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Dating guru Demetria Lucas, pointing the way to eligible black men

Some women were not taught to be damsels in distress and drip sweetness to attract a man. Instead, you were instructed to approach dating as if it were an assignment -- aloof, projecting independence while sitting there waiting and waiting to be approached. And then, when the man gets up the nerv...

By DeNeen Brown

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