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Travel lessons learned from 2004...

The Flight Crew, from left: John Deiner, Carol Sottili, Steve Hendrix, Anne McDonough, Gary Lee, K.C. Summers, Cindy Loose, Andrea Sachs. (Melissa Cannarozzi - for The Post)

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KC Summers: Well good afternoon everyone, and welcome to this week's Travel chat. If you've got questions about the new breed of adventure spas that combine rugged outdoor activities with luxury pampering, fire away -- whether about Utah's Red Mountain Spa (featured in yesterday's print edition) or adventure spas in general. This is a growing trend among spa-goers and has really taken off with folks who don't want to lie around getting facials all day. Not that there's anything wrong with that.

In last week's chat, a reader wrote in asking what we'd learned in our travels during 2004, and our answers ranged from buying an EZ-Pass (it changed John Deiner's life) to staying at small, out-of-the-way places if you're traveling solo (Cindy) to wearing socks without holes for those embarrassing security line checks (Andrea). It was a good question and now we're wondering: What about you? What did you learn during your travels last year? Best answers win a copy of Microsoft's Streets and Trips 2005 OR a picture book on custom yoga tips.

And we're off....

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McLean, Va.: For K.C. Summers re her/his today's (1/9/05) article: NOT YOUR MOTHER'S SPA.

In Item #11, you mentioned that you never found out what "fango" is. Answer is "mud" - fango is mud in Italian.

And how do I know? I mountainbike a LOT, and own a unique dual-suspension bike called the Ripley, made by Ibis. Only 300 Ripleys were sold before Ibis suddenly went out of business after 20 years in. The Ripley's designer/patent holder is a guy named John Castellano, who has reintroduced the Ripley as the 'Fango' - visit www.castellanodesigns.com for more info.

You're welcome.

- Mike

KC Summers: The things you learn in this chat. Fascinating. I would have thought a spa in the American Southwest would have named it "adobe mud" or something.... but thanks for clearing that up!

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Laurel, Md.: We're planning on visiting freinds in Paris, France. The second half of our 10 day stay would be a few days in Barcelona. I have heard from my friend that flying to Barcelona is actually cheaper than taking the train. Any suggestions as to how we should do this? This is my frist trip to Europe and am completely lost. I have heard of Easyvols.com but it's in French and I don't speak or read it. Help!

Cindy Loose: A site called www.openjet.com will find flights by all european low cost carriers except one--that's ryan air, and they're at www.ryanair.com. Openjet is like orbitz, travelocity and expedia, except it searches for flights within europe. I.e., you plug in your dates, departing and arriving cities, and it comes back with your alternatives. Have a great time.

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Volunteer vacations: In last week's chat, someone asked about volunteer vacations. I went with Global Volunteers (www.globalvolunteers.org) on one last year, and it was one of the best experiences of my life. Not only did I get to volunteer in a community that needed it, I got to spend time with locals, learn about the customs, and experience the land in a way I never would have otherwise. Global Volunteers works with the IRS to ensure your fee (which covers room and board)is completely tax deductible; my aifare, laundry and other costs were as well. I'd HIGHLY recommend this program!;

KC Summers: Yes, we've heard good things about Global Volunteers. Thanks for the good report. Anyone else have good volunteer programs to recommend?

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Alexandria, Va.: Hi,

Thinking about going to Russia in April. Good idea, bad idea? Have free plane tickets and free place to stay and a driver once we get there. So its pretty definte that we go, what can we expect in terms of weather? How about good shopping areas? I love street markets and the like. Any guide books that you would recommend?

Thanks!

Gary Lee: Russia can be quite cold in April. I lived there for several years and there was often snow covering Moscow and St. Petersburg in that month. So take a heavy coat. The rough guide, lonely planet, and fodors all put out good russia guides. It's hard to recommend the best shopping without knowing exactly where you're going. There is good indoor "mall" along Nevsky Prospect in Petersburg and here was -- and I believe still is a good outdoor market at Izmailovsky Park in Moscow.

Anybody with thoughts on shopping in the two biggest Russian cities?

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Bethesda, Md.: Please help! My family (my husband, our toddler daughter, and my parents) and I were planning to stay at an all-inclusive resort in Mexico in mid-March. However, because I am pregnant, my doctor has suggested changing our destination to something domestic. One possibility we are discussing is Sanibel Island. Do you know the condition of the island since the hurricans of last fall? Also, do you know whether this is a "family"-type destination? We're looking for a beach vacation, so it seems the best options are Florida or California at that time of year. Thanks!

Cindy Loose: I'll post in one minute a story one of my colleagues did when we fanned out some months ago to access how hurricane-damamged areas in Florida and the Caribbean were doing. As I recall, it says that aside from missing palm trees, it was looking good.

I love Sanibel--beautiful beach, low key, great shell picking. The toddler and grandparents alike should enjoy that, and adults will love the sunsets. I think it's great for a toddler, unless your one of those parents who think they need something like Disney.

You don't say how pregnant you are, but if you're getting into the 7th month range or even close, I personally would do the short trip to Florida over the longer trip to California. You don't want to be in the air when something goes wrong that could be easily fixed on the ground. I'd also be trying for nonstops.

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Richmond, Va.: I really appeciate you all's feed back and advice.

I want to take two young teens to Orlando. They are too old for a typical ALL Disney vacation, we we would do other parks. Where are some good located, reasonable priced hotels "in the middle of it all?"

Anne McDonough: Hey Richmond: Coming up should be a link to the Orlando lodging issue we did last fall--its focus is on budget options but will also give you a good idea of the general layout of the parks and the hotels. Your situation is crying out for Universal Drive, I should think: if you're right ON the drive, the kids can walk to evening entertainment, giving them a sense of freedom and you some time away from the car, and you're closest to Universal Orlando and less than 30 minutes from Disney. Many of them have shuttles between the hotels and the parks, as well, and there's public transportation that runs up and down I-Drive. Also, check out the (free) Travel archives under Florida for a comparison of three night-life options at the Orlando parks; it will help make sense of all of the options.

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Going to New Zealand.....: I head to New Zealand this September, and I can't wait!; I've read Steve Hendrix's excellent article on his 9-day jaunt to New Zealand--excellent reading during a stressful workday!;-- as well as the other articles in the Post travel archives. But I was curious about reader input on what to see and do. I've got three weeks, and the only thing I've booked is the hotel in Auckland for when I fly in and out.

Steve Hendrix: Lucky you. That should be pleasant time of the year, early spring temps probably. And I'm glad you're taking a full three weeks. There's never enough time, of course, but you can hit a lot of highlights in three weeks.

You've already read my piece, so I'll kick this out for the readers to opine. (But don't miss Christchurch!)

Readers?

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Fairfax, Va.: St. George was my best-kept vacation secret until the Red Mtn. spa article appeared on Jan. 9. If the number of St. George visitors increases, I hope they say within the bounds of the spa's facilities while I'm there enjoying non-spa (but equally therapeutic) recreation & dining. The author failed to mention many critical facts about visiting this area, such as the soaring daytime summer temperatures (over 100 May - Oct.) Point #15 is a fallacy; Snow Canyon has nice scenery, but it does not compare with Zion or Bryce or any national park or monument. It lacks Zion's monoliths and Bryce's hoodoes & ampitheatres and both parks' vast and unique ecosystems. That's why Snow Canyon is a state park. No one in Utah has ever heard of any eastern state park either, so why was Summers surprised by this revelation? Snow Canyon appears in many infomercials, once again reinforcing the 'best kept secret' concept of all that St. George has to offer.

KC Summers: Well, you're just going to have to share it with the rest of us, bucko. The whole point of choosing a spa in St. George is to go beyond the bounds of the spa -- as the article made clear. The high summertime temps were addressed, btw. And having visited all three of the parks mentioned (and not being a fan of infomercials), I stand by my opinion. But thanks for the feedback.

