Every Thursday at 1 p.m. ET, washingtonpost.com's City Guide experts share their best bets for local flavor, great dates and family fun. Got plans? Great. Need plans? Just ask. We have the skinny on the bars and clubs, concerts, kitchens, theaters and special events that keep life interesting. We're going out gurus, and we're at your service.

Of course, we're happy to answer questions about local entertainment, but we need to hear from you, too. Introduce us to the coolest DJ or the fastest bartender you've encountered. Sound off on the week's best concert or the city's best burger. Tell us about the best place to amuse little kids or a big art fan. Together we can plan fun ways to spend weekdays, weekends, dates and holidays. The pleasure is ours, and yours.

Each week a different guru will act as host or hostess, but the entire staff is at your service. If you're looking for more ideas, see the City Guide or read transcripts of past Got Plans? discussions .

The transcript follows.

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Dulles, Va.: GoGs!

Quick random question that has to do with going out... sort of....

I am heading out to a wedding this weekend in Norfolk with my boyfriend and have yet to get a present for the bride and groom to be because I don't know how much to spend. My boyfriend and I would like to buy a present together, is there a suggested $$$ range?

Thanks!!

Janet: It's hard to suggest a price range without knowing whether you're great pals, acquaintances, etc. I would assume that you're more of the latter by your question. Is the couple registered anywhere -- that's usually the safest way to approach the problem. If not, I'd say to spend what you're comfortable spending given your relationship with the couple.

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washingtonpost.com: Hi there chatters, it's your favorite time of the week, GP Time. The whole crew is here today -- Anne, Julia, Fritz, Rhome, Janet, Erin, Jen and me, David. I'm not one for long intros, so let's just get to it.

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Capitol Hill, Washington, D.C.: I've been invited to high tea at the Ritz Carlton in Tysons corner. I have no idea how to dress for this (I'm female). must i "put on the ritz"? or is casual attire ok? what do people wear???

Janet: The answer to this dress problem lies somewhere between "putting on the ritz" and casual. I think the occasion merits a skirt or semi-casual dress. Wouldn't wear jeans or flip-flops.

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Arlington, Va.: A group of us are heading downtown on Saturday night...one of the potential destinations is Bar Pilar. Fritz, would love to get your thoughts on it. How's the beer selection? Reasonable prices?

Thanks for all the great advice!

Fritz: It gets packed, the new wine list is great (and affordable), and if you're going for dinner, I love what I've tried of the new menu. Now, go back to that first bit: This is a narrow little dive bar where seating is at a premium. If you don't mind standing (don't know how big your group is), it's a cool place to escape the logjam that is Saint-Ex on a Saturday.

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DC Loungewear: A close friend is having a going-away party in a few weeks, and I'd like to make a splash. Where can one find a not-so-ridiculous smoking jacket here in DC? Do any vintage/hipster clothing stores spring to mind or will I have to drive to Baltimore for loungewear?

Janet: Try Meeps on U Street. They're moving shortly and may in fact still be having a sale.

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Red Riding Hood, the Woods: I am going out of town and staying with my grandmother this weekend and I wanted to bring her a gift. She can't eat chocolate and doesn't like wine (my standbys). I know this isn't super related, but do you know where I could buy my grandma a basket of goodies? (Dupont/Logan area would be preferred)

Janet: How about getting her some bath gels and fun lotions and potions? Check out the merch at Bluemercury in Dupont Circle.

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Woodbridge, Va.: hi! My husband just built a huge new stone patio for us by himself and I am really proud of him. I would like to send him to a spa so that he can get a massage, manicure, etc... a day of pampering. Is there a spa in the area that caters to men ?

Janet: There's Serenity Spa in Herndon. Serenity gets good marks for its pampering and its attention to men.

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Arlington, Va. : Ok, you have been my life line since I got to the DC area. Here's where I need help - my girl friends want to take me to Dewey Beach for a girls weekend tomorrow for the first time. They also want to go into Ocean City to a place called Secrets. What is the fuss all about? I am new to the area and have no idea what to expect. Do the GOG's or chatters have any advice for the new kid on the block? Attire? Bars? Type of crowd? Help!

(submitted early due to a meeting) Thanks!

Jen: It's been quite some time since I've been to Seacrets, but my bet is it hasn't changed much. (Chatters who have been there this summer, please feel free to chime in with your impressions.)

Having said that...

Seacrets attire: A bathing suit and shorts.

Seacrets crowd: A mix of the very cheesy with the normal, some of whom embrace all the beachy Velveeta, others of whom look utterly perplexed until they've had a couple of Dirty Bananas.

Seacrets atmosphere: Jamaica by way of TGI Friday's.

In other words, it's an experience, and one that's probably worth having once. But once may be enough for you. Dewey is a mostly college and twenty-something scene that can veer into Cheesetown but not as much as Seacrets. Undoubtedly your girlfriends will take you to the Starboard, the bars near Ruddertowne and the Bottle and Cork. You'll see lots of young people drinking and enjoying themselves, but don't expect pandemonium Mardi Gras-style. Just relax and enjoy. And, of course, report back to us next week to share your stories.

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Woodley Park, Washington, D.C.: My friend has been trying to lose a significant amount of weight for some time now. After trying many diet options that didn't work he decided to do a very extreme diet - an all raw diet - basically just fruits, vegetables, and nuts (nothing cooked). It's been working so far for him. He's coming to visit me in DC in several weeks and I was wondering if there are any "all raw" restaurants in the area. I've heard that such restaurants exist in California. If this doesn't exist in DC are there any restaurants that would have such an option on their menu?

Thanks!

Erin: That's quite an extreme move. I just called Vegetate and the restaurant can definitely help you out. The first menu featured a lot of raw items, but nobody was ordering them, so they were replaced. If you call ahead and notify them of your friend's preferences, the kitchen can "not cook" up several different things based on old recipes.

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Martini Fan, D.C.: From the Rum chat on Tuesday:

Wayne Curtis: The whole martini explosion is a bit confounding. A martini is made with gin and vermouth. Period.

Do the Gurus agree?

Fritz: Wholeheartedly. A martini is gin and vermouth. (I might make an exception for Winston Churchill, who reportedly would glance at a bottle of vermouth while making himself a martini.)

If it involves vodka, fruit juice or anything pink, you've got a cocktail, not a martini.

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Washington, D.C.: Headed to Baltimore for the day on Saturday, and looking for suggestions. Making this as non-generic as possible, so...if we were in DC, we'd roam around a fun section of the city, peek in cute shops, go to the black cat, DC9 or a local dive bar... Looking for that sort of thing - just ready for a new place to do it. Soundgarden is my only non-negotiable stop now. Thoughts? Thank you!

