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The Flight Crew, from left: John Deiner, Carol Sottili, Steve Hendrix, Anne McDonough, Gary Lee, K.C. Summers, Cindy Loose, Andrea Sachs. (Melissa Cannarozzi - for The Post)

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The Flight Crew: Greetings, and welcome to this week's journey with the Travel Section Flight Crew. I'm John Deiner, your captain this week. Joining me are editor K.C. Summers, frequent contributors Andrea Sachs and Anne McDonough, and, of course, Our Fare Lady, Carol Sottili.

Ask away folks. Andrea is standing by for any queries on her Sunday story about weddings at all-inclusives in the Caribbean. And just a reminder now that there's no chat next week because of the holiday (we'll miss you too!).

Your task this week: Let's talk honeymoons, since we get lots of questions on the topic. Tell us about your honeymoon destination, for better or for worse. Keep it short and sweet, entertaining and informative. But mostly short. (And if you know where you're headed but haven't gotten married yet, let us know that, too).

I'm tossing out a big ol' box of stuff this week from the W Hotel in New York. Everyone on the staff has been longing for the big purple metallic twine box thing that the junque came in--it's really quite fetching. Inside there's some CDs, a candle, some candy bars. Very W, very yours if we pick your story as the best.

And away we go . . .

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Alexandria, Va.: Hi, here's a correction needed for an article in the Sunday Travel section.

In the article from the Sunday Travel section on Jackson, MS (http://www.washingtonpost.com/wp-dyn/articles/A5450-2004Jun25.html), the author incorrectly states there are no direct flights from Washington to Jackson. ("GETTING THERE: There are no nonstop flights from Washington to Jackson. Most major airlines fly there, including Delta (via Atlanta) and US Airways (via Charlotte, N.C.) , with rates from about $240 round trip.") Southwest Airlines flies several direct flights from BWI to Jackson. (http://www.southwest.com/)

The Flight Crew: Thanks, Alex. Of course, you're right, it was a dumb mistake on our part and we'll be running a correction tomorrow. The only silver lining in all this is that at least we know we're well-read, judging by all the folks who've written in to correct us! -- KC

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Crownsville, Md: We're planning a trip to Paris at the end of July and thought we remembered a recent story on good value hotels there. But I couldn't find it in the archives. Did I miss it? In the meantime, if anyone has recommendations of hotels under about 125 euros we would appreciate them!

washingtonpost.com: Cheap Sleeps in Paris (April 20, 1999)

The Flight Crew: Check out "Cheap Sleeps in Paris," which ran April 20, 1999.

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Dupont Circle, Washington, D.C.: Re: Bermuda blurb yesterday. I know you probably want to protect the innocent, but is there any chance that you would mention the rental apartments or at least the section of Bermuda where the backpack theft occured? We're headed there again in the first week of August to stay at our regular guest house and have always found Bermuda to be safe, safe, safe. Would like to quiz some local contacts on how they perceive things, and if this seems to be isolated to a particular area of the island. Thanks.

The Flight Crew: Hi DC, DC. I'm the one who lost my backpack, then found my backpack. I'd rather not name the place because I was remiss (repeat after me: lock the door, lock the door . . .), but I was on the south shore of the island in a real popular area not far from Horseshoe Bay and Warwick Long Bay. Every person I talked to--from the cops to store clerks--told me that the petty theft extends island-wide and includes big resorts, little apartments, private homes, mopeds, beach bags. You just have to be careful, just like anywhere. I'd go back in an absolute heartbeat and stay at the same exact place, but this time I'd be absolutely certain my door was locked!
-john

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Burke, Va.: What actions do you suggest to maximize
chances of flying to and from a
destination on a carrier with a shaky
financial past (and future)? Our child is
scheduled to fly Alitalia to Palermo, Italy
next month, with a return at the end of
August. The ticket was purchased with a
credit card online through Student
Universe. She has flight insurance and
will sign up for email notification of flight
changes hours before departure. We
check the business section periodically
for news of Alitalia. Is there anything else
we should be doing? Thanks.

The Flight Crew: Sottili here: Latest reports say that Alitalia has enough cash to operate through mid-September. So you should be okay. An aside - make sure you read the fine print on travel insurance - some will only cover certain companies, airlines that are in good financial shape.

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Wonderful honeymoon: My husband and I spent two weeks in Greece. We flew from Athens to Santorini and spent 5 beautiful days there. Ia was just gorgeous and I can't even explain the sunsets, and the town of Fira was so fun to explore. After all the wedding chaos, we were so relaxed and so happy. After Santorini, we flew to Crete for another 5 days. Although Crete was wonderful as well, nothing compares to our days in Santorini. We spent two days in Athens on the way home, and I'm glad we saw all the sites there, but Athens was hectic and way too busy for a honeymoon destination. The food was perfect, the weather was amazing, and we just missed the summer rush on the islands. We can't wait to return!;

The Flight Crew: Sounds great, WH--a real trip of a lifetime. So, of course, I hope you can do it again as quickly as possible.

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Bowie, Md: Honeymoon- April, 1978: After THREE separate ceremonies in 2 days to satisfy our families (that's ANOTHER STORY), flew to Acapulco. Checked into the Fiesta Americana and, after a LONG flight, went upstairs & used the facilities. One flush and the room was FLOODED. Called the desk, "no rooms available to switch to....so, come down and have a drink on us while we clean up." FOUR HOURS LATER (and several shots of tequila & beer), went back upstairs and promptly fell asleep. THEN Our romantic honeymoon dinner: a BLT at midnight, at Denny's, in Acapulco. Nothing else was open. Yes, we're still married.

The Flight Crew: Oh, NO, bowie. Sounds PRETTY BAD, but ya know, Denny's BLTs are pretty good. THANKS for sharing! (Truly, doesn't sound real romantic, but at least it was memorable.)

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Arlington, Va.: Why are cruise ships so discrimanatory towards single travelers? I bet that a cruise ship that makes single cabins available without the extra cost would make a fortune!

The Flight Crew: Sottili here: As long as they can fill the cabins with two people paying twice as much as one person, that'll be the norm. I don't know that it's discriminatory. Most tours are the same - prices are based on double occupancy and you pay a hefty single fee. Some companies, such as Norwegian Coastal Voyage, offer deals for single travelers every now and again.

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Honeymoon, Illinois: The first night of our honeymoon we drove into Illinois
without a hotel reservation. It was 1965 and not every
interstate exit had places to stay like they do now. We
finally got off and drove around the Peoria area. It turned
out there was a softball tournament and everywhere was
filled. One nice motel took pity on us and put us into the
owner's room (he wasn't there). So there were personal
toiletries on the dresser and it felt a little weird. We were
starving, so went to a nearby drive-in and got burgers to
go, ate them sitting on the bed!;
PS: I love purple boxes!;!;

The Flight Crew: Hey, Illinois. This purple box is to die for. It's the purplest purple box we've ever received. (And I love that someone else's personal toiletries were on your dresser!)

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Alexandria, Va.: Hi Travel gurus,

Andrea -- great story this weekend. After bridesmaiding this weekend in an "affair to remember" where the total bill was about $50K and I was told that was cheap, I'm amazed at how affordable it seems to do a wedding in Jamaica!

My question today though is about traveling to Cuba. I'm going LEGALLY on and educational research tour -- one of the few before the ban goes into affect at the end of July.

We'll be mainly in Havana (though i'd like to visit other places). Any must sees for dancing, dining or snorkeling?? this would be after the researching of course.

keep up the great work!

The Flight Crew: Thanks so much; glad you liked the piece (and glad I didn't have to give nine gifts). As for Cuba, Cindy is our Havana guide, and she is traveling this week. But post your question again after the holiday and maybe she can give you some suggestions.
Unless anyone has some ideas....-andrea

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Chantilly, Va.: Hello. Please help. I'm moving to the UK shortly, and though having been there before, am still confused on the tipping customs there. Cab drivers seemed used to it, but tipping in the pubs seemed uncustomary to them. What everyone's take?

