Worldwide Weddings

By Walter Nicholls
Wednesday, April 14, 1999
Throwing bird seed or
rice at the bride and groom is not a universal custom. The same is true
of serving guests a fussy tiered cake dripping with sugar "roses" and topped
with a plastic couple. Wedding customs and traditional wedding foods are
different the world over.
Here's a sampling
of international wedding foods that we found at local bakeries and markets.
If you plan to serve them at your reception, make sure to place the order
well in advance.
Armenian
At many Armenian weddings
the bride and groom are crowned king and queen of their household. Then
the couple's hands are tied together with a gold cord to signify unity.
At the reception Armenian Wedding Pilaf is often served. Patrice Maljanian,
co-owner of Ann Meme's Bakery and Cafe, makes her version with caramelized
dates, dried apricots and slivered almonds ($2 per portion). The pilaf
is served with marinated lamb kabobs ($6 per portion). Ann Meme's Bakery
And Cafe, 2419 Mt. Vernon Ave., Alexandria; call 703-683-6638.
Ethiopian
According to Nini
Gezachew, owner of Nini's Market and Butcher Shop, the biggest change
in Ethiopian weddings is that most couples now wear European-style clothing
instead of traditional dress. But the food has remained the same. One
have-to-have is doro dabbo or chicken bread. It's a spicy round loaf of
wheat bread with pieces of chicken on the bone and whole hard-cooked eggs
baked inside. A chicken bread that serves 20 to 30 persons is $50. Nini's
Market and Butcher Shop, 3811 C South George Mason Dr., Falls Church;
call 703-578-6464.
Indian
An Indian wedding
is an elaborate, glittering affair that can last all day and into the
night. In southern India a coconut pudding called payasam is often served.
And Udupi Palace, a vegetarian restaurant and bakery, makes a delicious
coconut pudding ($2.95 per portion). It can be made with rice cooked in
coconut milk with a touch of cardamom or mung beans, yellow split peas
and coconut milk. The topping is grated nuts. Serve either chilled or
warm. Also available: barfi--colorful, ground-nut cookies in squares,
triangles or balls that can be stacked into a pyramid-shape ($5.95 per
pound). Udupi Palace Sweet Shop, 1329 University Blvd., Langley Park;
call 301-434-1531.
Iranian
Hossein Shirkhan,
owner of Yas, a Persian-style pastry and candy shop, sells the cone-shaped
molded sugar that is grated over the heads of the bribe and groom to signify
"sweet wishes" for the future. Shirkhan also makes sangak ($10 each)--a
large, triangular cracker bread decorated with poppy seeds that spell
out a congratulatory message for the couple. Yas Bakery, 114 E. Fairfax
St., Falls Church; call 703-237-9271.
Korean
European-style wedding
cakes are too sweet for many Koreans. They prefer a cake made of ground
steamed rice covered with red bean powder ($3.50 per pound). Or, they
may order a tiered sponge cake covered with nondairy whipped cream. At
the Korean Bakery such a cake, three-tiered, that serves 120 persons is
$250. Korean Bakery, 4217 John Marr Dr., Annandale (call 703-642-0404);
2009 Viers Mill Rd., Rockville (call 301-340-0404); 12207 Viers Mill Rd.,
Silver Spring (call 301-933-0404).
Lebanese
A soft, white, crumbly,
closed horseshoe-shaped butter cookie called ghoraibi is often served
at Lebanese weddings. The bride and groom serve the cookies themselves
to their guests. It's white in color to symbolize the purity of the bride.
The single pistachio on the cookie represents the bride's tiara. Samadi
Sweets has them for $8 per dozen. Also available: "Inlaid Baklava" trays--a
pretty way to present assorted phyllo dough and nut pastries for special
occasions ($9.50 per pound). Samadi Sweets, 5916 Leesburg Pike, Falls
Church; call 703-578-0606.
Vietnamese
On the morning of
the wedding the groom takes an even number of round, domed, metal tins
to the bride's house. Inside each qua is a selection of teas, cookies
and often wine. Huong Binh Bakery rents these bright red tins decorated
with dragons for $5 each per week. The bakery staff can help a groom select
the proper teas and cookies that will please the bride's family. Huong
Binh Bakery & Deli, 6781 Wilson Blvd., Falls Church; call 703-237-9228.
Qua containers may be purchased for $15 each from: Rong Vang Bakery, 6757
Wilson Blvd., Falls Church; call 703-538-8880.
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