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Arlington, Va.: My lesson learned in 2004, do not wear overalls to the airport. You will always be pulled out for a pat down.

KC Summers: Love this. Thanks.

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BVI: I hope you can post this early so I can get input from the chat masses in addition to from you experts. I am lucky enough to be going to the British Virgin Islands for a week on a sailboat in February. I am interested in any recommendations of locations or activities that I will be able to see given our flexible mode of transport. We can go virtually anywhere in the area since we have our own small boat. We will be doing a lot of scuba diving, but need shore/town/beach recommendations.

Steve Hendrix: Consider it posted. Readers?

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washingtonpost.com: An Orlando Bedtime Story, (Nov. 7, 2004)

Anne McDonough: Here's the lodging guide--check out the awesome map that .com put together, where you scroll over the number and the hotel review pops up.

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Washington, DC: Hi gurus!; I'm looking for Honeymoon choices in Europe. We thought about Finland, but I hear it is extremely expensive. How expensive is it?

Cindy Loose: Very, very. Just got back from there. Part of that expense is the euro's strength compared to the dollar, but even so....I think to be satisfied you should start by checking the rates of a few of the big category items, like hotel and transportation, then decide what you think.

If it's a winter honeymoon and you were seeking winter fun--personally I prefer Iceland, cause love the geysers and the hot springs and the unusual vistas.

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Vienna, Va. RE: Things I learned this year: I learned this year that you CAN travel after you have a baby, but you have to adjust your expectations and learn to enjoy the downtime more. My tip to do that is to pay more for the oceanfront room, cabin with a balcony, etc. to make sure your view is FANTASTIC so that you don't mind staying there while your little one naps. We used to have the mentality of "the cheapest room in the nicest place", but we've had to shift that to "the nicest room in the best we can afford".

KC Summers: Love this, too. EVen if you don't have a little one, the right hotel room can make a huge difference in how you approach a city, and conversely, the wrong one can be mighty depressing. And if you prowl the various lodging discounters and reverse-auction sites, you can snag rooms in places you otherwise wouldn't afford.

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Arlington, Va.: Hi there! Please help me to be the best wife ever. I want to whisk my husband away to Florida for his birthday weekend, February 11-13. I'm looking for a beach that is as warm as possible for the time of year, better known for its traquility than its party scene. Given the brevity of the jaunt, I'm hoping to minimize travel time from Reagan National. Anything leap to mind? You have my eternal gratitude.

Cindy Loose: As I mentioned already, I love Sanibel, and it's quiet. Then again, there are more flight options to Miami and Fort Lauderdale. You can easily avoid the wealth of hopping nightlife in Fort Lauderdale, or alternately, stay in one of the smaller communities near it.

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Silver Spring, Md.: Loved the article on Utah adventure spas! Quetion about Utah. If you have only one week, do you recommend trying to see Zion, Bryce, and Arches? We won't be camping but would like to hike and maybe take an offroad guided tour. I used to live out West and know that the distances are huge, but would love to see as much as possible. Thanks!

KC Summers: Thanks! Yes, that's definitely doable. If you have just a week it might be a little rushed, but they're all pretty close to one another and you could devote a day to each.

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Glover Park, Washington, D.C.: Didn't one of you make the trip to the monarch butterfly sanctuaries in Mexico one year? We'll be in Morelia, Mexico in February and plan to make that trip. Just wondering if you have any special tips/advice for us.

Gary Lee: I did the monarch butterfly trip a couple of years back and loved it. Here are my suggestions: 1) If as it sounds you're going to see butterflies, base yourself in Morelia and take day trips to the sanctuaries. Several tour companies take small van trips to the sanctuaries in the mornings and bring you back at the end of the day. When you get there ask around as to which sanctuary has most of the butterflies this year. It varies from year to year. 2) Definitely make time for Morelia, which is one of the most beautiful colonial cities I have been to in Mexico. 3) Besides the butterfly attractions there are a number of small towns near Morelia that are excellent for shopping for crafts. Best to ask your hotel for recommendations.

Have fun...

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Tyson's Corner, Va.: I'm a native New Orleanian. There are frequent comments on this chat about my fair city and it always makes me feel good. I'm taking my two kids there for a long weekend at the end of this month. I wanted your readers to know about a parade that is not on most folks radar screen. It is the Krewe of Barkus and it is a kick. Owners dress up their dogs and have a parade. It is in the French Quarter at Armstrong Park. It is so much fun to watch. This year it is at 2pm on Sunday, Jan. 30th.

Mystic Krewe of Barkus

The Mystic Krewe of Barkus is the only Mardi Gras krewe run for dogs! All proceeds from the event are donated to local humane societies and animal shelters.
Date: Sunday, 1/30/05
Time: 2 p.m.
Location: Armstrong Park

Steve Hendrix: I've seen some very funny pictures from this popular pre-Mardi Gras event, Tysons. Have fun.

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Annapolis, Md.: I'm spending a week at Red Mountain Spa next month, so I was happy to see your review. Here's my travel (hiking) tip. I do quite a bit of hiking related vacationing, and recently discovered the benefits of using dual poles while on the trail. By using your "core" abdominal muscles, one can actually get a good upper-body workout while hiking with two poles. I've hiked a fair amount in Europe and frequently seen German hikers using dual poles. Now I understand what that's all about!

KC Summers: Now that's something I didn't see while I was there. Interesting. My feeling is that the hiking was rugged enough that you don't have to worry about making it harder -- I mean, I can't even envision using poles on some of that slickrock.

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Falls Church, Va.: Heading to Key Largo next week. Any advice for activities and restaurants? Could do a day trip to Key West.

Andrea Sachs: If you are a diver or snorkler, you may never have to come up for air. Among the sights: the Cayman Salvage Master, a 187-foot sunken ship; Key Largo Dry Rocks, with a 4,000-pound bronze statue, "Christ of the Abyss"; the Marine Lab Undesea Habitat, where you can watch undersea researchers do their thing, etc. John Pennekamp Coral Reef State Park is also highly recommended for water activities, and you can check out the original (Bogie-Hepburn) African Queen and other movie artifacts at the marina. For dining, the Fish House is ranked as one of the best around, especially for conch. And for gourment seafood, try Frank Keys Cafe.
See the Keys' tourism Web site for dive sites, restaurants and other attractions: www.fla-keys.com/keylargo/index.htm.

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Anymouse: Tip # 1: Remove nipple and "other" piercings before proceeding through security. You will miss your plane while security tries to discreetly figure out what is causing that machine to go "beep."

KC Summers: Yes, this is actually recommended on the TSA web site!

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London-bound: I'd like to head to London in late February/early March; given the abysmal exchange rate, it seems wisest to buy a packaged flight-plus-hotel deal. Would it be best to wait until the end of the month to make a purchase? Would you recommend the Expedia/Orbitz route? Thanks very much.

Cindy Loose: I don't see any reason to wait until the end of the month. What I would do is do a quick search for air fares, then a quick search for hotels so that I had an idea what I'd pay if I did it myself, then I'd search packages online, again to get an idea. Then, all else being equal, I'd call a local travel agent and see if they can come close to or do even better, either a better price or more of what you want in the package. Also, when doing comparison package to individual pieces, remember that those airport transfers can be worth quite a bit if the alternative is a cab downtown.

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Things learned in packing a suitcase:: Buy a box of gallon size storage bags. Use them to pack socks, underwear, shampoo etc and any other small items. It saves time sorting through the suitcase for things if like items are together. And if (boo-hoo) TSA searches your bags at least your panties aren't all over the floor!;

KC Summers: That's always a good thing.

