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With the Entertainment Guide Staff
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Thursday, Jan. 2, 2003; 1 p.m. ET Every Thursday at 1 p.m. ET, washingtonpost.com's Entertainment Guide experts share their best bets for local flavor, great dates and family fun. Got plans? Great. Need plans? Just ask. We have the skinny on the bars and clubs, concerts, kitchens, theaters and special events that keep life interesting. We're going out gurus, and we're at your service. Of course, we're happy to answer questions about local entertainment, but we need to hear from you, too. Introduce us to the coolest DJ or the fastest bartender you've encountered. Sound off on the week's best concert or the city's best burger. Tell us about the best place to amuse little kids or a big art fan. Together we can plan fun ways to spend weekdays, weekends, dates and holidays. The pleasure is ours, and yours. Each week a different guru will act as host or hostess, but the entire staff is at your service. If you're looking for more ideas, see the Entertainment Guide. Submit your questions and comments before or during the discussion. The transcript follows. Editor's Note: Washingtonpost.com moderators retain editorial control over Live Online discussions and choose the most relevant questions for guests and hosts; guests and hosts can decline to answer questions. 
The Going Out Gurus: Happy New Year, everyone, and welcome to the very first Got Plans of 2003. We're eager to hear how you spent Tuesday night -- where you saw the rowdiest crowd, where you found the best deal or how you reveled in a low-key evening. And of course, we want to ring in the new year with you, wherever your plan-making may take you. Alexa, Fritz, Janet, Jen, Joe, Kate and Rhome (just back from his stint as a car-show model) are here today, and I'm Anne, trying to figure out whether those noisemaker horns or the caterwauling American Idol commercial is to blame for the ringing in my ears. Ding! Who's that at the door?
Arlington, Va.: Happy New Year! I'm looking for chatter and Guru recommendations for dining/drinking near MCI Center. I picked up tickets for Saturday's Wizards game, and haven't been over there for almost a year. I was thinking of Star Saloon or Austin Grill, but would love to hear your recommendations. Cheers! The Going Out Gurus: The hottest spot of the moment in that neck of the woods, Arlington, is Zaytinya. Not expensive, and perfectly smooth. Good bar. We here are big fans. Give it a go. Otherwise, there are plenty of other options -- Jaleo, Poste, Teaism, Zola etc. -- Alexa
Downtown, Washington, D.C.: Hoping you can help! I'm looking for knitting classes somewhere in the metro area (well, preferably D.C. or Montgomery County). I did find some at Woolwinders, a knitting store in Rockville, but they're all on weekdays, mostly mornings, which isn't too convenient! I know there must be something out there, because knitting is quite the hot trend right now. I'm looking for something very beginner -- I know how to crochet, but I've never tried knitting. Any ideas? The Going Out Gurus: Hey, knitting fan,
There's Fiberworks in Ashton, Md. (http://www.fiberworks4yarn.com/)and there's the Needlework Loft in Bethesda on Bethesda Ave. Also, have you tried G Street Fabrics (they're in Rockville and other locations).
Silent Office, watchin' the paint dry: Since work is so slow with New Years having been this week, I've got plenty of time to think about the -next- big event! Are you guys going to put together a Super Bowl viewing guide of the best bars to go view the big game? We know ESPN Zone is an obvious location, as well as Mr. Days and Crystal City Sports Pub in Arlington, but what other bars will be having events/specials, etc? My group of friends is looking for some place more laid back, having watched the game in years past at the Rock or Mr. Days in D.C. (sigh, good times... good times.) Love these chats! Thanks! The Going Out Gurus: Hey there. We do an annual Super Bowl guide, which will probably be up a week or so before the game. We don't do it much early, for obvious reasons -- if the Steelers somehow make it through, for example, I (a Redskins fan) wouldn't want to be anywhere but the Penn Ave. Pourhouse. (Full disclosure: I was born on Super Bowl Sunday, and have had an affinity for the Steelers ever since.)
