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Evelyn Nef, 96

Evelyn Nef, 96; arts patron and author

Celebrated artist Marc Chagall created a monumental mosaic in the garden of Evelyn and John Nef.
Celebrated artist Marc Chagall created a monumental mosaic in the garden of Evelyn and John Nef. (Sarah L. Voisin/the Washington Post)
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By Adrian Higgins
Washington Post staff writer
Wednesday, December 16, 2009

Evelyn Nef, an arts patron whose storied life is embodied in a monumental mosaic by the celebrated artist Marc Chagall, died of cancer Dec. 10 at her home in Georgetown. She was 96.

Chagall met Mrs. Nef through her late husband, John Nef, and while staying at the Nefs' house in 1968, he declared his intention to create an artwork for them. Two days later, he said: "The house is perfect as it is. I will do something for the garden, a mosaic."

Three years later, the 10-by-17-foot mosaic was unveiled on a mild November evening. Embedded in a purpose-built brick wall, it is rich in mythological imagery juxtaposed with a New World skyline and huddled immigrants.

The symbolism was not lost on the former Evelyn Schwartz, whose parents were Hungarian Jews who immigrated to New York in the early years of the 20th century. What began as a comfortable childhood went awry when her father died suddenly at 48, leaving a mentally fragile mother in a state of mute grief and unable to care for her four children.

"I remember how silent the house became -- the absence of people, the sudden cessation of music, noise and laughter," Ms. Nef wrote in her 2002 memoir, "Finding My Way: the Autobiography of an Optimist."

Ms. Nef overcame the emptiness of her childhood to become, in various incarnations, a puppeteer, an entertainer who could recall 1,000 songs, an expert on polar exploration, a psychotherapist and a benefactor of some of Washington's leading cultural institutions, including the National Symphony Orchestra, the Washington Opera and the Corcoran Gallery of Art.

The Chagall mosaic, the only one of its kind in a private garden in the Western Hemisphere, has been bequeathed to the National Gallery of Art.

In 1930, at 17, Ms. Nef became a frequent visitor to a bohemian restaurant in Greenwich Village that became a hangout for artists, writers, dancers and actors, who would often perform or entertain. One of the regulars was the architect R. Buckminster Fuller, with whom Ms. Nef had a brief and eventually unhappy affair.

On the rebound, she met and married the puppeteer Bil Baird, and together they made marionettes and performed, prone on an 18-inch-wide plank 50 feet above the stage. Baird, she wrote, could hold a room "spellbound with a single marionette, walking it around the room, without any dialogue, making the marionette climb up on someone's knee or look under a woman's dress."

She found Baird less attentive as a husband, and they divorced.

Mrs. Nef credited her intellectual development to her second husband, Vilhjalmur Stefansson, a renowned arctic explorer more than 30 years her senior.

"The polar world was completely foreign to me, but I made it my own. I fell in love with the idea of learning everything about everything, and Stef, with his encyclopedic storehouse of knowledge, was a rich source of wisdom during this intellectual awakening," she wrote. She became president of the Society of Women Geographers.


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