Got Plans?

Every Thursday at 1 p.m. ET, washingtonpost.com's Going Out Guide experts share their best bets for local flavor, great dates and family fun. Got plans? Great. Need plans? Just ask. We have the skinny on the bars and clubs, concerts, kitchens, theaters and special events that keep life interesting. We're going out gurus, and we're at your service.

Of course, we're happy to answer questions about local entertainment, but we need to hear from you, too. Introduce us to the coolest DJ or the fastest bartender you've encountered. Sound off on the week's best concert or the city's best burger. Tell us about the best place to amuse little kids or a big art fan. Together we can plan fun ways to spend weekdays, weekends, dates and holidays. The pleasure is ours, and yours.

Each week a different guru will act as host or hostess, but the entire staff is at your service. If you're looking for more ideas, see the Going Out Guide or read transcripts of past Got Plans? discussions.

The transcript follows:

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washingtonpost.com: Hello, chatters! Welcome to Got Plans? We're not so into the rain today, but super psyched for the maddest weekend of March Madness. Before we begin, we've got a little treat for you. The good folks at Taste of the Nation are offering $10 off the $85 admission to the annual food + charity fiesta for Going Out Guide readers today from 1 p.m. until 5 p.m. To get the discounted tickets, visit the Taste of the Nation site, click on the "Buy Tickets" tab and enter the code GOG09 in the "Discount Code" box after selecting the number of tickets. On with the show.

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U Street: Policy- worth checking out this weekend or better saved until after all of the planned birthdays and opening weekend activities?

Fritz: Policy, the new lounge at 14th and T from some of the guys who opened Josephine, officially opens next weekend. There's an RSVP-only "sneak preview" party tomorrow night with DJ Gavin Holland of Nouveau Riche, so even if they're still working out the kinks service-wise, you know the beats will be slammin'. I've heard about the place -- booths, graffiti decor, bottle service -- from some folks who've seen it, but obviously haven't been in myself.

If you want to check it out, send an e-mail to KevinLMurray@gmail.com with your names. As I said, it's RSVP-only, so I'd get on that today.

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Alexandria, Va.: Hi! My immediate family is coming to town on Saturday, including my sister and her husband with their three year old and one year old. Meanwhile, my brother has decreed no museums shall be visited (I think they want to be outside). They've all been here several times before. Any thoughts on a new family friendly activity?

Stephanie: Well your family picked a good time to visit, because it looks like the weather is going to be an improvement over today. In that case, how about checking out the kite festival at Gunston Hall or the Family Film Day at Workhouse Arts Center (which has lots of space outside for a picnic or just hanging out in the sun). It's not outside, but the circus is also in town, so if the kids don't have a paralyzing fear of clowns (like some people who shall remain nameless), then that could be a fun option.

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NO Red Lobster says the wife: Hi Gurus, I have a babysitter for Saturday and the event I was attending is canceled, sooooo my husband and I are going out to dinner. We've got a hankering for seafood, but don't want to break the bank. What would you suggest in Silver Spring/Bethesda/Rockville (or general area) or NW D.C.? I am thinking Hank's Oyster Bar or Dancing Crab. Is there anything out there that's any good $18 or cheaper for an entree. My husband is threatening Red Lobster! Thanks.

Julia: Step away from Red Lobster. I'd also probably avoid the Dancing Crab too. Even though I love the place, it isn't really a date-night spot. Hank's is good. Many of the entrees do go over your $18 limit (but not way over, max $23), so if you're willing to swing it, that could work. In fact, after double-checking a few menus, I'm beginning to think that's your best bet.

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Washington, D.C.: I recently moved to D.C. from the Pacific Northwest and I was curious where the best place in D.C. to buy whole bean coffee is. Specifically I would love a place that roasts the beans in house and has a knowledgeable staff. Metro accessibility is key. Thanks!

Julia: I think Fritz and I would both vote for M.E. Swing near Farragut West. The Mesco blend is ridiculously good.

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Fairfax, Va.: Hey GOGs! My buddies and I are trying to find a sports bar in Northern VA to watch all the March Madness games tomorrow night. Any suggestions on places that won't be too loud or overly crowded?

Fritz: I think the good places to watch March Madness will all be crowded and loud tomorrow -- pretty much par for the course when you're talking about a Friday night + college basketball. You might want to call ahead and make reservations at a sports bar that will (a) have all the games and (b) let you have a booth to yourself, which is far better than having to stand around. I'd try one of the Velocity Fives (Falls Church, Sterling or the brand-new, just-blogged-about Arlington location), Mister Days, the Original Steakhouse and Sports Theater, or, though the menu is completely deep-fried, Summers.

