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Andrea Sachs: Well, we survived another year of hellish Thanksgiving travel? Or did we? My final tally was two delayed flights and BWI parking woes (check our blog tomorrow for more details).

So, do tell: How bad--or surprisingly good--was the holiday trek? Best (or worst) will win a prize. And, of course, we want to hear all about your other trips, even those not sprinkled with holiday cheers and tears.

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Capitol Hill, Washington, DC: Taking a spur of the moment trip to Amelia Island, FL this weekend -- 70s and sunny! Any recommendations on where to stay or to eat good local food?

Andrea Sachs: Hmm, is that anywhere near Disney?

We have not been there in a while, so if anyone out there has any tips for CH, please chime in. Thanks!

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London, UK: Hi guys!

So I'm going to be flying through Heathrow, during the Christmas season (not looking forward to that). I'm confused about their strict one item of hand luggage rule - the website says "STOP PRESS: The Government announced on 14 November that passengers will be able to carry more than one bag onto aircraft as soon as airports confirm they are ready. BAA Heathrow will work with government officials to remove the restrictions at its UK airports, as soon as possible after 7 January 2008. Please note some airlines will continue to impose a 'one carry-on bag' rule so you should check with your airline before travelling."

But, doesn't everyone go through the same security line, regardless of airline? So do I need to be prepared to cram all my handbag contents, valuables and travel sized liquids into my very small laptop bag, on top of my computer? Any tips for that?

-Stressed out already!

Cindy Loose: Yes, people flying different airlines would likely be going through the same initial security line in Heathrow, and some might be headed to flights that are allowing more than one carry on, others headed to flights that are sticking to the one carry on rule. If you happen to be on an airline sticking with the old one item rule you'll likely get through the first security checkpoint, but then you won't be able to get on the plane with more than one item. Bottom line--you'll have to ask your airline what they're doing specifically.

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Washington, DC: Foreign currency. Flight Crew: do you know of a charitable organization that accepts old (20+ year old) foreign paper currency and foreign coins? The local currency exchange place won't buy it from me--too old. Thanks.

KC Summers: UNICEF's Change for Good program accepts donations of foreign currency and there doesn't seem to be anything on their site about the age of the money. You can mail it directly to them at:

U.S. Fund for UNICEF

ATTN: Change for Good Program

29 West 38th Street, 11th Floor

New York, NY 10018

Details: http://www.unicefusa.org/site/c.duLRI8O0H/b.25945/k.D3A9/Foreign_Currency__Other_Ways_to_Give__Donate__US_Fund_for_UNICEF.htm

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Washington, D.C.: Hello! Heading out of town for the week between Christmas and New Year's Eve and was wondering if anyone has any recommendations for places to board a dog in the metro area?

Scott Vogel: One place to start is a Web site that's worth remembering by anyone who needs animal assistance while they're on vacation. It's www.homeandpetsitters.com. You put in information like your zip code and requirements (in-home care or out-of-home, say) and the site matches you up with potential businesses in your area.

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Alexandria, VA: FWIW - My hubby and I tried a new flight itinerary for Thanksgiving travel with much success (and it was cheaper, too). We flew Tuesday and Saturday, and didn't have any trouble or giant crowds at the airports.

KC Summers: Thanks for the report, Alex. We've been hearing anecdotally from friends, colleagues and readers that Thanksgiving travel was much less horrific this year than in seasons past -- not just flying, but train and auto travel too. Guess a lot of folks heeded those warnings not to travel on Wednesday or Sunday.

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Washington, D.C.: Our family of 24 has a youngest member who is 2 and an oldest who is 75. We're hoping to assemble somewhere warm and affordable with easy flights from DC Christmas week 2008. We were thinking Gulf of Mexico, Sarasota or Tampa area. Any suggestions? Panhandle, perhaps? Our preliminary notion with a nod to affordability would be to rent at least two large houses, but would prefer that they be very near each other...

Thanks!

John Deiner: Planning for a year in advance? Good for you. Too many people don't when the trip is complicated (24 family members would be one of those cases!), and we all know how that turns out.

There's actually a spot near where you mention that I've been a big fan of for some time: Anna Maria Island, which is just south of Tampa, just north of Sarasota. I stayed in a little apartment there for a few days a few years ago, but I was really struck by the place. Cheaper than other spots, great beaches, nice people. You can go to www.amichamber.org for more info; it appears that vacation rental houses exist, so I'm assuming they could fix you up. Tampa is a nice airport to fly in and out of, and you can snag some affordable fares if you book far enough out.

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Australia-Bound: Hi there,

Going to Sydney and Byron Bay in February. Thinking of going to Heron Island in the Great Barrier Reef to snorkel, but it's very expensive. Does anybody know if it's worth it?

Cindy Loose: Hi--Snorkeling is my favorite all time activity so I'm biased. Haven't snorkeled specifically from Heron Island, but have snorkeled the Great Barrier reef out of Port Douglas. Have you checked prices for other Great Barrier Reef options.

Here's what I'd say generally---the snorkeling on the reef was great, but I was surprised it wasn't that much greater than some of the better snorkeling in the Caribbean. The amazing thing about the Great Barrier Reef is that it's so gigantic you can see it from outer space. Then again, you're not seeing the whole thing when you snorkel, so basically, you're getting a very fine snorkeling experience, but not necessarily that much better than you can get elsewhere.

I would say that if you spend the money to go on a big snorkeling boat, it's worth the extra $30 or so--that's the extra I recall--to go out on a tiny boat with a marine biologist.

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Washington, DC: I must say, I've never had an easier time through National (at any time of year) than on Wednesday evening. Expecting the worst, I arrived 2.5 hours pre-flight, at 6:00p. At 6:02 I was through security (having done my part in checking in online and not checking bags). Not a single person ahead of me in security! On the day before Thanksgiving! I was amazed.

KC Summers: Yeah, that's along the lines of what we've been hearing. Amazing indeed!

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Warrenville, Ill: Can you explain how travel insurance works and where I can buy it? So many stories these days about trips gone sour, stranding the traveler who makes what seems at the time the least bad decision. But afterward--safely at home--realizes that the least bad decision was terrible, costly.

I've never even thought about purchasing travel insurance before. But two of us are leaving on New Year's Eve for Thailand and Cambodia. Don't want to end up with another horror story for your travel section.

Carol Sottili: Travel insurance can be very helpful, but you have to read the fine print to make sure it covers the bases. There are several large travel insurance companies, including Access America and TravelGuard, and each of these companies offers many different products at different price points. My mother, for example, made the mistake a while back of buying a cheap policy without reading it. My aunt (not my mother's blood relative) was very ill at the time, and my mother bought the policy specifically to cover the possibility that she may have to return in case of her death. Long story short: my aunt died and the insurance wouldn't cover my mother's trip back from Mackinaw Island because it didn't cover in-laws. Also, don't just buy the travel insurance that is offered by the tour/cruise without reading it and pricing it against similar policies. You can compare travel insurance at several different sites, including www.insuremytrip.com and www.quotewright.com.

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Arlington, VA: Hi, I'm going to Paris for two weeks in December and plan to visit as many museums as I can. Is there any sort of pass that would give me reduced entry to the museums?

Thanks!