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Princeton, NJ: nice to be back with you...looks like my wife and I will be in Athens for a week in April...thought I would take an extra week to visit the Islands.so many choices in the guidebooks..where to start for a first timer?..any thoughts?..Ionian, Cyclades, Dodecanese...we are more into history/culture than nightlife...thanks

Gary Lee: I was in your boat (first timer with an itch to explore islands in that region) a couple of years back. I opted for the Cyclades, in part because they're pretty accessible from the port of Piraeus, near Athens. Also, I was looking for history and culture. I was VERY happy with my choice of Naxos, Syros, Andros and Tinos. They were all different, very friendly and had just the right mix of culture, good food, etc.

Any other thoughts on Greek islands?

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Lorton, Va.: Two lessons from my travels in the past year:
- ALWAYS take sunscreen and insect repellant no matter where or when you are going. Biting insects live everywhere, even if the guidebook says they are bad in the dry season.

- Never take a vacation with you in-laws where the "plan" is to be nomadic gypsies in a developing country.

KC Summers: Oooh. I'm guessing there's a good story behind Hint No. 2....

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Russia shopping : If you love street markets then VDNX might be a good choice in Moscow along with Izmailovsky Park. Very strange and shouldn't be missed for the Soviet kitsch factor. A word about Izmailovsky - it is only open on the weekends and be prepared to haggle like crazy. In St. Petersburg I believe there is also an open air market right next to the Church of the Savior on Spilt Blood as well.

Gary Lee: Thanks for the good tips.

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Volunteer Vacations: A few years ago I participated in a volunteer vacation with Orphanage Outreach. The organization works with several orphanages in the Dominican Republic. It was one of the most amazing experiences and I'd completely recommend it!; The web address is www.orphanage-outreach.org

KC Summers: THanks much.

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Volunteer Vacations: This question comes up every now and then. Habitat for Humanity International runs "Global Village" trips to countries with HFHI chapters. You spend most of the time building homes with locals, but there is usually time left for exploring. And a portion of your fee goes to the Habitat affilate in the country you work in.

KC Summers: Another good volunteer recommendation. Thanks!

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Downtown, Washington, D.C.: I have tickets to San Juan this Friday, returning Monday, on U.S. Airways. What are the odds the airline will get me there and back, and is there anything I can do to improve my chances of getting there (and back) if they don't? I've heard the law requires for other airlines to honor the ticket of a defunct airline, but have no idea how that would work. I assume it's on a first come, first serve basis- any ideas on how to get to the top of the list?

Cindy Loose: Given that US Airways will be in court on the 15th seeking union concessions, I expect to see them flying Monday.

But yes, there is a law recently extended which requires operating airlines to transport people holding tickets on a defunct airline, on a space available basis. So, what anyone worrried about bankruptcy should do: 1. before you go do a search on orbiz, expedia or travelocity and know which airlines fly where you want to go about the same time you've ticketed, so if suddenly you need a ride, you know who to ask. 2. check seat availability on any given plane by going online or calling to ask if the plane is very full and 3. once you've identified options, get to the airport early. they won't ticket you until they've tried every which way to sell the ticket, but at least you'll be high on their list for seats that do remain empty come flying time.

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Response to BVI: Check out the Bitter End Yacht Club (www.beyc.com), especially if you are looking for a bit of shore leave. Magnificent food, fairly luxurious setting, all that jazz. Be sure to take one of the short hikes over the mountain. The views are breathtaking. I wouldn't want to stay too long - it's a bit "high fallutin'" for my taste - but it's worth a day or two.

Steve Hendrix: There's some dispute over the origin of the phrase, bitter end, which we now use to mean the unpleasant, if not unforseen, conclusion of something. Undoubtably it's a nautical term, probably from the deck posts or cleats called bitts (hense, the end of the rope that you would wind around the bitt is the bitter end). But I've heard at least one old salt claim that wooden ship masters used to dip the end of lines in turpentine or something bitter, so that hands could taste where the end of the rope was even when storms or darkness blinded them. Nice story, probably not true.

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20015: hey travel gang

question for ya - need to go to Spain this year in July for a wedding

am discovering that flights in July are expensive - alot of airlines were well over $1,000 - the best I could find was a ~$600 on an airline called Air Plus Comet - anyone ever heard of these guys?

Also is it possible that there are NO direct flights to Spain from the DC area - most seem to route me thru NYC from here

finally, any random Basque Country tips are appreciated!;

thanks

Gary Lee: I don't know that Basque country or Air Plus Comet but I can say that $600 for Spain in July -- high season -- sounds like a pretty decent deal. I can also tell you that no, you can't fly direct to Spain from the DC area. You've either got to connect in New York (or some other US city) or at a European port.

Any other ideas about Spain out there?

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Annapolis, Md.: I had been considering a visit to the Red Mountain Spa before your article and was perplexed there was no picture of the pool, causing me to fear it was either non-existant or deficient. My wife is pool obsessed so I need to know before I commit. What can you tell me? Thanks.

KC Summers: Sorry about that omission, Annapolis. I didn't focus on the pool scene because it was pretty darn cold when I was there in early December -- 40s during the day, 30s at night. There is a heated outdoor pool, open seasonally (April-November) and huge indoor one, plus two outdoor heated Jacuzzis. So plenty of places to splash around.

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Lessons from 2005: ON-LINE CHECK-IN!;!;!;!; I travel frequently on Southwest, and since the inception of on-line check-in, I now have an extra 45 minutes at home and still always get "A" boarding!;

KC Summers: Yes, that is a GREAT tip. Gotta love that A booking!

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East Lansing, Mich.:

I have vacation plans to travel to Thailand in August 2004. Assuming that tourist travel will not be possible along the ocean and nearby islands, what do you recommend I visit during my stay in Thailand.

Thanks

Cindy Loose: Don't assume you can't go to beaches--just stay away from those hit by the tsunami. The Thai tourism bureau can give you a full rundown. Off the top of my head I know that Phuket wouldn't get a great idea, but plenty of beach areas remain.

In Bangkok, be sure to see the floating markets, where people sell goods from little boats. You can choose to head north, to places like Chaing Mai. Options are unlimited--you need a good tour book to start considering them--but don't rule out all beaches.

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Vienna, Va.: I loved the essay and it's been getting me to dreaming of heading out to Snow Canyon Park for a backpack trip.

I wouldn't think of long hikes without two poles! It doesn't make it harder, it makes it easier! I suppose you do get some upper body workout, but mostly, it takes stress off your knees and gives you more stability. I disagree with rule #2--slickrock DOES live up to its slippery name--when wet! But gimme a set of hiking poles and that durn rock isn't going to intimidate even a wus like me!

KC Summers: Steve just said the same thing -- said he couldn't have made it up/down Kilimanjaro without them. I guess that custom just hasn't caught on in Snow Canyon. I'd try it, but I fear I'd drop the poles down some chasm and it would take me with them. The less stuff I have to cart around, the better.

Re slickrock, I was lucky enough to negotiate it dry -- mercifully.

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GloverPark, Washington, D.C.: Those planning to see Bryce and Zion should also consider Capitol Reef Natl Park as well, which is not too far from the other two. Cap Reef is quite spectacular, not well known - we had the place practically to our selves when we went after Labor Day.

KC Summers: Great advice, thanks.

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Bowie, Md.: What I learned this year: if you CAN go, you SHOULD go. Three times this year, I was on trips where I had the opportunity to go see something that was a little out of the way and not on the schedule. I was tempted to just stick to the trip I had planned, but if I had, I never would have seen Spiral Jetty at the Great Salt Lake in Utah, the ponies of Assateague National Seashore, or the mummers in Philadelphia on New Year's Day. I have such great memories (and some not-so-great ones that make funny stories) from all of these trips. Next time someone asks me, "Hey, do you want to go ...?" my answer will be a resounding "YES!"