David: After you hit up Soundgarden, I say hop on 83 for a few exits and head up to Hampden, which is a fantastic little spot a few miles away from Fells Point/Inner Harbor area. Lots of cool, independent shops, restaurants, bars, etc. You'll find lots to love, I promise. And to look ahead a bit, every year they have Hampden Fest, which is a sort of celebration of the town and features most of my favorite B'more bands, among other fun things; this year's is Sept. 16.

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Washington, D.C.: Hi all. Love the chats. I'm headed to my first Screen on the Green Monday and I'm wondering about logistics. How early should my friends and I get to the Mall? Do people bring chairs or just stretch out on blankets? Anything else we should know? Thanks!

Jen: I was at Screen on the Green for a bit this week (I was the doofus talking into a camera for a Channel 9 segment) and the lawn was pretty packed at 7. However, there were still tons of open spaces, people were just having to sit a little farther away from the screen. If you want to be close to the screen, I'd say aim for the 6 p.m. hour.

Both chairs and blankets are fine. Just make sure your beach chair is low so it doesn't block the view of everyone behind you. You also can bring food (which I would recommend, especially if you're going early) and a lot of people brought their dogs. So if you have a pup, let him/her tag along. My understanding is that dogs love Steve McQueen.

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Washington, D.C.: My boyfriend will be coming in town for 5 days on August 15th--perfect timing for restaurant week. I'd like to get the best food for my money, and he loves both Italian food & seafood. A fun AND intimate atmosphere is a plus. Any suggestions?

Erin: Oh, that is quite serendipitous. I love Hank's Oyster Bar , which is fun and intimate with great seafood. I didn't try them last Restaurant Week, but a friend did and had a great time. For Italian, I would recommend Notti Bianche in Foggy Bottom. They are quite generous with RW offerings and have amazing gnocchi.

Viridian, Al Crostino, Ceiba and DC Coast are also worth a look. The first two are newer spots. Viridian is offering its entire menu for RW. The latter two are tried-and-true RW faves. If you have trouble finding places that appeal, keep in mind that Restaurant Week is the ideal time to try places that are NOT participating -- they'll be significantly less busy that week.

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Cleveland Park, Washington, D.C.: Hi GOGs,

I want to take the boyfriend out. I've heard great things about A.V. Ristorante Italiano from friends, but when I went to the Washingonpost reviews things began to look a lot less promising. Your opinion?

Thanks!

Fritz: I was just there for dinner last night after catching Prufbox at the Fringe. Quick-and-easy walk from the Warehouse. Had homemade sausage on polenta, split a bottle of wine and had a bite (and only one) of a friend's really good rabbit al somekindofdeliciousredsauce. This is an old-school Italian place, heavy on the tortellini, spaghetti and pig. Not the best you'll ever have, but I think it's reliable, and I love sitting on the patio next to the rushing fountain.

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Washington, D.C.: My family will be in town visiting this weekend. They want to get a last glimpse at the American History Smithsonian and then eat a delicious brunch. I'd really appreciate a recommendation for a good Saturday brunch spot near the Smithsonian/Mall. Pretty please with a cherry on top? Thanks!

Julia: I like Old Ebbit Grill for weekend brunch. It's not too far from the American History Museum. For other ideas, check out Eve Zibart's brunch guide or this map of nearby brunch spots (some of those places are only open for brunch on Sunday, so I'd double check before you decide).

Erin: It totally depends on your family's preferences, but I love the idea of Cafe Atlantico's Latino dim sum brunch. It's offered both Saturday and Sunday and has delicious items like conch fritters and fried eggs with black beans in tasting portions.

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Mt Pleasant - Marx Cafe DJs?: I'm new to the MtP area and am curious if there is a way to find out the schedule of music (DJ styles) at the Marx Cafe (checked the web, no luck). They seem to have a solid variety, but want to know which nights are for which music.

Also, note to the Raven: if you considered yourself a true "dive bar," then your jukebox should represent that...there's more Motown and generic oldies than at a Knights of Columbus mixer. (!)

Fritz: 1. Marx's schedule is a little odd, and I have trouble keeping up with it myself. It's indie rock first and fourth Fridays, but the reggae soundclash is switching the schedule around and appearing tonight. (Best vintage ska/rocksteady/dub night around, for my money.) Mostly Latin on Saturdays, or has been.

2. The Raven has been in Mount Pleasant longer than most of us have been alive, and the jukebox is mostly oldies and Motown because that's what the clientele like (and that's the average age of many regulars). No point in changing a successful formula if it keeps the regulars happy. After all, regulars, not jukeboxes, are what make dive bars great.

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Fairfax, Va.: Does DC have a Rock and Roll Karaoke venue? Just saw something about live band karaoke at Arlene's Grocery in NYC and it sounds like a blast.

Fritz: Not that I know of. Punk Rock Karaoke happened at the Black Cat a few times, but nothing on the regular. I've seen it at the Garage in North London, too. Good times.

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Washington, D.C.: I am looking for a restaurant anywhere in the Chantilly, Reston, Vienna area to go with my boyfriend, my friend, and her new boyfriend. Price range with entrees in the $17 - 25 range would be the max. Probably nothing too out there or spicy and my friend doesn't eat meat, so it would have to have good seafood or vegetarian options. Also hopefully a good wine list. Does a place like this even exist???

Erin: The two places that come to mind are Bazin's on Church (entrees in the $16-$25 range) and Sweetwater Tavern . Any chatters have better suggestions?

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Raw Food in DC: And don't forget Delights of the (2616 Georgia Avenue, NW). All of their food is vegetarian (maybe even vegan) and they have an equal selection of cooked and "live" (food). Its no restaurant (actually its a carry-out). I eat meat but i do love my veggies and I've had some very tasty selections from the live and cooked bars.

Erin: That would be Delights of the Garden, yes? I haven't been there, but thank you for the recommendation. The raw foodie can now have a variety during his visit.

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Washington, D.C.: Hola,

Have you been to the Wegman exhibit in the American Museum of Art yet? I want to go over the weekend, but it takes some prodding for me to metro in on the weekends. I was wondering if it's too big to run in after work and deserves an afternoon. For reference, it took me 2 hours at the Warhol exhibit at the Corcoran. If the Wegman is the same size, I'd guess it'd take me an hour? I'm probably over thinking this, aren't I?

