has tips for us, we're happy to investigate.

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Washington, D.C.: I have friends visiting who are into Turkish/Arabic dance music. Any happening places that offer the above?

Rhome: Anywhere that the well-heeled (and those adopting that guise) Euro crowd parties will take care of this request: Paper Moon, Sesto Senso, Diva (Tuscana West), and make sure you check out International Club of DC event we mentioned in This Week In Nightlife.

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Alexandrington, Va.: Ok- so I bought a home, broke up with my boyfriend, and ditched my lame "we don't wanna drive all the way to D.C. to have fun" Prince William County friends. I've lived too close to DC for too long without feeling connected to any kind of social scene! I'm looking for a smart, funny, sarcastic crowd, or at least the kind of place that attracts these people. Some hip hop, rock, R&B- Jill Scott, Jay-Z & Incubus type place where I won't feel like a reject going to alone. So where's a 24-year-old girl to go?

Rhome: You won't get any of those flavors of music all in one place in Real Life D.C... but it sure is nice to dream, isn't it? The closest I can think of to such an all-encompassing mix is Sacriforce. That's more on the aggressive end of the spectrum though, and it's not regular. You'll have to get on the mailing list to know when the next party is happening. As for a new crowd of friends, you'll more readily find the personality types you're looking for. You want young and open-minded, eclectic, not focused on the pick-up and the hook-up. Once again, Wonderland comes to mind, as does the Red Room at the Black Cat, Bossa on Thursdays and perhaps Saint-Ex.

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Washington, D.C.: Martini friend - Zola has an awesome selection!

Janet: thanks for the good word; I like to go there anyway.

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Arlington, Va.: Good Thursday, Gurus. My sister just turned 18 and she'll be flying her on Friday. Any suggestions on where to take her for some night life? Thanks in advance!

Fritz: Well, her options are going to be limited to the larger dance clubs, like Platinum or Tequila Beach. I'd say the former if she's into a "Wow!" kind of club experience (huge disco ball, lots of people, mezzanines that let you look down onto the crowd), or the Beach if she just wants to listen to Top 40 hip-hop and dance music and have fun.

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Washington D.C.: My best friends from college are coming into town. YAY! Now I've got to figure out where to take them. Where can three late 20s girls go to have some cocktails, get a little rowdy and flirt that's not super chi-chi and spendy, but where we won't be the only people over 24?

Fritz: I keep seeing packs of girls in your age range at Helix and Saint-Ex, though the Blue Room, Blue Gin, Felix, Gazuza and Eyebar might also work.

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Washington, D.C.: I seem to remember recently reading about a new lounge perhaps in Dupont or Adams Morgan that offers hookah. Can you suggest something other than Chi Cha and Prince Cafe? I'm looking to have a nice dinner as well.
Hook Me Up With Hookah,
Tiffany

Fritz: Soussi sounds like the place for you. Good drinks, chill atmosphere.

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Washington, D.C.: My husband and I, and another couple, are looking for a fancy restaurant in D.C. where coat and tie are expected. Any suggestions?

Fritz: Citronelle, 701, Kinkaid's.

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Washington, D.C: Hi GOG's, I just moved here and your advice is so helpful. My schedule sucks for partying. I bartend on the weekends (on the Hill), therefore my days to go out are the boring ones- Mon thru Wed. I don't know of anywhere to go out with energy on those nights. Any suggestions for happy hour and even some later night spots? I am totally willing to get of the Hill. In fact I need to badly. Thank you!

Rhome: Weeknights are the BEST nights to go out. Some of the best regular events happen and you can actually interact with bartenders and other patrons without the weekend crush of humanity.

A friend of mine once said that the weekends are for amateurs. I'm not co-signing, just passing it along.

Totally willing to get off the Hill? If you're new here, exploring more of D.C. than Capitol Hill is a mandate. It would be hard to throw out some specific spots since you didn't state your preferences but just comb through the Bars & Clubs section to start. Well, I guess I could give you one easy homework assignment to start.

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The Going Out Gurus: Ta-ta for now! That's all we have time for today. See you next week.

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