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Cheering up depressed friend: A good number of months ago a good friend of mine's wife of a good many years left him. He's in his 40s. I'm increasingly concerned he's clinically depressed. Every few weeks of so I buzz him since I'm going to be in the area and offer to drop by/dinner. He always declines 'not feeling up to it'.

Can you think of something funny going on in local theater to take him out of himself??

Stephanie: Well it sounds like it might take a lot more than funny theater to get him out of the house (understandably), but it's sweet of you to keep trying. In any case, I might look into tickets for the Demetri Martin show. That guy is hilarious right down to his bowl cut. Washington Improv Theatre is also hosting a big improv tournament, which could be enough to put a smile on your friend's face.

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Hey Fritz: What are your gualifications for being the Bar/Lounge/Drinks Guru? This is a serious question. Aside from a resilient liver and a love for fun and good drinks, what are they and how did you go about getting your qualifications for your job. I know lots of people who love to drink but I can also tell you that that doesn't mean they'd all be good Gurus. It can't just be the love, so what is it? It also can't be quantity that you might consume because I'm sure there are people who could give you a run for the money. And I would find it hard to believe that it's simply luck of the draw.

Thanks

Fritz: Actually, I stumbled into it. I happened to in the office the day washingtonpost.com was hiring a Bars and Clubs editor. If I'd been here a few days later, I might be the Fitness or Health editor.

Did you ever see that movie "Sliding Doors"? Probably not, unless you were on a plane in 1998. Anyway, life is just like that.

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Dupont Circle, Washington, D.C.: Like many past chatters, I am faced with planning a "meet the family" dinner for my parents and my girlfriend's parents. Mine are foodies, hers are probably more conservative/mainstream eaters. Any thoughts on a D.C. restaurant with enough atmosphere to minimize the awkwardness but also satisfy both tastes?

Julia: Proof is expensive, but strikes me as a place that has enough options for both. Perhaps you'd dig some place like D.C. Coast, which offers traditional dishes and some livelier ones. Neither of those are particularly atmospheric, so what about a place like Firefly? Food's good. And traditional. And there's a big tree in the middle of the place.

And just a quick note about awkwardness: you guys will be fine! You like her. She likes you. Your parents will like each other, or at least get along well enough not to say anything weird. I was so scared about the meet-the-parents thing and then it happened and it was just . . . not a big deal. Chatters, agree or disagree? Care to brighten our days with a meet-the-parents horror story?

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Old Town Alexandria: For the chatter looking for whole bean coffee, Misha's in old town has a pretty good selection of beans (maybe 2 dozen). It's on the corner of Patrick and King, maybe 6 blocks from the King Street metro. I work a block away and can smell them roasting every afternoon. Mmmmmm.

Julia: Ah, Misha's. Another good suggestion.

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Bookworm: Not a going out question but can anyone recommend quaint used bookstores in the DC/Nova area (not necessarily antique or collectibles)? Yellow Pages is not much help.

Thanks!

Fritz: My favorite bookstore in the entire area is Capitol Hill Books, which I always hit before or after going to Eastern Market. Wonderful selection of vintage paperbacks, current hardcovers, old cookbooks and a top-notch selection of old mysteries. Books doublestacked on the shelves so you really have to take your time browsing, which is what a bookstore is for. (The monthly free-wine nights and classical music also are in its favor.)

Runner up would be Second Story, but not the overshopped Dupont Circle branch -- I'd rather go to the supersized warehouse in Rockville. Like Costco for books.

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Washington, D.C.: For the person looking for whole bean coffee, I would recommend Mayorga's - particularly their Central American roasts. So good, and not crazy pricey considering it's all small-batch, etc.

Fritz: I like Mayorga -- the roasting facility is Rockville is fun to visit and smells like heaven. And it's all fair trade/shade grown/everything you want to hear. I also adore M.E. Swing, especially the French Roast, when the beans are new and oily.

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Washington, D.C.: I am looking for a place that has nice desserts that I could bring to work meetings. I live in Mount Pleasant, so some place near there would be great (or metro-accessible, because I do not have a car). Ideally, I'd like a place with good cakes, pies, cookies, cupcakes, so I could vary what I bring, but if there is a place that does one of these items well, I'll take that. I wish I could support Heller's, but everything I've gotten there has been stale (some items as a hard as a rock, but they still sold them to me). I also find Firehook's stuff dry (though not stale).

Julia: I like Buzz Bakery a lot for this, but it's certainly not convenient for you. Patisserie Poupon and Baked and Wired also come to mind, but both are in Georgetown and would be a hassle. I guess I'd just have to go with Hello Cupcake (for the obvious). It's very Metro-accessible. Chatters, hook me up. Is there a good bakery I am forgetting?