Julia: I've been to Wegman and I think you should go it after work. It's a bit smaller than Warhol and totally do-able in a short period of time. I think the viewing's better after work anyway. Weekends are so busy at all the downtown museums. I dropped into the American Art Museum last Thursday evening and I felt like I had enough space to really contemplate what I came to see.

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Silver Spring, Md. : When does Ray's the Classics open over here?

Also, will Little Miss Sunshine or The Groomsman ever leave NY/LA and come down to DC?

Erin: Your guess is as good as anybody's for when the doors will open. The restaurant is complete and the staff has been hired. I think it's just up to owner Michael Landrum to decide when to stop having fun entertaining his friends with private dinner and let the hungry would-be patrons peering through the glass in to get a first taste!

Jen: To answer your second question ... "Little Miss Sunshine" opens here next Friday. Definitely check it out; it's quirky (but not too ), sweet and very, very funny. As for "The Groomsmen," that's a good question. Been wondering about that one myself. It's been out in L.A. and New York for a couple of weeks, but I haven't heard a word about when it's coming here. Guess we'll just have to keep eyes and ears open on that one.

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Washington, D.C.: Hi. My friend and I would like to get a reasonably priced pedicure & manicure in DC. Any suggestions? Thanks.

Janet: A manicure and pedicure at Nail Spa on 5606 Connecticut Ave. NW comes to $36.

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Washington, D.C.: What's the best delivery pizza in the Woodley Park area?

Thanks!!

Fritz: I frequently order from Alberto's, who will come into the 'hood. (Not sure where the cutoff is, but I live near the Metro.)

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Arlington, Va.: Oh, choices! I'm on a mission to find the best possible place in D.C. to dance to hip hop music Saturday night. Canvassing my friends -- "Umm, its the bar at the bottom of the hill, just off the intersection of 18th and U with red paint and lots of bud light signs" -- has yielded a few options, including Uncle Q's Living Room and Republic Gardens. But I'm at a loss for the final decision! We're happy to go low key or upscale for the evening based on your recommendation - we just want to dance. Thanks so much!

Rhome: There aren't many low key options on Saturdays so that rules out Uncle Q's and Reunion which are the best IMO. Wonderland would be my other suggestion but the parties that I personally know are good there aren't happening tonight so I can't guarantee that it'll be hot. That leaves us with the fancier options. You'll get a similar experience at Avenue, H20, Love, Home and Fur: upscale surroundings, dress codes, younger folk and mainstream hip-hop, R&B & dancehall. My man Geo is at Avenue and he always gets props around these parts. Love is pretty much the big dog on the scene and really defines the niche. Have your dough ready for parking and get there early. Fur is the most impressive to me visually, you just have to keep your wits about you when parking and walking around in that area.

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Bruce's Variety: Just wanted to send my thanks for the tip about Bruce's Variety last week for temp. tattoos. I found just what I needed and more, and now know where to find all those random little things... you are truly brilliant, Gurus.

Janet: Bruce's Variety is one of those treasures in the area where you're right, you can find those random things that you happen to need. I love it especially when school starts in the fall.

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Washington, D.C.: Was at Seacrets just two weeks ago for the first time . . . and it was AWESOME(ly cheesy)!

and just as you described it. the people-watching alone is worth it.

Jen: You know, I'm oddly comforted to know it hasn't changed.

I also forgot to mention that there's a faux beach and inner tubes you can sit in while having drinks, which guarantees that at least one goofball will fall into the bay. Oh, the memories.

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Philadelphia, Pa.: Hey GOGs. We'll be in town this weekend to see the final show of Assassins on Sunday, what to do? I've looked at the Fringe Guide, but anything in particular not to miss on Sunday? The Signature Theatre lists some local restaurants I've never hear of, but it appears Tallula isn't so far. Any restaurant recs that are closer to Shirlington and/or have a pre-theater menu? Thanks for any ideas!

Erin: Carlyle and Bistro Bistro are both fine destinations in Shirlington. Most pre-theater things I can think of are in the District. If you're in the mood for museums, check out the return of the Renoir at the Phillips Collection or the new Portrait Gallery. I'm not sure how long you'll be in on Sunday, but "Shadows, Dream Within a Dream" looks amazing to me on Sunday at 6 p.m.

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H Street: So what streets/areas should we absolutely avoid when going to the new spots on H Street NE?

Fritz: Park close to the venue, preferably on H, and use your street smarts.

Take advantage of the new service that offers a free cab ride back to Union Station on Friday and Saturday nights. The owners know you can get a cab to take you to 12th and H, but finding a cab when you want to leave will take forever. But now, if you get to the bars, they'll get you back to Metro -- anytime between 10 and 2.

(Then again, I've always just taken the X2 bus there and back.)

More on Palace of Wonders and the Red and the Black in my Nightwatch column tomorrow in the Weekend section.)

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re: jukebox at the Raven: Thanks to Fritz for putting this person straight. The Raven isn't some kitschy joint trying to be a "dive bar." It's just a neighborhood place that gives the clientele what they want: deal with it.

Oh, and this brings up one of my rules for living in DC: when "Livin' on a Prayer" comes on at the Raven, it's time to go home. Nothing good comes of trying to stay out longer.

Fritz: That's awesome. But what good comes of Bon Jovi to begin with?

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Arlington, Va.: Do you know if Screen on the Green or any other the other outdoor film festivals have movies open captioned for the hearing impaired?

Jen: Great question. I'm not sure about Screen on the Green, but I believe the Comcast Fest at Strathmore Hall in North Bethesda offers assisted listening devices to patrons who request them. There should be a booth where you can pick them up. That series starts Aug. 11, by the way.

If you want to go to Screen on the Green, I would try calling the information line -- 877-262-5866 -- to see if they have any info about that.

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Arlington, Va.: Okay, I've become a huge Nats fan, but I also still have a soft spot for my hometown team, the Minnesota Twins. Any idea if I might be able to find some place around here showing the Twins/Tigers game tomorrow night???? Metro accessible, of course, but anywhere! Thanks, and I know you'll put a smile on my ma's face back home.

Fritz: Uhhhh... Wow. Where's a good Minnesota-centric bar?

Honestly, I bet Mister Days will hook you up if you ask nicely. They have every package under the sun.

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Bachelorette party : can you post the link to your piece on bachelorette parties again? Thanks!!!

Julia: Sure

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For the Baltimore Visitor: Before hopping on I-83, I'd spend some time wandering around Fells Point and maybe grabbing a beer at John Stevens or Peter's Inn on S. Ann.

Also the area on Charles Street near Peabody and the Walters Art Museum has some quirky restaurants and shops.

David: Some other B'more suggestions. I was going for non-Fells Point, options, but that doesn't mean there aren't plenty of places to check out there as well.

