<?xml version="1.0" encoding="iso-8859-1" ?><rss version="2.0"><channel><title>washingtonpost.com - Miss Manners</title><link>http://www.washingtonpost.com/wp-dyn/style/columns/missmanners?nav=rss_style/columns/missmanners</link><description>Miss Manners</description><language>en-us</language><ttl>15</ttl><image><title>washingtonpost.com</title><width>140</width><height>20</height><link>http://www.washingtonpost.com</link><url>http://media.washingtonpost.com/wp-srv/hp/image/wp_web.gif</url></image><item><title><![CDATA[Embraceable? Eew.]]></title><link>http://www.washingtonpost.com/wp-dyn/articles/A12484-2005Apr23.html?nav=rss_style/columns/missmanners</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://www.washingtonpost.com/wp-dyn/articles/A12484-2005Apr23.html?nav=rss_style/columns/missmanners</guid><pubDate>Sun, 24 Apr 2005 7:50:21 GMT</pubDate><description><![CDATA[  Astonishing  new testimony has come to light in connection with the issue of socially promiscuous hugging.]]></description><author> Judith Martin</author></item><item><title><![CDATA[The Lowdown  On Downloading]]></title><link>http://www.washingtonpost.com/wp-dyn/articles/A2946-2005Apr19.html?nav=rss_style/columns/missmanners</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://www.washingtonpost.com/wp-dyn/articles/A2946-2005Apr19.html?nav=rss_style/columns/missmanners</guid><pubDate>Sun, 24 Apr 2005 7:50:21 GMT</pubDate><description><![CDATA[     Dear  Miss Manners: <br>   What is the proper response to a person who asks why I don't download illegal copies of software or music? ]]></description><author> Judith Martin</author></item><item><title><![CDATA[Minding One's Speak]]></title><link>http://www.washingtonpost.com/wp-dyn/articles/A59562-2005Apr16.html?nav=rss_style/columns/missmanners</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://www.washingtonpost.com/wp-dyn/articles/A59562-2005Apr16.html?nav=rss_style/columns/missmanners</guid><pubDate>Sun, 24 Apr 2005 7:50:21 GMT</pubDate><description><![CDATA[  The wearisome argument  that pitches free speech against political correctness shows no sign of abating, even though Miss Manners has taken the trouble to explain that both sides are right and both sides are wrong.]]></description><author> Miss Manners</author></item><item><title><![CDATA[Much Ado About Nothing]]></title><link>http://www.washingtonpost.com/wp-dyn/articles/A48126-2005Apr12.html?nav=rss_style/columns/missmanners</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://www.washingtonpost.com/wp-dyn/articles/A48126-2005Apr12.html?nav=rss_style/columns/missmanners</guid><pubDate>Sun, 24 Apr 2005 7:50:21 GMT</pubDate><description><![CDATA[     Dear Miss Manners: <br>   I work at a  college and, as on many campuses, we have here a large number of sweet young virgins who dress like a certain pop star, blissfully unaware that she dresses like an Amsterdam prostitute. Often I am uncomfortable in their...]]></description><author> Judith Martin</author></item><item><title><![CDATA[Taken Aback by Gift Requests]]></title><link>http://www.washingtonpost.com/wp-dyn/articles/A40583-2005Apr9.html?nav=rss_style/columns/missmanners</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://www.washingtonpost.com/wp-dyn/articles/A40583-2005Apr9.html?nav=rss_style/columns/missmanners</guid><pubDate>Sun, 24 Apr 2005 7:50:21 GMT</pubDate><description><![CDATA[ While Miss Manners bemoans the epidemic of greed that is spreading throughout society, others are trying to do something about it. As appalled as she at the demands of those who consider every occasion of their lives to be a fundraising opportunity and their well-wishers as a source of income, they are thinking of ways to opt out.]]></description><author> Judith Martin</author></item><item><title><![CDATA[Expecting Trouble]]></title><link>http://www.washingtonpost.com/wp-dyn/articles/A28522-2005Apr5.html?nav=rss_style/columns/missmanners</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://www.washingtonpost.com/wp-dyn/articles/A28522-2005Apr5.html?nav=rss_style/columns/missmanners</guid><pubDate>Sun, 24 Apr 2005 7:50:21 GMT</pubDate><description><![CDATA[    Dear Miss Manners: <br>    My mother-in-law and sister-in-law are planning a two-week visit, timing it for right after the birth of my twins. I also have two older children, ages 4 and 6. ]]></description><author> Judith Martin</author></item><item><title><![CDATA[Marrying for Money]]></title><link>http://www.washingtonpost.com/wp-dyn/articles/A21948-2005Apr2.html?nav=rss_style/columns/missmanners</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://www.washingtonpost.com/wp-dyn/articles/A21948-2005Apr2.html?nav=rss_style/columns/missmanners</guid><pubDate>Sun, 24 Apr 2005 7:50:21 GMT</pubDate><description><![CDATA[ Which do you suppose is the social form that people are most anxious about wording correctly?]]