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This morning, my wife and I were sitting at the breakfast table alone.
Our son, a high school senior, had the morning off from school that day and was sleeping in, and our daughter was at the University of Delaware, where she is in her freshman year. Patty commented she wasn't looking forward to our mornings once both children were off at college.
It was so quiet.
What will it be like, I wonder, once we've sent them both off to college? We're typical boomer parents, active with Scouts, Sunday school and the various sports-related activities with our kids. After 20 years of raising our children, will we be done? I don't think it works that way. They will certainly continue to need our support financially as well as emotionally. But at the same time, both of our children have struggled, sometimes inappropriately, to assert their growing independence. So I guess we will have to learn to loosen our grip on their lives, as hard as that may be.
They want us there and need us, but only when they really want us or need us. It's a new form of parenting -- parenting lite -- with all of the angst but half the control. Does it ever end?
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