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U Street, Washington, D.C.: So Bar Pilar's menu is going from deepfried tater tots to trendy tapas. Hoo-ray. Isn't this the same thing that happened with Saint Ex going from simple bistro fare to overpriced free-range organic cruelty-free tofu dishes? Will the owner open yet another bar where he can serve decent cheap fare?

I know bars and restaurants only serve what people will buy. But all the nice divey joints (Scholls, Stoney's, and soon AV and the Waffle Shop) are going the way of the dodo. The council's always pushing to preserve affordable housing. How about they start preserving affordable dining? Aren't these the very reason some folks move into the neighborhood in the first place?

Fritz: Okay, I've complained up and down about this, because, like I've said, I miss tacos pilar and tater tots. But here's the thing: They weren't making any money selling food, and I know that when I was there on weekends, hardly anyone was eating. Since the revamp, the kitchen's a lot busier. Can't run a business like a charity.

As for the next Saint-Ex/Pilar sibling, I'm hoping it's going to have cheap food. It'll need it.

Erin: As for affordable dining, there are tons of places if you are willing to experiment and sacrifice some ambience. Down from Pilar, Great Wall Szechuan House is a bargain as are the various local pho restaurants around town. Oohhs and Aahhs is also a great cheap spot in that area. As for Stoney's, it may not return as the same dive destination, but it's headed for a Logan Circle rebirth within the month, so don't cry too hard.

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Washington, D.C.: Hi GOGs!

I used to DJ as a hobby but as I get older I don't have time for it, so I'm giving it up. Any ideas for places where I can sell used vinyl (mainly a variety of house, dance, etc 12 inches)?

Thanks!

Rhome: You can sell them yourself on eBay or Gemm.com or see if some places like Joe's , DJ Hut or Cap City (who are closing their brick & mortar store and going online) or maybe even Som might want to grab your inventory in bulk.

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Washington, D.C.: Hey guys, you've probably gotten this before, but I have a question about hair stylists for men. I've always just had my hair cut at the local barber, but I'd like to go to a professional place that could tell me what kind of style is good for my head shape, facial features, etc. Is there a place that you recommend for men who don't want to spend a TON but would like some advice on a haircut that works for them?

Thanks so much!

Janet: Try Bang on U Street. The women who go there heartily recommend it, and they do offer haircuts for men.

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Mount Pleasant, Washington, D.C.: I am a hot child in the city, and for the most part take a lot of pride in my urbanite status. All of my friends have been on summer vacations and beach weekends, and I haven't left NorthWest in almost 4 months! Please tell me where a girl can get away to on a budget this Saturday without having to rent a car or buy a plane ticket. I'm looking to feel like I'm on vacation, without the costs or travel. Any ideas?

Anne: Wait, literally, not out of Northwest? You do need a vacation. You could visit the the Franciscan Monastery , the Southwest Waterfront , the Folger , just for starters. If you want to get further away, how about camping ? If you have a tent and a Metro card (okay, and $14) and that's all you need for an overnight in Greenbelt Park. There's a couple buses that go by the park entrance from the Greenbelt Metro station. Check WMATA 's trip planner for the details.

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Washington, D.C.: I know a lot of people have been wondering about the new Trader Joe's in Foggy Bottom -they're set to open doors on September 1st!

Janet: I think you're right, D.C. A lot of people, including moi, were wondering. Thanks for the answer!

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Bethesda, Md.: Hey GOGs! I'm submitting early due to a boring staff meeting during the chat! Anyway, I have friends who want to try something new this weekend and the general thought is U Street. But, where should we go? We're a group of 6 or 8 with a solid mix of guys and girls. We range from beer connoisseurs to mixed drink junkies. We tend to like a place that lends itself to good conversation, but with decent music in the background! Hopefully I gave you enough info! You'll be helping us out tremendously!

Fritz: I like the Saloon, which has great beers, good bartenders and is ideal for conversation because there's no TV and they keep the background music turned down LOW. For something a little more lively, there's Chi-Cha (you can all squeeze in on those couches) or maybe Local 16, if it's not horrifically slammed.

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Washington, D.C.: Hi gurus! Saturday is the anniversary of the day we first met and we'd like to celebrate with a nice dinner out. I'm a vegetarian (no fish but dairy's fine) and he keeps semi-kosher (no seafood, no pork). Heritage India was a little too spicy for me but generally we like Indian/Ethiopian/other ethnic foods. We'd prefer to stay in NW. Any suggestions?

Thanks!

Erin: Do you do Thai food? Simply Home is lovely and Asia Nora could work.

Etete

is my first choice for Ethiopian. I very much enjoy their "fastening food."

As for other spots, Rasika is my ultimate favorite Indian restaurant, but it can be somewhat noisy. The other idea for a nicer Indian is Indique or its new sister

Indique Heights

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Fairfax, Va.: Hey GOGs!! Oh, bearers of great advice. I have yet another food question. Trying to find a place with great cheesecake. Tapped out on Cheesecake Factory, and looking for someplace that's even better (gasp!) pref. in NOVA, but will travel further if the dessert is divine!

Erin: Ha! I love that the concept of better cheesecake than the factory's warrants a gasp. We tackled this question back in January. I chimed in with Pesce , Charlie Palmer Steak and Filomena . Readers suggested the Palm , Harry's Tap Room and, believe it or not, Outback Steakhouse. I guess the moral of this story is that steakhouses do great cheesecake. Anybody hiding a cheesecake haven?

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U street Denizen: I keep reading articles and seeing posters about the new H street revival. Has anyone been to these places yet? What are the best bangs for the buck?

Fritz: There are reviews of the Palace of Wonders (a bar with a sideshow theme and people lying on nails and swallowing swords) and the Red and the Black (a live music venue similar to DC9) in tomorrow's paper, which you can read this afternoon if you sign up for the City Guide E-Mail. (Link is on the City Guide page.) Other than that, I like the live jazz and soul at Phish Tea Cafe, the cocktails at H Street Martini Lounge and the cozy dive atmosphere at the Argonaut.

If you're on U, you can grab any of the 90 buses down to 8th and H and walk a few blocks to reach the bars -- they're all between 12th and 14th.

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Columbia, Md.: Looking for some places to inner-tube or raft down a river with 9 and 13 year old. Was wondering if there are any in the Harpers Ferry area? Thanks

Anne: River Riders will hook you up with rafting or tubing, as long as your 9-year-old is at least 50 pounds. The only thing the little one probably can't do is whitewater -- you have to be 12 years or 5 feet tall for that. If you go, write back and let us know what the kids had to say.