Christina Talcott: The Paris Museum Pass (parismuseumpass.com/en/) comes in 2-, 4- and 6-day increments, so you could buy two 6-day passes (60 Euros each) to use while you're there. That will get you into more than 60 major Paris museums (plus Versailles), and you won't have to wait in any lines. If you're not leaving the US for 10 days or more and really want to land with your pass in your hand, you can order one online (delivery fee is 12.50 Euro). But I'd skip that hefty delivery charge and just buy one once you get to Paris at any of the included museums or a any FNAC store.

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Springfield, VA: I am appalled and saddened by the story of the woman who missed her cruise. I would like Princess, Alaska and all other companies who are so heartless to know that some of us care more about being decent and kind to fellow human beings than what might strictly "be fair" to fellow travelers/customers.

I've taken seven cruises and three or four have been on Princess but their lack of compassion is definitely going to figure into my future cruise decisions.

Since you know, and we don't, who this woman is, would you consider facilitating a fund so that people could contribute toward another trip for this woman and her friend?

I would be happy to make a contribution. Although I and many others couldn't give a lot individually, I'm sure that collectively we could right this wrong.

And if she has her heart set on Alaska, she should go - - it was, to my surprise, perhaps the best cruise of all I've been on. Absolutely stunning.

I hope you can help us help her.

Cindy Loose: Hi--We've had so far about a dozen people wishing to help make this woman's dream come true, and we've put in a call to higher authorities at the paper about how we should handle this kind outpouring of interest. Don't have the answer yet, but will keep you informed. Once we have been advised how to proceed, we'll at the very least get in touch with those people who expressed a wish to help. If you want to hear what's up when we hear, email loosec@washpost.com and I'll email you directly, and you only, with what has been decided as an appropriate means of handling this in a responsible way.

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Silver Spring, Md.: Taking my first post-9/11 Amtrak trip to NYC on Friday. Are there any security regulations I should be aware of? Is there anything prohibited like on airlines? Thanks!

Scott Vogel: Like the airlines, Amtrak certainly does prohibit some items on board, although some of them are common sense (think any type of firearm, flammable gases or large sharp objects) and others are a bit alarming: "harmful bacteriological materials." For more information, see the "Traveling With Amtrak" page at www.amtrak.com.

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Gaithersburg MD: My husband and I will be in Boston for Christmas and are looking for a resort/country inn where we can spend a few nights after Christmas. We don't ski and we are looking for someplace with very good food and nice scenary where we can just relax. It should be within a 3 hr drive of Boston. any suggestions?

Andrea Sachs: Even if you don't ski, Waterville Valley in New Hampshire has a lovely village and dining atop its mountain, in addition to other tasty restaurants with lower altitude. Also consider Mount Washington Valley, which includes the towns of North Conway and Jackson Village, ranked as one of the top 10 most romantic ski towns in the country. You could also venture in the other direction, to Cape Cod. It is off-season, which means quiet and low-key, but the seafood is still steaming. Or consider Marblehead, a lovely seaside town near Boston.

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boarding pets: do your pet a favor. drop by for a surprise inspection. if they won't let you have a look-see, don't leave Fido there. Also - many vets either have or will recommend a boarding facility. Be prepared for the expense - $25-50 a night isn't uncommon, and holidays sell out quite quickly.

Scott Vogel: More good suggestions regarding pet boarders.

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Washington, DC: I hope the COGO story encourages inexperienced elderly travelers (and their younger friends and relatives) to seek out travel agents and/or tour companies that cater to elderly and/or physically challenged clients. I realize a couple weeks ago a much younger woman paid $7000 to fly from London to Zurich, so panicking is surely not limited to the elderly. But it is helpful to them to have everything laid out clearly, longer intervals between flights and at vacation stops, and the like.

Cindy Loose: A good suggestion--thanks.

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Amelia Island, FL: There are quite a few great B&B's to stay, one in particular is the Elizabeth Pointe Lodge. There is a Hampton Inn, located in downtown Fernandina and of course, there is always the Ritz.

Great food includes: Kafe Karibo for electic, Bretts on the Water, Horizons (on the south end of the island), Moon River for the best pizza. Le Clos or Joes Bistro for fine dining and Bright Mornings for the best breakfast on the island. Most of the dining can be found in downtown Fernandina.

Andrea Sachs: Great suggestions on eats and sleeps. Thanks.

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Re: Amelia Island: There is a really nice Ritz Carlton in Amelia Island, great kids activities, and spa/pools for adults. We've been there couple of times and really enjoyed it as a family.

Andrea Sachs: Ooh, we like puttin' on the Ritz. Thanks.

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Bologna, Italy: This is re an old topic discussed several weeks ago, but I

thought I should chip in about ATMs. I've been relying

almost solely on my American debit card in Europe

without a problem, because it's true that many credit

cards have exorbitant fees for withdrawal--PLUS, many

establishments that you would assume take credit cards

often don't, so having cash all the time is paramount.

The main thing is to be sure to always use your debit card

at an ATM that is attached to an actual bank, preferably

with video surveillance or inside the doors. A few of my

friends used bugged machines and lost money, but they

were always the ones that weren't attached to banks.

KC Summers: Hey, Bologna -- glad to have you with us! Did you have turkey bolognese for the holiday? Thanks for the post -- very good point about using an ATM attached to a bank. Those ATM scams are all too real in Europe.

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Baltimore to NJ: Flight crew. My thanksgiving travel went off with out a hitch - Baltimore to Allentown, PA to Morristown, NJ to Baltimore making for a nice triangular route. Traffic was great especially on the Garden State Parkway and the Delaware section. What happened after I came home is more interesting. Twice while coming home from different mornings in Baltimore (I live in northern MD) I was caught in accident retarding traffic on I-95 north! Both extending a normal 10 minute drive into over 45 minutes first and 30 minutes minutes the second time.

Andrea Sachs: Wow, we need to find you a new route for that leg.

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McLean, Va.: I was heartbroken to read CoGo's account of the elderly woman denied her trip of the liftime. I wonder if the cruiseline realizes how bad it will be perceived by not only refusing to refund the cruise charges, but the airfare that the airlines had already reimbursed the company. I suspect the cruisline apparently hasn't received any public relations training.

I hope someone with the means helps provide this lady with another cruise opportunity, but preferably not on Princess.

Cindy Loose: It's always gratifying to get response to something I've written, so thanks for the feedback. People have been expressing the wish to make sure she gets her long-desired trip, and we're investigating how best to do that.

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Dog Boarding, VA: FOr the chatter looking to board a dog: I've had great luck with the PetsHotel in the Fair Lakes (VA) PetSmart. They really take the time to get to know your pet--it's always gratifying when we bring our dog in and the staff start calling dibs on his playtimes!

They usually fill up fast, but they sometimes have a waitlist you can join. Like many kennels, they do have vaccination requirements, so you'll want to make sure everything's up to date and compare their requirements with your pet's files. Good luck!

Scott Vogel: Another pet boarding idea, and reminder that your pet's vaccinations should be up to date...

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Milford, Del.: When taking a cruise overseas is it better to book the travel yourself or through the cruiseline?

Carol Sottili: If you don't have any idea of what you're looking for, you can do some homework online by going to one of the cruise Web sites, such as www.cruisecritic.com. If you have already decided on a line/itinerary, I'd contact a travel agent and get a quote, and I'd also go directly to the cruise line to find out if there are any savings. The site www.cruisecompete.com is a good place to price out a cruise through various travel agents. Also, go to www.cruising.org to find a list of cruise travel agencies that are affiliated with the nonprofit Cruise Lines International Association.

