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There is a good deal of humor in "The Girls' Guide," and it succeeds even when the jokes fall flat which they often do. Jane's perception is so sharp, and her need for comic relief so palpable, that her lame quips become part of her charm. When she goes sailing in St. Croix at the end of a vacation that her boyfriend has ruined by flirting with a luscious ex-girlfriend, Jane brightly greets the sailboat captain, "Chips ahoy." In the last story, a clever exercise in which Jane sabotages a relationship by trying to conduct it according to the rules of a husband-hunting manual, she tells a friend who picks out a sexy dress for her, "You're my fairy godshopper." "Making jokes is your way of saying Do you love me?" Jane scolds herself. "When someone laughs you think they've said yes." When Jane Rosenal first makes her appearance, she is 14 years old, waiting for her 20-year-old brother to arrive at the family's summer place on the Jersey Shore. Henry pulls in the drive with a beard, a gift bottle of wine and a 28-year-old girlfriend named Julia, who calls him "Hank." His newly grown-up guise makes Jane feel she's been deserted. "You're Hank now," she says, aggrieved. "You bring Mom and Dad a bottle of wine." Still, Jane can't help falling for Julia, a wry and lovely children's books editor who looks, she thinks, like "Audrey Hepburn relaxing after dance class." When Henry breaks up with Julia because her poise and intelligence make him feel small, Jane is heartbroken. Julia is perfect, she reasons why wouldn't Henry want her? Julia explains, "Sometimes you're loved because of your weaknesses. What you can't do is sometimes more compelling than what you can," but Jane cannot be consoled. "It scared me to think that my brother had failed at loving someone," she writes. "I had no idea myself how to do it." "The Girls' Guide" covers two decades, and although most of its episodes describe Jane on her own holding down a job, losing a job, beginning a romance, ending a romance her family and the seaside remain at the core of her experience, buoying her and keeping her upright. When she loses her father to leukemia the title of this chapter, "The Worst Thing a Suburban Girl Could Imagine," alludes to a mother-daughter team who are suspected of returning already-worn clothes to stores Bank rejects mawkishness. Instead, the illness imperceptibly, dynamically coaxes other long-deferred plans into life: Jane leaves New York to be with her father and mother, forces her brother to accept his family responsibilities, abandons her ailing, selfish lover, then quits her job for good and starts over. Young Jane complained to Julia that books for young girls were bad because they are "about what your life was supposed to be like, instead of what it was." In "The Girls' Guide to Hunting and Fishing," Melissa Bank accomplishes that hardest of simple things: She shows life as it is and makes it readable.
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