The Flight Crew: Sottili here: All I know is that my friends in England think Americans are absolutely crazy for tipping everyone. They say that tips are included in the prices in England, and don't understand why we don't do the same here.

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Capitol Hill, Washington, D.C.: I'm sure many people will consider this boring but my wife and I went to Sandals St. Lucia a few years ago.

It was perfect, just want we needed. We loved the fact that everything was really included which made for a relaxing trip.

However, word to the wise. If your resorts resturants require resvervations, be sure to make them as soon as you get there or maybe even before you get there. We almost missed out.

The Flight Crew: Thanks, CH--and I"m glad you go the reservations you wanted. Great suggestion.

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Owings, Md.: For our honeymoon (almost 15 years ago), we went to a very small all-inclusive resort on Eleuthra - one of the smaller islands of the Bahamas. We thought we wanted something small, quiet and peaceful. Although it was perfectly nice, it was almost too out of the way. One on one time with my new husband was great, but it would have been nice to see at least one other couple at the bar at night. Three years ago, we took a second honeymoon on Maui - and that was wonderful. It was particularly nice to take a break in the day to day hassles of work, kids, dogs and remind ourselves that if we had to do it all over again, we would. He's my best friend - still - and my favorite travel companion.

The Flight Crew: Thanks, Owings. Nice when your spouse turns out to be a great travel companion, isn't it?

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Annapolis, Md.: We went to the Channel Islands (in the English Channel) for our honeymoon and then returned for our 10th anniversary. Guernsey, Jersey, and Sark are best known in the US for their cows and their tax shelter opportunities but they are popular places for Brits looking for sun and fun while "on holiday". We didn't meet another American for the 2 1/2 weeks of our honeymoon but had a great time in a beautiful, fun, low-stress environment. There are flights to Guernsey or Jersey from London on British Airways (and other airlines) or you can take the ferry from several spots along the southern coast of England or the northern coast of France.

The Flight Crew: Nice, Ann. Thanks for chipping in.

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Washington, D.C.: Oh Wonderful Gurus! I hope you can help me. I'm going to Europe leaving July 4th for 2 weeks and I wanted to spend a night in Berlin during my visit - I would take the train there...what hotel would you recommend for one night for 3 people? and what night can I get the cheapest rate? it does not have to be a weekend. what are the not to miss things to do and see in Berlin? Thank you very much for your advice.

The Flight Crew: Hey DC--Okay, so I can't recommend a specific hotel (something tells me you don't want a hostel...but if you did, the Backpacker in Mitte is great...), and so will rely on the clicksters to come up with some ideas, but as for what to do in Berlin... It's an incredible city--if you only have a day, I suggest taking one of the Berlin Walks--they leave from the Zoo station on the U-bahn 2, and very well-informed guides take you all over the city on foot and on the subway system so you really get a sense of the city and hit all of the top spots like Brandenburger Tor. On your own, the museums near Potsdamer Platz are fantastic, and for outdoor art head to the East Side Gallery, a mile-long remaining stretch of the Wall that has been painted by various international artists. The area around there has also been turned into a beach, as well (we'll hopefully link to a Travel piece about just that). Catch a cabaret show, meander through the Tiergarten, don't miss the Checkpoint Charlie Museum.
--Anne

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Washington DC: Not a question, really, but a comment. Your article mentions Sandals resorts and even notes that they have a couples-only policy. What it doesn't say is that it is even more limited-that is, it is a heterosexual couples only policy. My partner and I are definitely a couple but we are not welcome at Sandals. I recognize that as a private business, this type of discrimination is sadly permissible, but I would hope that the Washington Post would either refuse to promote this business or, just as good, at least provide this information to your readers.

Thanks!;

Shawn G.

The Flight Crew: Yes, you are right. They are boy-girl, husband-wife, X-Y chromosome couples only. And we have mentioned their policy again and again in our section.--andrea

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Washington, DC: Where can you go and have a really nice and romantic weekend without the entire trip being so costly? Can you suggest some nice places?

D

The Flight Crew: Wash, not sure what kind of budget you're talking about or how far you want to go, but you could save on transportation costs by driving somewhere, then splurge a little on the accommodations. For instance, drive just an hour out to the Virginia hunt country and stay at L'Auberge Provencale, a wonderful French country inn set among rollinjg hills and split rail fences. It's very romantic and the food is fabulous, and it's a fraction of what the Inn at Little Washington would cost.

If you're thinking of something a little farther flung, take a look at the destinations served by low-fare carriers. Fly cheap to Providence (Southwest) or Chicago (Independence Air) and find a cozy B&B in the heart of the city.

Or how about a cabin in the woods in a state park? Could be very romantic. -- KC

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Honeymoo,ON (FFX Cty, VA): My husband and I paid for our wedding and decided to go fairly cheap on the honeymoon. We chose a cruise along the California coast into Baja Mexico.

We were the youngest people on the cruise by probably 30 years. (Although I did win $500 playing Bingo!;!;) I can't begin to explain how difficult meal times were (someone always forgot their eyeglasses and couldn't read the menu). We did meet a nice couple on their 30th anniversary cruise -- they told us how their children didn't even pitch in to pay for the trip.

The highlight was that we liked some of the places we stopped (although the excursions were another story).

I have told everyone else I know never to take an "unknown" cruise or try to skimp on the honeymoon.....it just isn't worth it!;!;

The Flight Crew: Thank God for the bingo win! Thanks for the memories.

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Bethesda, Md.: Went to Paradise Island Resort and Casino in the Bahamas. It was fair to middlin'. Not much organized activity on Paradise Island in those days except for gambling. I'll take my future wife though (whoever that may be) now that Atlantis is open.

The Flight Crew: Atlantis is definitely cool. . . good luck in the search.

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Washington, DC: Hi,

I need to fly to Montreal the weekend of September 3-5. Right now I'm not seeing fares any lower than about $320. Do you think this will go down as the date gets closer? Are there any discount airlines that fly to Montreal? Thanks!;

The Flight Crew: Sottili here: There really are no discount fares to Montreal. Once in awhile, an e-saver fare will come along, but that won't work if you need to be there on a specific weekend. Cheapest I've seen recently is about $280 round trip, but that's not being offered over Labor Day weekend.

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Manassas, Va.: Honeymooned many years ago in Jackson Hole WY. Hectic pace of wedding meant luggage was left at home. Father delivered to Hotel an hour before flight, however he locked bags with a key which would lock but not unlock bags. Had to get hotel maintenance on Sunday morning to unlock, otherwise would have had to wear rented tux for two weeks. Mother and Mother-In-Law literally had them hold plane, we were last aboard. Crew gave us two bottles of wine as wedding gift. We shared with passengers as compensation for slight delay they endured. Would not happen post 9/11.

The Flight Crew: Oh, who needs luggage on a honeymoon?!? Thanks for sharing.

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Arlington, Va.: We got sucked into the wedding vortex and ended up at the Sandals in Ochos Rios. I don't know what we were thinking, we are not sit on the beach and drink all day people and we definitely aren't the sort to seek out those instant vacation friendships with other couples, but the allure of all-inclusive clouded our judgement. Two days into our week trip we were sunburned, hung-over, and bored out of our minds. We ended up spending as much on excursions as we did on the trip itself, just to get out of the compound and do something.

The Flight Crew: Ewwwwwww. Arl, that sounds awful. Sounds like you need a second honeymoon.

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Alexandria, Va.: For our honeymoon (just 3 short months ago!), we decided that while sitting on a beach is nice, we would get bored... so we went to Las Vegas instead! Lucked into a good deal at THEhotel at Mandalay Bay (huge suite), visited almost every strip casino (playing one slot machine in each), had a fancy meal at Prime in Bellagio, and rode rollercoasters- it was great!

The Flight Crew: Hey, Al...write us back and give us a mini review of TheHotel. Haven't checked it out yet, and it's supposed to be pretty nice.