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Downtown DC: We're headed to the Everglades the first week in January to explore that unique area, driving down from Fort Meyers and staying in Everglades City. We have a kayak tour booked and plan to hike in Big Cypress. Any suggestions for restaurants and activities (emphasis on being outdoors!) Thanks!

John Deiner: Hey, DC. Interesting question...I've been to Everglades National Park before and always wondered what's north in Everglades City. To the best of my knowledge, it's not a hotbed of activity or dining (though, man, I can't pass up a good fan boat ride -- so fun!).

Anyone have suggestions for our DC friend?

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Arlington, VA: Best/Worst Holiday Experience:

Christmas 2004

My husband and I decided to cash in frequent flyer miles and go to Paris for Christmas, generally a fabulous experience. (Can we say great pastries???) However, it was also one of the worst experiences for 2 reasons:

1. Christmas Eve - Following midnight Mass at Notre Dame, the Metro is closed, there are no cabs, and it's raining. We have to walk approx. 5 miles from the cathedral to our hotel near the Eiffel Tower.

2. Christmas Day - As restaurants are closed, we pick up sandwiches at a corner stand. My tuna is fine, but my husband get food poisoning off his ham sandwich and spends the night vomiting.

Andrea Sachs: That is pretty bad. But how was your holiday this year? No turkey salmonella special, we hope.

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Boarding Animals: Olde Towne Pet Resort in Springfield seems pretty neat. We toured the cat section since we have cats, but the dogs have many more amenities, including swimming. I'm jealous the dogs have more fun!

Scott Vogel: Yes, and isn't that always the case? :-) Then again, heaven forbid a boarder should try to take cats swimming. Especially mine.

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Re: Thanksgiving Trip: Hi, we drove to Williamsburg and Jamestown area on Friday and got back yesterday, the traffic was a pleasant surprise, only about 2,5 hours away. I wanted to see Jamestown this year and finally got to it, and it was well worth it. We walked around Williamsburg where they had a holiday market, it was kind of busy but not terribly crowded. The area was very nice with colorful trees and everybody in a good, family mood, I think it was one of the best Thanksgiving weekends I ever had. They also had a foods & feasts celebration at Jamestown, so it was an added bonus. As a naturalized American citizen Thanksgiving has very special meaning to me and to spend it learining about this country and its history made me especially appreciative of everything we have in the US, yet respectful of all other cultures how we all are intertwined with each other.

Andrea Sachs: It seems like you found the true meaning of Thanksgiving. (And, no, it's not on the bottom of a pumpkin pie tin.)

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Maryland: um, counldn't the person going through the UK get a bag slightly larger than the laptop bag instead of stressing. There isn't anything magical about a laptop bag. My carryon - and many other - have a zipped pocket admirably suited for a laptop, and the rest of it is a normal suitcase. My handbags get packed into checked luggage, with all the valuables like wallet and passport in the carryon.

Christina Talcott: That's the best option for Heathrow - having as your carryon a bag big enough to fit your laptop, purse and entire purse contents. Last time I was at Heathrow I crammed my purse into my backpack and tied my sweater to the outside of the bag when going through security, then went back to two bags afterwards. It just requires a little more planning.

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KC Summers: Here's a post from Jessica, a reader who saw the question about what to tip an Indian taxi driver last week and emailed us privately. Thanks for setting us straight, Jessica!

I am living in India, and I saw your response to the person who inquired about what to tip a van driver here, and you suggested 20 percent, or $5-10 a day.

For India that would be considered extravagant to the point of offensiveness. See, the drivers in these situations have already built in what is called a "bata" into the price, which is essentially their tip. You should ask the company if the price quoted includes the "driver bata"... if so, then you tip them maybe 500 rupees at the end of the trip. If not, your guidelines are on the high side but basically OK.

If you are feeling very generous and civil, what you should also do is pay for the driver's coffee/tea/tender coconut juice along the way. Also make sure that where you are staying provides accommodation for the driver including food. If they do not, it is alright to have the driver sleep in the car (you are not expected to buy them deluxe accomodations), but you must pay for their meal.

If you tip them too much, it's offensive. It's like saying "I could own you if I wanted." Being generous is one thing, being flashy is another.

Thanks,

Jessica

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Foreign Currency/Charity: How about the Post's own Children's Hospital Campaign?

Column in today's Metro (B-3 for those of us who still

subscribe):

"If you have foreign currency you'd like to get rid of, mail

it to Children's Hospital Campaign, 1150 15th Street NW,

Washington, DC 20071, and we'll get it to Asset Strategies

International Inc. to convert it into U.S. funds."

KC Summers: Whoops. Charity begins at home. Sorry about that, whoever's-doing-John-Kelly's-column-while-he's-away!

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Rockville, MD: I just finished reading this week's CoGo column. It was an unfortunate story - but really, did the companies misrepresent their offer, or decline to live up to their responsibilities?

It seems unfair that you choose a select few of the simply unfortunate or distressing stories because in many cases the unintended (or intended) consequence is that companies are being publicly shamed into offering refunds when they have otherwise declined.

Travel is hard for us all - and expensive - jumping on these companies for following their own rules just hurts the rest of us who try to play by the rules and end up paying for these exceptions through higher fees and ticket prices.

Cindy Loose: I don't see how anyone's prices would be increased by Princess or any other cruise line refunding air fare that they themselves have received from the airlines, but I guess that only partially addresses your issue.

I write most of the Coming and Going items, and try to choose those that speak to a larger issue than just one unfortunate traveler----most items are intended to help other travelers avoid a problem, usually by understanding how the industry works. In this case, it seems very unfair that cruise lines keep air fare when they themselves get the money refunded. True, there seems to be no rule against that, but seems to CoGo that's something that should be considered. After outside pressure, many cruise lines began refunding port fees when they didn't acutally make the port and therefore either didn't pay the port fees themselves or got the money refunded if they paid in advance. Why should air fares be any different?

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Washington, D.C.: Our trip to Upstate NY was wonderfully uneventful. Left midday Wednesday, hit just a little bit of traffic around Frederick, and made it in about seven hours...with a three-month old baby who slept most of the way! Best of all was the Boy Scout reststop in PA...free snacks and coffee!

Trip back on Saturday was slightly longer (traffic on 70 east) but still no major problems.

Andrea Sachs: This might be the easiest Thanksgiving ever!

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Arlington/Paris Traveler: Me again. Our Turkey day travels were pretty good, actually. However, that may becuase of flying out on Thursday morning and back on Saturday morning. The only concern was finding parking at National!

Andrea Sachs: I am with you there. Parking was bad.

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Fredericksburg, VA: We heading to Germany this Thursday to visit the Christmas markets. We'll be renting a car to have optimum mobility. I've heard rumors of issues with having snow tires on cars in Germany -- required by law -- and car rental agencies adding substantial fees to include them in your rental. Any insight into this slushy topic?

KC Summers: Hey Fred. We're going to throw this one out to the chatters, since we haven't a clue. Chatters? Anyone rented a car in Germany in the winter recently?

