How To

Hurry Up and Speed-Date


Sunday, February 22, 2004; Page M03

If you've had enough of e-mailing some online prospect for two weeks only to find out when you meet in person that he's completely not your type, we have a suggestion for you: speed-dating, which more than makes up in efficiency -- and sheer entertainment value -- what it lacks in romance. In one night, you go on eight to 25 "dates" lasting three to eight minutes each. Best of all, you get to immediately test chemistry.

First, a few tips: Take a pen, some gum and a bottle of water (you don't always have the chance to buy a drink in the middle). Going with a friend is less intimidating and allows for post-event debriefings, but be sure to pick a pal who's attracted to a totally different type -- you don't want to be vying for the same people. Not surprisingly, participants possess a more urban edge in Washington and are more suburban in Maryland and Virginia. HurryDate and 8minuteDating allow participants to create online profiles, which helps you keep track of people, but above all, take notes on your dates (e.g., "Bill, blue shirt, pilot"). When you speed-date, it really is raining men (and women), and to enjoy the downpour, you need to remember who's who. Curtis Sittenfeld

8MINUTEDATING

http://www.8minutedating.com/

Cost: $35

My Event: About 20 men and women ages 21 to 29 at the Helix Lounge in the District.

In a Nutshell: Eight eight-minute dates, with a 20-minute intermission during which you can mingle with people you're not paired with (you don't automatically end up "dating" everyone). You evaluate people not just romantically, but also as "friendship" or "business" contacts.

Distinguishing Feature: If a date gives you the thumbs-down but you still want to contact him, you can access his e-mail address for $8.88. (Stalking: It's cheaper than a movie ticket!)

Highlight: More women than men showed up, and we ladies were encouraged to chat when not paired with men. (Turnout for all the services can be uneven; most will give you a refund if you complain.) I actually found the women here cooler than the men -- and attended a party one threw the next weekend.

Also Offers: Parties for black, gay and Jewish singles.

HURRYDATE

http://www.hurrydate.com/


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