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the Raven: Sounds like a great jukebox for a dive bar to me! Nothin' like a little Mowtown and classic rock to go with a few beers. Better than those Internet boxes.

Fritz: Hell yes. As some of you might know, I hate internet jukeboxes with a passion .

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excited, VA: So i just found out ATCQ is playing at Rams Head Live in mid-September. The only issue is it's on a Wednesday nite. While i doubt this will stop me from traveling to Baltimore to seem them (Tribe was the very 1st concert I'd ever gone to. flashbacks!!), I'm wondering if you know if they maybe be playing anywhere in DC around that time frame. My Thursday morning would appreciate it.

Thanks GoG's

Rhome: I just spent a lot of time trying to track down something on the net and so far, nothing.

It's Tribe though.

And Ram's Head is an extraordinary venue. I would advise you to use the disco nap method. Get to work early, be real productive so you can get out as early as possible. Get a good undisturbed power nap in to fortify you against the results of the return trip. The show says 7:30 doors and 9 p.m. showtime. That could work.

But the tickets are $44 advance/$48 at the door???!? Ouch.

They have to make it DC at some point.

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Washington, D.C.: What's a good hotel at Bethany?

Jen: Honestly, there aren't many hotels right in Bethany. Most places are rental properties. In town there's the Blue Surf and the Bethany Arms, both right on the boardwalk. And there's a Holiday Inn right across from Sea Colony, which is not too far from the main area in Bethany. I also think there may be a bed-and-breakfast or two, but that's about it. You could always venture toward Fenwick (about 10 minutes away) for more options if those are booked.

Good luck.

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Arlington, Va.: Hi there Gurus. I am a poor, poor intern. What can I do on weekend nights that is as close to free as possible?

Thanks.

Fritz: Check out our Interns' Guide for ideas, like how to get into clubs for free, how to cop free drinks -- you can get free admission and two hours of open bar at H2O, for example, for the cost of an e-mail address.

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Chinatown: Where can I get some great, greasy takeout pizza in Chinatown after a night out? Armand's on the Hill is fine, but their delivery is slow. And don't say Matchbox - I want greasy drunk pizza, not fancy wood fired pizza.

Erin: My friend who used to live in Penn Quarter always ordered from New York Pizza .

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Cheesecake: Mayorga Coffee Roasters in Silver Spring has some luscious-

looking cheesecake, though I confess I haven't actually

tasted it. Still, it's a nice place to hang out, regardless.

Erin: Luscious is a great word for cheesecake. Thanks for that tip. I love their coffee.

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Washington, D.C.: People, please stop all the whining about Bar Pilar's new menu. The food isn't any more expensive -- I spend exactly the same amount on food there as I did before the change. It's different, but just as reasonably priced and yummy. Deal with it.

Fritz: I dunno -- the servers and bartenders were suggesting that I order two or three plates to make a meal. Of course, yeah, that's probably as much food at the tacos pilar, but still...

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Georgetown Billiards: My husband and I used to love going to Georgetown Billiards for the lack of crazy crowds, but more importantly, the great jukebox. Last time we went, it was empty and they were blasting some television show (24 rerun, maybe?). What gives? Should we start going to Buffalo Billiards (my husband's frat boy clothes don't fit him so well). Thanks!!

Fritz: I'd give Atomic Billiards in Cleveland Park a shot first.

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Alexandria, Va.: Is there any where in the northern Virginia are where one can booze and play putt putt at the same time?

Fritz: I don't know, but if you open it, I will be there. Nightly.

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Married Life: Hi!! I am a newlywed (we got married July 15th) and we are looking for fun and/or romantic ideas that don't cost a lot (anywhere in the metro area is fine)! The wedding and honeymoon financially wiped us out but we don't want to spend our first few months of married life sitting on the couch. Thank you for your help - I read this chat EVERY week and love it! (In fact, my husband often has to hear me say, "The Going Out Gurus said...") Y'all are the best!

Julia: Hey newlywed, congratulations! There's plenty to do on the fun/cheap side around town. My favorite cheap activities usually involve checking out different neighborhoods in the city. Go to Dupont Circle and bring a picnic. Take a walk around 14th and U, the Mall or Old Town Alexandria. What about sitting in the cheap seats at a Nats game ?

On the romantic side, how 'bout taking in a movie at Screen on the Green and following it up with a cocktail at the Hotel Washington?

Any chatters have romantic suggestions?

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Frederick, Md.: A previous submitter mentioned the Washington Restaurant Week. I hadn't heard of that and just looked up the web site, what a list of places to choose from! My husband and I are from Frederick and aren't able to dine in Washington DC too frequently. If you could suggest one place for us to enjoy that would give us the best bang for the buck what would you suggest? We like all kinds of food, but would prefer someplace that isn't too much of a bar. Thanks!

Erin: Great question. I wrote a blog post last week about my recommendations for Restaurant Week . I have had stellar meals at Kinkead's, DC Coast and Rasika. I'm curious to try Nora and Vidalia. Keep in mind that 1789 is not participating in the promotion, but is offering a summer-long special if you present a coupon from the restaurant's Web site.

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Cheesecake: Sam and Harry's has delicious cheesecake. Yum!

Erin: Like I said, stick to the steakhouses, cake-lovers.

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Washington, D.C.: Hi there, do you know of any bar or lounge in the area that hosts weekly Project Runway screenings? I've been searching for such an event but haven't turned up anything. Thanks!

Fritz: I've seen the staff watching at Bourbon on 18th, and if anyone else wants to post their viewing spots, I'm more than happy to post 'em.

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Baltimore: Second Hampden, although there aren't that many bars/restaurants worth going into (for what it's worth, unless you've lived in Hampden all your live, stay out of Zissamos!) If he likes soundgarden, check out True Vine on 36th street.

Also, just throwing it out, Fluid Movement's having their annual water ballet Saturday at Riverside Park. Definitely worth checking out!

David: True Vine's awesome, but it's not for everyone. It can almost make Soundgarden's selection seem like Best Buy. Not quite, but you get the idea.

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Intertubing in Harpers Ferry, W.Va.: Hey GOGS! Another tubing question for you. A group of us have reservations to go tubing in Harpers Ferry this weekend. The place where we rent the tubes says that you aren't allowed to bring beer. That said, they rent floatable coolers made to hold 24 cans. I guess for sodas.

Are they just obligated to say no beer--kind of like the softball leagues on the mall? Is it a "no beer" nudge, nudge, wink wink kind of a thing? Or are they really strict in the Wild and Wonderful state of West Virginia?