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Silver Spring, MD: No problem parking in the BWI hourly lot ($60, but worth it), no delay on a SW flight to Detroit Thursday morning, free upgrade from Alamo because they were out of compacts, no delay coming back to BWI on Saturday evening. The only hitch was that we had to check a bag due to presents we took with us, and SW was short of ground crews, so our bag took about 20 minutes to come out.

Andrea Sachs: Guess the free upgrade balanced out the baggage claim wait. All in all, a happy holiday.

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Silver Spring, Md.: We traveled to San Francisco for Thanksgiving and had a remarkably uneventful trip. We flew out on Tuesday and Dulles was nearly empty! United Airlines' and airport staff were friendly and helpful. Our flight back on Saturday was not even a full flight! When was the last time that happened? Overall, we had a great trip, even though we have an active toddler.

Andrea Sachs: Those are great days to travel it seems. Miss the madness by a day.

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Washington, DC: Hey there, Flight Crew. I'm headed to Wyoming (Casper and Cheyenne) next week for work and will have some down time. Any recommendations on what a Southern City dweller can do out there? Thanks!

Andrea Sachs: No recommendations roll off my keyboard (my last visit to Wyoming was ages ago, back when the buffalo roamed free). Anyone have any suggestions for this region?

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Silver Spring, Md: I'm pretty sure you've tackled this question before, but I can't find the answer. My slug-for-a-brother had my parents buy him airline tickets for Christmas. After the tickets were purchased for $670, and after the girlfriend broke up with him, he decided he didn't want to spend the entire time (12/24 - 1/9) with my parents, and therefore needed to change the dates for his tickets. As I was the one working as "travel agent" for this, I warned my parents that there would not only be a change fee, but also a fee associated with the change in fare. When we found out that these two costs would end up being nearly $800 (now bringing total cost to my parents to nearly $1400), my husband told me to check what a one-way ticket would cost. The cost of this one-way ticket was only $425 and so it was then bought. So currently, my brother will be AWOL on the 1/9 flight, as we made no changes to the original flight plans. This is illegal, right? But, more importantly, untraceable? Thanks!

Carol Sottili: I don't know what airline he's on, but most of them prohibit so-called "back-to-back" ticketing. That said, it's a rule that's often broken, and the airlines don't have dedicated personnel searching for this sort of behavior. I'd probably not use my frequent flyer number, as that's the easiest way for airline's to figure out what he's doing. P.S. I'm no Carolyn Hax, but maybe your brother wouldn't change his plans so easily if he were doing the paying/planning. It's amazing how much closer my daughter pays attention to such things since I put her in charge of getting herself home from college.

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oviedo, Fla.: to: Amelia Island Fla. tourist: stay at the Ritz Amelia even

if you think you only like B & Bs. It is the the nicest Ritz,

mellow in a god way, all rooms beachfront. I spent a

weekend there when pregnant and was floating on

departure. Eat at Salt and get a chef's table in kitchen.

They have a nice spa and you can ride horses on the

beach nearby. Take sneakers and sweatshirts for Ft.

Clinch state park, where you can surfcast or ride bikes and

see a nice living history program at the fort. FYI - Amelia

is just east of Jax., nowhere near Orlando. If you have time

stop in Jax and see the Crummer museum. Amelia is

peaceful, not too built up and near funky Fernadina Beach.

Buy lotto tix while here - the $$ funds free college tuition

for in-state students (really.)

Andrea Sachs: And now, the trip to Amelia Island is complete. Thanks everyone (but keep the suggestions coming).

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Derwood, MD: While this sounds very harsh, the elderly women who encountered difficulties meeting up wit their cruise ship should, in my opinion, not have been traveling alone. What they encountered was not all that unusual, They don't know how to use a credit-card operated telephone? My husband and I love to travel, but can only manage a trip every few years, in part because of a disabled adult child we continue to support. Virtually every trip has elderly travelers, for the most part very nice people who simply do not have the wherewithall to manage the itinerary, demand special diets after the fact, or cause scenes because you can't put American stamps on post cards you're sending from Europe. Everyone booking a trip should be very upfront about his/her needs and abilities to make sure they are a good match. This helps to ensure that everyone taking a trip has an enjoyable experience.

Cindy Loose: Given the brevity of the space I had I was not able to get into every element of this trip, but in fact, this woman had thought she was being accompanied on this trip. She got a flyer from a woman who reps trips, and she had been on small trip before, I think it was a bus trip, and the elderly woman assumed that the woman handing out the flyer would again be accompanying a group. Should she have checked this out and been sure--Yes. Should she have bought travel insurance--yes. Should she have refused to hand over money until she knew what the air portion of the trip involve--yes. Should she have consulted with her daugther first--probably. Is she and elderly and inexperienced traveler--yes. Did she overpay for the cruise--I suspect she did. Should she have shopped around for a better price rather and with a reputable travel agent rather than a woman who hands out flyers--probably. Is CoGo a soft touch for vulnerable elderly people--guilty. But I'd also argue that her experience sends up a lot of warnings for other travelers, and also raises an interesting question about whether it's fair for cruise lines to keep money they are refunded when a passenger cancels, be it the airfare or port charges or pre-paid excursions. I don't question cancellation fees generally--the lines are left holding an empty cabin they might otherwise have sold, so no questions there. But if for example they don't have to pay the excursion provider, why should the passenger?

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Honeymoon in Montreal/Quebec City?: Hi all. We're thinking of driving to Montreal and Quebec City for our honeymoon in early May. First, do these sound good as romantic destinations? (The weak dollar has thwarted our thoughts of Europe.) Second, what's the drive like from Maryland? (A search turned up 9 hours to Montreal, 11 to Quebec.) What's a good place to stay overnight as a halfway point?

Thanks!!!

Christina Talcott: Those sound like great honeymoon destinations! Quebec City seemed more romantic to me; it's smaller, with tiny winding streets, gorgeous views, charming old buildings. Montreal is fantastic for the food and entertainment, and it should be beautiful in May. However, the drive will be long, no doubt about it. To take a break from the road, why don't you stay at a B&B somewhere in the Catskills or the Adirondacks on your way up? We had a story about the Silver Spruce Inn B&B in the Adirondacks a few weeks ago (link coming soon).

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Blacksburg, VA: What is it like traveling in Italy during the last part of October? Crowds, weather, etc?

KC Summers: Generally speaking, October is a lovely time to travel in Europe, especially if you like crisp fall weather. The rainy season hasn't descended in full force (November can be bone-chillingly cold and damp). Northern Italy, of course, will be colder and gloomier than the south. But according to InfoRoma, October is a perfect time to visit Rome:

October is the best month of all for visiting Rome: the sunny days are known locally as the "ottobrate romane". In northern Italy and at higher altitudes, however, temperatures may already be quite low, particularly at night. The evenings are closing in and during the last weekend of the month the clocks go back.

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washingtonpost.com: Travel story on Silver Spruce Inn B&B

Christina Talcott: Here's that link.

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Cruise travel cont..: Sorry, forgot to mention that we booked the actual cruise. I meant should we book the airline ourselves or let the cruiseline do it? We found a nonstop flight to and from Philadelphia to Barcelona which was a little bit more expensive than the prices given to us by the cruiseline. The airline tickets are nonrefunable and I didn't see an option to purchase travel insurance through USAirways (but I read the previous posting on travel ins and will look into it). However, we had purchased travel insurance through the cruiseline. We are planning on arriving a few days ahead to explore Barcelona and come home the same day the cruise ship docks.

