Date Lab: Will pre-date scare tactics keep her on edge?

Sunday, March 13, 2011

7:30 p.m., P.J. Clarke's, downtown

Lisa: Before I left the house, my roommate read me terrible comments people had made on old Date Labs. She was doing her best to get in my head and freak me out. By the time I left for the date, I was pretty nervous.

Michael: I went to the restaurant [and] waited by the bar, drinking a glass of water. I was ready to go, no big deal. It was maybe five minutes later that the hostess came over and told me that she had arrived.

Lisa: I thought he was attractive. He dressed and put himself together very well. And from the get-go, he was polite and engaging.

Michael: She had a good smile, and it seemed like she was excited to be there. I thought she was very pretty. The hostess took us over to the table, and we just started talking. We ordered a bottle of wine. We laughed about the whole situation and how it came about and why we signed up for Date Lab.

Lisa: This was my first foray into getting out there and meeting someone in D.C. I tried one online dating thing this summer, and it was just weird. We had our menus for probably 15 minutes before we ordered an appetizer. The conversation was flowing easily from the beginning. I felt relaxed.

Michael: She asked what I was looking for in a sense of humor. I told her that I was looking for someone who could watch episodes of "The Office" over and over again and still find it funny. She said she fit the bill. She also talked about how "The Bachelor" is her guilty pleasure. I told her that it was kind of embarrassing but that I liked the show "Parenthood." It's kind of a girlie, family show. She likes it, too.

Lisa: Yes, we had lots of things in common. We even both worked at ice cream shops as our first job out of high school.

Michael: We were getting along well. Nothing was awkward like you'd expect on a blind date. She ordered the shrimp and grits, and I got the surf and turf.

Lisa: He seemed very ambitious, very curious. I am definitely impressed by his political work. That is something I am interested in and, living in D.C., is something I follow. He knew what he was talking about and was very passionate about it. I think we connected on that level, as well.

Michael: She was really outgoing and open. It didn't seem like anything I could bring up would be off topic or uncomfortable. We were there about two hours. Our bottle of wine was finished. I asked, "Do you want to get another drink here or somewhere else?" She suggested going somewhere else.

Lisa: It was around 9:30. I didn't want the night to end. He said ChurchKey was one of his favorite bars. I told him we should definitely go there, because I liked it, too. Dinner went over [the Date Lab limit] by $20. I offered to split the bill, but he covered it. We caught a cab, which was nice because I was wearing heels.

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