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Tyler, Tex.: What will Cooperstown, New York, be like during
the Baseball Hall of Fame induction week, July 23
- 30? My grandson will be playing in a
tournament, but we don't want to go if it is jammed
like Branson, MO.

The Flight Crew: Hey, Tyler. My brother and his friends go every year, and it's a zoo. They usually book a room months in advance, and restaurants/bars are packed. That said, they LOVE the zoo. They wait for it every year--it's their big trip.
-john

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Honeymoon Destination...: Got married in October of 96. Wife's company was in the middle of Federal Buying Season, so they only gave her 2 days off for our honeymoon. Given the lack of time, we decided to go local and be by ourselves for a long weekend in Fenwick Island. On the day after our wedding, we drove to Fenwick...just in time for the tropical storm to hit. It was a torrential downfall for 2 days. Still owe her a better vacation....

The Flight Crew: Man, it's been nearly eight years. Pick up the phone and book something NOW. Thanks for the story!

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Rockville, Md.: Honeymoon trip:Sanibel Island. We had 45 guests for our wedding on a picture perfect day and then spent the next 12 days, sightseeing, shelling, sport boat rentals, watching the sunset and best of all the people there are fantastic. We already went back this year and plan to make it a yearly visit. Definitely worth visiting.

The Flight Crew: Sanibel rocks, Rockville.

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Washington, DC: I'm a bit clueless. My husband and I will be flying out to LA (for $270, after tax each, was that a good fare?) in August. We want to spend half the week at a beach but don't know where to go. We're completely unfamiliar with the area and need a recommendation for place and hotel. We're looking for a good beach to swim and read, a hotel preferably on the beach, and something affordable for 2 people on grad school budgets. Also, tips on what to do in LA would be great. We're not interested in doing Hollywood but if there's hiking taht would be great. Help? Sorry to be such a mess.

The Flight Crew: If you want to stay close to L.A. then I suggest the Inn at Playa Del Rey, a cute B&B just minutes from the long stretch of beach (north of Rodondo, south of Venice) that you can cycle along (there's a bike path and the inn has free bikes, at least when I stayed there), play volleyball or just soak up the rays. Manhattan Beach is also a great area, full of fun shops and restaurants (you can bike there and lock up while you tour). Also check out the freak show at Venice Beach. As for hiking, definitely hit the Hollywood Hills trails. There are also a lot of great parks with hiking: Malibu State Park and Topanga State Park, for example.--andrea

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Bethesda, Md.: I'm heading to Montauk this weekend. It's my first trip to Long Island ever and am looking for your expert suggestions on any must-do's. Thanks!

The Flight Crew: Sottili here: As a LI native, I'm so sure you're gonna have fun! I'd just park myself at the beach, but you can golf (Montauk Downs State Park), you can tour the lighthouse, go deep-sea fishing, eat at Gosman's, shop. If you're driving, get ready for a long haul from here to there.

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Washington DC: Our honeymoon last year was Scotland in March. Chilly weather = lots of snuggling. Driving through beautiful glens = pictures that still take our breath away. Relaxing with the locals in a pub, glass in hand, listening to a great music session = wonderful memories. Looking through our photo album together = planning our next visit!;

The Flight Crew: Snuggling plus pictures plus wonderful memories plus return visit = our thanks for sharing.

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Crownsville: Hi, thanks for posting the link to cheap sleeps in Paris. But was hoping (and thinking) you had something more recent...?

The Flight Crew: We don't at the moment (our Paris guru Gary is out of the office this week) but if anyone else has suggestions, bring them on ...

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Future Honeymooners, Gaithersburg, Md.: Our honeymoon is this fall and we are taking a 10 southern carribean cruise. It is going to fabulous. We got R/T air for less than $300 total for the both of us to Ft. Lauderdale. We splurged on the room and got a Premuim Oceanview room. My fiance and I love to cruise and cannot wait to go. We also booked it for 2 weeks after the wedding because it was a little cheaper.

By the way, we are still looking for a hotel in Ft. Lauderdale for the night before the cruise. Any suggestions are appreciated...

The Flight Crew: Sounds great, Gaithersburg. Glad to hear you splurged--if not for your honeymoon, when?

And what do you say, guys...any suggestions on Fort Lauderdale hotels?

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Washington, D.C.: With Independence Air now operating out of Dulles, will airlines also discount flights out of National too? It seems like the airlines that have matched are only matching out of Dulles. Think it'll make a difference for those of us who don't like making the trek?

The Flight Crew: Sottili here: Airtran and Spiritair are already at National. Limited number of take-off, landing slots there, so I don't see any major push like Independence at Dulles (plus Independence was already operating out of Dulles as Atlantic Coast).

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Philadelphia, Pa.: Great article on destination weddings! Have you ever considered doing one on "destination"/resort town weddings...just a little closer to home (as a follow up)? I'm getting married in August on a beach in a resort town (Wildwood) in southern NJ... an island not too far from DC. Wildwood is reasonably priced & packed full of family fun. If you're interested in doing a story on "destination" weddings that are a bit closer to home, please let me know. I'd be happy to share our story.

The Flight Crew: Thanks! Glad you liked it.
I think we are wedding-ied out for the moment, so we'll have to save that story for another wedding season. But congrats!--andrea

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Wilmington, Del.: I am travelling to DC this Friday from Wilmington, DE. What time of day would be best to avoid the Fourth of July backups on I-95?

The Flight Crew: Hey, Del. Here's my best guess...anytime before 10 a.m. or after 10 p.m. would be the best times. Just keep your ears glued to the traffic reports.
-john

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Very broad question....: Good afternoon, and thank you. Wife and I booked a trip to St. Lucia in September. What can I do to ensure the sun doesn't scrape my pasty white chalk skin clean off my carcass within an hour of being on the beach? Also, never having been...if anyone out there in Chatville has been there and could offer some pointers, I'll name our next cat after you.

The Flight Crew: Who you calling a broad? Hey, VBQ, we feel your pain, sun-wise. But we also love the beach -- the two don't have to be mutually exclusive. My formula for success is pretty basic: Apply SPF 30+ early and often (don't forget your lips), wear a hat, sit under an umbrella, wear sunglasses (you can fry your eyes, too). And for God's sake cover up. Consider wearing an SPF-permeated shirt and pants. REI had some good-looking stuff last time I checked. Also check magellans.com and travelsmith.com.

As for St. Lucia pointers: Chatters?

-- KC

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Orange, Va.: Got married at a busy time of year for both of us workwise so we delayed the honeymoon until the Christmas holidays. It was well worth the two month wait. Stayed for a week at a resort--Wild Dunes--at the end of the Isle of Psalms near Charleston, South Carolina. Just a great time of the year to be at the beach. Cheaper, way fewer people, and, perhaps most importantly, we avoided having to play the which family do we spend our first Christmas with game.

The Flight Crew: Thanks, Orange. And isn't that the worst Christmas game ever?? Congrats for missing the first round.

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Silver Spring, Md.: Personal question: What does K.C. stand for K.C. Summers? Is it really Kansas City?

The Flight Crew: If anyone can guess, we'll send 'em a prize.

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Arlington, Va.: Honeymoon story: Hubbie and I went to Dublin and London for our HM in 2002. Stayed at a lovely, tiny hotel in London, complete with little calling cards provided to us when we checked in as newly-weds. After 10 days of non-stop togetherness, hubbie and I decided to 'split up' for an afternoon and sight-see on our own because we wanted to see different sites. I got back to the hotel before my husband, and when the front desk saw me alone, they asked where my husband was. I said "Oh, we split up." Well, imagine the shocked look on their faces -- they thought we were heading for divorce court in the middle of our honeymoon, not just apart for 3 hours! Whoops! We had a good laugh once I set them straight, and I'll be more careful in the future how I phrase my thoughts!

The Flight Crew: Yeah, Arl...there's plenty of time to actually mean it! Sounds like the best type of getaway--you only had to unpack once, and what a city to spend 10 days in. Thanks for the story.