Carol Sottili: The key problem that cruisegoers encounter when booking their own airfare is when they plan their flights to arrive on the same day the cruise departs, and then the flight is cancelled. But you should be OK arriving a few days early. Is the cruise line offering a connecting rather than nonstop flight? Have you asked them if they could book you on those nonstop flights?

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Fairfax, VA: I'm sure this wins me the Grinch award, but what happened to the elderly traveller is, unfortunately, becoming more and more common. Northwest Airlines in particular should be commended for going the extra mile. At least she didn't have to spend the night at the airport, as has happened to me and several aquaintances more than once! I realize I have more resources than this woman, but there are things to do to minimize this happening, such as arriving in your city of departure the day before the cruise starts. And read your documents and buy trip insurance.

Cindy Loose: To that I'd add--insist on seeing itinerary before the deadline for refunds have passed. Otherwise, you could be flying to the South Pole via the North Pole.

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One Bag Rule: For what it's worth -- I just connected through Heathrow a week ago and when I went through the security line and asked if I'd need to cram my purse into my other carry-on, the staff told me no. There were many other connecting passengers too with a carry on and purse or computer bag. So, while the initial screening for passengers starting in Heathrow may still impose the one-bag limit, they're clearly already relaxing the rules for transit passengers.

Christina Talcott: Here's another Heathrow experience...

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Heron Island: I went there several years ago and enjoyed it except for the boat ride out (I got seasick; fortunately, able to take a helicopter ride back), and, to a small degree, the sounds of the nesting birds (a seasonal thing). Very good SCUBA diving and good snorkeling, though the weather when I went (Sept., I think) did not make for optimum visibility. Not sure how to say if anyplace is `¿ worth it¿¿ since that is so subjective. Suggest the poster get a guide book to Australia and look at options.

Cindy Loose: Thanks for the inside info. You can certainly snorkel the GBR without going to Heron Island, so maybe you can find the perfect solution of good snorkeling at a cheaper price. By the way, Port Douglas is a much smaller, less developed place than Cairens, which has a big boardwalk atmosphere.

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Dallas, Tex: Thanksgiving travel this year was shockingly smooth and easy. I flew on Wednesday and Sunday, connected through busy Atlanta and was not once delayed or late. Even the security screening lines took all of 3 minutes. The airlines, airport staff and even passengers all were on their A-game. Makes me wonder what we need to do to make the rest of the year's travel go so smoothly!

Andrea Sachs: Another success story. Thanks for sharing, Tex.

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Arlington, Va: Have any of you heard of the La Cubana bus that travels from Miami to New York. It stops near my house in S. Arlington and there are often people waiting for it. I can't imagine taking a bus that whole way, but I'd be willing to try it to New York since it stops in my 'hood.

Scott Vogel: I must confess I hadn't heard of the bus company until I heard your question (web site address: www.lacubanabus.com). And the $139 roundtrip price certainly seems inviting. Then again, the bus company's Web site offers this intriguing bit of info on the About Us page: "Drivers must also deal with difficult passengers who may rip the seats, drink, or smoke on the bus. 'We obviously have different problems than charter companies who carry church groups to Disney World,' [La Cubana's Rosa] Alvarez says. 'But we let our clients know that they have to behave themselves on our trips.'"

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Washington, DC: Best surprise for this Thanksgiving travel: The amazingly easy and stress-free drive from DC to Martha's Vineyard on Thursday morning. We left Northern Virginia a little before 6 a.m., and breezed through Baltimore, Delaware, NJ and the rest of the New England drive with NO problem. (This was our first time doing it with EZ Pass, which helped too.) Anticipating a mess on the Turnpike, I-95, etc., we had booked a reservation on the late evening ferry, and my mother-in-law had graciously agreed to celebrate Thanksgiving on Friday as we expected to be tired and late upon arrival Thursday evening.

But were pleasantly surprised to actually make it to Woods Hole just in time for the 2:30 boat. Better yet, the boat had plenty of space for our car, so we didn't even have to wait in the standby line.

Combined with the great weather (NO SNOW! NO ICE!! NO RAIN!!) and a long, but traffic-free drive home on Sunday (We took the western route, going via I-84/I-81, rather than tempt fate on I-95), this was the best road trip we've had in the 10 years I've been making the trip with my husband!

And spending "Black Friday" going through the thrift shops in Edgartown and Vineyard Haven was infinitely preferable to battling long lines at Best Buy or Kohl's or the like! Better prices too!

Andrea Sachs: Wow, not a turkey in sight (except the one on your table). Glad it went so smoothly.

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Reston VA: I'm wondering if anyone has changed their mind about traveling to Antarctica because of the recent problem. I am going on the Endeavor in early February - I'm now just more "aware" of basic precautions one has to take on a ship. I'm appalled that big liners with no hull-strengthening features are allowed to carry people down there...tho' not to the same sites.

Cindy Loose: Hey, I'm wondering the same thing. In fact, I plan to getting in touch with some experts early this week. Since you're actually taking this trip, I'd much appreciate it if you were to email me the questions you have. My email is loosec@washpost.com, and I just want to make sure I don't overlook questions that actual travelers to the area might have. Thanks!

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Thanksgiving disaster averted: On Thursday morning, I had the unusual foresight to check the traffic on the web and saw that a grass fire (!) under the American Legion bridge had slowed/stopped traffic on 495. So, we took an alternate route to Harpers Ferry that got us there quickly and smoothly. My niece, who was unaware, got stuck in that traffic, which then included a horrific accident, and was seriously delayed but made it in time for dinner.

Andrea Sachs: Nice planning, Disaster Averter. A good lesson for us all.

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Southern Maryland: Hi,

Hoping this question isn't to off topic for the chat. I recently overheard someone say that for certain places that require a passport you might also require a passport insert? I searched the government's passport sight but could not find any information. Could you shed some light? Thanks either way.

KC Summers: Not off topic at all, SoMd. But I'm not sure I understand the question. Are you talking about extra visa pages that you can get inserted into your passport if you've run out of blanks, or are getting close? That's definitely doable: Just mail the passport back to the State Dept. with the appropriate form, and they'll insert more pages -- no charge, unless you need expedited service.

For detailed instructions from the Passport Office, go to

http://travel.state.gov/passport/fri/add/add_850.html

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Boston, MA: Hey Flight Crew,

I am looking for Cristmas and New Years flights for a Boston-Buffalo-Washington, DC-Boston Trip. My requirements are to be in Buffalo by 12/24, DC by 12/28, and back to Boston on 1/1. I come up with flights around $900. Can I do better?

Carol Sottili: How flexible are you? If you're willing to fly out of Providence instead of Boston, and you're willing to connect through BWI when traveling from Providence to Boston, and you're OK with BWI, you could do the trip for $323 including taxes on Southwest.

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Washington, DC: Hey Flight Crew -

I am trying to post again this week. I am heading to Vietnam for a much-needed vacation in January. I know mostly where I want to head (Hanoi, HCMS, Hue, Hoi An, etc). I do know that I want to take a couple of days to relax on a beach somewhere, but am not sure where to go. Do you or the clicksters know of any great beaches in Vietnam? I prefer quiet and sedate over a loud party atmosphere. If anyone has any must-do experiences or tips for Vietnam, I'd love to hear those too.

