The holidays, they are a-coming (insert groan here). So, stop hyperventilating in that shopping bag, and let us offer some gift suggestions that show someone you care . . . and remember his name.

Everything from tees a{grv} la "Laverne & Shirley" to customized online social stationery (www.iomoi.com) to monogrammed duvets and personalized china. And for the person who has everything: a $7,500, six-inch, posable action figure from Neiman Marcus, which can feature your face and someone else's buff polyurethane bod.

-- Janelle Erlichman

Large Boat and Tote bag in red, $24.99 (plus $5 to personalize) at 800-809-7057 or llbean.com.Monogrammed china place settings are available in many different groupings (check for minimum order rules) and service sets. Complete sets range from $300 to $1,600; place settings go from $75 to $125 and open stock items include an $86 oval platter and a $52 bread and butter plate. Available at kitchenshop.com.Remember the holidays with this Swirl frame encrusted with Swarovski crystals, $29.95 (engraving prices vary per item). Available at Things Remembered.Iomoi personalized online and offline stationery. Designs available for correspondence that goes the traditional way and the super highway way. Note cards, pack of eight, $12. To add some pomp to your e-mail, $35 for an introductory membership. Available at iomoi.com.Yummy velour Juicy Couture classic hoodie with embroidery, $99, available at shopbop.com.

Fitted capped sleeve tee with initial, $61. Available at priorities.com.