Now, I've watched the game at different places the last few years, but I was impressed with the party at Dr. Dremo's two Super Bowls ago. Free food, good beer, huge screen, pool tables between quarters and a fun crowd. ESPN Zone is always out, as far as I'm concerned, because they have large cover charges, minimums, ticket policies, etc. Grevey's is usually good, my friends tell me. --- Fritz
Cleveland Park, Washington, D.C.: We went to Recessions for New Years. The music (and especially the sound system) was weak and the crowd was kinda weird but it was $35 for a top shelf open bar and all-you-can-eat wings. Beat that with a bat. I only hung with the crew I came with but we had a good time. The Going Out Gurus: Thanks for the report. I wasn't expecting much, either, but you can't beat the price. -- Fritz
Del Ray, Va.: Happy New Year, Gurus! Got tickets for the Pretenders at the 9:30 Club. I've heard it's hard to get a seat, but at 40, I need to sit after a hard day's work. I'll stop my sobbing if you can help me score a chair. Cheers! The Going Out Gurus: Hello Del Ray, this is Joe. 40 and you need a chair for a concert? C'mon, toughen up. I'm afraid the 9:30 is almost entirely chairless. But if you get there the instant the doors open, you can probably get yourself a seat at the upstairs bar and watch the show from there. Not ideal, but those are the only chairs in the place. You can sit on the steps in the balcony, but everyone else will be standing, so you won't have much of a view. Good luck.
Glover Park, Washington, D.C.: I'd like to freshen up my table manners. Do you all know of any etiquette classes that are offered in the area? The Going Out Gurus: Since my display of table manners usually involves a TV tray, I (Jen) may not be the best person to ask. But perhaps some other salad fork expert knows where Glover can take etiquette lessons? Suggestions, please and thank you.
Rowdiest crowd on New Year's Eve: Along 18th street (at both U and Columbia) around 2.30-3 a.m. Must have been a zillion suburbanites vying for a cab. Made me appreciate my short walk home! The Going Out Gurus: Always a scene, yes. Other crowd-spotters?
The Ritz: What's the deal with The Ritz (9th and E, I think)? Any good? I'd like feedback from you all, or from the forum. I read the Entertainment piece on washingtonpost.com, but I need to hear real world stories: what's the music like, the people, the atmosphere, cover charges, etc. Thanks. The Going Out Gurus: It really, really depends. The Ritz has been doing a growing business in private event rentals (with groups like the D.C. Society of Young Professionals), but that attracts a much different, more upscale crowd than on "regular" weekend nights. It's usually a hip-hop/college scene, kind of rugged. When there's an event, it will have more (white) young professionals and themed music - are you talking about the D.C. Young Pro swing event this weekend? In that case, I can recommend both the teachers and the band. It should be a fun time.
That said, the club has plenty of bars, but it always feels kind of seedy to me -- like the old D.C. Live (and I mean back in the mid-1990s D.C. Live). -- Fritz
Cleveland Park, Washington, D.C.: Happy New Year! We decided not to get ripped off this year and not to spend a lame evening in an overcrowded club; so my friends came over for dinner (I cooked) and drinks. Our party ended up at 4 a.m. and we had lots of fun. The Going Out Gurus: There's no place like home.
Crunchtime in Springfield, Va.: Hey GoGs, Need help in finding a bar that lets you reserve/rent rooms or areas for a party. We're thinking of Adams Morgan area, Midtown area (like where 5, 1223, and Red are at), or somewhere similar. We're trying to have the event in February. any help you guys can give would be great. Thanks, j The Going Out Gurus: Hey Crunchtime -- Check this list and get back to us if something sounds good, okay? -- Fritz
Arlington, Va.: There are no showtimes for the theatre at Pentagon City (Loews) in today's paper. Any word if something happened or is going to happen? The Going Out Gurus: Here's the word, Arlington: The theater is closed as of today. It screened its last movie yesterday -- a theater employee just confirmed this via telephone. So I guess another Loews theater bites the dust. Not sure what (if anything) will take its place, but we'll keep you posted. -- Jen
Bethesda, Md.: Okay, so I've lived here all my life but am embarrassed to say that I've never really done the whole museum thing downtown. Can you give me a quick crash course on where to go (and what Metro stop!)? We're not really so interested in the historical ones, but we are interested in the arts ones. Thank you for any guidance you can provide! The Going Out Gurus: Is this your resolution Bethesda? If so, you've picked an easy one to satisfy. Let's start with the basics. Metro stops: Smithsonian (duh hickey) will get you closest to Sackler and Freer (Asian art), African Art, Holocaust Memorial Museum; Federal Triangle will get you close to American History; L'Enfant Plaza is best for Air and Space and the Hirshhorn; and Navy Memorial is a solid choice if you're going to the motherload of the "art ones", theNational Gallery of Art -- and that's where I think you should start.
It's cavernous but you can wander around (or in and out) at your leisure. The cafe in the underground passage has steadily improved and you can get a pretty good cup of coffee now. Because you got me, I'm going to recommend that you see some of my favorite paintings: number four: George Bellows New York City boxers; number two (a tie): van Gogh's green baby and Paul Gaugin's devilish self-portrait and number one: Fillipino Lippi's portrait of a Florentine boy.