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Meet the Parents: How about Blue Duck Tavern? Or maybe Al Tiramisu.

Julia: BDT can get pretty loud, but I could definitely see that being a good parents-meeting spot.

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Alexandria, Va.: So I am finally getting some of my married girlfriends out (without the husbands and kids) for a weekend night out on the town. Need ideas in the area (preferably DC) where a group of early 30 women can have cocktails in a fun atmosphere...and I, the only single one, can flirt with cute men in their 30's!

Fritz: Good cocktails and single scene -- not exactly the most common combination, strangely enough. PS 7's happy hour is lively and the bar has one of the city's best drink menus right now. Bourbon gets a decent crowd. Marvin is lively, but you'll be standing all night, if that matters. Eighteenth Street Lounge comes to mind, especially on a Friday. Love the drinks at Proof, but I get the feeling that 90 percent of the singles in there are women. (Go figure.) The Gibson's no-standing rule makes mingling hard. Ummmmm...

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M.E. Swing's: Gurus, I have a comment for you. I bought a pound of coffee for my boyfriend's father at M.E. Swing a year or so ago, I think the first time I went to the parent's house for dinner. The relationship stuck, but the coffee was totally the worst coffee ever, and the family still makes fun of me. For the NW person (as a former Seattle-ite: Murky coffee in Arlington sells great beans.

Julia: No way -- really?! Wow, I have never had anything but great beans there. Anyway, sorry about the family coffee drama. Putting this out there for the Pacific Northwest-er.

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Washington D.C.: I have some friends coming in from out of town. They will be here tonight at 10 p.m.. Are there any bars that have a fun scene Thursday that late? If it helps we like places more like Lotus. I'd say my least favorite bar in D.C. would be Rocket Bar.

Fritz: 10 is early on a Thursday night. You've got your 5-8 happy hour crowd, and then the second wave starts around 10:30-11. (Heck, Josephine doesn't even OPEN until 10.) I've been to Lotus and Tattoo at 10 and seen them half-empty, but full by midnight.

So, here goes: Fly, ESL, Josephine, possibly Current (I've found that weeknights can be hit-or-miss there). The Park can be a good bet if you're dressed up -- Boris Kodjoe is hosting a party tonight. (RSVP to membership@pandorathursday.com by 5 today if you want to get on the list.)

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Silver Spring: Need a good place for Easter Brunch in/near Alexandria. Family of four with two grown children -- preferably has seafood as well (Eggs Chesapeake, etc). My brother just moved and we're taking Easter to him -- he doesn't know the area too well yet. Thanks!

Julia: My three favorite brunch spots are in Old Town, actually. Fontaine Caffe, Vermilion and Evening Star Cafe. Evening Star has Crabcake Eggs Benedict on its usual brunch menu. I'd call to confirm about Easter. And tell your brother to read our chat!

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Meeting the Dad: This isn't a parents-meet-the-parents story, but it is cringe-worthy awkward. My BF's father doesn't live in D.C., and so last year, when he was randomly in town, BF decided it was time we meet. We made plans for a Saturday night dinner downtown, and that was that.

Until we got to the restaurant, and realized that Dad was there with all of his college buddies. And it was his bachelor party, because he was getting remarried. Holy Awkwardness.

Here I was, wearing an appropriately conservative outfit, as nervous as can be. And of course, my oblivious BF (who had not bothered to inquire about his father's reason for coming into town) decided to join the bachelor party. And the equally oblivious (runs in the family) Dad decides its a great idea to have his son's girlfriend just tag along ("To keep us in check"). It was an interesting evening, for sure.

Needless to say, I make the plans from now on.

Julia: This story rules.

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Arlington, Va.: It may be too late into today's discussion, but I need some expert advice!! My roommate is officially becoming an American Citizen (former Canadian) tomorrow. She swears in around noon and I want to take her out for an "American" themed day. Any suggestions would help, from silly ideas to meaningful/memorable. We'll probably start at America Restaurant out by Union Station.

Stephanie: That is such a cute idea! I would say that heading to the American History Museum is a must for a look at the Star-Spangled Banner. You could get tickets to go to the top of the Washington Monument for a view of her new capital, and then maybe head to Virginia to watch the changing of the guard at the Arlington Cemetery. Maybe we can get some more ideas from the peanut gallery. Any patriotic chatters out there?

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Capitol Hill Books: And I love the curmudgeonly old man that owns it!

Fritz: Jim Toole is a character, but man, he's always got a quip about something. He's part of the charm. (Well, that and being told that the "Mystery Room" upstairs is where the previous owner suffered a fatal heart attack. Fun thing to know when you're browsing for OOP Marjorie Allinghams.

