Advice on Life and Other Stuff From the Male Perspective

You can all relax. This serves to introduce the Sunday Source's new weekly advice feature: Three Wise Guys, perpetrated by Post staffers Joe Heim, Justin Rude and Dan Zak. E-mail your questions about anything (kittens, driving etiquette, Greco-Roman architecture, the conundrums of the universe) to wiseguys@washpost.com. If you can't figure out whether to query Miss Manners, Dan Savage, Dear Abby, Stephen Hawking or Drs. Laura or Phil, then you should query us. We can't promise you professional advice, but we can guarantee a deft handling of any conceivable topic. Send us your question, and then wait patiently for your answer in print.