></description><author></author></item><item><title><![CDATA[Stranger in a Strange Land]]></title><link>http://www.washingtonpost.com/wp-dyn/articles/A11344-2005Mar29.html?nav=rss_style/columns/missmanners</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://www.washingtonpost.com/wp-dyn/articles/A11344-2005Mar29.html?nav=rss_style/columns/missmanners</guid><pubDate>Sun, 24 Apr 2005 7:50:21 GMT</pubDate><description><![CDATA[     Dear Miss Manners: <br>   I am living just now in a large city in China. I am not asking about local Chinese etiquette, but rather travelers' etiquette. ]]></description><author></author></item><item><title><![CDATA[The Colors of Mourning]]></title><link>http://www.washingtonpost.com/wp-dyn/articles/A3890-2005Mar26.html?nav=rss_style/columns/missmanners</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://www.washingtonpost.com/wp-dyn/articles/A3890-2005Mar26.html?nav=rss_style/columns/missmanners</guid><pubDate>Sun, 24 Apr 2005 7:50:21 GMT</pubDate><description><![CDATA[   Despite vehement efforts to kill them off, rituals connected with death keep coming back. They may not look as good, but they are recognizable.]]></description><author></author></item><item><title><![CDATA[A Pregnant Pause]]></title><link>http://www.washingtonpost.com/wp-dyn/articles/A58523-2005Mar22.html?nav=rss_style/columns/missmanners</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://www.washingtonpost.com/wp-dyn/articles/A58523-2005Mar22.html?nav=rss_style/columns/missmanners</guid><pubDate>Sun, 24 Apr 2005 7:50:21 GMT</pubDate><description><![CDATA[    Dear Miss Manners: <br>    How does one respond to the increasing enthusiasm of pregnant youngsters? Twice in the last year, co-workers have buttonholed me to admire the ultrasound photos of their yet-unborn offspring. ]]></description><author></author></item><item><title><![CDATA[Food Fight!]]></title><link>http://www.washingtonpost.com/wp-dyn/articles/A50358-2005Mar19.html?nav=rss_style/columns/missmanners</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://www.washingtonpost.com/wp-dyn/articles/A50358-2005Mar19.html?nav=rss_style/columns/missmanners</guid><pubDate>Sun, 24 Apr 2005 7:50:21 GMT</pubDate><description><![CDATA[   The  ancient and noble tradition of hospitality has come to this: Hosts and guests are squabbling over who gets possession of the leftovers.]]></description><author></author></item><item><title><![CDATA[Meet the Parents]]></title><link>http://www.washingtonpost.com/wp-dyn/articles/A38575-2005Mar15.html?nav=rss_style/columns/missmanners</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://www.washingtonpost.com/wp-dyn/articles/A38575-2005Mar15.html?nav=rss_style/columns/missmanners</guid><pubDate>Sun, 24 Apr 2005 7:50:21 GMT</pubDate><description><![CDATA[    Dear  Miss Manners: <br>   Hi! I wonder if you could advise me as to when parents of adult children who are dating should meet? His want to meet us, and our daughter is confused because he hasn't said he loves her yet (they have been dating for over a year). ]]></description><author></author></item><item><title><![CDATA[On the Offensive]]></title><link>http://www.washingtonpost.com/wp-dyn/articles/A30340-2005Mar12.html?nav=rss_style/columns/missmanners</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://www.washingtonpost.com/wp-dyn/articles/A30340-2005Mar12.html?nav=rss_style/columns/missmanners</guid><pubDate>Sun, 24 Apr 2005 7:50:21 GMT</pubDate><description><![CDATA[ If someone cuts into line, even if it is a bunched-up line without a clearly defined track, others in line assume the intention is to cheat and do not hesitate to voice their indignation. One person knocking against another in a crowd is apt to provoke an angry response even after an apology is offered. Even politeness can provoke a bristling reaction, as when deference shown to age is taken as a slur.]]