Scott Vogel: We try to publish an answer to one question from these chats in the Sunday Travel section each week, one we didn't get to on Mondays, and we chose yours last week! Here's the answer we gave: "You may find sand-swept serenity on Phu Quoc Island, particularly if you go soon. It's 75 miles off Vietnam's western coast, reachable by air or sea, home to great undisturbed beaches and - it must be said - mixed reviews by travelers who have visited recently. (Imminent development is taking its toll.) For a more conventional resort experience, try Mui Ne on the east coast, known for its windsurfing, bustling markets and velvety sand dunes. Information: www.vietnamtourism.com."

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Re: One-way ticket (same itinerary?): The airlines' computers do pick up on multiple reservations under the same name for the same date/time -- so your brother could be liable to have one of his flights cancelled. He might want see if he can cancel just that last leg of his round-trip ticket (plus that way at least he'll have a credit, instead of just losing all of the money).

Carol Sottili: I'm guessing there would be no credit once the penalty fee is assessed. But if you want to be super careful.....

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Travel Options?: Hey Travel Crew:

So, I booked a ticket using frequent flier miles to visit the family over the holidays in late December.

However, now the family has shifted plans and wants to visit other members of the family in different, which is fine, but results in a 9 hour car ride.

Thus, my question is: Can I change the return airport on my ticket for an airport closer to my other family members? Or will I essentially need to buy a new ticket or use my original itinerary? FYI, I'm flying NW.

Thanks!

Cindy Loose: Airlines vary a bit, but most allow you to put back ff miles for a smaller fee than you'd pay as a change fee. Typically, it's like $50 to put your miles back, and $100 to change a ticket.

I don't know the nuances of every airline off the top of my head, but I'd start by seeing if you can still use a ff ticket, and how much NW charges you to start all over, once you know what it would cost in miles or money at this point.

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Central VA: For the person looking to book a cruise overseas: We have booked a river cruise from Amsterdam to Budapest with Avalon Cruises (a Globus company). We booked ours through AffordableTours.com ... they handle not only river cruises but other major cruise lines. They also offer nice discounts. I have used them for several land-only trips and have been pleased with their service.

Carol Sottili: Passing it along....

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Silver Spring, MD: I'm going to Vegas for a long weekend. Any recommendations for websites that have listings for coupons or deals? Thanks!

John Deiner: Hey, Silver. That's a good question. I'd suggest going to Vegas.com, Cheapovegas.com and Visitlasvegas.com. The latter actually has a search engine under "Special Offers" where you can type in your dates and get a list of, uh, special offers. For what it's worth, I just checked a few days in January and came up with nothing. But all the sites have a ton of links to other sites that may list deals and such. And don't forget Travelocity/Expedia/TravelZoo, etc., which lists deals all the time. As far as coupons go, you'll be swamped by them once you land -- you can pick up any number of free mags with coupons.

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Bethesda, MD: Hi Guys!

I'm wondering if any of you have experience using vacation auction websites. There is a particular "luxury" auction website that looks interesting to me but it has some very passionate postings all over the web about both how awful and how well it is run. Any thoughts?

KC Summers: Are you talking about LuxuryLink.com? We've not used it, but have generally heard good things -- people have reported getting some amazing bargains. Anyone out there with firsthand experience?

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Cruise travel cont..: I asked the cruiseline to book this specific flight and they came back saying that they were not given seats. The flights they have presented to us so far all have us stopping/changing somewhere. I can only assume that cruiselines and airlines make mutually agreeable arrangments with each other. Since this is the only nonstop flight from Philadelphia to Barcelona, I can only assume that the airline knows it will sell the tickets. I just want to make sure we get a definite seat (no bumping for overbooked flight) and don't make any stops along the way...lost luggage, etc.

Carol Sottili: If the cruise line won't book you on these nonstop flights, I'd take the chance and go it alone. But there's always a chance that even the most carefully considered travel plans will go awry.

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Bethesda, MD: I'm a retired federal employee with a bit more than the lady featured in this week's COGO, though I still have to watch my pennies. However, I'm sure I'm one of many who would like to contribute a small amount towards granting her her cruise.

PS I hope this makes all your readers realize how foolish it is to forego trip insurance.

Cindy Loose: And when buying trip insurance, read the fine print before paying, since broad terms like "trip interruption" and "trip cancellation" will not likely cover every example of a trip being interrupted or cancelled. In fact, sometimes companies dice and slice their definition of what's covered so fine that almost no contingency is left.

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Waldorf, MD: My wife and I are going to Orlando in Sept. 2008. When do you think is a good time to get airfare? I have begun looking already, but I am wondering what you think is a reasonable price? I have got anything from 75 bucks one way to a shade under 250 roundtrip in years past.

John Deiner: Hey, Waldorf. September is actually one of those months when tickets to Orlando seem to go way down, no doubt because it's among the quieter times of the year (all those kids back in school). Hard to forecast what fares will be like in September, what with gas prices and all, but I'd aim for anything under $200 round trip, and closer to $175 if possible. I'd start looking mid-summer, when Southwest announces its inevitable fall fare extravaganza.

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Pittsburgh, Pa: I was saddened to read of the sinking of the Antarctic cruise ship Explorer. A relative took the cruise over the winter holidays years ago, and loved it. Are there still other cruise ships to the Antarctic? I understand they have to be specially fitted for harsh conditions.

Cindy Loose: Funny you should ask--CoGo is checking into that question this week. At the moment I know nothing, but should be less ignorant by Friday, and will let reader's know in Sunday column.

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Holiday trip: Went to Puerto Rico this Thanksgiving, for the full week. Definitely a great Thanksgiving, although not a traditional one! Travelling back via JFK was fine on Saturday, no long lines.

Also, I am from India and generally agree with Jessica's taxi driver tipping advice. But you should as a general rule pay for the driver's food and lodging on the way, not just if you are feeling generous. Most hotels will have places for the driver to stay and will feed them, at a cost to you, but you need to make sure you confirm they are doing this, not just assume the driver is taken care of.

KC Summers: Thanks for the added India advice -- much appreciated. And how cool to spend T'giving in P.R.

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Baltimore, MD: Hey guys, coming off a surprisingly easy T-Day travel weekend I have a few questions about flights. I have a friend who is in Beijing for the next two years, my gf has a friend who is in Australia only for a year, and we just found out the gf's cousin and wife are going to be in the Galapagos for at least a year and maybe two. When is the best time to go to each of these places based on both airfare (seeing about $1500 for both Beijing and Sydney) and time of year. Thanks.

Andrea Sachs: Galapagos: May, when it is off-season and perfect weather.

Beijing: Stay away from the summer, due to the Olympics, as well as big holidays and events, such as the Chinese New Year. March and April may be a bit cool, but will be low on crowds.

Australia: Avoid their summer holiday period (our winter). Basing your visit on weather is tough, because the country is so large and has so many different climate zones. Spring and autumn, however, are slower periods and rates drop.