KC Summers: Good approach to life in general, too. Thanks for the good thoughts.

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Vienna, Va.: I am going to Paris next month and I will need to pay cash for the apartment I rented. With the Dollar doing so poorly against the Euro, I thought perhaps I should buy Euros now, so that I get more for my buck. I plan to just use my ATM card once there, but for such a big expense I though I could save alot of money by getting a better exchange rate now. Is there any hope for the Dollar to rebound? Is this wise? And where would I go to get the Euros?

Gary Lee: Most of the experts I have talked to have said that there is little chance that the euro rate will change that much -- up or down -- in the next month. There is very little chance, they say, that the dollar will rebound that quickly. As for where to get euros here, most banks or Thomas Cook exchange offices stock them.

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Herndon, Va.: What I learned in 2004? Even if your foreign destination says it will accept other ID than a passport - get a passport!! I spent an extra 25 minutes at the Cancun airport because the "processor" wasn't sure about my other IDs. Meanwhile, anybody with a passport was zooming through.

KC Summers: Another great piece of advice, and one we parrot regularly. Everyone, even if you don't plan to go abroad, just do it.

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Chicago, Ill.: I've learned that a long layover doesn't have to be awful. My family and I were returning from Switzerland last week (St Moritz...wow) and had 8 hours in London. We went to Abbey road and took the obligatory picture walking across the road, my teenage son barefoot. Then Harrods for Pizza (back of the foodhall) and a stroll to Buckingham palace easily killed the day. And the kids thought it was the highlight of the trip! In St Moritz we stayed at a hotel called the Laudinella. Great location, good food, reasonable rates. Highly recommend it.

KC Summers: What a positive bunch you guys are today. Thanks for this.

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washington (the state): Learning in 2004 about traveling with my college-age kids: I traveled with my son to Palau for SCUBA diving--which he loves--and I went to NYC with my daughter and went to the theater every night--which she loves. So what I learned is that if I travel with one kid at a time and do what they want to do, I have loads more fun than if I try to make everyone happy at once. (I also learned that if I let my husband bring his bicycle--and go out on it for hours at a time, he's happy to go anywhere with me.)

I also learned that if you plan a family reunion for 50 relatives, half the family will think the place is too expensive and the other half will think the place is a dump.

KC Summers: Excellent. Thanks.

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Washington, DC: My father, who is 75, has decided that he wants to go to Machu Picchu this year. He and my mother are not in the best of health and there is a certain amount of bumbling on their part these days. Can you recommend an escorted tour for them? Possibly something that would meet them at the airport in Cusco, deal with luggage, transfer them to their hotel, have a few days of activities in Cusco, get them to Machu Picchu and back, and then see them to the airport? It would be great if it was specifically designed for seniors. Thanks.

Cindy Loose: I think you are right to be concerned. Unless they're Jacque Costeau or like that, I'd not want to see them hiking up by any means. Make sure they are aware too of the altitude issues. That said, looking for a tour meant for seniors sounds about right. Sorry I don't know one, but I'd start by checking out trips organized by and for aarp (american association of retired persons). Also Grand Circle focused on seniors, and OAT has a senior component and a great reputation. Just google for all those names and I think you'll find something right.

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Washington, DC: Smart trip ideas... Pack light!;!;

KC Summers: Amen to that. It's an art. One I haven't completely mastered.

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What I learned in 04: When universal advice says "don't leave items of value in your car" -- this means YOU!;

Report loss of property to the police wherever you are -- regardless of how helpful they may/may not be. Your insurance company will look for a police report.

If you have a good homeowner's policy, it will cover your loss. (Geico covered loss of all our luggage in Costa Rica.)

If you're lucky you may be able to replace a stolen passport in one day at the American Embassey.

On the bright side - there's much to be said for travelling without any luggage at all on the way home!;

KC Summers: Like I said, a positive bunch!

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New Zealand: On the South Island - there is a little town on the West Coast called Hokita or something similar to this. Has a few nice B&Bs and one of the best seafood restaurants I've been to in ages (too bad I can't remember its name)!; When I was there they had a fairly open kitchen and the chef was crazy funny so it was as much fun to watch him as it was to eat his food. We paid about $35 for a full dinner but this was in 2000 when the dollar was much stronger. remember the name of the restaurant but its been there for years and its a couple of blocks from the "downtown" area (meaning 2 whole blocks of shops!;)

Also Puzzling World outside of Wanaka on the South Island is fun if not a bit crazy if you like mazes and the like!;

Steve Hendrix: That's Hokitika (I assume), north of Mt. Cook and not too far from Franz Josef and Fox glaciers.

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Manassas Park, Va.: I am flying JetBlue to Sacramento in February with my three year old and a 1 year old. (Yes, by myself.) Three year old is mildly autistic and a little high energy, but I usually don't have noise problems with him, just lots of up and down. One year should sleep because both flights are fairly late at night. I booked two seats in the last row of the aircraft because bulkhead seating isn't released until check in at the airport. Do you think I am better off in the last row? I know some airlines no longer pre-board families, but due to my son's condition (no receptive language, can't take direction), I simply must. Should I call in advance or get a letter from his doctor or anything like that? Any other tips? I am extremely nervous travelling with both.

Andrea Sachs: Defintely call the airline and explain the situation. They will be able to find you the best seating, though it won't be in an exit row. I don't think the last row is the best, since it is often cramped back there and the seats don't go back. On the other hand, it might be darker, so the kids can sleep better. The airline can also assist you at the airport (and meet you on the Sacramento end as well) and can arrange pre-boarding (they still do offer it). Don't wait till the last-minute, though: Once they start boarding, their attention will be elsewhere. Approach the counter as soon as you get to the gate and inform the staff about your needs.
As for other stress-relievers, bring some snacks and drinks for them, since meal service is spotty. JetBlue also has a cool entertainment center that can keep any tot amused for hours, even if it is just changing the 24 channels.

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Kalorama, Washington, D.C.: My husband and I are planning a 2-week trip to China in May to visit friends who live in Beijing and Shanghai. We'd like to spend about 4 days in each city and then plan at least 1 trip on our own to a destination near or between the cities (so as not to wear out our welcome with our friends).

Do you have any suggestions for any 2-3 day trips near or between Shanghai and Beijing? Also, I tried doing some research on Expedia for flights and I feel like it might be better to use a travel agent who specializes in China. Are there any companies in the DC area that you recommend?

Thanks!

Anne McDonough: First, if you're going in May do you darndest not to be there the first week--May Day is stretched to a week, and the entire country is on vacation so trains, flights, hotels and sites are crowded, and some things you may want to see may not be on their normal schedule. I made that mistake last May with a group of folks who'd never been to China before, and while it did go off smoothly, I think heading over just a week later would have been a good idea. Airfare starts going up in May, as well. As for trips...from Beijing, Tianjin is just a two hours by commuter train and is a pretty nice city but if you're up for a quick flight then definitely head to Xi'an. Two full days there are enough, and then you could fly from there to Shanghai. Or, for a totally different experience, try Datong for the caves. I'm sure you'll be going to see the Wall while you're in Beijing, and since your friends live there they'll probably take you to an area not overwhelmed by tourists (Badaling and Mutianyu are supercrowded all the time; if you go during May Day week be prepared for an onslaught)--have them take you to Huanghua. It's incredible; we ended up hiking the crumbling Wall the entire next day to get back to Huairou, where you can catch a public bus or splurge for a taxi for the 1.5-2 hour ride back to Beijing proper. Popular day trips from Shanghai include Hangzhou and Suzhou; for a longer, incredible trip, take the train (14 hours I believe; alternatively, fly from either Beijing or Shanghai) to Tunxi and hike up (there are steps) among some haunting misty scenery at Huangshan. You can stay at the hotel at the top of the mountain and then hike down or take the cable car the next day. I've never worked with a local travel agent for China travel, but check out the issue from Sept. 26 for some tips on choosing one.

