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<pubDate>Fri, 13 Nov 2009 00:00:00 EST</pubDate>
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<pubDate>Thu, 12 Nov 2009 00:00:00 EST</pubDate>
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<pubDate>Wed, 11 Nov 2009 00:00:00 EST</pubDate>
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<pubDate>Mon, 09 Nov 2009 00:00:00 EST</pubDate>
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<pubDate>Sun, 08 Nov 2009 00:00:00 EST</pubDate>
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<pubDate>Sat, 07 Nov 2009 00:00:00 EST</pubDate>
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<pubDate>Fri, 06 Nov 2009 00:00:00 EST</pubDate>
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<pubDate>Thu, 05 Nov 2009 00:00:00 EST</pubDate>
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<pubDate>Wed, 04 Nov 2009 00:00:00 EST</pubDate>
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<pubDate>Tue, 03 Nov 2009 00:00:00 EST</pubDate>
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<pubDate>Mon, 02 Nov 2009 00:00:00 EST</pubDate>
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<pubDate>Sun, 01 Nov 2009 00:00:00 EDT</pubDate>
<description><![CDATA[ Dear Carolyn: ]]></description>
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<pubDate>Sat, 31 Oct 2009 00:00:00 EDT</pubDate>
<description><![CDATA[ Adapted from a recent online discussion.<br clear="all"/><a href="http://ad.doubleclick.net/jump/wpni.rss/opinion/columns;pos=ad9;tile=9;ad=rss;sz=479x40;ord=4613102927179" target="_blank"><img src="http://ad.doubleclick.net/ad/wpni.rss/opinion/columns;pos=ad9;tile=9;ad=rss;sz=479x40;ord=4613102927179" border="0" vspace="5"></a> ]]></description>
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<pubDate>Fri, 30 Oct 2009 00:00:00 EDT</pubDate>
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<pubDate>Thu, 29 Oct 2009 00:00:00 EDT</pubDate>
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<pubDate>Wed, 28 Oct 2009 00:00:00 EDT</pubDate>
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<pubDate>Tue, 27 Oct 2009 00:00:00 EDT</pubDate>
<description><![CDATA[ Adapted from a recent online discussion.<br clear="all"/><a href="http://ad.doubleclick.net/jump/wpni.rss/opinion/columns;pos=ad9;tile=9;ad=rss;sz=479x40;ord=4613102932742" target="_blank"><img src="http://ad.doubleclick.net/ad/wpni.rss/opinion/columns;pos=ad9;tile=9;ad=rss;sz=479x40;ord=4613102932742" border="0" vspace="5"></a> ]]></description>
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<pubDate>Mon, 26 Oct 2009 00:00:00 EDT</pubDate>
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<pubDate>Sun, 25 Oct 2009 00:00:00 EDT</pubDate>
<description><![CDATA[ Hi, Carolyn: ]]></description>
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<pubDate>Sat, 24 Oct 2009 00:00:00 EDT</pubDate>
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<pubDate>Fri, 23 Oct 2009 00:00:00 EDT</pubDate>
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<pubDate>Thu, 22 Oct 2009 00:00:00 EDT</pubDate>
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<pubDate>Wed, 21 Oct 2009 00:00:00 EDT</pubDate>
<description><![CDATA[ Hey, Carolyn: ]]></description>
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<title><![CDATA[Had it up to here with her necklines down to there]]></title>
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<pubDate>Tue, 20 Oct 2009 00:00:00 EDT</pubDate>
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<pubDate>Mon, 19 Oct 2009 00:00:00 EDT</pubDate>
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<pubDate>Sun, 18 Oct 2009 00:00:00 EDT</pubDate>
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<pubDate>Sat, 17 Oct 2009 00:00:00 EDT</pubDate>
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<pubDate>Fri, 16 Oct 2009 00:00:00 EDT</pubDate>
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<pubDate>Thu, 15 Oct 2009 00:00:00 EDT</pubDate>
<description><![CDATA[ Adapted from a recent online discussion.<br clear="all"/><a href="http://ad.doubleclick.net/jump/wpni.rss/opinion/columns;pos=ad9;tile=9;ad=rss;sz=479x40;ord=4613102947684" target="_blank"><img src="http://ad.doubleclick.net/ad/wpni.rss/opinion/columns;pos=ad9;tile=9;ad=rss;sz=479x40;ord=4613102947684" border="0" vspace="5"></a> ]]></description>
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<pubDate>Wed, 14 Oct 2009 00:00:00 EDT</pubDate>
<description><![CDATA[ Hi, Carolyn: ]]></description>
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<pubDate>Tue, 13 Oct 2009 00:00:00 EDT</pubDate>
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<pubDate>Mon, 12 Oct 2009 00:00:00 EDT</pubDate>
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<pubDate>Sun, 11 Oct 2009 00:00:00 EDT</pubDate>
<description><![CDATA[ Dear Carolyn:<br clear="all"/><a href="http://ad.doubleclick.net/jump/wpni.rss/opinion/columns;pos=ad9;tile=9;ad=rss;sz=479x40;ord=4613102954502" target="_blank"><img src="http://ad.doubleclick.net/ad/wpni.rss/opinion/columns;pos=ad9;tile=9;ad=rss;sz=479x40;ord=4613102954502" border="0" vspace="5"></a> ]]></description>