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Arlington, VA: Gurus, PLEASE help! I am looking for a place where three mid-20s girls can go out on Saturday night for good drinks and especially some great music to dance to. Please help with somewhere in DC that would also have a pretty decent guy/girl ratio with no or at least a reasonable cover. Any suggestions?

Rhome: Standard picks: Wonderland, Saint-Ex. Adventurous pick: Fritz's recommended Fez and Moustache Party. Live flavor: Reggae and afrobeat with See-I and Chopteeth. Where I'd be if I didn't have a ton of work to get done on Saturday: S3 at Almaz. But don't go there for drinks, the bar is tiny. Hit somewhere else on U Street.

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Mocha Hut!??: So, apparently Mocha Hut (13/14th and U)closed. I walked by today and there is a sign saying "Coming Soon: U Street Cafe"

Any scoop on why MH closed, and what to expect from the new place?

Julia: Fellow food fan and writer Missy Frederick has this story about the closure. As you can see, details are limited about the closure and about the new coffee shop.

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Taste of the Nation que: So... is it worth it? Obviously it's a great cause, but wondering if you actually get food or if it's very crowded with not much of anything. Am definitely interested but don't really want to wait in long lines for hours. Thank you!

Fritz: I went to TotN last year when it was at the Hilton, and I didn't wait long for much of anything. There were lines at Restaurant Eve, Proof and a couple of others, but they seemed to move fairly quickly. (I just made sure I stocked up on beer samples from Rustico before getting in the Eve line.)

Apparently this year's event at the Mellon Auditorium means there will be more space to spread out. We shall see.

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Union Station: I am looking for something like the Rainforest Cafe in this area. I didn't realize all of the local ones closed. Any ideas? Thanks in advance.

Julia: What do you mean by "like Rainforest Cafe"? Like, just something with a kid-friendly atmosphere? Or something sort of environmental?

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re: Patriotism: Watching a March Madness game or two (especially at an alumni function, where people are invested in the outcome) is very American. Even in Canada, getting much of any American sports update is always very difficult.

Fritz: Yeah, I completely agree. Take your friend over to the Pour House, where people will be sneaking out of work to watch college sports. That's the American way.

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Laurel, Md.: Hey there, Gurus! Here's a weird request... I need a field trip type of place to take school kids (ages 5-15) on a Sunday morning/afternoon. Other than that Smithsonian museums, are there any other places that are kid-friendly and free in the MD/DC area, which will keep the kids occupied for a good 4-5 hours? We plan to go in April, so it can be either indoors or outdoors, but I am desperate for suggestions! Thanks so much!

Anne: Man, I feel for you. That's a long time to keep kids entertained (and a big age range to deal with, too). I'd keep your eyes on some festivals coming up -- the last weekend in April usually has a ton, like Glen Echo's carousel opening -- good for the little ones, not for the teens. April is also the main month for the Cherry Blossom Festival. For other trips: our own employer makes it possible for you to take kids on a school trip to the Newseum for free, which is great for teens and probably too much for younger ones. The thing that might work for everyone would be a hiking trip (which is probably why I remember so many of those kind of trips as a kid) -- try the Arboretum, or state parks near you.

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Beans: The coffee at M.E. Swing is good, but it won't be the experience the Pacific NW'ster is looking for. I hate to say it, but places like that don't exist out here. As a transplant from that part of the world I wish they did.

Julia: More tales of doom for the Pacific Northwest-er.

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Van Ness, D.C.: Hey GOGs! As the weather is getting nicer, my boyfriend and I want to plan a camping weekend somewhere close, most likely at Shenandoah. We would like to find a camping site there that is a little more secluded than the ones I have previously camped at (where you are right on top of the site next to you), but I don't know how to figure that out! Do you or any of the nuts have any pointers on how to find such a site? Shenandoah has so many different campsites that it's so hard to figure out which particular site among many would be surrounded by trees and not people. Any help is great, thanks!

Anne: Expert Shenandoah campers, any tips?

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Arlington, Va.: Best place to skip out of work early and catch the UMD game? Work is in Rosslyn, so anywhere in Northern VA/orange line DC would work!

Fritz: My first choice would be to park myself at the bar at the new Velocity Five in Court House. They're still working all the service kinks out, but the wings are great and the beer is cold. Mister Days is an extra stop up the Orange Line, but they have some great food and drink specials.

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washingtonpost.com: An amendment (from Rhome) to the answer for folks looking to dance on Saturday night. Fatback has just moved to bigger digs. Your agenda is now complete.