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Annandale, Va.: The one thing I learned:

Road signs in Italy are mere suggestions. If you are heading to a town, just keep driving, even if the town name disappears from the signs. It will always pop up 10 or 15 miles down the road again on another sign.

And, if something looks to be 2 hours away on a map, it's really 4. And it's totally worth it.

Also, for the piercing suggestion -- I have multiple piercings and have never had a problem, ever. Some of those piercings can close up between the time you take them out and by the time you get through security!

KC Summers: Really? Piercings can close up that fast? Or only in certain locations? Do we want to explore this topic further?

Good Italy driving tips.

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washingtonpost.com: Travel Agents, With Reservations, (Sept. 26, 2004)

Anne McDonough: For the China-bound, read this to help with travel agent questions.

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Timonium, Md.: Lessons learned in 2004: We took a 12 day biking trip in Germany/Austria in September and used compression bags and Zip locs for all of our clothing. The compression bags allow one to eliminate all of the air in the packed bag and thus save space in the suitcase. (We are not as adept as KC who allegedly can pack for such a trip using just her purse or carryon!) Plus the compression bag is clear, permitting the TSA screeners full view of the articles.
Sam

KC Summers: Oh, I've been meaning to try one of those things and now I really must. My downfall is coming home -- trying to cram in all my souvenirs and other purchases.

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Bethesda, Md.: Lessons learned:
1. BWI rocks! If it's really crowded, they'll go through the security line, prioritize passengers whose flights are about to leave, and get them checked through security.

2. Slip-on (off) shoes

3. Non-underwire bras (or be prepared for beeping)

4. Always carry food, just not utensils

KC Summers: Right on all four counts. I never travel without a baggie of trail mix. It's saved me from certain starvation more than once.

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Alexandria, Va.: I have a US Air flight voucher that expires in March. I was planning on calling them this week to schedule a flight for February. Is US Air required to honor the voucher?

Steve Hendrix: Why wouldn't they be? You mean because they are teetering on the edge of oblivion? Well, until they teeter right over, they are obliged to honor one of their own vouchers, dependent on what ever limitations are built into it. Use it quick, though. (No, no. I haven't heard anything. Just casting the bones like everybody else).

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Los Angeles, Calif. : What I learned this year: When you're flying with a
newborn, get ready for all those dirty looks from
fellow passengers that you used to dole out.

KC Summers: Yeah, it teaches you emphathy doesn't it?

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Ann Arbor, Mich.: Re: Orlando. It's a great place! I was a first-time visitor back in June, stayed at the Best Western I-Plaza on I-Drive. Everything is just about walking distance and there's great public transportation to Disney & Seaworld. I highly recommend "Bad Ass Coffee Co." for the espresso (and highly pun-charged tourist trinkets). Watch for the little sidewalk lizards -- the FL. equivalent of chipmonks.

Anne McDonough: Aha--but WHICH Best Western?! That's one thing that flummoxed me when we were down there in the fall--Orlando is land of myriad locations of a bazillion chain hotels with interchangable names (Orlando Random Hotel is not Random Hotel International Drive, nor is it International Drive Random Hotel). Go by the address of the place rather than the name as the same location will be listed 50 different ways on the various sites. Rant over. Thanks for the java tip.

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Washington, DC: Things I've learned:

#1 -- Even though I don't do it at home, journaling during travel can be very easy and rewarding. The key is not to pressure yourself to make every entry too "deep," or require yourself to write every day/hour/event. Just take a small tablet and jot a few things down you're inspired to remember (a quaint restaurant, a cool picnic spot, the address of a beatiful view). By the end you'll have record of all the places that are probably most important to you ... and likely some pretty interesting, thought-provoking entries, too.

#2 -- Ambien is a MIRACLE WORKER for those of us with sensitive circadian rhythms who travel to the other side of the pond but are scared of side-effects of over-the-counter sleep aids. Millions of thanks to the guru's (was it Steve?) for that tip.

KC Summers: I am loving these tips. Yes, several of us here are Ambien junkies, though for some reason it takes twice as much to put me out as it does Steve -- we haven't figured this one out.

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What I learned in 2004: Christmas carols sung by American Airline gate attendants over the PA system at O'Hare during a period of severe delays in advance of the holidays is not as calming as one might think.

KC Summers: Somehow we're not surprised.

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Waynesboro, Va.: Ms. Loose: about rental cars in Puerto Vallarta. Enjoyed the article on Santa Cruz, Mexico, but I heard the following from my son who was there in November. The rates quoted by you,were wonderful but he tells me that they are really not what you end up paying. Here is what he tells me:
"There is a type of liability insurance that Thrifty claims is mandatory by Mexican law. It was not LDW as I declined that(the cost was huge).It did not matter that my Visa covered the LDW part and my insurance covered the liability part. They would not rent a car without it. This insurance close to doubled the cost of the rental, advertised at around $99/per week. The total cost finally was $ 181. Other people I talked to said that they had to do the same. If it is really mandatory, it should be included in the rate".
What can you tell us about your experience with car rental companies? Thank you.

Cindy Loose: I know that car companies in Mexico often do put on the pressure so hard it seems they require insurance, and it costs as much or more than the car. What I can tell you is that I stated firmly on my trip to PV that I didn't want the car insurance, that I was covered, and I wasn't forced to pay. Also, a couple years ago I was in Cancun and the guy in front of me was told mandatory insurance was an extra $33 a day. When it was my turn I argued that I was already covered and would not pay, and they rented me the car. In neither case did the clerk know I was a travel writer. From that I don't know what to conclude--do you have to get lucky, or is being forceful enough, or does it vary by office? Can't say. Only know it seems to help if you have a printed reservation with the cost in black and white. I guess in your shoes I'd try asking the local Thrifty office to commit to a price and see if they'll promise you, in writing, that you won't be required to take the insurance. On the other hand, many thoughtful experts advise that you should get the insurance in Mexico cause if you get in an accident and can't show insurance coverage that satisifies them, bad police things can happen, or maybe you won't get tender loving care at the hospital. That is where my being a travel writer makes me more comfortable than if I were on my own, cause I figure one call to my office and my bosses will come to my rescue in one way or another. So, not a clear answer cause there isn't one, but I hope good for thinking about.

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For KC - Piercings: Depending on the piercing, yes. And depending on the person. I had some start to close up in less than 10 minutes, which proved to be painful!; Though mostly, you shouldn't take your piercings out unless you have something elese to put in (non-metal) to prevent bacteria or other things from potentially infecting it.

KC Summers: But why doesn't it heal up right away, like with earlobes?

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Bethesda Mom: What I learned. . . that generousity and courtesy spent while traveling will come back to you many times, while kvetching rarely gets you anywhere; that while traveling in a multi-age group of parents and kids, everyone will rise to the occasion and do something they think they don't want to do if they know that they will get a chance to pick an activity later; that everyone will melt down at least once but that's ok; and when staying in a friend's apartment in a foreign land, it's best to ask first how the odd-looking shower works before you drench the bathroom.

Happy trails!;

KC Summers: More great tips. Thanks!

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Re: Last week's posts: I've volunteered abroad with both Cross-Cultural Solutions and Habitat for Humanity, and they both were brilliant. Very different programs--Cross-Cultural is much smaller than Habitat and not religious--but, really, you can't go wrong with either.

As for the person going to Cambodia on a tour, take more than two days at Angkor. They sell one-day, three-day, and five- or six-day tickets. I only did a three-day, but could have easily spent the whole week there. Angkor Wat is merely the center piece of the city of Angkor, which is a conglomeration of some of the most spectacularly carved ruins in the world, spread over 220 square kilometers. More than two days, please.