Thanks!

Jen: I went tubing there once and we definitely had beer in the floatable coolers. No one stopped us from having it and I think it was pretty obvious. However, It's possible they are stricter about this now than they used to be, so you may want to err on the side of caution. You know the side of caution. It's right across from the side of reckless abandon.

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Washington, D.C.: Hey there- I am looking for a public Texas Hold'em Game that I would feel comfortable going to...at a bar or pub or something. I'm not a beginner, but I'm just average-any place in town that has a game that I can get in on?

Fritz: We just covered this last week, but to recap: There are weekly games at Asylum, Clarendon Grill, Union Pub, Ned Devine's and a couple of others.

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need some chips: What's the latest word on Eamonn's in Old Town?

Erin: The word I received on Tuesday was "within the next few weeks." I know, I know. It's killing me, too.

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Alexandria, Va.: Any suggestions of a good place for a group to grab drinks and a little food near Tenleytown/AU area on a Friday afternoon? I'm not real familiar with the area so any advice would be good. We're in our late 20s and would prefer a place that won't break the bank. Thanks so much!

Fritz: Guapo's, which has a nice deck, frozen swirled margaritas and cold Mexican beers, is my top choice in that neighborhood.

There's always the Dancing Crab as a fallback. Tenleytown is really hurting for a decent watering hole.

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Washington, D.C.: Re: Bethany hotels...if the poster is willing to go to Rehoboth, I whole heartedly recommend The Bellmoor. Great staff, great Spa, very relaxing! Just went there last weekend and can't wait to get back.

Jen: I have heard good things about The Bellmoor. But if they want to stay in Bethany, that's definitely a little far.

Bethany person, you also may want to explore a condo or cottage rental, depending on how much lead time you have. You may come across a cancellation or something that hasn't been rented.

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Rock Karaoke, D.C.: Doesn't The Reef in Adams Morgan have a special punk and hair metal karaoke night?

Fritz: Yes, but what the poster and I were talking about is karaoke with a live band. You pick a song out of the book (say, Sham 69's "If The Kids Are United") and the guitarists/bassist/drummer play it on stage while you sing. Quite a rush.

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Dupont Circle, Washington, D.C>: Hey there GOGS! Is there a place that is not too far from the 9:30 club to grab a bite to eat before heading to a show? My friends and I are worried about the "sketchy area" around that side of V street and could use a good recommendation.

Thanks!

Erin: There are plenty of places to grab a bite. Depending on your preference, A Taste of Carolina has some quality barbecue. Etete and Dukem are both nearby if you can handle heavy injera-soaked Ethiopian before standing up for a show all night. I haven't tried it, but it might be interesting!

I had a kitschy-fun time at Islander Restaurant a few weeks ago with some friends, but it wasn't the finest dining. Creme Cafe is deliciously close and, finally, Ben's Chili Bowl is my favorite 9:30 Club fall-back.

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Great Cheesecake: My coworker just had dinner at DC Coast the other night, and said it had the best cheesecake he's ever had.

Erin: Wow, good to know. I rarely deviate from the beignets when doing DC Coast, but I might have to talk my dining companions into trying next time we go.

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State of Confusion, DC: Why o' why did Cafe Atlantico start making its Pisco Sours with sour mix, which is as we all know the bane of all good cocktails? What is to be done?!? Where can we go now for good, authentic latin cocktails, now that Atlantico has gone the cheap and easy route?

Fritz: Is that the house-made sour mix or something out of a can? I can't believe that Atlantico would stoop like that.

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Fairfax, Va.: Hi GoGs! My roommates want to check out Mango Mike's in Alexandria tonight. Is it worth the trip?

Fritz: If it's not raining and you can sip tropical cocktails outdoors under a palm tree, yes.

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Bethesda, Md.: Hi! My family is very busy and we don't go out much. My sister is coming home for the weekend and we wanted to eat somewhere great that would make up for all those nights that we missed out on. We have three vegetarians in the family and a strong preference for Asian/Indian fare. Any suggestions?

Anne: I've always found that Raku had decent options. You could also head toward Chevy Chase for the newish Indique Heights . Up toward Rockville, the Vegetable Garden serves Chinese and Japanese-themed dishes, all with mock meat. Just set your expectations to ignore the brusque service and focus on the food.

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Washington, D.C. - Movie Premieres: I've heard really, really good things about the Urban Film Series premieres at E Street Cinema tonight. A friend of mine saw the Hot Ghetto Mess movie at a film festival in Hollywood and said that it was really funny and relevant and provocative .. (If that's what you like in a movie ..) I've visited www.hotghettomess.com and was VERY intrigued.

Have the great GOGs heard anything about the film showing tonight?

Jen: I have heard nothing specific about "Hot Ghetto Mess" (though I agree, the premise sounds intriguing) or "Steppin'," the other doc showing tonight. But if your interest is piqued, you should definitely go. Info about the series can be found here .

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Arlington, Va.: Gurus - Not sure if this is really your realm, but I thought I'd take a shot. I'm going out of town this weekend to visit some friends. I would like to take them something distinctly DC (but NOT anything in the FBI/DEA/CIA hats/shirts/buttons/etc. category). They are in DC a few times a year, but I am reluctant to give them a gift certificate because I hate to spend too much money. Do you have any ideas?

Thanks!

Anne: How about a locally made food gift that travels well, like cookies from Firehook ? You could even include the Presidential Sweet cookie in their box. Then you can enjoy the gift with your friends.

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Washington, D.C.: I'm going on a friend-date (we're both straight girls) with a chick I met through friends. We're booked for Saturday afternoon -- any ideas for something low-key but interesting? I'm in D.C. for the summer and she lives here, so the touristy stuff is pretty passe. (You have no idea how hard it was to get that accent mark to show up.) We'd be game for seeing a movie, sports, a show, something quirky... but I'm fresh out of ideas. Help!

Julia: I've totally been on those before! If you're down for quirky, Fringe is it. You'll definitely have something to talk about afterward! Promenading with Lunatics sounds like a good one to me, but any one of these performances could work for you.

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Washington, D.C.: I love going on dates that involve that sharing food. I've had tapas at Jaleo and ordered fajitas for two at Mexican restaurants. Those are so basic, any creative suggestions for further food sharing? Also is the Melting Pot the only place around to get fondue?

Thanks

Erin: I'm a bad one to answer this because I like sharing everything. I usually halt the meal halfway through to swap plates with companions.

Ethiopian is definitely worthy of sharing, but I recommend knowing your date pretty well before trying it (seeing as how you use your hands and stuff your face). Indian food is obviously great for sharing and Afghan food is surprisingly fun to split. You can share chicken satay at Thai restaurants and lettuce rolls at Chinese spots.