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Washington, DC: Hi Gurus! I asked this question of Tom with no luck, so thought maybe you were the better place to go for an answer! My 30th birthday is fast approaching, and my family wants to take me to dinner. I want to go to Central, which is out of my normal price range. We'll be five adults, and a 6 year old and a 3 year old. If I book an early dinner, say 6:00ish, on a Sunday night, would that be ok? Or is Central not really a place for kids? The kids are well behaved, and the adults are great at getting them out of the dining room at first blush of not behaving, until they can pull it together. I just don't want to spend the whole meal feeling like we're at a place that doesn't want kids there, with other diners who don't want kids there. I also don't want my niece and nephew to not be part of the celebration. Thanks!

Julia: This is sad to say, but both Fritz and I don't think Central is a good bet with kids in tow. Even at 6 p.m. Totally hate to rain on your parade on this. I could see Acadiana being a good fit, perhaps? Still has that nice-restaurant feel (and price tag) but it's a little more accommodating. Perhaps Cafe Atlantico, too. I mean, it's festive inside, so kids would probably be okay there. Sorry to be a downer!

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Petworth: Whole Bean Coffee - there's this guy at Eastern market that has nice coffee. I met him on a Saturday at one of the tables under the arcade.

Meet-the-parents venue - if you don't mind Silver Spring, Ray's the Classics would work. If you want DC, have you considered a place like 1789, Corduroy, Cashion's - good food for the foodies, but not scary for the others? Or if that's too expensive, or a style problem, perhaps a place like Paradiso (Georgetown), or Domku (Petworth pride!) or Belga?

Meet-the-parents story - my parents and my in-laws met at my wedding rehearsal. Stress on stress. But they knew me, and my parents knew him, and so they thought they knew what they were in for. Since we are both the mutants of our families, it was pretty funny when they all realized that the families were so normal. But they are all cool, so it all worked out fine.

Fritz: Petworth coming through again -- like Cashions and Domku for parents options (aquavit for everyone!)

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?: Which Bourbon is Fritz referring to in the above question?

Fritz: Definitely Adams Morgan. Glover Park isn't so 30s.

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Not Firefly!: I seriously love the place but it is waayyy too loud for a meet the parents evening. I think it'd make it more awkward...

Julia: A good point about noise. Perhaps Urbana, the other nearby Kimpton restaurant, could work. It's loud in the bar, but a lot quieter in the dining room.

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Second-hand bookstore rec: Go to Books for America, 1417 22nd St NW. They collect donated books, pass some on to needy organizations, sell others in their bookstore, and use the proceeds to fund literacy and library-building programs. Great selection of books and for a great cause!

Fritz: You know, I've only ever prowled through their sidewalk selection on my way elsewhere and never popped in. Thanks for reminding me that I need to do that.

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Dupont Circle: For the couple looking for a nice date place with seafood, they might also try Pesce. Some of the entrees are pricey, but we often just get appetizers, which are filling, delicious, and reasonably priced. (That said, I'm also a big Hank's fan. I always think it's too expensive when I sit down, and when I finish, I always think it was worth every penny.)

Julia: Thanks for the tip for the MoCo date nighters.

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Evening Star Cafe: Sorry, but it is NOT in Old Town!

Julia: Oh right. Did I type Old Town? I meant Alexandria. Evening Star is indeed in Del Ray.

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Arlington, Va.: Why do you not have a "Best Of" guide to the quietest restaurants? Bless Tom for his decibel ratings but an accompanying listing would be highly appreciated by us who despise trying to converse without yelling at each other.

Julia: Hey! A great idea! Tom agrees. I'll put it on my to-do list.

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Washington, D.C.: Hi GOGs! Headed to Tattoo tomorrow night for the first time. Any advice on what time to get there to avoid lines and a cover? Thanks so much!

Fritz: The closer you can get there to 11, the closer you get to skipping lines and cover. (Honestly, I don't think I understand their cover policy -- seems like sometimes you get charged, sometimes you don't.)

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Washington, D.C.: I need an afternoon activity for some Kansans who have been to all the major DC sites, love bluegrass, jazz, and music in general, and would like to do something indoor (since it's going to rain today). Any suggestions for events, exhibits, or music acts this afternoon?

Thanks, Tired tour guide

Stephanie: As for music, your friends could head to Bohemian Caverns to see Ron Carter or Iota for some folk with Richard Buckner. Since they've already seen the big attractions, they could try something really different like meditating at the Phillips. The Environmental Film Festival is also going on with movies showing all over town.

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$100-$120 to spare in NOVA: My hubby's birthday is this weekend. We weren't going to celebrate (trying to save money) but it's his birthday(!!) I -have- to do something.

We're not drinkers so we save a lot of money when we go out. I'd like to take him out on Saturday night - somewhere where they don't stuff us in like sardines and somewhere where I won't overhear the next table's conversation. I'm looking for ambiance and great food (open to anything), in NOVA. Maybe in Arlington? Old Towne? Falls Church? We live in the City of Alexandria.

