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Good Times 101

Sarah Harbison finds fun at Michigan State games.
Sarah Harbison finds fun at Michigan State games. "I don't know anything about football, but you live in the moment," says Harbison, with boyfriend Kevin Mardegian, and above with roommates Shannon LaFave, Rachelle Husaynu and Kristin Martin. (Photos Courtesy Of Sarah Harbison)
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The students parsed drinking and sex in similar fashion. Consumption of alcohol in small amounts could be fun, but binge drinking was not. Nor was indiscriminate sex. Such activities were a deliberate escape from the seriousness of college or perhaps a broken heart. They had a purpose -- and the potential for tragic consequences.

On many college campuses today you'll find administrators who think a lot about fun and how to provide it. It's no simple task, according to Jim Osteen, assistant vice president for student affairs at the University of Maryland.

Maryland has the dubious distinction of being the only local school on either list of fun schools: No. 14 in CollegeHumor's ranking and No. 20 on the Princeton Review party list. Nonetheless, Osteen says, more students than in the past are taking advantage of Maryland's diverse opportunities for fun.

"When I came to campus in '79, the drinking age was 18 and there were large, multi-keg socials all over campus," he says. "Those don't exist anymore."

Ken Schneck, assistant dean of student affairs at Sarah Lawrence College, a small coeducational school north of New York City, says campus activities can draw crowds if carefully planned in advance with students leading the way. One thing students look for in fun, he says, is novelty -- that's already been tested. They are eager to try something new, but more likely to actually participate if someone else already has, and enjoyed it. Thus a freshman might play "flip cup," a drinking game, because the sophomore next door tells her how much fun it is. But on the suggestion of the same friend, she might also go for the first time to a "dive-in movie" on campus in which a film is shown to students at an indoor swimming pool. Schneck says he spends a good bit of time trying to figure out what the underground buzz is on an upcoming event and, if necessary, urging student promoters to talk more about it or step up their advertising efforts.

Students also take pleasure in doing things that tie them to their campus. A close football game between rivals can excite even someone like Sarah Harbison, a sophomore at Michigan State University, who cheered with tens of thousands of other MSU fans last fall at a game against rival Notre Dame. "I don't know anything about football," she says, "but you live in the moment and you go for it."

Schneck at Sarah Lawrence says a monthly trip to Manhattan to see a play or other cultural event, accompanied by a faculty member who leads an after-show discussion, has become so popular that tickets are given out by lottery. Schneck and his colleagues have also been surprised by the number of students eager to learn about what earlier generations of students have done. Last year, for example, a lecture on previous commencements drew 50 students.

"I was expecting four or five," Schneck says.

At 29, Schneck is closer in age to the current crop of students than most deans, and has been observing students since he was a 19-year-old resident adviser at New York University. He believes outside assessments of party life on campus, like the Princeton Review's or CollegeHumor's, overestimate alcohol and drug use. Students are inclined to exaggerate their own consumption, he says, and believe that other students consume more than they do. Those who don't drink a lot, or don't smoke pot every weekend, are not exactly motivated to report that.

"You're never going to find a student who says 'I just had this great fun Friday night without substances and I want to go tell the world,' " he says.

CollegeHumor drew its data from several sources, including the Princeton Review and Facebook.com, where college students describe themselves and their friends. The Princeton Review relies on surveys filled out anonymously by students at 361 colleges and universities.

Franek acknowledges that the party-school designation doesn't capture the breadth of fun on campus. " 'Work hard, play hard' is still an appropriate description of college," he says, "but playing hard can be labeled as a lot of different things."

Students agree. Half the fun of drinking in college, some say, is because it might be illegal. In other words, fun sometimes can be a diversion tinged with risk. Their brains are wired to take risks; it's nature's way of getting them to leave home. What isn't fully developed yet are the connections in the brain that inhibit students from taking too much risk.

They experience a rush particularly when risking something with friends. Lee Burlison, a senior at George Washington University, was leading a student group on a hike through a storm in the Appalachian Mountains near the Pennsylvania border. As it grew dark, he could have stopped for the night but decided to push on. Around midnight, the travelers nearly got blown off the ridge by a vicious wind. It was scary and fun at the same time, he says.

Wellesley Baun, another GW senior, remembers going drinking with a girlfriend who liked to snatch liquor bottles from bars and hide them in the bushes outside. Baun would help her friend search for the stash the next day. It's not the vodka that sticks in her mind so much as participating in something that could have gotten her arrested, looking over her shoulder lest she and her girlfriend get caught.

The experience made for a great story and that, in the end, may be fun's most defining feature.

"You know you've had a good time," Baum says, "when you can go over the event with your friends the next day, or even years later. It's all about whether you have a story to tell."


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