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To truly become rich, you need to stop acting like it

Yet, there are more than 350,000 millionaire educators, working or retired teachers or professors, according to Stanley's research.

Stanley has one major purpose for this latest installment in examining the lifestyles of the truly rich. He wants to make the case that if people stop acting rich, they can achieve the kind of happiness money can't buy.

Here are just a few things Stanley found in his research on the wealthy:

-- Eighty-six percent of all prestige or luxury makes of motor vehicles are driven by people who are not millionaires.

-- Typically, millionaires pay about $16 (including tip) for a haircut.

-- Nearly four in 10 millionaires buy wine that costs about $10.

-- In the United States, there are nearly three times as many millionaires living in homes with a market value of less than $300,000 than there are living in homes valued at $1 million or more.

-- Forget the Manolo Blahnik high-priced shoes. The No. 1 shoe brand worn by millionaire women is Nine West. Their favorite clothing store is Ann Taylor.

Will the recession motivate pretenders to hit the reset button and not just act rich but live modestly like many real millionaires?

Stanley isn't so sure.

"Time will tell if society and people have really changed," he says. "My research indicates that people, for generations, have become so accustomed to consuming that it is second nature. And I am fairly certain that they will resume their spendthrift ways once outward symptoms of the financial flu have passed."

This book reminds me of a wonderful Scripture.

Proverbs 13:7 in the Today's New International Version Bible reads, "One person pretends to be rich, yet has nothing; another pretends to be poor, yet has great wealth."

Don't be a great pretender, pretending you're doing well when you only look the part. Read this book and find out how to emulate real-deal millionaires.

It's easy to be a member of the Color of Money Book Club. We don't meet, at least not in person. We come together for a live online discussion. Join me at noon Eastern time March 4 at Stanley will be my guest.

Every month, I randomly select readers to receive a copy of the featured book, donated by the publisher. For a chance to win Stanley's book, e-mail colorofmoney@washpost.comwith your name and address.

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