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CAROLYN HAX

(Nick Galifianakis for The Washington Post)
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Maybe she begged him for decades to take care of his heart.

Or, they could just be through with each other.

Or, she's been this way all along -- in which case, why is anyone expecting better of her now?

The second reason I won't point fingers is that it's beside the point. Your father is ailing. You're able to help. So, stick to your plan. If your mom tries to obstruct you, you always have this: "He's our father." Besides, you're easing the "problem" for her.

While you're there, keep your eyes -- and mind -- open to the truth of their marriage. These trips can benefit your health, too.

Write to Carolyn Hax, Style, 1150 15th St. NW, Washington, D.C. 20071, ortellme@washpost.com.


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