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Bethesda, Md.: Hey Crew!

I'm about to head to the Pacific Northwest w/ my wife and three kids (ranging from 5 to 12) for my father-in-law's 70th birthday.

We have two free days on our schedule and are trying to decide between visiting Vancouver or Victoria.

Which one do you think would be the better family experience for two days?

The Flight Crew: Sottili here: That's a tough one. Vancouver is a great little city - reminds me of San Diego before San Diego grew up. I've not been to Victoria, but many say that it's really quaint, pretty. Have you considered which one is easier to get to from wherever you're headed? With three kids, that's a consideration.

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San Francisco, Calif.: When I was in Paris just this past September, I stayed at Hotel de Palais Bourgonne (or something like that, I forget the exact name, but that should help). It's in the 7th, near two metro stations, right around the corner from the Rodin museum, and I think that it was around 66 euro a night. I made all of the reservations on the internet (they have a website), and they were friendly and nice, and had free breakfast. The room was tiny, but fine. I'd recommend it.

The Flight Crew: Here you go. Thanks, SF.

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Washington, DC: Hi Group,

My wife works with a colleague whose parents retired to San Miguel de Allende, Mexico, In asking around we've learned that it is also an excellent place to visit. I've looked at several web sites that praise this city from many aspects: cost of living, climate, people, etc.
Can any of you give me any "inside"information on San Miguel that usually does not find its way on to web sites; that is, what's it's really like.
Thanks.

The Flight Crew: Wash, we had a piece about a year ago that might be helpful. Link coming up.... And if anyone out there wants to add their 2 cents, please do so.

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washingtonpost.com: Under San Miguel's Spell, (Nov. 16, 2003)

The Flight Crew: For the San Miguel-bound.

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Arlington, Va: My fiance and I were in Greece for our honeymoon after we got married in Cyprus. First, there was a controversy about whether we would be married by the Greek Orthodox priest or the turkish official who conducted weddings. Then when it came to take our Olympic flight to our Greek island, Santorini, for the honeymoon, high winds grounded the small plane and we had to take a ferry. Then on the honeymoon, my then wife coated herself with olive oil (extra virgin) for the night's festivities, fell down and broke her leg and remained off her feet (and not in a good way) for the rest of the trip. And no, we split up.

The Flight Crew: Man, is everybody married out there? These stories rock...I'm going to try to send out as many as possible. (And sorry to read that ending, Arl!)

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East Falls Church, Va.: I never got to do my post-college bumming-around-Europe thing, and now I am in a state of regret. Is it at all possible to recreate that freedom and energy at 43? How long would be long enough to get the flavor(I do have a mortgage to consider). And, if possible, with or without husband and kids?

The Flight Crew: Hey East Falls--Go! A month-long trip needn't break the bank, and granted, I'm speaking as a someone without husband or kids, but I've always met so many incredible people while backpacking and find that it's much, much easier to get to know fellow travelers when you're on your own rather than with people you know and love. And not just travelers--getting to know the people who actually live in the areas you're seeing for the first time is a huge reason for being there, too, of course, and I've always found that eating solo is a great way to meet locals--strike up a conversation with the waiters, the bartenders, the owners and you'll get the inside scoop on the best places to go.
I'd pick a starting and ending point, and make reservations at a hostel or small hotel (while staying in a nice place is, uh, nice, I've always found it harder to meet people that way) in the first city, and then let the rest of the itinerary be left up to that day's whims and the tips and itineraries of other travelers. As for being 43--I met absolutely the most energetic and fun and incredible traveler, on her 13th trip to China (the 8th as a solo traveler--and she had 30 years on you. So, go!!
--Anne

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Washington, DC: We honeymooned in French Polynesia (Huahine, Raieatea, and Bora Bora). We also forgot something important -- our inter island place tickets. We were on the airport shuttle bus when we remembered. Fortunately, someone let us use her cell phone. We called my parents and had them put the tickets on the next Airporter bus. My husband met the bus (with a nice tip in hand) and got the tickets, joining me in the check-in line. That's called service.

The Flight Crew: Thanks, D.C. . . . tragedy averted!

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washingtonpost.com: Das Beach, (Sept. 21, 2003)

The Flight Crew: Here's the Berlin story...thanks .com!
--Anne

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Georgetown, Washington, D.C.: We honeymoon every year. Our anniversary in New Years Eve -- on our original honeymoon - we went to a Club Med in the Carribean - which was ok - so now, we keep trying to do it right each year. One year was Vienna for a big ball and the New Years Concert; Prague for the big party in the sqaure and fabulous music EVERYWHERE; France for a great dinner in Reims; London for lots of great shows, Las Vegas for great food and fun. Now - we are up to our tenth anniversary and want to do something really wonderful (but closer to home) we want to try the Carribean again but can't seem to nail down the spot...

The Flight Crew: I love that Georgetown...a honeymoon every year. Congrats on No 10--let us know when you pick a spot.

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Alexandria, Va.: Hi,

My husband and I got married in Key West in Nov. 1999 to avoid the hassles of a bigger local wedding here in DC. I have a friend who's a travel agent in FLL, and she gave me the name of the wedding coordinator at the Wyndham Casa Marina hotel - a wonderful woman named Sarah Gilbertson, who helped me plan all aspects of our wedding. We had 26 people total, including us. "Rehearsal" dinner was at Turtle Kraals. Our wedding was at the Reach resort (also a Wyndham property) on a deck overlooking the beach/ocean. Great time!

Honeymooned at Sandals St. Lucia (the golf resort one). We took the dive class, snorkled, and did a few water sports but mostly just lounged around the pool/beach and drank. Only mistake we made was on route from EYW to St. Lucia. We flew to MIA first and spent the night there, then had a crack-o-dawn flight to San Juan and connected to St. Lucia. We should have flown to San Juan the previous day and spent the night there, then flown the next day to St. Lucia. Would've been able to see some of San Juan other than the airport that way!

The Flight Crew: Thanks, Al.

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Washington, DC: Does anyone have experience with gate1travel.com? Traveled with them? Are they reliable? I'm looking to take advantage of one of their cheap vacations but want to make sure I don't get fleeced. Thank you,

The Flight Crew: We have never gone on one of their trips but they have been around for awhile (so they have endurance in a mean Web world), plus Carol frequently highlights their travel deals in her What's the Deal? column. So, as long as you use a credit card to protect yourself, you should be good to go.
However, if anyone has an anecdotal evidence, please speak uo.--andrea

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Lincoln Park, Washington, D.C.: We went to Bali and Kyoto on our honeymoon. Bali still is to me the best possible choice for a honeymoon destination. Exotic yet accessible culture, hot yet tolerable climate, luxurious yet affordable accommodations. One feels totally removed from the daily grind by the mystical rhytm of life there. Beaches are world-class, the island is big enough for seeing different landscapes, yet small enough to feel like you are on an island. Pure bliss.

The Flight Crew: I wanna be there now. Thanks for sharing.

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Re: Wilmington, DE: My folks live in Newark DE so I do this drive a lot...your worst traffic backups will probably be between wilmington & the toll plaza at the DE state line, and again at the Baltimore tunnel. Wait 'till evening to head down & consider using Route 40 as an alternate option for part of the way.

The Flight Crew: GREAT suggestion, Wilm. Thanks.

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Truth or Consequences, NM: I'm going to be flying to Australia in August. I may be getting married, but that hasn't been decided yet. I would like to know if on an Electronic Traval Visa are you allowed to buy a one way ticket there, then buy one back, or do you need to buy a round trup. Also why is it so much more expensive to get a round trup ticket there the longer you want to stay. I can get a round trip ticket for just over $800.00 if I only want to stay one week, but I want one for three months, which almost doubles the price.