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Quick post just in time...?: Please remind people that just because the meal is $30 at restaurant week that the servers deserve any less than they normally would. Remember, 15% off of $30 is, um, $4.50... It's a bad perpetual cycle... poor service from poor tipping... I want servers to not "hate" RW by tipping on service than the $30 price mark. (PS I'm not ever a server)

Erin: This is a helpful reminder. Love your servers, everyone and tip generously during the super-busy and stressful Restaurant Week.

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Washington, D.C.: Hey Guys,

Where can I get a pair of nice leather pumps that won't make me look like an extra from the Wizard of Oz? Pointy toes might look good on some people but not me...

Thanks

Janet: I'm surprised that you haven't been able to find shoes without pointy toes. A bunch of places for you to try: Wild Women Wear Red (U Street), Pink November, Shoe Addict (Georgetown Park), Sassanova (Georgetown), and, of course, Nordstrom. Have fun shoe shopping.

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Beer and tubing advice!: It entirely depends on where you are tubing! If it's Butt's, they drop you in the national park property of Harper's Ferry and park rangers were dumping out people's beers when I went.

It's irresponsible to be drunk on those rocks, it goes without saying. A lazy river is one thing (I've done it myself), but everytime I go through HF, it seems an ambulance is pulling a tuber or kayaker out.

Jen: That's a very good point. They don't make up those rules for no reason.

Now with a totally different perspective...

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Creme vs. Crostino: GoGs-

Trying to decide between Creme and Al Crostino for a possible dining locations- any thoughts? I heard Creme is meat heavy and besides chicken and fish (not really meat), I'm not a meat lover. Do they have fish or vegetable dishes? Which should I choose?

Thanks!

Erin: Creme definitely has things that'll suit you. So long as you're ok with a touch of meat (from sausages), shrimp and grits are a specialty. I also remember scallops and maybe a crab cake. If you want something more to your specifications, the super-friendly chef is pretty accommodating and can adapt things for different tastebuds.

That said, I very much like the ambience at Al Crostino. The wines are sensational and it's fairly quiet.

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NoVa: Hey GOGs,

I know we are submitting this super early, but we've got an important question for a unique situation.

A friend recently returned from Iraq and is at Walter Reed Medical Center Base. He will be spending his 26th birthday in the area, and we want to make it special for him, but because of his injury, he's not completely mobile (on crutches). We've had good luck taking him to places that aren't really crowded or require minimal movement (like museums with lots of benches or long dinners at a table with lots of leg room).

Sooooo... what should we do with him? Can you suggest a place that is handicapped-friendly but also fun and exciting for someone not from the area on August 1,2 or 3?

Fritz: Hey NoVa,

You sound like a great friend and we'd love to help. We're not sure exactly what you're looking for -- club? bar? lounge? dinner? -- so we're going to offer a bunch of suggestions.

First, a good friend of mine tore a muscle in her late last year and had to spend a

lot

of time maneuvering through bars on crutches. Here are some of her impressions:

"Aroma was very crutch-friendly. The bartenders are aware of what's going on in the bar and will make sure that you're okay. Just get there early enough to snag a stool. The Lush level of the Reef was good early on a Saturday night, but as things got more crowded it was hard to hobble to the bathroom and the door to leave. ...

Mostly, plan to go out early because even the nicest people become less aware of their surroundings after a few drinks and tapping people on the ankles to get through a crowd because they didn't hear you say 'excuse me' gets tiresome."

Okay, back to our suggestions. H2O, the large club on the Southeast Waterfront, gets crowded but is fully accessible. I've seen people in wheelchairs on the dance floor. Gazuza, the popular Dupont Lounge with great cocktails and a deck, has an elevator. So does Steve's Bar Room. Chi-Cha lounge has couches and he can put his leg up if you snag seats, which may be a great idea.

If you have ideas of what you think you might like to do, send an email to nightlife at washingtonpost dot com and we'll try to help plan an itinerary.

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Washington, D.C.: Hey Gurus (and Erin especially),

Thanks for the tip on Heritage India! We tried it, and it truly was the best Indian food we'd ever eaten.

We're checking out all sorts of ethnic cuisine since we're new, and wondered if there were any Eastern European/Russian restaurants that you'd recommend?

Thanks, as always!

Erin: Oh, I'm so glad that you enjoyed it.

I would probably recommend W Domku for testing some Eastern European.

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Chevy Chase, Md.: Hi - I'm new to the area and on Friday I'm taking a first date to a Fringe Festival Play in Columbia Heights that ends by 9:30. Most restaurants seem to close at 10 or 10:30. Are there any places in DC that would serve food until 11:30 or 12 so that we can chat after the show? Even a cool coffee house would be great if it had good food and wasn't super crowded. If possible, I'm hoping for someplace a bit cozy/romantic and not noisy so we can hear each other. I'm hoping to find something on the Orange Line in DC, but I guess we could always take a cab to Adams Morgan or Dupont if a place is open late. Thanks!

Erin: I'm impressed. You're new to the area, but on top of the coolness of the Fringe? Right on.

The Orange Line is an interesting one. I think your best bet would be around Metro Center.

Les Halles and Zaytinya are open until midnight. If you can get to the U Street area, I love Al Crostino for somewhat cozy and romantic. When they shutter at midnight, you can head over to Busboys and Poets where you're welcome to chat until 2.

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Project Runway: I've heard that Tonic was playing it last week with the sound on. Does Bourbon have the sound on or off?

Fritz: Sound was on.

Get to Mount Pleasant, people.

(Also, I'm willing to bet Patrice was bartending.)

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Alexandria, Va.: Not to be a snot, but drinking while going down whitewater with canoers and kayakers is just asking for trouble and more than a little dangerous.

Fritz: That's what I was thinking.

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Boozin and Tubin: It seems like everyone and their dog had beer and booze and food when I went tubing in Harpers Ferry last September. I can't imagine it has changed that much. They do try to scare you with all their talk about heat stroke and how stupid people are for drinking beer beforehand....Nobody listened, of course.

Jen: Good to have another perspective. Personally, I would just say use good judgment in this situation. If you've never been tubing or have a very low tolerance, it's probably best to leave the beer at home. If you can be responsible and have a beer or two while still maintaining safety for yourself and those around you, then give it a shot. But bear in mind that someone may confiscate your stash.

And that's one to grow on.