And Siem Reap (the launching point for Angkor) is a fun little city. Lots of good, cheap food, good, cheap guesthouses, and music.

KC Summers: Thanks for this.

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Arlington, Va.: Dear Travel Gurus,
From my travels in 2004, I learned never to accidentally carry a pair of tiny manicure scissors in my carry-on through Houston Intercontinental Airport. The scissors, of course, were confiscated but my 6-inch long metal nail file, which was imminently more lethal, was totally ignored!(BTW, a decent pair of manicure scissors are not cheap to replace!)

KC Summers: Some airports let you mail your confiscated stuff home -- worth checking out.

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Greenbelt, Md.: I learned in 2004 that geese, no matter how pretty they look on a pond, are not my friends. They will bite, even if you are a confused dog, or a small child that has been trying to feed them breadcrumbs.

KC Summers: That's true! Geese are evil.

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Ann Arbor (again): I know, I know. I had it backwards:

Best Western Plaza International

http://www.bestwesternplaza.com/

Anne McDonough: Thanks for clarifying...Don't want to lead astray the parents of those two preteens heading to Orlando!

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Takoma park, Md.: What I learned in '04:

If all you have along is black pants, bring a lint roller too.

Invisible cats infest all hotel rooms with their hair. And airplane seats.

KC Summers: Hmm. Obviously I should be more fastidious.

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Alexandria, Va.: Good afternoon, everyone. I need some help. I'm going to be 36 next month and have sworn to myself that I would never again spend another birthday here because of the weather.

My birthday is the 16th, but the 3-day weekend follows. I am looking for a luxury hotel/spa-type of place to just get away for awhile. I also need to mentally regroup and just want to get away from everybody and everything for a couple of days so I will be going alone. (I don't know if it matters, but I am female)

Between airfare, and hotel (including any massage, facials, pampering stuff) I want to spend no more than 1200.00 I will probably order food in my and don't expect to dine out since I will be alone.

What say you for a good place?

Thanks.

Cindy Loose: Depends how hot you want it. If you went all the way to the Caribbean the airfare would force you to skimp on the room, treatments, etc. So, if it were me, I'd be thinking either Arizona or Florida, depending on whether or not you need beach with that, and maybe California. So, narrowed to three states, start googling or yahooing for the perfect match.

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Silver Spring, Md.: What I learned in '04:

You can buy underwear almost everywhere in the world. Don't bring too many pairs if you want to pack light.

And if you forget a belt, they sell 'em eveyrplace too.

KC Summers: So true! Thanks!

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Washington DC - Thailand: For the Thailand bound in August, don't forget that there is an entirely other side of Thailand that was not affected by the tsunami. I spent many a memorable week on the beaches of Koh Samui, Koh Phangan and Koh Tao. Do your research and I'm sure you can find your beach paradise on the China Sea side of Thailand.

Cindy Loose: Agreed, thanks much. In fact, there is something so romantic about the notion of swimming in the China sea, and the beaches themselves are great.

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Capitol Hill, Washington, D.C.: Hi!

My boyfriend and I are looking to take a trip to Eastern Europe ~late May. We'd like to see some Old World charm that hasn't been completely overrun by tourists yet (i.e. Prague). What do you think of Estonia, Latvia, etc? As we're a grad student and gov't worker, the cheaper the better.

Gary Lee: Either of the Baltic capitals would get you what you're looking for. My favorite of the three for architecture and culture is Vilnuis but you could pretty easily do all three in a week to 10 days. Some other options that may interest you are the Slovak Republic and Lvov and or Kiev in Ukraine.

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Things I Learned While Traveling in 2004: 1. As long as you're quiet and respectful of the other patrons, it's wonderful to spend time at a museum on the phone with your Mom, especially if she's been there before and can picture some of the more inspiring pieces in her memory. Emphasis on being quiet and respectful of the other patrons.

2. No matter what those -#$%!; signs in the London Underground say, the stairs are NOT your friend when you've got a big, unwieldly suitcase. Stay on the train and pick a stop with an elevator.

3. If you're in a country where they speak a language other than your own, and you studied that language at all (even just a couple of years in high school), force yourself to think about mundane things in that language. For example, as you ascend/descend a staircase, count the numbers to yourself in that language. It helps your mind recall a bit more, so you can read signs, menus, etc., just a bit better.

4. If you're surprised at how few mosquitoes there are by the lake, LOOK BEHIND YOU!;

5. If you want to add a bit of structure to an otherwise free-flowing vacation in another city, look in advance for little classes that might interest you. I signed up for a writing weekend with a friend, and those two days might well have been the best part of the whole trip.

6. Disconnect the battery from your camcorder before packing it. Unless you want to buy a cheap-o disposible camera in a local drugstore.

Finally, "mulled claret" is probably the best flavor of hard candy in the entire world. If there's something better, I want to try it.

KC Summers: I, for one, am intrigued by the last tip. Where'd you find those?

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Washington, D.C.: We are planning a trip to Disneyland this Spring. Do you have any recommendations for Disneyland, especially with preschoolers? I loved the hotel comparision recently in the travel section for WDW. Do you have articles on Disneyland? Thanks for any info.

Anne McDonough: We haven't covered Disneyland in a while so we're throwing this one out to our faithful traveling public to weigh in. Clicksters?

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Arlington, Va.: For the traveller to New Zealand--if you are at all into hiking, do not fail to take a hiking tour. We did the Kaikoura Coast Track in January 2000 and the Hollyford Track in 2002. In both cases, our bags were carried ahead for us and we slept in cottages with meals provided. The scenery was beautiful and the terrain was not so difficult that our pre-teen children couldn't do it. Each of these tours only lasted 3 days, so it still leaves you plenty of time for other fun things to do. Also, if you like mini-golf (and even if you don't) you've got to see the indoor minigolf course in Queenstown called "Caddyshack". It's incredible!

Steve Hendrix: Happy sigh.

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G'burg: Lesson Learned: When using a service like Travelocity to make flight arrangements, always check to make sure you are coming/going from the same airport...especially when you are driving to the airport. It's not fun to drive to Dulles only to discover on the way home that you are arriving to Reagan.

KC Summers: Ouch. Sorry this happened to you, and yes, that's a good, basic thing to check.

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BKK in the summer: If your schedule allows it, don't go to Thailand in the summer...you think we've got heat and humidity and swampiness here... you don't even want to think about what it's like there. Put it off until November if you can.

Floating markets are a bit of a tourist trap.

Definitely hit the floating hotel on the river kwai, it's awesome.

Cindy Loose: Tourist trap or not, I like the floating markets. And I'm not convinced they're just for tourists--how many tourist are buying fruit and vegetables? Besides, given how conjested the roads are, I think the river is a good alternative for getting around town. Don't know hte River Kwai except from the movie, but given the movie, I love the very sound of seeing it. Thanks.

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re: Thai Beaches: According to Lonely Planet's "Thorn Tree", Ko Samui is fine--and IMHO much nicer. Easy to pick up a package deal from a travel agent in BKK. Another great place, although more upscale, is the Sofitel Central Hua Hin. Hua Hin is about three hours by train from BKK, and is the choice of the Royal Family. The hotel is from the turn of the century, and is a 5- choice--it use to house the royal guests--right out of Kipling. At about $100 a night, it's a great deal--and the life size topiary garden is amazing!;

Cindy Loose: Thanks. Unless they have loads of time in Thailand, though, I'd advise making beach and other land plans in advance.

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what I learned last year...: 1. In Normandy, 60 years ago, the din was deafening - even as far away as Bayeux (which is miles from the beaches).

2. That they have a climber's cemetery in Zermatt which is 80% full of young men b/w ages 18-23, with a few women and a few men outside of that age range.