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Re: Cruise/Airfare: Hi, for the traveler who's buying the airfare separate from the cruise ship. The insurance cruise provides will not cover your flights nor the portion for the hotel room you'll need if you arrive a day or two early. If I were you, I'd buy travel insurance that covers everything rather than just the cruise. This is another reason why it is worth working with a good travel agent, if mine hadn't alerted me I would have lost ton of money and time when my flight was delayed for 2 days and I barely made it to the ship. The insurance covered the hotel we had booked before the cruise which couldn't be canceled last minute, and our hotel at the airport while we waited for our delayed flight and the meals. There are professionals who do this every day and it is so much easier than doing own research and wondering what is covered and what is not. We take a cruise at least once a year but always consult with our travel agent to see what is the best thing to and how. She's never let us down, and best of it, we don't have to wonder how things will turn out. Just make sure you read everything so there are no surprises with insurance, with cruise or others.

Carol Sottili: You're lucky you have a good travel agent. Look to my earlier answer to find out how to find a cruise travel agent.

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St. Michaels, MD: My sister, currently living in Honolulu and pregnant with her

second child, has finally shamed me into visiting her after

the birth. I have never visited her before because, although I

love to travel, I hate to fly (due to white-knuckle fear and the

discomfort of economy class seating). I plan to travel in late

June or early August and would like to splurge on a first class

seat. Current prices are about $1680. When do you think

would be the best time to purchase a first class ticket at the

lowest price?

Cindy Loose: Have you considered business class?

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Washington, D.C.: My family and I are traveling to Cambodia during Christmas break. We would like to bring some items to donate to schools. Any suggestions on what would be most appreciated?

Andrea Sachs: What a wonderful, giving idea. However, it might be best to contact a nonprofit, such as the Cambodian Children's Fund, that works in that region to find out what items are most needed and which ones will be best received. Also, you should find out if there are customs restrictions on number or type items you can bring into the country and also the best means of dispersing these items.

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Yardley, PA: Recently, in attempting to book a flight to Paris for January, I encountered a number of internet travel sites that listed a lower fare but when I was actually transferred to the airline, the fare tripled! Felt like a bait and switch to me and although I didn't bite, I'm curious as to what oversight is available to review the site-airline connection. Any ideas? Thanks

Carol Sottili: The sites will tell you that the fare sold out in the time it took for you to go over to the airline Web site. I think it's software glitches. Who in their right mind would pay three times as much? I don't think there is any formal oversight.

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Re: Amelia Island: I was just there 2 weeks ago- beautiful! It is 30 minutes from Jacksonville and is a the border of Georgia. Fernadina Beach is the historic area and there are many quaint places to eat, shop, etc. I stayed at the Ritz Carlton and their restaurant, Salt, is 5 star and wonderful! I highly recommend it! Ate at Pompeo's, a small family owned Italian place and it was very laid back and good. The nights get very cold there! Have fun!

Andrea Sachs: Thanks for (almost) live report.

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Silver Spring, MD: Travel with elderly people can be hard. I went with my grandfather & his sister to Europe last year. They thought they could use US dollars because they had been to Canada many, many years ago and could use US dollars there. Our US credit cards didn't work in small towns and they didn't know how to use their ATM cards. I basically became their bank (they called me that) and would pay for all their purchases and then tell them how much they owed me. We did go through a travel agency so almost everything was pre-paid. I really only had to pay for their shopping & all the stuff they ate at the mini-bar (which they didn't know wasn't free).

Cindy Loose: I don't think I'm old, yet have to lean on my daughter to repeatedly show me how to download and email pictures off my digital camera. I'm not even that stupid, but she considers it so obvious she's never really shown me what to do--she goes "do this, this, this," to quickly for me to see what's up. All this to say that even if we retain our current abilities into old age, there will be new stuff to flummox us. So to the truly young--be patient, please.

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London, U.K.: The main issue with the one carry-on per person has been for people flying out of Heathrow (and especially for those on BA - which actually does check to see if bags fit entirely in the little boxes! As someone who makes sure her carry-on is far smaller than the limit, even with a laptop, I'm always quite glad to see them making people check luggage that doesn't fit.) But they do generally allow people with two items to pass through, especially those flying on U.S. airlines from the U.S. I usually go through with a backpack that also has a computer compartment, or even one of the smallest LL Bean duffles (no affiliation with them, beyond being a satisfied customer), because my laptop also fits in there, and just tuck my bag -either one - under the seat in front of me so I don't have to worry about other bags knocking into it. Even better, neither bag indicates that it contains anything more valuable than some kid's dirty clothes and magazines - and no iPod, since I don't have earbuds and a cord dangling around my neck -so even though I'm not a kid and it's carrying around a laptop, work papers, etc., it's not a target when there are so many other people with far flashier bags and gadgets at hand. (And yes, I keep it with me at all times, but "pickpockets have been known to operate in these areas" and all that.)

Christina Talcott: Another report from the Heathrow trenches. The question of pickpockets brings up another issue: How many people try to look inconspicuous or otherwise not worth robbing when packing or traveling?

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European cruise airfare: Have they asked the cruise line about an "air deviation"? Usually for an extra fee, the cruise line will do their best to book what you request (ie, non-stop flights, or flights from a certain airport if you could be serviced by a few). Also a good idea if you're travelling during a busy time of year, since the cruise lines only book their airfare a couple of months before your departure date.

Carol Sottili: Never heard of this. Thanks!

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Just Back From Margaritaville: Sometimes it pays to check the Internet and then to check in early.

Visited Key West, changing planes in Miami each way and allowing plenty of time for the connections "just in case"; it was a full three hours on the return. As the trip approached it was pretty obvious the return turboprop from Key West to Miami was overbooked. So, got to the airport about two hours before the flight back departed and confirmed with the desk agent that the flight was oversold and they already knew they'd be needing volunteers. Offered two options if interested -- $250 bump vouchers, a free night in a hotel in Key West and a flight the next day or (since there was time to drive to Miami and still make our connection) $350 bump vouchers and a one-way car rental to the Miami airport.

Took the larger voucher offer and went to the car company desk to pick up a car while the airline agent processed the paperwork. But the car rental company only had one available car left for a one-way trip to Miami

A Mustang convertible.

Had a lovely drive up the Overseas Highway with the top down and cleared security at MIA about an hour and fifteen minutes before the flight to Washington National, so not even any delay in getting back to town.

Cindy Loose: I can't think of anything much better than driving a Mustang convertible up the Keys. Driving a Mustang up Highway 1 in California would be a contender, but sounds like a great trip to me.

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Re: Amelia Island: My parents and I (I'm 30-something) stayed at the Amelia Island Plantation resort. It's a huge, upscape property with a hotel, vacation homes, golf courses, lovely beach, etc. There are several restaurants on the property.

Andrea Sachs: In case you don't want to stay at the Ritz, . . .

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Reston, VA: Best Thanksgiving trip ever. I drove up the NJ Turnpike to CT on Wednesday night--supposedly the worst time on the worst travel day, right?

I got on the toll road at 6:01 PM and pulled into my parents' driveway at precisely 11:01 PM. There were NO delays except at the Delaware toll plaza, but I used the handy detour the Post listed last week and got around it. Couldn't have been better.

We even made it home last night in about five and a quarter hours WITH two short stops. I'm almost nervous about all this good luck--when's the other shoe going to drop?

Andrea Sachs: Maybe our holiday woes are over. (We won't announce that until after the New Year, though.)