If you can, get to the Hirshhorn before Jan. 21 for "Arte Povera" -- and read Maura's monthly museums "Comings & Goings" column. -- Kate
Washington, D.C.: Do you or other chatters have any suggestions for unusual brunches? My family (eight of us) will be celebrating and I would like something out of the ordinary. The location can be anywhere close in metro area. Thanks and Happy New Year! The Going Out Gurus: A drag brunch perhaps? Perry's in Adams Morgan has one, and has recently, I think, re-jiggered its menu. Otherwise, we like to recommend the Bombay Club for an Indian twist on the meal. It's a good deal too -- under $20 for an all-you-can plus fizz. -- Alexa
Alexandria, Va.: Here's a question. You have a friend, a recognizable celebrity (maybe not someone to get mobbed but who would be known by many if seen), coming to town to visit. Where do you take him/her when going out? The Going Out Gurus: I'm sure your friend knows how best to keep the packs at bay. So he or she can tell you best, but I'd either stick to discrete restaurants (Cafe Milano, Neyla would have us believe they serve the riche and famousse daily) or just suck it up and show your pal your favorite spots. Given your location I'd head to Evening Star Cafe (where everyone, let's face it gets treated like family). DC is used to celebs -- JLo and Ben were not pestered when they strolled the National Mall recently. Word of warning: I got myself and Paul Rudd and rest of party kicked out of the Black Cat. -- Kate
Alexandria, Va.: Can someone suggest a good place to take beginning karate lessons in Northern Virginia? Also I remember hearing about a French restaurant in Arlington I believe where they had a French conversation table on Monday nights. Any idea on what the name of the restaurant is. Thanks. The Going Out Gurus: I think the city of Alexandria has karate. Have a look on the city web site under sports and rec. I think there's a martial arts section. As for a French table, we'd better ask the group. Anyone know?
Bethesda, Md.: What is there to do on a Friday night for two 30-year-old, professional, single women who prefer socializing with non-frat boys and non-social climbers? It seems like every social spot in Georgetown is either one extreme (college crowd) or another (nouveau riche). Do neutral (yet cool) lounges exist in Georgetown? A Friday night eclectic, professional crowd would be ideal. We'd like to start off with dinner somewhere cool, and end it (hopefully) with mingling with men our age who aren't either wearing baseball caps or bragging about their Porsches. Help! The Going Out Gurus: Okay, Bethesda. First question: You sound like you've been around in Georgetown. If you don't like the neighborhood, why are you so hung up on going out there?
Now, for dinner, I'd suggest the new Pizza Paradiso or Neyla. That's easy. Afterwards, well, I still like Modern. I don't get too much of the nouveau riche vibe there (probably because I'm not), and I've taken a wide variety of people there -- grad students, friends from college, folks just out of school. It's just a cool place to hang out. (And no, the bartenders don't know me from Adam.) When they're spinning good hip-hop and house, I enjoy myself. Good mix of demographics and ages, too.
There's also Daily Grill, which is a nice spot to hang in (good beers) and has a professional crowd. Often packed, though.
Your other option is Smith Point, and from my experiences, you're more likely to hear guys there bragging about Porsches there.
Other ideas, folks? -- Fritz
Bethesda, Md.: I recently moved to the area. Needless to say, my social circle consists of mainly family members. How does someone in their late 20s go out to meet new friends? During college it was easy, the opportunities were there. Are there organized events that are geared for people to make new friends? The Going Out Gurus: I know a lot of folks like the single volunteer organizations. Try www.svdc.org. Google it up for other similar groups. Isn't there something called Learning Escapes (readers, chime in please). There are the extreme dating services, catering to busy professionals. I always see the ads in the City Paper. And then there is always the stock answer Fritz and I use: go to places you think are cool, go do things you like, talk to the people you find there. Tell us what you are into, then we can give you a first step into exploring particular area scenes. Another related option is to try some things you've never tried before, and then talk to the people you find. Learn a new language or type of dance, go hiking, join a book club, etc. - Rhome
Dupont Mystery: Hey Gurus! It's 2003 and I am ready for some new places to go and things to do. It looks like to me that we are going to have a new place to visit real soon in Dupont Circle on the corner of Connecticut and Florida Avenues (right near Ruth's Chris). Can you tell me what is going in this large space? Thanks guys! The Going Out Gurus: I think it's going to be a tapas restaurant -- did I read that in Washington Business Journal. This spot has been vacant too long time (Andre the Giants are begining to fade, no?) and was, I believe at one time slated to be a Club Monaco. I walked by this weekend and it's going to be huge. Any one else have the dish? -- Kate
Washington, D.C.: Fritz -- I will be sharing my birthday with the Super Bowl as well this year. It makes me a little bitter though that I have to share the 24-hour celebration of me with another big event. Are the Gurus planning on going to SuperDiamond at 9:30? My friends from out West tell me that it's usually a good time. The Going Out Gurus: No idea about the band in these quarters, I'm sorry to say.