The Flight Crew: Sottili here: I don't think you'll have any trouble traveling on a one-way ticket as long as you don't plan to stay more than three months. Go to www.austemb.org for details. As for air prices,it's always more expensive to get a round-trip ticket with a return date months in the future because that's not a leisure traveler itinerary. I'm surprised you can get a ticket for $1,600 round trip with a three-month turnaround - that's really not a bad price.

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Washington DC RE Bethesda Northwest: Bethesda should take the ferries throughout the San Juan Islands they are beautiful and the ferry's go between Vancouver, Victoria, and the San Juans. My favorite is Friday Harbor, but its been a while.

The Flight Crew: Thanks!

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Arlington, Va.: My husband and I spent 11 wonderful days in Costa Rica on our honeymoon four years ago. We saw the active Arenal Volcano, hiked some lava flows and explored the Monteverde Cloud Forest, met many American transplants and kind locals, soaked in the Tabacon hot springs, and watched the surfers at Tamarindo Beach. It also rained every day, we had many frightening moments taking our rented 4x4 around some very narrow muddy mountain passes, we had a hotel room invaded by ants, and some of our luggage was stolen when thieves broke into our car. If that wasn't "for better or for worse" I don't know what is! Fortunately, we survive the ups and downs, and we can't wait to go back to Costa Rica someday.

The Flight Crew: Yeah, that's a whole lotta "worse," isn't it? But I'm glad you want to go back and give it another chance.

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Montreal air fares: Check Air Canada's web site. Depending on availability, some round trips can be as cheap as $160 plus a bunch of extra charges.

The Flight Crew: Sottili here: And it's those pesky extra taxes that run the bill way up!

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Italian honeymoon followup: on our day trip to cinque terre, it was about 95 degrees out, and we didn't bring our swimsuits, but we climbed down from the trail to one of the beaches anyway and jumped in in our underwear- got a few strange looks from the locals

The Flight Crew: Great stuff! Thanks.

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Paris cheap sleeps: just got back a few weeks ago, stayed at the Agora St. Germain, a 3-star on Boul. St. Germain, for 100 euros a night. great location, nice hotel, en suite room.

I think I want to move to Paris.

The Flight Crew: Thanks for the suggestion. And we fully support your wish to move there!

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Re: THEhotel: THEhotel (yes, you have to write it like that) was possibly the nicest hotel I've ever stayed in - given, I usually go for the cheapest possible accomodations (Priceline all the way)- but given that it was the honeymoon we decided to splurge. Each room is approx. 750 sq feet - not sure if it is the largest standard room in Vegas, but it's probably close. It's a two room suite: living room/office with large plasma tv and dvd player, desk, wet bar, 1/2 bath; then the bedroom: large comfy bed with luxe linens, sitting area with chairs and large armoire holding the TV. The bathroom is huge- ours had a large tub (not a whirlpool though) and a cube shower, double sinks and enclosed toilet area. I'd love to go back just for more toiletries!; There is no casino area in the hotel per se, but it is connected to Mandalay's casino.

The Flight Crew: Thanks for the review...I really want to stay there now.

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Washington, DC: Thanks for the suggestions on LA!;

The Flight Crew: My pleasure. Have a blast; it's crazy-cool town.

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Washington, DC: After spending the last three Christmases on Caribbean cruises, I want to go somewhere warm (but not necessarily HOT) outside of this hemisphere. Where's a girl and her campaign-weary husband to go to get away from the hustle and bustle?

The Flight Crew: Hmm, the problem is narrowing all the options down. Think Southern Hemisphere -- how about Ecuador? A nice Galapagos cruise? Or Southeast Asia -- Bangkok? Southern India? Or the Pacific -- Hawaii? That's perfect temp year-round. -- KC

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Washington, DC: Wassup, Travel Gurus?

My wife and I honeymooned in Dominica last month. Despite the fact that it poured rain every single day of our trip (very unusual weather they were having - everyone down there commented on the amount of rain), we had a great time. We rented a small cottage on the Northeast coast near Calibishie. Did the whole rainforest hiking thing. Not much as far as beaches go, but if we had wanted that we would have gone somewhere else. Because of the rain, we spent lots of time indoors at several restaurants and bars in Calibishie, getting to know the locals. The funniest part was that they all thought I was from Dominica or England despite my accent (or lack of one) - not too many African Americans visit that part of the world apparently.

The Flight Crew: Wassup with you, D.C.? Sounds like a great honeymoon, despite the rain.

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Bethesda, Md.: Honeymoon- Italy. With my fianc? never having left the country before, I had to carefully consider his tastes - nothing extreme. We did Rome and Venice, then hit Sicily, for his very 1st meeting with my relatives - hundreds of them! He survived Rome and Venice without problem, as there were tourists everywhere, he could speak English, read signs, etc?however, in Sicily, it was a different story. What culture shock! Not only did it take 3 hours to make a 20 minute ride from the airport (we HAD to make stops for ice cream, a beautiful park, to show us the seaside, and to a great coffee shop), my relatives threw us a reception the first evening - where the meal STARTED at 10pm and went on thru the night. Everyone spoke to my fianc? as if he spoke Italian. He spent his first night nodding and smiling - with everyone staring at him. Between the crazy driving, everyone speaking at the same time, being dragged from one relative's apartment to another, visiting every village and castle on the East Coast of the island, eating all the "different" foods placed in front of him (to be polite, you couldn't say ?no'), as opposed to the typical pizza/panini he'd order up north? I thought he'd be running to the Pope for an annulment before our stay was over! Ends up that "reality" he found in Sicily and with my family was the BEST part of the honeymoon in his eyes. He loved every moment, every experience, every "different" bite?It was the off-the-beaten-path experiences he relished most. The true essence of another culture, and not just the the tourist attractions. He can't WAIT to go back?(oh - and the family LOVED him?)

The Flight Crew: Sottili here : As a Sicilian (husband's father and my father), I can relate!

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Washington, DC: In planning my trip to Thailand I'm thinking of a couple possible journeys. One is the boat trip between Thailand and Jinghong, China by cargo ship along the Mekong. Anyone know whether this is safe (mainly concerned with capsizing and drowning)? Second, is around Nan province. Any highlights here? Thanks heaps!;

The Flight Crew: Chatters, can anyone help Wash out real quick?

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Wheaton, Md.: For Washington, DC headed to the L.A. area, if one wants a change of pace from the time to be spent in Hollywood, etc., the quieter, cleaner beaches of Ventura and Santa Barbara are within a couple of hours' drive, with great views of the Channel Islands (there are day trips to Anacapa Island, but that may be a bit much for their trip). I have fond memories of the Santa Barbara Inn where, on our wedding night, they upgraded us to a suite (and we were there on an Entertainment book coupon!), taking us completely by surprise. If Santa Barbara is too far, the beaches of Laguna Niguel and environs are nice. Marina del Rey is nice for restaurants and boating, but the beach ain't great (and it's under the flight path for LAX). I prefer Santa Monica (with its picturesque old style pier) over MDR.

The Flight Crew: Great ideas! Thanks.

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Re: Traveling from Wilmington DE: They should consider taking Del. Route 1 to Route 301 to Route 50 instead of I95. I just visited relatives in Newark this weekend and its virtually the same mileage to my home in Springfield. They'll hit a few traffic lights on Route 301 (two lanes) in Delaware, but once they're in Maryland, its a great 4 lane divided highway.

The Flight Crew: Another four-star suggestion. Thanks.

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Honeymoon in Malta: Based on your article we honeymooned in Malta in April. We stayed and bicycled around Gozo for three days which was beautiful. But everyone seemed surprised we would rent bikes since that cost just as much as renting a car. Then we spent 6 days on Malta. The food was fabulous, and the best part was that every day the hotel would leave a card telling the next days weather. Every day they marked "partly cloudy" but there was never a cloud in sight. The best part was coming back and having everyone exclaim over what a creative idea it was (even though it was really all you guys).

The Flight Crew: So what you bring us?