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Missed cruise: It sounds like the airlines did their bes to accommodate her, even to get her to her cruise at a different point, but she declined. Not sure the cruise line was quite as heartless as they were portrayed. She did make some decisions regarding declining options offered her. And, not to sound heartless, but no one should ever travel anywhere without knowing details of flights in advance. That is just crazy. What she now expect a completely paid-for trip, including flights and cruise? Should the cruise line, which did not cause missed flights, pay for everything? Why not just donate the money to charity?

Cindy Loose: Actually, the item pointed out that she never asked for another cruise. She accepted she had made a mistake in not buying travel insurance. What she was asking for was a refund of her airfare, which the airlines refunded to Princess, so she could take "some little trip."

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McLean, VA: The would be Quebec honeymooners should be prepared for drive longer than 9-11 hours. I've made the drive from here to the Vermont-Quebec border a number of times, and I used to know an expatriate Quebecoise who made the drive home to Quebec City from DC a couple of time a year. Figure 11-12 hours driving time from here to Montreal, and 13-15 hours driving time from here to Quebec City. If you're heading to Montreal first, figure 3-3.5 hours from Montreal to Quebec City.

Christina Talcott: Cindy points out that it could be cheaper to fly to Burlington or another northern city, rent a car and drive across the border to Montreal, saving all those hours you would have spent driving.

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London, U.K.: For the London-based or -bound, if you're flying through Heathrow during the Christmas season, are you going through there before January 7? Because if so, it appears that you're going to be allowed only one carry-on item. If you're flying after January 7, then maybe you can have two items, depending on your airline (and note that it doesn't say that you can after that date, just that they'll work on making it as soon as possible after that date). My guess is that security will end up having a list of which airlines allow two, and which allow one, and when your ticket is checked before you enter the security lines (past the area you pick up the plastic bag and dump any liquids, but before you're sent into the cattle chutes) they'll make sure you have the proper amount? Maybe they'll even designate separate lines for the ones with two items...

Now, my question: I know I'm going to be making a few round-trips between the U.S. and London next year, and already know generally when. The way my tickets are set up I'll be flying round-trip starting in the U.S., with a return on a much later (as in months later) date. I was casually looking today and prices are all at least $200 more than what I was expecting. I know a lot of that amount goes to taxes, and I know some of that's because the dollar's not doing well and oil really is, but generally, when should I start seriously considering buying tickets for next year? One trip's going to be in the leaving the U.S. in the spring, returning before Christmas, and one will be leaving the U.S. after Christmas and returning at some point in 2009. (I know it's too early to buy any of these tickets, because they're only selling through next October.) Thanks!

Carol Sottili: I'd probably start tracking the fares when they are posted, and then I'd be prepared to buy when they dip. But there is a chance they won't dip because of the reasons you mention. Try www.farecompare.com, www.kayak.com and www.orbitz.com for tracking the fares.

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Pittsburgh, Pa: For Honeymoon in Montreal/Quebec City?:

If you choose Montreal, don't miss the vast Botanical Garden, accessible via a Metro stop. On the weekends lots of wedding parties go there to have their formal portraits taken, so lots of newlyweds there! In May I'd think the spring flowers would be in riotous bloom there.

Christina Talcott: Wonderful suggestion! Thanks!

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Chicken Little in VA: Hello Crew,

I'm feeling paranoid about an upcoming flight. The TSA rules keep changing and although I think I understand 3-1-1, I would hate to have a delay over contraband deodorant or the like. Are semi-solids ok outside of the bag? A compact of solid cream foundation, bag or no? Deodorant solid, bag or no? Do items in 3-1-1 have to be in clear containers?

Also, any must-sees in New Mexico? Flying into ABQ, plans on Santa Fe, then free to drive the rest of the state and perhaps to El Paso.

-Many thanks!

KC Summers:"Solid cream foundation" -- what's that? If it's like a creamy-cake-like kinda thing, put it in the baggie. Semi-solids likewise go in the baggie. Solid deodorant -- in the baggie. TSA agents could argue that it's a gel, so why take a risk?

Items don't need to be in clear containers. Just make sure that the container is 3 oz. or less -- in other words, you can't roll down a giant tube of toothpaste even if there's less than 3 ounces left in it. It's the container size they're worried about, as much as the contents themselves.

Re New Mexico, there are tons of things to do outside of Santa Fe -- Indian pueblos, skiing, Albuquerque (we'll post a link to Andrea's recent story), quirky Roswell, the gorgeous Four Corners area, etc etc. Don't miss the Georgia O'Keeffe Museum, it's very beautiful and moving, if a trifle controlling (you can't even being your purse).

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washingtonpost.com: Montreal Botanical Gardens

Christina Talcott: Here's your garden link, honeymooners!

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Logan Circle, Washington, DC: For the Heathrow passenger - another complication that we ran into last summer was the number of bags you can check. We flew out of the US, landed at Gatwick and took a bus to Heathrow for another flight out the next day; we flew USAir to London, and British Airways out. I was surprised (to say the least) when the person at the BA counter told me we could only check one bag apiece w/out charge. I had made it a point to check their website before I left, and didn't see anything about that; she took pity on me, since we only had one extra bag between us, but I was not happy. Going back through London, I had to cram everything into our two bags; luckily, the third one was small and somewhat foldable. However, when we flew out to go home, a few days later, we were able to check all three again. Bottom line - I don't know if the one bag limit on checked items applies if you're just doing a straight transfer, but the person should check carefully.

Christina Talcott: More Heathrow hassles...

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Maryland: I suspect the "passport insert" is referencing places like Cuba or some middle eastern companies. the former b/c the Cubans know not to stamp the passport of an American trying to enter into the country - illegally, generally, given our current restrictions. the latter case being if you have your passport stamped with certain Arabic states then you can't be admitted to Isreal with those stamps in your passport, thus a "passport insert" is used. Not 100% sure, but I think that is what is being discussed.

KC Summers: The State Dept. would never sanction something like this. Usually Americans who visit prohibited countries just ask not to have their passports stamped.

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washingtonpost.com: A Cheap Vacation: You Can Bet On It (Oct. 14, 2007)

KC Summers: Here's a link to Andrea's nice Albuquerque story from last month. Thanks Kim.

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Washington, DC: I met an Orlando investment banker last night in the Premier Kopano lounge at the Johannesburg airport who, like Tom Hanks, isn't being allowed out of the airport because his passport was stolen on the flight over. Does this really happen?

Cindy Loose: I did a coming and going item some time ago about passengers landing in South Africa and being denied entry because they didn't have an empty page in their passport. They weren't allowed, we warned, to leave the airport even long enough to visit the U.S. embassy to get an extra page into their totally valid passport. So, it doesn't surprise me that a person who doesn't have a passport, for whatever reason, is being treated not so nice.

Of course the extra page issue just means that people have to go home--a horrible thought after just being on a plane for untold hours. If your passport is stolen, I guess it would be a problem flying home even. I'd hope at some point the U.S. Embassy will come to the airport to help this person. If not, he should email CoGo.

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Andrea Sachs: So, consensus says: Thanksgiving was as easy as pie (pecan, pumpkin, apple--pick your flavor). The prize goes to the Martha's Vineyard travelers, because they survived not just Black Thursday but also Black Friday. Please send your name and address to sachsa@washpost.com.

Thanks all for playing. And come back next Monday for more chats about our favorite subject.

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