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'Already Living the American Dream'
Already overcome with emotion, mourners arrive at the St. Elizabeth Ann Seton Catholic Church in Woodbridge for the memorial service honoring Daniel Perez Cueva.
(Photos By Carol Guzy -- The Washington Post)
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At Woodbridge Senior High School, in Perez's sophomore year, he took junior-level U.S. history, said his guidance counselor, Barbara Dragos. When he transferred to Hylton in his junior year, one of his electives was 20th-century history. For his senior year, he followed a "very rigorous form of study," as Cain put it, taking honors-level English, state and federal government and world geography classes.
After graduating from Hylton with an advanced studies diploma, Perez enrolled for a year at Miami Dade College before transferring to Northern Virginia Community College. He entered Virginia Tech last fall, preparing to graduate next year. He was majoring in international relations and minoring in French.
"He did something a lot of ESOL students are not able to do," Cain said. "They just can't separate from home. They go to NOVA or George Mason. But Tech -- that was a stretch." Some might plan to go away to school, but Perez was "one of the ones that actually went through with it," she said.
Cain was one of the first to hear about Perez's death last week, in a phone call she got that Monday night. On Tuesday morning she came to school looking for Dragos, who had said, often, to Cain: "We have to figure out a way for him to go to college. We can't let all that talent. . . ." She didn't always finish the sentence. She didn't have to.
When Cain got to school, Dragos and others were talking about the shootings. Cain had to tell them, "We lost one of ours."
"Who?" Dragos asked.
"Daniel," Cain answered, remembering later that saying his name "was like I put a knife right through her."
News of Perez's death spread far. Back in his home country of Peru, media outlets printed and broadcast numerous stories about him and the plight of his father, who was trying to get a visa to come see his son's body. The story was so big that when the elder Perez checked in for his flight to the United States , television cameras were there, filming his departure.
Outside his mother's front door in Woodbridge lay a welcome mat whose message was so faint as to be barely legible: "Home Sweet Home," it read. No one answered the doorbell.
Perez's friend Hugo Quintero said last week that when he arrived at Betty Cueva's home, the reality of his friend's death -- and what it was doing to his friend's mother -- hit hard. "I came into the house," he said, "and when I saw her, I was like: 'Oh, man. That's not good.' "
It's the finality of what happened that's so hard for Quintero and others to grasp: the fact that someone such as Perez, who had overcome so much and was achieving so much more, could be so swiftly snuffed out, in a class -- French -- that he loved and in which he excelled.
Said Quintero, sounding lost at the end of a conversation about his friend: "He was going to be my best man. He was going to be the man who was going to die by my side."
Perez has been remembered as a role model for immigrant students, a kid who came to the United States from a "very humble background," as Quintero said, a kid who had worked hard and made it to a four-year college. And he did it with a smile that everyone, from teachers to co-workers to a former principal, noticed.
"His smile lit up the room," Dragos said last week.
Which is to say, Cain said, that Perez wasn't just a young man intent on success but one who was enjoying his road to success as well.
"He wasn't going to have the American dream," she said. "He was already living the American dream."
Six students from the Washington area were killed in the Virginia Tech shootings. Each will be profiled the day after the funeral this week. Reema Samaha was profiled Sunday, the day after a memorial service for her.