(Oh, and I don't share my birthday with the Super Bowl this year. I was actually born the day the game was played, back when they did it before the last week in January.) -- Fritz
Shirlington, Va.: One friend was enthusiastic about a band called Le Sans Culotte. They apparently play '60s-style music somehow similar to Gainsbourg. Do you know them? Who are they? Are they coming back to D.C.? The Going Out Gurus: Hi Shirlington, this is Joe and I don't know anything about Le Sans Culotte except that I think the name means, "without underwear" which is a good name for a band.
Arlington, Va.: Happy New Year Gurus! I got a great Christmas gift from my boyfriend -- a weekend in New York at the Algonquin Hotel and tickets to "Imaginary Friends" on Broadway on Jan 25th. I'd like to spring for a great dinner for him -- any NY "must eat" restaurants that you can suggest near the theater district? Thank you! The Going Out Gurus: Hey, Arlington,
Just ate a wonderful restaurant in the theater district. It may even be on the same block as the Algonquin. At any rate, the place is called Lattanzi's. It's Italian food, specifically Roman specialties such as osso buco and fried artichokes. Lucky you if you go!
Logan Circle, Washington, D.C.: Hey Gurus, Saw "The Two Towers" the other week at the Uptown. What a great theater, great crowd to see it with, and a pretty good movie (can't wait for the finale next year!). Problem was the previews though -- it was the 10:30 p.m. show on the second night "TTT" was out. After two hours in line, the theater let us in and started showing commercials a little after 10:30... for 30 minutes! The crowd, which had plenty of enthusiasm going in, was getting restless and losing energy. We started to boo some of the advertisers (mental note, DO NOT BUY these products) and jeer the nauseating previews. It seems to get worse every year, too. Movie theaters know they have a captive audience, but why are we letting ticket prices go up if they're getting revenue from selling more ad time too? Union Station counters anyone who might not want to listen to its pre-movie commercials by playing them -louder- than the movie, and now the Uptown apparently feels that tacking 30 minutes onto three-hour films is perfectly fine. This is D.C., and even without a hit movie, you still need to plan an hour or more in advance to get your tix, so it's especially nerving to me to get to the theater early just to get a seat, and then sit through a bunch of commercials. So, after this rant, I thought I'd open the floor for the Gurus or anyone else to endorse local theaters that force no or little commercials down peoples' throats and start their movies within a short time of the listed time. Cinema owners take note: this would probably be a good advertising gimmick to capture my dollar ("We're the theater that doesn't show commercials and starts 10:30 movies at 10:30"). Thanks! The Going Out Gurus: I (Jen) think a lot of people feel the same way, Logan. And I have a feeling they really tacked on the commercials and teasers to "Two Towers" because they knew so many people would see it. I saw two movies over the holidays and dealt with a few commercials and previews, but not nearly that many. (There were three or four each before my screenings of "Catch Me If You Can" at Rio, and "Chicago" at Cinema.)
I'm not sure the individual theaters control how many commercials or previews are shown, so avoiding certain venues might not really solve this problem. It may be controlled by the studios, though honestly, I'm not sure what the process is. I don't know of any local theaters who promote the fact that they don't show commercials or trailers beforehand either; again, they may be contractually obligated to do so. If anyone else out there does know of an anti-promotional cinema, by all means share. I suspect this is one of those necessary evils, though.
Bored at Work: Hi GoGs, What did you all do for New Years? Did everyone have someone to kiss? The Going Out Gurus: I'd say the answer to that one is a big FAT no.
Mt. Pleasant's gotta date again (score!): Zaytinya: good date spot for making someone fall in love with you? And what exactly does "not expensive" mean? No expense accounts in these parts. The Going Out Gurus: Yes. It's moody. And remember that it's a tapas-y menu so you can get off quite reasonably. I suppose each dish ranges between $3.50 and $7.50. -- Alexa
Metro Center, Washington, D.C.: Response to Alexandria about French conversation table. Why not organize your own? I am French, and would be more than happy to participate. C'est facile! The Going Out Gurus: How's about that!