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RE: Gate 1: My family went on a Gate 1 trip 8 years ago in Israel. We'd been before and have gone since and the Gate 1 trip still stands out as a positive experience. All Israel tours ae essentially the same but we felt like the paid attention to details and added extra touches that were nice. This was a while ago though, so things may have changed.

The Flight Crew: Very reassuring. Thanks for the vote of confidence.

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Arlington, Va.: We spent our honeymoon in Scotland. After a few days in Edinburgh, we rented a car and did a loop up around the country and down to Glasgow. Stayed in wonderful, charming hotels (and one castle!), went on a pony trek on the Isle of Skye, enjoyed delicious food and the best part, besides the amazing scenery, was the friendly people. Could not imagine a better honeymoon.

The Flight Crew: Thanks, Arl.

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Tyler, Tex.: Now that I'm on my way to Cooperstown (thanks,
John) to join the zoo, can anyone tell me what is
lovely to see/do in other towns, radius of 100
miles? A hint for a truly off-beat honeymoon site
is the mountain town of Sheki in Azerbaijan. It
has an old inn (modernized) where Marco Polo
and buddies used to stay. In the huge courtyard,
a caravanseri, you can look up at the stars and
feel transported back to its time of silk trading,
camel bells, etc.

The Flight Crew: Got to work fast, Tyler, but these guys know their stuff. Anyone know what's near Cooperstown? (And thanks for the honeymoon suggestion)

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Susquehanna Twp, Pa.: Our Honeymoon was also a Wedding trip - We went to Califoria Wine Country. Married mid-week at a Winery in Napa then visited 5 more wineries in full wedding dress, Tux and Long Trained Wedding Dress, that day. Next couple of days lots more wineries and B&Bs.

The Flight Crew: Sweet, ST. Love that idea . . .

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Vienna, Va.: Not a question but a comment on a trip last week. We flew
on award miles from Washington National to Glasgow
Scotland on the new route that USAir has. I was surprised
to see the plane was 1/2 to 1/3 empty on both legs of the
trip. I would have thought they'd have sales rather than fly
that empty.

The Flight Crew: Sottili here: I don't think filling these seats is an exact science. Sometimes you will see last-minute fares to fill the empty seats, but more often, they keep the seats open hoping that last-minute travelers will fill them and pay big bucks. No wonder the airlines are in trouble.

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So not really honeymoon story but....: So friend who is getting married asked me where she should go on her honeymoon that was really romantic. I have done a far bit of traveling so made sugggestions such as Greek Island Cruise, Tuscany, New Orleans, NYC, and Germany (which is where we grew up as our fathers were stationed there toghther - thought she would want to take her husband back there). Her response was to say that the only romantic place for a honeymoon is the Caribbean and EVERYONE knows that is the only place for a "real" honeymoon. And while I have enjoyed visiting there, I certainly giggled.

The Flight Crew: Not to dis the Caribbean -- it's a gorgeous part of the world -- but you're right, there are a lot more options out there.

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Baltimore, Md.: I have not been lucky enough to be married and honeymoon but my beau and I did take a wonderful 2 week European Vacation last summer to London, Belgium and Scotland. We learned it pays to talk to your doorman. As we were leaving our London hotel to head to the train to Stansted Airport (to take a wonderfully cheapo Ryan Air flight to Brussels) he asked us if we needed a cab. We said no thanks, we'll take the tube to the train. He then told us that a taxi driver in the queue was about to go off shift and go home, which happened to be near the airport. We talked to the taxi driver and cut a deal. What would have been a 100+ pound ride ended up costing us 40, and it was nicer, cheaper and less stressful than the tube & train!

The Flight Crew: Wow! Great story!

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montgomery village mom: My honeymoon in 1995 began with delivery chinese food eaten the hotel room where we had our reception. We then took Amtrak first class to New York City for the weekend. The waiter on the train fashioned our left overs into little tin foil swans. We hung out in NYC for the weekend then came back to town and drove to Rehoboth Beach for the week. We had rented a house with an ocean view. It was perfect from sushi, delis and great bagels in NYC to solitude and great restaurants in Rehoboth in September (off season but still warm and everything is still open).

The Flight Crew: Nice and low-key. Thanks!

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Washington, DC: We went to Greece for our honeymoon, which was awesome!; I highly recommend it. We started off in Athens, just as a layover on our way to Santorini. It turned out to be an extremely memorable layover, since an earthquake hit just as we were roaming around the Parthenon. We realized what had happened, but it was over so quickly and there didn't seem to be much damage, so we didn't worry about it. We managed to get back to the airport and arrived in Santorini later that night, safe and sound. Little did we know that a building had collapsed, killing about 50 people, so the story ended up on CNN. Our parents were so scared that my mom ended up calling the state department to see if they knew of any Americans among the dead or injured. It turned out she was working off of an old itinerary that had us staying overnight in Athens, rather than just spending a few hours there.

In any case, the rest of the honeymoon was wonderful, and very exciting, though in a less chaotic way!; We spent 4 days in Santorini, in a villa overlooking the caldera, and then we went to Crete for 6 days where we rented a car and drove all around the island. I would recommend this itinerary for any wedding-weary couple... Santorini gives you a few days to relax and sunbathe, and then Crete revs you up and has lots of fun things to do...

The Flight Crew: Yikes, DC. Scary way to begin a honeymoon, but at least you got the shakiest part of your married life out of the way early.

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Washington, DC : (I got an error message when I first sent this in, so here it is again). Just seven months ago, my husband planned a surprise honeymoon to Costa Rica. The best was the much needed spa and massages in a private hut overlooking the country within minutes of our arrival. After one night in the spa resort, we spent the next three at the beach, and the last three at a beautiful b&b on a coffee plantation doing eco-tourism and adventure type trips. It was a perfect combination of relaxation, fun and romance. He did a great job.

The Flight Crew: Thanks for trying again, D.C.

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Thomas Circle, Washington, D.C.: I know it's late in the chat but do you have any reccomendations for a nice casual restaurant in Charleston, SC? I'm going this weekend. Thanks.

The Flight Crew: Quick guys! Help?

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Not a honeymoon but...: For the first time, I can't find anyone who wants to (or is unable to) travel overseas with me this year. So I am thinking of doing it on my own. I am pretty independent anyways, so figure it isn't too much of a stretch. So where would you recommend a single 27 year old female travel to on her own? I was thinking the Benelux region or Prague.

The Flight Crew: Hey there--I'd went to both areas on the same trip and I'd pick the Czech Republic over Benelux. Don't limit yourself to Prague, too--while you could spend ages and ages there and have a fabulous time, the rest of the country is great, too. It's very easy to meet other travelers there and it's easier to budget (though not as cheap as it once was, of course, it's still easier on the wallet than Benelux). Among the standards are Karlovy Vary and Terezin to the north, heading south to Cesky B. and Cesky Krumlov--great area to rent a bike in and see the countryside. And you never know, by the end you'll have met so many people you just might want to plan all of your trips solo. Have a great time!
-Anne

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Honeymoon:: On July 15, 1979 flew to the Canadian Rockies little knowing my new hubby was one of those hikers who likes to see how fast he can get from point A to point B. This July we'll go back to celebrate 25 years!; Maybe I can get him to slow down this time. (But he says we still have to hike to that tea house at Lake Louies).

The Flight Crew: Awww. Thanks for sharing.

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Alexandria, Va.: ultimate destination honeymoon--

so it wasn't my honeymoon but my best friend's and it was the one that helped me decide to go to Vegas if i ever get married because i could never top it.

She got married at the Karos Lodge near Kruger park in South Africa. After grumbling for months about the ticket price to SA, $1250; the 17 hour flight, and the treatment i would receive as an African American, I had the time of my life! The country is diverse in both culture and topography. We ended up making a much longer trip then for the wedding and spent time in Capetown-winetasting; near Durban at a Zulu village/lodge called Simunye with rooms built into the side of a cliff and views of a waterfall. When we finally made it to the wedding at Karos I had counted all the big five animals off of my "things to see" list. Okay so I don't remember the ceremony that much, but will never forget the destination!