3. that San Francisco is -COLD- on July 4th. bring your scarves and gloves!;

4. That if your digital camera battery dies mid-picture, take it out, warm it up in your hands and do a little dance and chant and it will take at least 5 more pictures before really dying for good.

5. That if you arrive in Vevey (Lake Geneva) at midnight, you will wake up the next morning feeling as if you left Kansas and entered the Emerald City.

6. That St. Moritz has such romance attached to its name but when you get there it is concrete condo canyon. stay in Pontresina, as we did.

7. That before you decide to go on a vacation with a friend and share hotel rooms - find out just how bad the snoring habit is. Plan accordingly.

8. The Colosseum is simply staggering.

9. Rome has better shopping and style than Paris.

10. They have webcams all over London and you can stand in front of one and call a friend and they can look online and watch you waving!;

11. The Producers with Nathan Lane is still good even from nosebleed seats.

12. Vegas is a blast!; I had never been there before.

and much more...

KC Summers: These are great. You're right about No. 3, too. And 7!

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Arlington, Va.: This is late to the mom looking to vacation in Sanibel. We just got back. The island is still beautiful - Go! There are a lot of rental units out of commission but by March it should be better. Reserve now because that is high season and with the lower number of available units, it will be all booked up quickly. Sanibel is wonderful for little kids - the surf is extremely gentle and no slope so no drowning worries. The beach is actually wider since the hurricane and the shelling is great. There are bike paths galore and it is a wonderful family destination.

Cindy Loose: Thanks.

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Thailand: The islands in the Gulf of Thailand weren't touched by the tsunami. Ko Samui, Ko Phangnan, Ko Tao, and Ko Chang, among others, are still pristine destinations.

Cindy Loose: Thanks.

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Rockville, Md.: Lesson learned: when taking a tour, especially in remote areas, pack a good medical kit of your own and always be prepared to leave the tour. My guide was inexperienced and didn't even know if help would be available when I was Outback. I left the tour (and ended up living in a cave in Coober Pedy for several days. Got to witness a MadMax dust storm) and healed myself. No amount of money is worth compromising your health. And a med kit is worth the extra weight and a few less souveniers.

KC Summers: Goodness.

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Lorton, Va. again: Oh yes, its quite a good story. But its a little to fresh in my mind at the moment. Bed bugs, rain, high winds, 30 insect bites on my back, and 4 hours in a Rav4 almost every day on potholed dirt roads. Actually, I submitted parts of it earlier, only I think I used "Springfield, VA" in an attempt to disgusie myself from said in-laws. But they probably aren't reading. And there were some great parts of the trip also.

KC Summers: We'll take your word for it....

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Deep Valley, USA: In 2004 I learned that it is better to spend more on a decent hotel room than to skimp too much and be scared when walking back every night.

Skimp on lunch instead- have a picnic or something.

KC Summers: Good advice.

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Bowie, Md.: Another thing I learned in 2004: Mapquest is tempermental. It does not always give the right directions, and when you are driving to Mom's new house for Thanksgiving with a turkey in the front seat and a Labrador Retriever leashed in the back seat, you really need something more reliable. Like Microsoft Streets and Trips 2005.

KC Summers: True, again.

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River Kwai: You will not regret this...
www.riverkwaifloatel.com.

Cindy Loose: Thanks--I'm going to look it up too. Always open to an idea to sell my boss for a Thailand trip--love the place.

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Baltimore, Md.: My travel lesson for last year is "be nice." A smile and a thanks is great for improving your mood and making travel enjoyable. For the more cynical, is a great way to get upgrades, invited to do cool things, get tips for great unknown places, and generally find access that rude people don't get.

KC Summers: Awwww.

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Gaithersburg, Md.: Honeymooning in the Caribbean in May. I'm trying to decide between the Virgin Islands (Probably St. John), Antiqua, Saint Lucia or Turks and Caicos. Looking for a relaxing (read: no wild parties) place with more than just a beach to explore. Help Please?!?

Gary Lee: Any one of those options (with the possible exception of Antigua) would make for a wonderful honeymoon of the kind you're looking for. If I were to put your list in order of favorities based on my own experience, I'd say St. John, Turks, then St. Lucia. But you won't go wrong with either of them.

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Denver, Colo.: Not really things I learned while traveling last year, but habits I tried to keep to be a better traveler: Always be nice to the ticket & gate agents - they can upgrade you if they feel like it, even if you're not trying to get upgraded. Always let the middle seat have both of the armrests. If they're stuck in the middle it's the least you can do for them. I try not to put my seat back but sometimes have to because the person in front of me has taken out both of my kneecaps. So when I do, I make sure to put it back slightly and gently in case they have a drink on their tray.

I just wish everyone else would try and do the same!

KC Summers: You guys are so nice today, it's making us nervous.

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Washington, DC: Last year I learned that no, I really can't afford to stay at the Four Seasons. All those spa bills really add up.... And we negotiated a really good rate on the room (Chiang Mai).

KC Summers: How much?

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Anonymous: My wife and I are starting to seriously think about taking a year off and traveling the world. We have come into some money and, after putting some away, we expect to have about $30,000 to $50,000 to spend. Here are my questions…

Is this practical with the money figures I have given you? (take into account we have no problem staying in youth hostels)

Is there such a thing as an "around the world" plane ticket? If so, are they worth it?

Steve Hendrix: Oooooooooo. Cool. Go for it Mr. And Mrs. Anonymous.

If we can dig back far enough, stand by for a link to a piece I wrote years ago on the logistics of staying on the road for months—even years—at a time.

Back in '98, the travelers' rule of thumb was about $10,000 a year. Even with inflation, you should be fine (if you're happy in hostels and stay out of Europe as much as possible).

Yes, for info on the various around-the-world ticket options, look at airtrek.com or aroundtheworldtickets.com. To see whether it's worth it, you'll have to run the numbers compared to a more piecemeal approach.

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washingtonpost.com: The Travelers (Dec. 27, 1998)

Steve Hendrix: Here's the dusty old link from the previous millennium.

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Washington, DC: Am headed to China in late February with a friend—both women in our mid-twenties who look young. My friend read in a travel book that hotels can be "bargained" to rates up to 50 percent cheaper. Given language barriers, etc. I'm guessing this might be problematic. We're thinking of booking accommodations for at least our first couple of nights in advance and will probably be sticking to major metropolitan areas. Anyone have any experience with this?

Anne McDonough: Bargain for everything in China. I almost always got a bunch of kuai knocked off lodging prices--with the caveat that I don't normally book ahead and I stay in hovels and speak Mandarin. But I have friends who spoke not a word and their bargaining surpassed mine, so never fear. If you've already booked a few days, though, there's really no incentive for them to lower the price, though you could ask for an upgrade or move elsewhere after the initial night. Also, for established hotels, I've not used them for China but www.hotels4asia.com worked really well for another trip, and they have extensive China listings, so you might want to check it out.

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Washington, DC: Edinburgh in May? I'm planning on visiting Edinburgh this spring. Any input on weather, events/festivals etc. Has anyone ever been to Glasgow, and is it worth visiting?

Thanks!;

Andrea Sachs: The Edinburgh tourist office has a great listing of events for May. Just plug in the dates and you will learn that: the Newhaven Heritage Museum is celebrating its 10th anniversary with a retrospective, Geri Halliwell is performing (without the Spicettes) and the Heineken Cup final will be played (football and rugby). Info: www.edinburgh.org. There are also a number of music festivals countrywide, as well as a book festival in Wigtown, a walking festival, a whiskey festival and more (see www.visitscotland.com/library/mayevents).
Weather during that month is about 57 degrees, 0 percent chance of a hot day (90 degrees or higher) and 47 percent of a cloudy day. So, typical Scotland! As for Glasgow, yes it is worth it. Why? See www.seeglasgow.com for all the reasons.