Washington, DC: My wife and I are new to the area and we are currently trying to find some intramural sports to participate in (ie. basketball, flag football, softball). I hear DC is known for great intramural. Any suggestions?? The Going Out Gurus: Hi, DC, this outfit called SportsLeagues may hook you up. They organize a bunch of for-fun leagues, including basketball, flag football and softball. I think their mission is to help people meet each other though. Anyone else looking to boost an intramural team roster? -- Anne
Rockville, Md.: Okay, it's a second date. Neither of us are looking to spend much money (aside from food). Besides the Smithsonian and Zoo, what fun activities are there that are either free or pretty cheap? Also, keeping in mind the weather for this weekend may entail rain and chilly weather, an indoor activity may be best. Thanks for the help. The Going Out Gurus: Are you game for a free concert on the Millennium Stage? This weekend sees the legendary Patti Smith (Sat. at 6)or the soulful Lester Chambers (Sunday at 6) -- Patti promises a lot of poetry so enter forewarned.
At galleries, Maura has some picks -- I recommend the George Catlin show. The sheer number of portraits all hung in the main gallery is astonishing and as it's free you could spring for a glass of wine at the narrow tapas counter Taverna del Alabardero afterwards -- not way cheap (like 8-9 a piece, but generous). This spot is beautiful -- in truth, romantic -- and the staff treat you like royalty. -- Kate
Bethesda, Md.: Went to the D.C. Improv for New Year's Eve -- definitely recommend it! The Going Out Gurus: Bwa-hahahahaha! That's a good one.
Alexandria, Va.: Help. A dear friend just found out that he is expected to open the dancing at his wedding with a waltz -- in two weeks. He is perhaps one of the most dance-challenged people I have ever known. Do you know of any dance studios that offer private lessons of an immersion-type basis? The Going Out Gurus: Couldn't anyone give the poor guy more notice than this? Like, oh I don't know, the bride? Surely she must have known he'd need extra help in this department. Sorry, I don't mean to go all Carolyn Hax here, but this certainly puts him in a needlessly stressful situation. (Can't they just kick off the evening with "The Humpty Dance"? I mean, everyone can do the humpty-hump.)
I'm not a great expert in dancing of this type, but one place that immediately comes to mind is Bethesda Dance Studio. I believe they offer private lessons and are fairly reasonable price-wise. And they might take pity on your friend and give him an emergency series of lessons. Their number is 301/718-4608. I wouldn't suggest Arthur Murray because they generally want you to commit to several weeks' worth of lessons and they are rather expensive. Anyone else with suggestions for Mr. Two Left Feet, please chime in. Good luck. -- Jen
Chevy Chase, MD: Are there any lounges in Bethesda, or are they all bars and restaurants? The Going Out Gurus: The only "lounge" is Chrome, which has been getting worse and worse since it opened, and both Eric Brace and I enjoyed it. It's pretty much all bars and restaurants, and although I've heard rumors of something good coming that way, it's a void that really needs to be filled. -- Fritz
Crunchtime: Thanks Gurus. I'm looking through the list and when we find a couple of good places, I'll hit you guys up again for your thoughts on them. Thanks again. The Going Out Gurus: No problem. We're always ready with suggestions. Well, usually.
Ice Skating Lessons: Can you tell me which rinks offer lessons, preferably in D.C. or close in? I couldn't tell from your extensive list of ice skating rink locations. Thanks! The Going Out Gurus: Bowie Ice Arena, for one offers lessons. Registration starts on Jan. 25. For seven weeks of 30-minute classes, it's $72, cheaper if you live in Bowie. Does that work? If not, you can use our big list of rinks and call a rink that's convenient for you. -- Anne
New Year's Eve: Is New Year's Eve Amateur Night or what? Within three blocks of Dupont Circle at 3 a.m. I saw one woman throwing up, another too drunk to stand unsupported, and two separate groups being kicked out of taxis for rowdy behavior. My goodness! I felt downright sober by comparison. The Going Out Gurus: Yes, it's amateur night. People who "just have one glass" the rest of the year think that it's a chance to get stupid.
