Cover Story
Struggling To Hear Each Other
A Deaf Child's Parents Face a Difficult Choice
Sunday, April 20, 2008
Jeff Daniels spent a month learning American Sign Language for his role in CBS's "Sweet Nothing in My Ear." But Daniels, who plays the hearing spouse of a deaf woman, is quick to emphasize that the film isn't a movie about deaf people. "It's about people having to make a difficult decision involving their child," he said.
Daniels portrays Dan Miller, and Marlee Matlin plays his wife, Laura, in this Hallmark Hall of Fame production that follows the couple as they cope with their son's hearing loss.
A cochlear implant could restore the boy's hearing, but Laura, who has been deaf her entire life, is against it. Dan wants his son, Adam, to have what he considers a more normal life. Their clash over what's best threatens to dissolve the marriage.
"They were so in love with each other, but it's the love for their child that becomes the wedge between them," Daniels said.
Daniels called his most intense scene, a meeting between the couple and their son's doctor, "my Mount Everest."
"There was so much medical terminology," he said. "I was acting my own lines, signing what [the doctor] was saying to Marlee, then watching her sign to tell the doctor what she said. I was acting for three people."
Matlin, who has been deaf since she was 18 months old, said in an e-mail that she was drawn to performing a role in American Sign Language. She had not performed a part entirely in ASL since her Oscar-winning role in 1986's "Children of a Lesser God."
For "Sweet Nothing in My Ear," Matlin said, she "had to have a dialogue coach who made sure I performed the ASL correctly."
ASL has its own specific grammar and syntax, but Matlin normally signs in a looser fashion that more closely mirrors spoken English.
"The best comparison I could use is a person who speaks American English, playing the part of someone who speaks English as spoken in England," Matlin said.
Director Joseph Sargent said his biggest challenge in working with Matlin was having to "remind her to keep her mouth shut," he said. "Because she is able to speak a little, she is able to form words and has gotten into a habit of mouthing words even while she is signing."
He said he and his team edited scenes around Matlin's tendency to speak by "cutting to Jeff a little ahead of where we'd planned."