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<pubDate>Sat, 10 Oct 2009 00:00:00 EDT</pubDate>
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<pubDate>Fri, 09 Oct 2009 00:00:00 EDT</pubDate>
<description><![CDATA[ Hi, Carolyn: ]]></description>
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<pubDate>Thu, 08 Oct 2009 00:00:00 EDT</pubDate>
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<pubDate>Wed, 07 Oct 2009 00:00:00 EDT</pubDate>
<description><![CDATA[ Dear Carolyn:<br clear="all"/><a href="http://ad.doubleclick.net/jump/wpni.rss/opinion/columns;pos=ad9;tile=9;ad=rss;sz=479x40;ord=4613103001347" target="_blank"><img src="http://ad.doubleclick.net/ad/wpni.rss/opinion/columns;pos=ad9;tile=9;ad=rss;sz=479x40;ord=4613103001347" border="0" vspace="5"></a> ]]></description>
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<pubDate>Tue, 06 Oct 2009 00:00:00 EDT</pubDate>
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<pubDate>Mon, 05 Oct 2009 00:00:00 EDT</pubDate>
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<pubDate>Sun, 04 Oct 2009 00:00:00 EDT</pubDate>
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<pubDate>Sat, 03 Oct 2009 00:00:00 EDT</pubDate>
<description><![CDATA[ Adapted from a recent online discussion.<br clear="all"/><a href="http://ad.doubleclick.net/jump/wpni.rss/opinion/columns;pos=ad9;tile=9;ad=rss;sz=479x40;ord=4613103007430" target="_blank"><img src="http://ad.doubleclick.net/ad/wpni.rss/opinion/columns;pos=ad9;tile=9;ad=rss;sz=479x40;ord=4613103007430" border="0" vspace="5"></a> ]]></description>
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<pubDate>Fri, 02 Oct 2009 00:00:00 EDT</pubDate>
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<pubDate>Thu, 01 Oct 2009 00:00:00 EDT</pubDate>
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<pubDate>Wed, 30 Sep 2009 00:00:00 EDT</pubDate>
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<pubDate>Tue, 29 Sep 2009 00:00:00 EDT</pubDate>
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<pubDate>Mon, 28 Sep 2009 00:00:00 EDT</pubDate>
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<pubDate>Sun, 27 Sep 2009 00:00:00 EDT</pubDate>
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<pubDate>Sat, 26 Sep 2009 00:00:00 EDT</pubDate>
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<pubDate>Fri, 25 Sep 2009 00:00:00 EDT</pubDate>
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<pubDate>Thu, 24 Sep 2009 00:00:00 EDT</pubDate>
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<pubDate>Wed, 23 Sep 2009 00:00:00 EDT</pubDate>
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<pubDate>Tue, 22 Sep 2009 00:00:00 EDT</pubDate>
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<pubDate>Mon, 21 Sep 2009 00:00:00 EDT</pubDate>
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<pubDate>Sun, 20 Sep 2009 00:00:00 EDT</pubDate>
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<pubDate>Sat, 19 Sep 2009 00:00:00 EDT</pubDate>
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<pubDate>Fri, 18 Sep 2009 00:00:00 EDT</pubDate>
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<pubDate>Thu, 17 Sep 2009 00:00:00 EDT</pubDate>
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<pubDate>Wed, 16 Sep 2009 00:00:00 EDT</pubDate>
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<pubDate>Tue, 15 Sep 2009 00:00:00 EDT</pubDate>
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<pubDate>Mon, 14 Sep 2009 00:00:00 EDT</pubDate>
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<pubDate>Sun, 13 Sep 2009 00:00:00 EDT</pubDate>
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<pubDate>Sat, 12 Sep 2009 00:00:00 EDT</pubDate>
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<pubDate>Fri, 11 Sep 2009 00:00:00 EDT</pubDate>
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<pubDate>Thu, 10 Sep 2009 00:00:00 EDT</pubDate>
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<pubDate>Wed, 09 Sep 2009 00:00:00 EDT</pubDate>
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<pubDate>Tue, 08 Sep 2009 00:00:00 EDT</pubDate>
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<pubDate>Mon, 07 Sep 2009 00:00:00 EDT</pubDate>
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<pubDate>Sun, 06 Sep 2009 00:00:00 EDT</pubDate>
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<pubDate>Sat, 05 Sep 2009 00:00:00 EDT</pubDate>
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<pubDate>Fri, 04 Sep 2009 00:00:00 EDT</pubDate>
<description><![CDATA[ Dear Carolyn: ]]></description>
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<pubDate>Thu, 03 Sep 2009 00:00:00 EDT</pubDate>
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<pubDate>Wed, 02 Sep 2009 00:00:00 EDT</pubDate>
<description><![CDATA[ Dear Carolyn: ]]></description>
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