But you could find pretty much the same thing in Adams Morgan on weekends, especially if your walk home takes you past Pizza Mart. -- Fritz
Washington, D.C.: Gurus: I have today and tomorrow off. Besides running errands, what is a D.C. native to do this week with his free time? First Friday? The Going Out Gurus: Lucky duck. Sure, First Friday is a good start -- do stop into Katherine Ewing Gallery. Have you seen "Lord of the Rings: The Two Towers" yet? I'd catch a matinee at the Uptown (big screen, smaller crowd), or I'd go somewhere I've never been before -- like on a tour of the National Cathedral or the cwazy Masonic Temple on 16th Street (ask for the souvenir pen!) or a wander around the hippie heart of Tacoma Park. Any one else have a winner? -- Kate
Washington, D.C., 9:30 seating: Please tell the suckas out there that the balcony "seats" do not entitle people to bust my chops when I stand at the rail. I almost had to smack around the boyfriend of a girl in her 20s for affectionately saying "we, like, got here early so we could sit here to watch!" It's a rock concert, if you want a fancy concert go to the Kennedy Center. The Going Out Gurus: Whew, are we going to start this suburbs/city thing again? Let's not and say we did. This is Joe and I live in the city and we all know that there are plenty of lame people in the city and plenty of cool people in the suburbs and that generalizations never really get us anywhere. So let's take this tired argument off the board for 2003, shall we? But yes, if you go to a concert at the 9:30 and are upstairs, people are going to stand at the rail and you shouldn't expect them to sit down.
Washington, D.C.: Hi I'm actually headed out of town to London next week. Any good pubs that you could recommend? The Going Out Gurus: Hey, Washington. I spent plenty of in pubs in London - both working and drinking - and I'd send you to the Bank of England on Fleet Street, the Lamb (near Russell Square/Bloomsbury), the Churchill Arms in Kensington, the Princess Louise on High Holborn, and so many others. And while it's not much to look at, if you like good real ale, there's an Adnams pub (can't remember the name) on the south side of Tower Bridge.
From other Gurus: Alexa likes the Hand in Hand on Wimbledon Common. Joe digs the Prince Albert in Maida Vale.
P.S. I would tell you to check out the writing of my mate Edward Sullivan - the bar critic for the London Evening Standard - but their site has recently changed all the bar/club/restaurant reviews to subscription-only. Stutip, stupid, stupid. So I'd suggest you pick up the Sauce Guide (he wrote a fair share of the reviews) at any good London bookstore when you get there. -- Fritz
Washington, D.C.: Hi Gurus, Happy New Year! My birthday is coming up and I want a nice dinner and a nice place nearby to hang out after for a beverage or two in D.C. For dinner, it needs to be less than $100 total for two, preferably Italian, but I'm open. It will be on a Sunday night, if that helps. Any ideas? Thanks! The Going Out Gurus: You might enjoy Firefly. It's cosy, cute and woodsy. Or Zola? Have you been to either of those? -- Alexa
Cleveland Park, Washington, D.C.: Question: Does anyone know the crew of three white kids who spin at Aroma on the second Saturday of each month? Maybe Rhome knows, they play like 40 percent funk and 60 percent GOOD hip hop (Diamond, Black Star, De La, even some Natural Resource). Speaking of which, does anyone know where and when they spin that brand of hip hop on a regular basis? I've asked this question before and the answer was basically "no," but maybe something has come up since then. Thanks. The Going Out Gurus: I don't know them, I haven't seen anything on the various listservs or on flyers at the record stores. Ask them when you see them, or ask Dredd, or ask Lilly. Fritz has been there and says it was good too. Report back with the scoop. As for your other options, a couple exist, basically Eurok's joint and myself. The former tends to more rugged beats (Boot Camp, Redman), some dub and funk. Hip-hop wise I skew towards soulful (Common, Pharcyde, various J. Dilla productions) along with a bunch of other things in the mix (classic soul, house, jazz). There is overlap and variance too, depending on how cats feel on any particular night. I could swear that I've written this exact response before. I need to check out Modern too, Chris Styles plays there on Thursdays I think (hip-hop and house) and Dirty Hands was there on Wednesdays. Gotta confirm that both of those nights are still in place. Oh, and Natural Resource? They've been broken up for mad long, and Jean Grae (artist formerly known as What-What has been doing solo stuff) - Rhome
Virginia: Etiquette. letitia.com used to teach classes. Her books are good, too. There was another socialite who also teach it. The Going Out Gurus: An etiquette suggestion for our manners-minder. Thanks.