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Capitol Hill, Washington, D.C.: Finland might be expensive, but hotels are cheaper than in most European countries, especially in the summer. And Iceland is certainly more expensive for travelers.

Cindy Loose: I think it all depends on the nitty gritty details in each locale--I certainly found reasonably priced lodging in the countryside of Iceland. Traveling to Helsinki and Finnish lapland in their popular Christmas season, I paid through the nose for lodging. When it comes to lodging, I think you can find reasonable and expensive in both countries. When it comes to food and other things, all of northern Europe tends to be high, and that fact is overlaid with the fact that the dollar is doing poorly compared with the currencies of developed nations, euro or nearby.
My point, I guess, is that if I were choosing an expensive destination in a cold part of Europe that has lots of open space left, I'd choose Iceland, unless it was the main cities I wanted, in which case Helsinki beats Rej. by a mile.

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Wash, DC--Jet Blue: Looking for info on Jet Blue- never used them before and my husband and I are flying to the west coast on them. They told me to bring drinks/snacks but what about entertainment...do they show movies or should I pack a ton of books?

Cindy Loose: personal movie devices--known for them, so don't worry about entertainment.

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Arlington, Va.: Hi Crew - love your chats! I'm a 37 year old woman who has traveled a lot in western Europe and I'm dying to go to Prague this year but I can't get any recommendations on where to stay or how much I can expect to pay. I have a couple questions: I'm tentatively planning on going in late April - is that a good time to go? I prefer to travel in the shoulder season if I can… Looking at Expedia, et al, the package prices for 5-6 days range wildly - from about $800 pp to $1800! How much do you think I should spend for a 5 day package per person including airfare, hotel, and transfers? Also, I know Prague has 5 distinct districts - is one district better than another as far as hotels (I'd rather be close to art and history than college kids, if it makes a difference). Thanks!

Anne McDonough: Ack, running out of time but most importantly find out when spring break is for most schools, and do anything you can to avoid being in Prague the same week. I stayed in Zizkov, which is about a 20 minute walk to the center of town and isn't really touristed, which is nice.

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Arlington, Va.: Hello, I just want to rant for a minute about Independence Air. I am so annoyed with them right now! They changed my flight time by 12 hours, so I thought I would call and try to get a better time. Well, I was on hold for over 2.5 hours! I finally had to give up (I do have a job to do). Since I was so angry I decided to send them an email. I got an automated response back saying they would respond in 72 hours and if the matter was urgent to call their help line. I was about ready to throw my computer out the window. I was emailing to complain about their phone help line and they tell me to call it!!!!

KC Summers: I, on the other hand, was struck over the holidays by how incredibly helpful the Independence Air staff at Dulles was to one elderly traveler. I was shepherding my aunt through the airport on an outbound flight, and every Fly-I employee we encountered was extremely kind and patient, from the curbside Skycaps to the patient ticket agents to the very nice wheelchair-pusher to the wonderful guy at the gate who dropped everything to physically help my aunt to her plane -- well, I was just bowled over with their kindness.

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Washington DC: Things I Learned:

Be good about keeping in touch with friends in far-flung places!; Last year we didn't have to pay for lodging in Seattle or San Francisco as we were able to bunk with buddies. Saving in one area means you can splurge in others -- my choice is always one amazing meal; sleeping on a friend's couch is worth it if you can eat the best seafood you've ever put in your mouth (thank you Seattle!;).

KC Summers: Good point. Thanks.

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East Falls Church, Va.: Re: Hiking poles - Actually, they make it EASIER for you!

We have a number of Italian friends who thought we were nuts NOT having poles the first time we joined them in hiking the Dolomites. We were practically the only ones without them. They are especially good on taking stress off your knees on the way down. As soon as we got home, we each bought a pair. They are a boon.

KC Summers: Okay, I'm trying these.

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Woodley Park, Washington, D.C.: Red Rocks spa - better for group, solo, or couples? What was most common?

KC Summers: I saw all three when I was there. I'd say an equal number of groups and couples -- maybe slightly more couples. But a very healthy sprinkling of solos, and everyone there was veyr welcoming and inclusive. There's a captain's table where singles can sit for dinner. It was really a good mix.

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Takoma Park, Md.: Last year I learned not to go automatically for the cheap hotels. Checking around and waiting a bit (for less popular travel dates,not for high season) can often reveal at least one good hotel that has a good deal.

Look at the big sites for leads (any three-star that shows up only 15% or so more expensive than the cheapos) and then check the hotel's own site which is often even a little lower.

Sometimes a new hotel or one that had low rates during renovation but is now done renovating can yield really good rates.

KC Summers: Thanks!

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St Louis, Mo. : I have a week long conference in Boston during the 1st week of May. I will have a lot of free time. What are the "Must See or Must Do" things? I hope to spend another week along the coast. Anything I should see? I've never been to the East coast at all.

KC Summers: We're running out of time, but if you do one thing in Boston, make it the Isabella Stewart Gardner Museum. It's AMAZING.

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washingtonpost.com: Sanibel Island, Under Cover No More, (Nov. 21. 2004)

Anne McDonough: Here's the Sanibel Island post-hurriane wrapup. Thanks, Kim!

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Adams Morgan, Washington, D.C.: The best travel tip I learned in 2004 was to wear flip flops on every flight. Even if I'm flying for business, there's time to change my shoes after the flight and it sure does save a lot of time and energy from taking off your shoes and potentially walking barefoot through security....wonder how often the floor/carpet is cleaned....ewwwww.

KC Summers: You'd find a kindred sole in Andrea.

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Washington, D.C.: I learned last year to check the fine print on Internet hotel rates before booking. I booked online for a several-night stay to save my employer a couple of $$$ on a last-minute business trip, and didn't realize until I checked in that I wouldn't earn frequent flyer miles for my stay.

KC Summers: Good tip, thanks.

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Chinatown, Washington, D.C.: This is such a silly thing, and yet it has saved me many a headache while stuck in security lines: I always carry a book with me--preferably something humorous. I already know I'm going to be stuck on a plan for a few hours, so why not pull the book out early and read some of it while in line? It certainly makes the time go by faster, and it's always a good conversation piece.

KC Summers: excellent, thanks.

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Deep Valley, USA: Here's a tip that saved me $25 or so at a nice hotel in Boston for MLK weekend:

If you find a good hotel deal on one of the main sites like Orbitz Expedia or Travelocity, don't forget to check the hotel site directly. If you qualify, the AAA or AARP rates are often even lower.

Same with those "book everything together and save" deals. Sometimes going direct to the hotel site gets you a lower rate.

KC Summers: Very good tip, thanks DV.

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Washington, DC: Here is what I learned in my travels last year:

I finally learned how to actually relax while on vacation. I am the sort that has a (mental) checklist of the things there are to see/do in a destination, and feel compelled to squeeze in as many as possible. This leads to rushing around, and ultimately becomes unpleasant for myself and travelling companion. Last year, I took a transtlantic cruise - 14 days with no stops. There was basically nothing to do but relax, play some board games, and socialize with other passengers. (Of course we ate a lot too!;!;) The "forced" idleness was wonderful - very relaxing and the interaction with the other people was great.

I think I can take the lessons learned from that trip, and use them when I go on my next land-based vacation, when, even though there will be countless things to visit, I won't feel compeeled to see them all.

Howard Brayer

KC Summers: A lovely thought to end on. Thanks, Howard.

Thanks to everyone for all the great questions, and sorry if we didn't get to yours -- we're plumb out of time. The Streets and Trips goes to Bowie, who really seems to need it. And the yoga book goes to Arlington, who learned the hard the way not to wear overalls to the airport. Send your contact info to me at summersk@washpost.com and we'll get the stuff out to you. Thanks for chatting, everyone, and we'll see you next week.

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