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Arlington, Va.: I am posting early because I wanted to make sure I got the word out. My friends and I are hosting a fundraiser Thursday (7/27) to help raise money for the Leukemia and Lymphoma Society at Rhino Bar in Georgetown. It is $20 all you can drink rail drinks and Bud Light drafts from 9pm-12am. Half the proceeds will go to the Society to reach our $13,000 goal for the Hike for Discovery Program. Hope you can help us get the word out!!

Fritz: This, and several other charity events, can be found in our This Week in Nightlife column. Late-breaking:

Rumors in Midtown is hosting a Young Professional Fundraiser/Happy Hour for the Israeli Red Cross and the Lebanese Red Cross tonight at 5:30.

SUGGESTED DONATION: $10

SPECIALS:

$3.00 Domestics

$3.00 Rail Drinks

Order The "Red Cross Shot" ($3.00) - All Proceeds From the Shot Go To Charity!

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formerly of O.C. MD: As someone who went to college and lived in O.C. until a few years ago, I would add a disclaimer that Seacrets is only awesomely cheesy in the summer due to the kooks from DC, PA, OH, NJ, etc. that come down for their weekly summer getaway and bring the cheesiness with them. In the offseason, Seacrets was always high on our list of hangouts as they stay open all year, continue to have good live music, and when you live down there you usually know people that are bartenders that will hook you up. You could also drive there in a boat, anchor it in the bay, and wade in during the daytime.

Not that the cheesiness isn't worth checking out if you haven't been...

Jen: Wait, so you're saying we bring the cheese? Come on, tourists visiting a beach town NEVER do that.

Thanks for giving us some insight into the Seacrets most people never see.

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State of Confusion, DC: No, the sour mix is listed as an ingredient on the drink menu (it's now in other cocktails too besides the Pisco Sour). I didn't want to accept the horrible truth, so I order one anyway. It tasted, well, like a drink made with sour mix. Needless to say I won't be going back for cocktails unless they change their ways.

Fritz: Oh man. That's bad news. Then again, a number of places (Firefly, Agraria, Eve, etc.) make their own sour mix these days.

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Tubing, W.Va.: Okay, okay...I'll save the beer for when we return.

Jen: Sounds like a plan.

People, I think we've all learned something here today: Drinking and tubing don't mix. That's why Duckie Dale rides a bike.

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Washington, D.C.: Hopefully this will make it in- any late night museum nights tonight? Or good fringe events happening tonight?

Julia: The Corcoran is pay as you wish until 8. The Phillips is open for Artful Evenings ($12, though) and the Freer/Sackler and African Art Museum are open for Art Night on The Mall . There's also a screening of "Dr. Strangelove" at the National Portrait Gallery at 6:30 p.m.

As for Fringe, it's late in the chat, so you'll have to scope out our

lovely calendar

on your own!

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Live in Rockville, work in DC: Hi, I'm new to this area, and my husband recently went to Ben's Chilli bowl and raved about it. I want to go now as well, but, well its kind of a trip (which I don't mind). So what else can I do around that area (I have a 3 year old) to make a day of it?

Anne: Ben's Chili Bowl is superb place to introduce a kid to. And after all that food, you may feel like a walk. Along U Street, there's a mural and panels talking about the neighborhood's history, a good way to share it with your tyke. Meridian Hill/Malcolm X Park is uphill but not too far, and there are open fields to run around in, lots of steps to climb and gorgeous fountains that even kids can appreciate.

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Dupont Circle, Washington, D.C.: Hi GOGs! I've got two 18-year-old girls (kid sis and her friend), coming to stay with my wife and me next weekend. We need some ideas for 3 fun nights out in DC -- Thurs, Fri, Sat. Can you recommend places that will be fun for both them and us? We're in our mid 20's. Thanks!!

Julia: Would they be interested in stand-up comedy? I thought Todd Glass was silly funny on Last Comic Standing and he's coming to the Improv next weekend. It's 18+

Jazz at the

National Gallery

or

Natural History Museum

isn't a bad call either for Friday night.

If you're willing to head up to Bethesda, some

old-school flicks

-- "North by Northwest", "West Side Story" -- will be showing outside.

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Rockville, Md.: It's my husband's 40th birthday next Saturday. Could you suggest a funky, fun, place that about eight people can hang out for creative drinks after 10 pm. We have a dinner party planned at home earlier in the evening, so we can only make it to DC around 10pm. (We have already tried Helix Lounge, Inde Bleu, Tabaq)

Fritz: Blue Gin (call ahead), Rasika, Firefly (in the lounge), Bar Rouge, maybe Degrees? Some places I might otherwise recommend are gonna be crowded for a group that large.

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washington, DC: RE: Walter Reed Vet on Crutches and not too Crowed...

I ran a special event that actually had some disabled vets from Walter Reed working with us...RFD in Chinatown was great for the vets and to us. Pretty open spaces, its gets a good crowd, young to older so the "scene" might be right, and its all flat. Add to that bouncers that are former military, and you have a bunch of peopel quietly ensuring a good time.

Fritz: Good suggestion, thanks.

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Southwest, DC: I have a group of guys coming in from out of town. We are all in our 30's and looking to hit up the town. Where do you suggest we go on a Saturday night that has folks that are a little bit older than an intern. DC or Virginia is fine.

Rhome: Mie-N-Yu . The capital needed to eat and drink in there is out of the range of most of the youngsters. Don't know if you'll be able to "make new friends" though, that spot works better when you bring along someone. Arlington is a pretty young area but Gua-Rapo seems to bring out the more mature residents. Also try Science Club , Gazuza , Tune Inn Dr. Dremo's and Indebleu . Note the mixture of divey/low-key and upscale spots since you didn't really specify.

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Washington, D.C.: Are there any parties for the Alpha Phi Alpha's going on this weekend?

Fritz: As we mentioned in Nightlife Agenda, it's all about tonight's Slick Rick party at Love and the big party at the Carnegie Library (formerly the City Museum) hosted by Big Tigger.

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Adams Morgan: Hey, just wanted to give props to whichever Guru it was (Fritz or Rhome?) who had been singing the praises of Tacos Pepito's on Columbia Rd. Finally went over there last weekend for some food and loved it. I missed all the great tacos and burritos I could get years ago in college in Santa Barbara. This fills a hole in my heart -- and stomach.

Erin: Adams, it was me! I've been singing the bakery's praises for ages and ages. I, too, came to know and love tacos and burritos in Southern California, so Tacos Pepito's is a welcome establishment in my black book.

Glad to hear you've become a fan.

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washingtonpost.com: Oh my gosh, look at the time, we really have to go. Thanks for tuning in, see you next week, safe tubing to you all.

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