arlington, va for Bethesda 30 something...: To the 30-year-old who wants cool places for 30 something women to hang, I totally hear you (trust me, I do!), but Georgetown is NOT the place. Head on over to U St. and chill at places like U-topia, maybe Chi-cha on a good night.... other bars along there. Heck, catch some good jazz at Twins lounge. I find that Rouge is a pretty good scene too (16th St). There are a lot of cool lounges around - I think the trick is to let them "cool down" and the "see and be seen" crowd moves on to the next big thing. Then the rest of us can just hang out without cell phones and boastful BMW owners drowing out the music. To TOTALLY avoid the yucko frat and cell-phone sets, I like to go to more downscale bars as well (when I don't want to get dolled up). This is because frat guys like the loud and raucous places, and the "social climbing" folk like the newest and most expensive. So often the most eclectic, interesting and laid back folks are hanging out somewhere less obvious - Kingpin or Velvet lounge are totally non-pretentious and attract an interesting, chill mix. Or the Red Room at the Black Cat. Or - totally, totally downscale and casual - I love to hang out at Angles on 18th in Adams Morgan. Best jukebox around and a very down-to-earth and friendly neighborhood crowd. Also Bedrock billiards is cool and especially on non-peak nights gets a cool neighborhood crowd (and shooting stick is a non-cheesy way to mix casually with the fellas). If you want to chill without any sort of crowd scene and not really to meet people, it's very pleasant to cozy up on a sofa at the Tabard Inn, but only if you really want peace and quiet. And Kate - you gotta let me know next time Paul Rudd is in town. He's dreeeeamy. The Going Out Gurus: Word. If you've tried Georgetown and you're not finding anything ... maybe there's a reason? I love a number of the spots you mentioned. You have good taste. -- Fritz
P.S. - But I do love my cell phone.
Virginia: Where is the Daily Grill? Women need to talk to guys who don't wear caps/hats or drive fancy cars. We may not be cheap, but we are OK. The Going Out Gurus: In Georgetown. 1310 Wisconsin.
I dont have a cap. And my car is old. But that's okay, cuz I'm still fly. -- Fritz
Falls Church, Va.: A friend wants to rent a Jag for his wife's 40th. I recall someone here mentioning an exotic car rental agency. The Going Out Gurus: Call American Eagle Limousine (703/550-7200) or go to americaneaglelimo.com (can you believe that url was available??) and check out their stable. This doesn't come cheap, prices depend on model and length of rental. -- Kate
Arlington, Va.: I met someone New Year's Eve and am thinking about asking her out. What/where would be a good first date early this year? The Going Out Gurus: Is she a "Simpsons" fan? Then consider taking her to "MacHomer" at the Clarice Smith Performing Arts Center. Or if you want to do the traditional movie thing, go see "Chicago" together. That should razzle-dazzle her.
Les Sans Culottes: They are part of the new "fake French" wave of bands (well, there's at least one other, April March). I haven't seen them (moniker notwithstanding, I believe they perform fully clothed), but I give them points just for doing it, and some of their lyrics posted on their Web site are tres drole. The Going Out Gurus: Cool. I'll try to check them out. I like the "authentic" new French acts, like Paris Combo. True story: I only heard them because they're on the jukebox at Bedrock Billiards. -- Fritz
The Going Out Gurus: Oh, we're talking about NYE recaps. Here's mine. Classic style house party, crib packed to the gills, turntables in the kitchen, black eyed peas, curry chicken, yams and greens, slow jams, back porch turned into an enclosed lounge due to ingenious deployment of a couch, some tarps, candles and a heater... fresh! and good for clandestine smooch-em-ups! Drunken dj'ing! Folks didn't roll out until 6am, word. - Rhome
5:35 = not good time to wake up: Hello. I am a little tired today and a bit grouchy. Looking for some sweets to brighten my mood after work -- any good bakeries in Maryland that you would recommend? I think I need a big fat slice of yummy cake to get rid of this funk! The Going Out Gurus: There's a bakery in Bethesda on Elm Street that's my latest fave. It's called Spring Mill. Great for breads, cookies and scones, but I'm not sure if they do cakes. Why don't you bake yourself one?
Bored at work -- again: I didn't either, GoGs, that's why my New Year's resolution is to get out more. Lucky for me I'll know where to go because of you guys and gals. The Going Out Gurus: Glad we can help.
Washington, D.C., suburb swipe apology: I'm a despicable, low, sad, rat-soup-eating sucker. I genuinely like the suburbs, but that swipe was too easy. I cheated the Gurus, I cheated the people, but mostly I cheated myself. The Going Out Gurus: Aw, see. Everyone's making nice.
Downtown, Washington, D.C.: Looking for a lunch suggestion -- my boss's treat. Needs to be within walking distance of 14th and K and have some good vegetarian options. Thanks! The Going Out Gurus: Georgia Brown's is at 15th and K, and they -- Anne says -- are surprisingly good for vegetarians. What about that?
Friendship Heights, Washington, D.C.: What are your top three picks in D.C. for best place to meet international professionals? A lot of bars/lounges/clubs claim to be Euro, but they're usually faux-Euro, if that makes sense. In other words, where do REAL international, professionals socialize in D.C.? The Going Out Gurus: Try Euronet. It's a group for European professionals that holds a monthly networking happy hour and outings like hiking anf figure skating. I wrote about them like two years ago -- let me see if I can find the story, okay? But the group's Web site is http://www.euronetinternational.com.