Any idears?

Julia: I think Vermilion (mentioned above) is one of your best bets. Happy birthday to your man!

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For new American citizen: You should DEFINITELY be sure your day includes apple pie!! Preferably warm, with vanilla ice cream...

Stephanie: Excellent advice for the friend of the soon-to-be new citizen.

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New American: It might be too late for this, but a great gift would be to have a flag fly over the Capitol for her. On the same note - how about a tour of the Capiol ...?

Stephanie: More ideas for the new American.

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Alexandria, Va.: The hubby and I recently moved to the Old Town area and have subsequently had a steady string of visitors. Any suggestions for a good date night/freedom from house guests celebration spot in our new hood? We've only tried the Del Ray usuals (Evening Star, etc.) and Union Street Pub so far.

Fritz: My Old Town staples: PX, the bar at Eve (for snacks and cocktails), flamenco night at Las Tapas, Cafa Salsa (great margarita-and-mojito happy hour), the back bar at Daniel O'Connell's.

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Washington, D.C.: I always try to find a theme in the chats and today is the good friend chat. The poster trying to get his depressed friend out and about and the America Day chats just warm my heart

Stephanie: I know! The do-gooders are just flocking to Got Plans today, aren't they?

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Coffe, con't: More information on Mocha Hut at Prince of Petworth.

Also, I get pretty good beans from Calvert Woodley. (The tankers of gin are only a perk, I swear.)

Fritz: Personally, I prefer Jameson in my coffee (and Clontarf in my shots), but to each his or her own.

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11th Floor: Where is Velocity Five? How many Gurus want to join me for beer and wings post-chat?

Fritz: Fronting Clarendon Boulevard, right past the elevator for Court House Metro. It's where King Street Blues used to be.

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In Love in Clarendon: Gurus, you rock! Great sense of humor and Julia, I love your date ideas. My boyfriend and I have opposite schedules (he bartends, I work at a school, plus he's in school out of town 3 days a week). The stars are aligning tomorrow and we have all day and night Friday to spend together! I was contemplating over the Pompeii exhibit and Co Co Sala. What do you suggest, wise Gurus?

Julia: You rock too, Clarendon! I think you've got yourself a pretty good date set up already, to be honest. I might pop into a sports bar before the exhibit to grab a drink and watch some March Madness. RFD strikes me as a good place to go in the downtown area.

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Not Trying to Copycat But...: I went to the best birthday party a week ago at the Rock & Roll Hotel. He secured one of their private rooms upstairs with our own bartender, had it catered, great dancing, etc. Such a great idea that I wished it was mine.

Now it's my birthday (turning 31), and I'm trying to come up with something equally as cool. I love music and dancing but nothing too posh and stuffy. Where can I throw a party like the one at R'n'R Hotel?

Rhome: That sounds like a really good look, but not easily duplicated. Don't know if they regularly offer that package or your friend has some good friends there, or dough.

So the lesson to you is that you can solicit most any club to arrange something similar, just be prepared to pay. I suggest you try to get your people together early, like 8 - 10 pm. Then everyone can meld afterward into whatever event is taking place during prime time.

Options with dancing that don't have velvet ropes and dress codes are few, otherwise I'd throw Muse into the mix. Science Club comes up yet again as an option.

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Washington, D.C.: So I have a feeling that my boyfriend is going to propose this weekend. Any suggestions on where I could get a manicure in the Dupont Circle area ahead of time? I'm a nail biter, so I'd like him not to be grossed out when he looks at my hand.

Julia: I actually have a sort of funny story about that, but ... not much time. Anyway, not in Dupont, but I used to just get quick, efficient, cheap manicures at Pro Nails on Columbia Road. The place is um, kind of sketchy feeling, but they do a good job. Before I found myself super broke late last year, my friend and I were sampling all the cheap manicure places and we just kept going back to Pro Nails. Ladies, if you have a Dupont nail salon to recommend quickly, let this chick know! (Fingers crossed on the engagement. Good luck.)

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Glover Park: Now that it is NCAA time, who did y'all each pick to win it all?

Julia: Louisville. Because I'm predictable like that.

Jen: Pittsburgh. Because I'm almost as predictable as JB.

Stephanie: Washington. Because I'm totally unpredictable (and a huge fan). Go Dawgs!

Fritz: I held my nose and hoped that Ty Lawson would be healthy by Final Four time.

Rhome: I'm an angry Terps alum. I'm hating.