></description><author></author></item><item><title><![CDATA[Letter Perfect]]></title><link>http://www.washingtonpost.com/wp-dyn/articles/A18653-2005Mar8.html?nav=rss_style/columns/missmanners</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://www.washingtonpost.com/wp-dyn/articles/A18653-2005Mar8.html?nav=rss_style/columns/missmanners</guid><pubDate>Sun, 24 Apr 2005 7:50:21 GMT</pubDate><description><![CDATA[      Dear Miss Manners: <br>   My husband and I were invited to a small dinner at the official residence of a head of state and spouse. What is the correct form in which to frame a thank-you letter? Should it be signed by me (the wife) on behalf of my husband and me, and...]]></description><author></author></item><item><title><![CDATA[The Hole in the Loop]]></title><link>http://www.washingtonpost.com/wp-dyn/articles/A10526-2005Mar5.html?nav=rss_style/columns/missmanners</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://www.washingtonpost.com/wp-dyn/articles/A10526-2005Mar5.html?nav=rss_style/columns/missmanners</guid><pubDate>Sun, 24 Apr 2005 7:50:21 GMT</pubDate><description><![CDATA[   The cry of lost souls echoes through the electronic wilderness: "I can't reach a human being! I have to talk to an actual person! What can I do to reach a human being?"]]></description><author></author></item><item><title><![CDATA[Hello, I'm Home!]]></title><link>http://www.washingtonpost.com/wp-dyn/articles/A64429-2005Mar1.html?nav=rss_style/columns/missmanners</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://www.washingtonpost.com/wp-dyn/articles/A64429-2005Mar1.html?nav=rss_style/columns/missmanners</guid><pubDate>Sun, 24 Apr 2005 7:50:21 GMT</pubDate><description><![CDATA[  Dear Miss Manners:<br>Although  our society has become quite informal in recent years, I still find occasions where the personal social card would be useful.]]></description><author></author></item><item><title><![CDATA[A Hug Mistake]]></title><link>http://www.washingtonpost.com/wp-dyn/articles/A56624-2005Feb26.html?nav=rss_style/columns/missmanners</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://www.washingtonpost.com/wp-dyn/articles/A56624-2005Feb26.html?nav=rss_style/columns/missmanners</guid><pubDate>Sun, 24 Apr 2005 7:50:21 GMT</pubDate><description><![CDATA[  Should  a willingness to jump into the arms of strangers be considered a test of good character?]]></description><author></author></item><item><title><![CDATA[Tuned Out]]></title><link>http://www.washingtonpost.com/wp-dyn/articles/A45562-2005Feb22.html?nav=rss_style/columns/missmanners</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://www.washingtonpost.com/wp-dyn/articles/A45562-2005Feb22.html?nav=rss_style/columns/missmanners</guid><pubDate>Sun, 24 Apr 2005 7:50:21 GMT</pubDate><description><![CDATA[      Dear Miss Manners: <br>   A lovely friend of mine has a rather annoying (to me) habit, and I would appreciate some guidance on how to address it. Whenever I put several words together that happen to be a song title, or words in a song, she'll start singing. ]]></description><author></author></item><item><title><![CDATA[Rewriting the Rules, IMHO]]></title><link>http://www.washingtonpost.com/wp-dyn/articles/A38521-2005Feb19.html?nav=rss_style/columns/missmanners</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://www.washingtonpost.com/wp-dyn/articles/A38521-2005Feb19.html?nav=rss_style/columns/missmanners</guid><pubDate>Sun, 24 Apr 2005 7:50:21 GMT</pubDate><description><![CDATA[   Considering  how sympathetic Miss Manners is to educators and employers who bemoan the demise of formal writing, you would think they could return the support.]]></description><author></author></item><item><title><![CDATA[Sit. Stay. If Necessary, Speak.]]></title><link>http://www.washingtonpost.com/wp-dyn/articles/A27678-2005Feb15.html?nav=rss_style/columns/missmanners</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://www.washingtonpost.com/wp-dyn/articles/A27678-2005Feb15.html?nav=rss_style/columns/missmanners</guid><pubDate>Sun, 24 Apr 2005 7:50:21 GMT</pubDate><description><![CDATA[   Dear Miss Manners:<br>A co-worker has recently adopted a dog and has sent out e-mail invitations to a "puppy shower." She will be "hosting" this shower at our workplace during lunchtime and has asked that everyone bring a dish.]]></description><author></author></item></channel></rss>