New Year's: My friends and I wanted to have a low key night -- not a fancy $100 per person party. We went to Millie and Al's early enough to get a table for the evening, put some songs in the jukebox and had beer and jello shots. It was perfect (although I wish they had more than one bathroom, that line is ridiculous) The Going Out Gurus: We also wish they had a clean bathroom.
New Market, Md.: It's my wife's birthday this Saturday. We're in our 40s. What she likes, most of all, is a really romantic piano bar or piano restaurant -- soft light, intimate seating, really good pianist, very romantic plinking of the keys. Any place like that in Washington? Second choice would be restaurant with jazz, but not noisy and very classy. Also, any suggestions on finding a reasonable but really nice room in Washington Saturday night? Thanks. Hope you can help! I'm a typically clueless husband. The Going Out Gurus: Check out Eric Brace's weekend piece tomorrow for more on pianist Vince Evans, who's magic on the keys - literally. Also, I'll point you to his story on Washington's piano bars, many of which are in hotels. Good luck! -- Fritz
Etiquette classes: The Smithsonian's Associates program offers etiquette classes almost every term. I got my catalog yesterday and it includes a class in there. Not sure about the price though. The Going Out Gurus: Good suggestion. May be a bit pricier than what Glover wants, but he/she should check it out. Thanks.
Woodbridge, Va.: For the wedding waltzer -- try www.firstdanceimpressions.com. They're in Arlington. They have private lessons and can even choreograph a first dance, although that's way beyond what Alexandria needs. The Going Out Gurus: Here you go, dancing king.
Knitting: I'll throw this out there in case there are other knitters in the fairfax area reading. The Yarn Barn in Burke teaches knitting, and I know for a fact they have a class on Thursday evenings, and the instructor is in the demographic that probably reads this chat (she is a friend of mine, late 20s, not your grandma's knitting class). The Going Out Gurus: A stitch just in time.
Re: French Restaurant: Cafe Parisian in north Arlington is the place you're thinking of -- great cheap French food and conversational french one night a week. It's on Lee Highway near the intersection with Old Dominion. The Going Out Gurus: Merci beaucoup!
For the intermural sports folks: D.C. has a great college alumni league, CAN, which stands for Capitol Alumni Network. Several intermural flag football teams (although the season is almost over) broken down by school and softball in the summer. Be careful though. It's sometimes taken a little too seriously. Look it up on google and check out the CAN Web site. The Going Out Gurus: You'll be on our starting line. Thanks.
In a Rut, Washington, D.C.: Hi all, I'm hoping you can help me out. My boyfriend and I go to a lot of happy hours, which is pretty fun. Trouble is, they're always in the same three bars! How can we get the gumption to try new ones? The reasons we like our current choices are the location, comfort, and knowing what to expect. I'm not looking for specific places per say, just a kind of kick in the butt to get us (more him) to venture off the well-beaten path. Variety is the spice of life,no? Thanks. The Going Out Gurus: Just say to yourself, "I am going to try somewhere new." I do it all the time -- even "off the clock," as it were, because I like to explore and try new cocktails/beers/DJs/etc. I have my local favorites - all within walking distance - but there's so much out there to try. I mean, there are bars with incredible beer selections, great DJs, flair bartenders, cheap happy hours and live jazz out there. And they're all easy to get to by Metro.
Yes, it's easy to stay in a comfort zone, but it's far more rewarding to get out of it.
Okay, I'm not Tony Robbins, so I hope that worked. -- Fritz
The Going Out Gurus: That's all for today. Thanks for the suggestions and for helping us kick off '03.
If you seek authentic French acts: I like Paris Combo, but they are more on the loungy side of the spectrum. For something more energetic, you may want to check out Les Ogres de Barback and Les Hurlements de Leo, two young French groups which take traditional chanson styles and add punk rock attitude(and songwriting chops) a la the Pogues. In the summers, the two groups combine as Un Air, Deux Familles and travel around playing under a big circus tent. As far as I know, their CDs are unavailable over here, but you can order their stuff from their websites or from amazon.fr. Also, check out the amazing Yann Tiersen (he did the soundtrack for Amelie), who just released a great live album featuring him playing with an orchestra, an avant garde punk group, Lisa Germano, and a toy piano. The Going Out Gurus: Sorry. Just had to post this for anyone else who's interested in French music. (As some people are, from all the LSC messages we've gotten.) -- Fritz
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