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Silver Spring, MD: Two dating adults going to the circus Saturday night. What's a good place to have a late 10:30 ish bite to eat near Verizon? Something with ambiance, a booth maybe and cozy. Oh and good smple food. I am a low carber and I need protein and good fats

Fritz: The late-night menu at Proof (11 p.m.-1 a.m.) is one of my staples. You can hit the charcuterie board or the ahi tuna tartare -- your SO (assuming they're not on the same diet) should order the wagyu steak and cheese or the gourmet meatball sub.

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Washington, D.C.: Hi Gurus! I'm participating in a 5K downtown next Sunday with a group of friends and we'd like to go out to brunch afterwards. The race starts at 9 and even with some in the group running and some walking, we should probably be done around 10. Initially we were thinking Austin Grill, but not sure if you had any other low-key brunch suggestions for the area. Thanks!

Julia: That's not a bad call, actually. Downtown and low-key don't often go together. I'll add the Penn Quarter Matchbox to the list. As I've mentioned probably too many times now, their brunch is ridiculous. (Looks like Beizer needs a thesaurus. "Ridiculous" has been my adjective of choice today.)

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Bethesda, MD: Just need to vent a little here. Based on the St. Pat's Day list of venues that Fritz put together I arrived at Harp & Fiddle at 4:20 to avoid the $10 cover charge starting at 5:00. Annoyingly they were already demanding the cover. I refusted to pay since I was likely only going to be able to stay for a little more than an hour. If they provide details on their events then they should stick to their commitments!

Fritz: Damn, really? I'll give them a call about that. Something to keep in mind when doing next year's guide, and the reason that we were all running around bars -- and, in my case, not drinking most of the day -- and posting our findings on the blog.

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A day in D.C.....: So for a variety of reasons, I have a day off from work next week and was thinking I would do something fun and culture related in D.C. Do you have any suggestions of things to do and maybe places to grab lunch/food? I'm thinking something available via public transportation, but not your usual museum on the Mall. Thanks!

Anne: Oh, I am so totally jealous. I think next week (before the Cherry Blossom festival starts and the tourists take over) is my favorite week of all in D.C. I say be outside and make your own garden tour and do some neighborhood exploring. I would go early to Cowgirl Creamery for the sandwiches of the day. Teaism (any branch) is also great for getting food while you're wandering. You could hit Eastern Market for fresh goodies, too. And you could have a leisurely meal at any of the new indie burger places and then stroll off nursing an awesome root beer float/milkshake.

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Fairfax, Va.: I'm taking my boyfriend out for dinner this weekend, and he wants New York-style pizza. Any ideas where to go in the Fairfax/nearby Va. suburbs area?

Julia: I don't know if you'll consider this "nearby" but Candy Sagon just gave a favorable review to Flippin' Pizza in Reston in last week's Food section. On a side note, I think people who are looking for New York-style pizza in this area are often disappointed. Not that I necessarily think our pizza is worse, just that New Yorkers will never be able to get jazzed up about pizza not from N.Y.

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Alexandria, Va.: What's a good mixed drink to order when I'm out with my boss and other high-level executives? I'm a beer type of person but I need a "go to" drink that I can order and not look like I'm still in college. Suggestions? thanks

Fritz: Dude, you can still order beer when you're out of college, as long as it's a nice American microbrew (think Racer 5, not Sam Adams; Ommegang or Allagash, not Blue Moon). A nice Belgian served in a proper glass -- Leffe, for example -- should impress.

Okay, but you're looking for a cocktail. You can go all "Mad Men" and start drinking Old Fashioneds and Manhattans (switching to Gin Rickeys in the summer), or just figure out what kind of martini you like and start calling it. (Honestly, calling the brand is a good start -- shows that that you have some idea of what you want/like.) You could also start exploring Scotch, too.

If you're in Alexandria, try visiting the PX and explaining the situation to Clinton Terry, if he's behind the bar, or Todd Thrasher at Eve. I'd usually trust those guys, unless Todd tells you to ask for something with a foie gras garnish.

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Columbia Heights, D.C.: For the poster looking for the neighborhood bakery, go to Sticky Fingers across from the Giant at 14th and Park. Delicious cupcakes, cookies, cakes. Their "cowvin" oatmeal cream cookie convinced my doubting co-workers that vegan baking can be GOOD!

Julia: To each his own, to be sure, but I just can't get into Sticky Fingers. I'm sure they do a good job; I just really like non-vegan things like butter in my baked goods. I'll bet at least some of her office mates will agree.

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bean beans beans: If you like Ethiopian, Sidamo on H St. NE has a variety of roasts (that I can't spell...). If you go Sunday afternoon, they do a traditional coffee ceremony that's very cool.

Julia: Fritz also like this place. He's been in an answer-questions-out-loud mood today. So I'm just transcribing for you.