The Flight Crew: Wow, Al . . . cool trip. Thanks for sharing.

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Portuguese Honeymoon: My husband and I just got married in April, and had a fabulous honeymoon in Portugal. We rented a villa in the Algarve, rented a car, and travelled 1200 miles in one week. We drove high into the mountains, ate many delicious un-pronouncable foods, drank much tea and beer, and lazed around some of the most beautiful beaches in the world. Our favorite spot was the south-western most tip of Europe where the Portuguese took off for the "new world" - the same spot Columbus sailed from 200 years later. Ah, Portugal!;

The Flight Crew: Mmmm. Thanks.

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Washington, DC: My daughter and I had a wonderful time playing mini-golf in Ocean City earlier this month. Where else is there a comparable collection of mini-golf courses (we counted 18 in O.C.)? I hear Myrtle Beach, S.C., might be a possibility, but I'd rather not go there in warm weather--would most (all?) of the mini-golf courses there be open between Christmas and New Year's?

The Flight Crew: Sottili here: Any place along the shore that has a boardwalk has plenty of mini-golfing. The Jersey shore - Wildwood, Seaside Heights, Point Pleasant, etc. - has lots of mini-golf. Myrtle Beach, yes, but it's cold between Christmas and New Year's and not everything is open. The Outer Banks, especially between Kill Devil Hills and Nags Head, is also good.

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Andrews AFB, MD: Went to Aruba last summer for a lovely one-week honeymoon, although no one told me the island looks more like Arizona than anything else. The beaches were great though, and the weather was perfect- storms don't hit Aruba, thus the myriad of cacti and aloe. The jeep tour was great, snorkeling scared me, sunset sailing was nice, the water was a beautiful blue, and we had absolutely the best steaks I've ever had in my life at the Gaucho Argentine Grill. We did have one nasty bickering incident though. Not between us newlyweds, but with another couple who alleged that we "stole" their cabana that they had "claimed" by putting two hotel-provided towels down. The same hotel-provided towels, that is, that every other unoccupied beach chair had. I was told to be wary of annoying native islanders who might try to sell us something, but now I know- watch out for the other guests!; Anyway, besides that incident, it was nice. And I don't recommend an all-inclusive because it's so much more worth it to check out other eating establishments.

The Flight Crew: Thanks for the tips. Yeah, Aruba is very dry, but sounds like it all worked out. Sort of.

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Falls Church, Va.: Honeymoon Trip -- We chartered a 40 foot yacht in the British Virgin Islands for a week. The Captain and the cook did all the work, and we got to hang out in and around the water all day. We anchored in different coves at night, explored the islands and did watersports during the day. Had gourmet meals and happy hours every day. Was extremely relaxing and tailored just to us! The only bummer was coming back to 20 below weather in Chicago.

The Flight Crew: Yeesh....20 below? That's one cold homecoming. At least you had your spouse with ya to keep you warm.

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Cooperstown: Check out Cherry Valley, a nearby town. They have the glimmerglass, a beautiful opera house. I bet you can find info online. It's a lovely little town.

The Flight Crew: There ya go...thanks for the suggestion.

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Silver Spring, Md.: Hi there. My question is whether Barcelona has a "down" season. I'm dying to go back there (took a quick stop there in 1998 on my way from Grenada to Paris) but when I checked, fares in September were around $900, which I found astonishing!! At what time of the year (if any) would I be able to find something between $400-600, and what would be the downsides of traveling at that time? (weather, holiday closures, etc.) Thanks!

The Flight Crew: Sottili here: Fares would be cheaper in January, February. Also, try flying into London and then taking a discount European carrier into Barcelona (look for these at www.openjet.com and www.ryanair.com).

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Buon Giorno!;: Loved the article on Cinque Terre--the area is gorgeous, but is most definitiely overrun with tourists.

As for honeymoons--here's is the one I have planned. I am renting a villa in Sorrento for the ceremony that has gorgeous views of the water. We're getting married in the garden, and the owners are catering the reception. We're getting married in Italy because a lot of my fmaily still lives there, and why not? It's so romantic!;

Our honeymoon will include some camping near beached on our drive down to Sicilia, where we will spend a leisurley 2 weeks exploring the island, eating grilled fish, and searching for blood oranges (YUM!;)

The Flight Crew: God, what a great-sounding wedding. Congrats, BG.

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Chicago, Ill.: Honeymoon...getting married in October. Our plan, 2 honeymoons, or as we like to call it a mini-moon and a honeymoon. Mini-moon, Sedona and the Grand Canyon for 5 days after the wedding (1/2 relaxing, 1/2 active). Then wer're off to Greece for 2 weeks next May. I am just hoping that I can make it to the mini-moon without needed a vacation from wedding planning before the wedding.

The Flight Crew: Good luck, Chicago. Can't go wrong with TWO honeymoons, can you?

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Cooperstown area: If you get tired of the baseball stuff, the Farmers Museum in Cooperstown is worth some time. For culture vultures (or to pay back the wife dragged along on the trip) there's the Glimmerglass opera. Searching for "Herkimer Diamonds" (really quartz) nearby is popular. And if the weather gets really hot and muggy, escape it all at Howe Caverns (near Cobleskill) by going underground where it's always cool.

The Flight Crew: And some other suggestions . . .

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For St Lucia BBQ Candidate: One way to decrease the amount of "charred skin" is to plan your beach time for very early or very late in the day -- the sun is much worse at 1 pm than at 9 am (if you can be up and around by then) or at 5 pm.

The Flight Crew: Yep, very true. There's a lot to be said for lunchtime siestas. -- KC

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Gaithersburg, Md.: Honeymoon to remember: My husband and I were married in 1993 and went for 2 weeks to Portugal and Madeira. Wonderful country! The people were friendly, prices very reasonable and the food great. You can affordably stay in the state-owned posadas (inns that sometimes are castles). What made it so special was that Americans do not seem to have discovered Portugal yet, so we felt very welcomed. I recommend it highly.

The Flight Crew: Sounds very nice.

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Honeymoon: 6 months ago we went on a Hawaiian cruise. At first I thought it was too cliche, but I loved it. We had the first 6 days at sea, and we gambled and ate and ate and slept. For our overnight in Maui we splurged and got a room at the Westin and rented a Mustang. It was an amazing time. Cruises are great for honeymoons because you don't have to worry about anything. I like this question, all the submissions are so sweet!;

The Flight Crew: Hey, I think cruising would be a great way to honeymoon--no stress, lots of time to relax. And you got to gamble, sleep, eat and eat. Sounds good to me.

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Washington DC: I lost something on a recent trip (not a suitcase, much smaller). I have called both airports, the airline, the rental car agency. Are there any tricks of the trade that are not obvious when it comes to getting stuff back?

The Flight Crew: Funny, we lost something too at BWI and more than a week later got a call that Air Jamaica found it (this was after calling half a dozen Lost and Founds at the airport). Sadly, we don't have an answer for you yet, as we are going to tackle this issue in a future article. Just call all the different numbers they have, from the shuttle to Customs to the airline--and hope that some good soul will return it to you. (You did have contact info on the bag, right?)--andrea

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Arlington, Va.: Re:Honeymoon - This isn't my honeymoon story, but my best friend and her new husband delayed their honeymoon for several months after their May wedding. They didn't have a lot of money to spend on a lavish trip. In September, they found a good deal on a tour of England through their church. The group consisted mainly of older couples, and then my 20-something friends on their honeymoon. The older couples were delighted to find out that my friends were on their honeymoon, and at every stop on the tour they made it a point to tell the tour guides and hotels that my friends were on their honeymoon. At nearly every hotel, they received upgrades to the "honeymoon suite" and complimentary bottles of wine or champaign. They have very special memories of their trip due to the kindness of the older couples traveling with them.

The Flight Crew: Some people wouldn't like being surrounded by older couples (as evidenced by other submissions), but this story just goes to show that it can be nice being the only young honeymooners.

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Springfield, Va.: My husband and I paid for our own wedding, so we tried to keep the honeymoon costs down. We had always liked hiking, so we bought backpacks and gear (for about $600+) so that we could camp at National parks on our Southwestern US vacation to save the hotel room money. After an attempted and abandoned camping trip at the Grand Canyon at the start of our 10 day trip, we stayed in hotels for the rest of the trip. The backpacks, 10 years later, still have not been used. The trip itself, was wonderful?Flagstaff, AZ, the Grand Canyon, Zion National Park, Bryce Canyon, and Vegas.

The Flight Crew: Sounds like you guys made the right move! Thanks for chiming in.

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Bethesda, Md.: Just was thinking about my honeymoon as yesterday was our anniversary (22 and counting)! We spent three restful days at Mohonk Mountain House in NY where owners had put beautiful bowl of flowers in our room, then went on to an inn in the Berkshires, specifically to catch the Lena Horne 1-woman show at Tanglewood. Our wedding, which was held in an unairconditioned historic house in 98 degree 90% humidity conditions, had not prepared us for the very cool New England evening weather at Tanglewood. As we shivered under a picnic blanket, Lena Horne did not deviate one word from her shtick--which included many references to how hot and sweaty she was and how warm it was outside. It was a truly bizarre experience.

PS: I haven't gotten my anniversay present yet, but purple was our color, including beautiful purple roses.

The Flight Crew: Hmmm, purple you say?

Nice story, Beth, and congrats on 22 years together.

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Arlington, Va.: Our honeymoon came before our wedding!

We got married with just our two friends as witnesses in Georgetown, Bahamas. We had spent the entire week prior to the wedding on our friends sailboat docked in the harbor, catching lobsters, swimming, hiking, and just hanging out. The wedding was the day we were leaving, on the beach, at 8:30 am. We had a wedding breakfast afterwards to celebrate!
We couldn't ask for a better honeymoon, or wedding!

The Flight Crew: It's getting late, folks, but here's another one . . .

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Honeymoon: We went for a week to Costa Rica and fell in love with the country and the people. Everyone was so nice and we had a great time. The last night we were in San Jose at a small "traditional" restaurant where we very proudly paid for our bill in the local currency: colonnes (we had cashed some at the hotel). We were getting into a cab when 2 waiters from the restaurant chased us down and told us one of the bills (5K colonnes) was counterfiet. Apparently, very obviously so. Luckily we had a replacement bill and all was well. Many of our friends and family when we returned said we were lucky we weren't sent to jail. Now that would have been a story.

The Flight Crew: And another!

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Springfield, Va.: Married in UK followed by lots of paperwork at the US embassy - we finally flew to the Canary Islands. Our agent wrote "HONEYMOON couple" when submitting our package deal paperwork and assured us of at least a free bottle of champagne. What we got was bunk beds (Spanish birth control under Franco?).

The Flight Crew: Bunk beds??!! But, uh, how was the weather?

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Georgetown, Washington, D.C.: you mentioned solo travelling in a response -- is that weird? ive been thinking about taking on thailand/cambodia solo, but im worried ill get bored or lost or lonely ... what have your experiences been like?

The Flight Crew: There will definitely be lonely moments and times when if you have to go through the where-are-you-from-where-have-you-been ONE MORE TIME you'll scream--but those times will be far outweighed by the amazing people you'll meet and the experiences you'll be open to. I write so much more when I'm traveling solo, I seek out many more adventures--and while you might start out solo, if probably won't be for long--I've traveled for months with people I met on the road. Always have a book, but don't bury your nose in it. Stay in places that may not have the amenities you'd think you'd want but will have communal places where people gather--there's certainly no lack of those places in Thailand! If you find yourself really lonely, give yourself little tasks to complete, like if you're into photography, concentrating on getting the shot that no other tourist who has seen same sights would end up with. Make yourself reach out to another traveler or a local each day, even in little ways. And soon you'll find that you're wondering if you'll ever want to set off on a trip again knowing who your traveling companion will be--while it's wonderful and comforting to know them beforehand, for me at least it's that much more exciting and memorable when you discover them en route.
-Anne

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Washington, DC: I'm not sure if I need help from The Flight Crew or from Carolyn Hax on this one!; But since she's on leave at the moment, I'm coming to you guys.

Here's the issue: My boyfriend and I are going to the Florida Keys for a weekend in July. We are having a difference of opinion about whether we need to book places to stay in advance. He'd like to be free and easy, just finding fun, funky places in areas that we discover we like rather than tying ourselves down by planning specific places to stay. I sort of like that idea, but I'm afraid that we will find ourselves stuck without a room--or, at best, spending hours to find only a room in a chain motel along the road. Given the number of Keys hotels I've called that have already sold out, I'm thinking that it's not the low season there that we'd anticipated.

I'm trying to convince him that we should just book ahead, but he wants me to trust him and says he's never had a problem with just showing up. Help!; What do you guys think?

The Flight Crew: Wash, you don't say which keys you'll be visiting. Some are pretty darn remote and don't have a whole lot of lodging choices. If you have one of the nicer hotels or resorts in mind, it's just safer to reserve ahead. How about splitting the difference -- reserve for at least half the time, then leave the rest to chance. While there's something to be said for serendipity, there's nothing worse than a depressing night in a chain motel when you had something better in mind. Let us know how it goes, okay? -- KC

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Annapolis, MD: KC's Name: No guess on the full name were posted yet so I figured I'll take a shot. How about "Kathryn Cecilia"?

The Flight Crew: Not even close, Annap, but we'll send you a present for trying! Send your info to summersk@washpost.com.

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Capitol Hill, Washington, D.C.: Hi all. Contemplating Asia trip in August, but must choose between 2-3 weeks in Vietnam/Cambodia, or getting Cathay Pacific's Circle Asia pass (about $1000 for access to 17 Asian cities in 21 days--don't have to go to all the cities). Which would you pick? Do you know anything about the Circle Asia pass? Thanks.

The Flight Crew: If you only have 2-3 weeks, I'd pick either Vietnam or Cambodia, and save the country-hopping for another, more extensive trip, especially since you'll have travel time and jet lag to factor into the mix. I haven't been to Cambodia--dying to!--but north Vietnam itself is enough to keep you fascinated for that time, or if you prefer a quicker pace, going from Hanoi down to Saigon is certainly doable in that amount of time as well.
--Anne

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Dupont West, Washington, D.C.: A few friendly tips for travelers to Paris this summer. 1. Ask for the magazine PARIS at the International News/Rack/Book Shop on Connecticut & S ST.NW or even Kramers down the street. It has about 20 to 40 pages devoted specifically to current Paris Hotels/Restaurants/Shops/Shows/Movies/Concerts and with current prices. 2. At the airport or before you leave ascertain which Aerogare at CDG you will depart from. Arriving at Aerogare A when in fact you must depart from F, is a long, long walk with luggage. 3. Try and remember Euros are not American money. So do not tip like it is American money. A Five Dollar American tip is roughly Five Euros away from a bottle of Cliquot at Monoprix. This comes from a heavy American tipper. I was given back Euros on several occassions. I only hope the Venezians in Italy this August are as forthcoming. Bienvenue le voile du proche!

The Flight Crew: Great tips, DW. Thanks for posting.

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The Flight Crew: Okay, here's the deal: This is the hardest awarding-'o-the-junque decision I've ever had to make, so I'm throwing out stuff to three people. Let's throw the big purple thingamabob to Arlington, who nearly "split up" on her honeymoon in Dublin/London before barely got going. And I'm going to send out mystery prizes to the person who wrote in about the 'moon in Peoria and the couple whose honeymoon was hit by an earthquake in Greece. Send us an email at travel@washpost.com with your name/address and we'll get your stuff out.

Thanks gang...remember, we're not here next week.Look for a special report on waterparks in Sunday's paper.

Happy Fourth!

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