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Arlington, Va.: Hi Gurus,

I am hanging out with my 14 yr old niece this Saturday and we can't think of anything to do! Usually she says she wants to go to the mall, but she isn't feeling it this weekend. Where can we go to have some fun in the late afternoon and then out for a cool dinner? I don't mind driving or paying, so we can go just about anywhere. Thanks for you help.

Stephanie: My first thought was: Cake Show! because at 14, that would have been my idea of a good time, but I was also sort of a nerd, while most teenagers are too cool for school. What about a play? Chorus Line is supposed to be fantastic. After that, I'd probably head to Chinatown or Penn Quarter for dinner. Maybe something like Matchbox or Nando's.

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Washington, D.C.: Hey Gurus, have any of you seen that show on the Travel Channel "Man vs. Food?" It got me wondering if there are any kinds of food challenges in our region. Do you know of any? If not, what would be an ideal food challenge? I dare anyone to survive an entire pizza of jumbo slices.

Fritz: I will admit to being a huge fan of "Man vs. Food." Only potential challenge that's coming to mind right now is at BGR in Bethesda, where "The 9 Pounder" is a 16-pound behemoth that uses 9 pounds of burger, two heads of lettuce, four pickles, etc. A bottle of Maalox comes on the side. It's free if you eat it all in one sitting, or $80 if you don't finish.

Eating a 36" pizza would be a challenge I would NOT want to take on.

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Mixed drink for Alexandria: And if you want a drink that looks like a drink but has no alcohol (so you don't do/say anything regrettable in front of the boss and the higher-ups), you can always order a tonic with lime. Great for summer.

Fritz: Please allow me to plug my what to drink when you're not drinking story.

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Washington, D.C.: My wife is turning 30 and I'm taking her to New York on Friday 3/27 to celebrate. Since we won't be in the district, I wanted to plan a night out on 3/26 for our friends here. What might be a good spot to go to for about 10 - 15 people? Food, music and good atomosphere is what I'm looking for. It has to be gay friendly and not too pretentious. We moved here from California about a year ago, so we haven't uncovered all the gems this city has to offer. Thanks for any help you can give me.

Fritz: My top answer would be Marvin -- Thursdays have been fairly solid recently (like the Motown 50 night tonight, which Rhome raved about in this week's Nightlife Agenda.

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NY Style Pizza: Grew up in New Haven, Conn., (arguably home to the best pies) and have spent 5 years here sampling pizza and always being disappointed... Until Sette Bello in Clarendon... Its pretty good and is the only thing that satisfies my longing for pizzas cooked in my father's woodoven. Get the proscuitto and arugula pizza; it's awesome.

Julia: How 'bout this for a glowing rec? Sette Bello is actually more of a date spot. I wouldn't call their pizzas N.Y.-style, because when I think of N.Y. pizza, I think of a single slice on a piece of foil, but it's a much better date night suggestion for the Fairfax couple. What do you think of Pete's in Columbia Heights, New Haven? It's supposed to be New Haven-style, but aside from offering a clam pie, I'm not sure they nailed it.

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20011: Hi Gurus - I need your help! A friend and I are planning a hookey-day from work on Wed, 4/08. We are taking a half day from our adult lives, going to have lunch at Ben's Chili Bowl, followed by a few hours of drinking, and then spectacular night with Neko Case. We need help filling in the gap between chili dogs and Neko at the 9:30 Club. What bars would you recommend for us in the U Street area to complete our day? Thank you!

Fritz: The Gibson (6-8 p.m.) for cocktails, the Saloon for nice Belgian beers and a quiet atmosphere, Solly's Tavern cuz I love a dive and a drink on the rooftop deck at Nellie's. Grab a glass of wine at Vinoteca's 5-8 happy hour if you prefer wine to dives.

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What to drink when you're not drinking: Thank you for the article, dear Fritz. I'm nursing and can't drink...am getting tired of water and fruit juice.

Fritz: I do my best!

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funny 'new york style pizza' story: My ex-fiance, who lives in the Bay Area, and I were out to dinner. Said they have good pizza - I thought the crust was soggy but the topping flavor really good. He put me on the spot with the waiter, telling him what I'd said. I told the waiter 'I'm from NY - we have certain expectation of our pizza'. I am from NY and I guess you understand why he is now an ex-fiance ... .

Julia: Oh, there were just two more cute ones I couldn't resist. The pizza story above, and the nail salon below.

nail salon: For the chatter looking for a Dupont Circle nail salon-- I keep going back to Mimosa on Connecticut Ave. It's on the west side of the street, just north of the circle, near Secondi & Starbucks.

See ya next week!

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washingtonpost.com: And that's it for us today, kiddos. Good luck in your March Madness pools and we'll see you next week!

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