Bereavement SupportThe following free programs meet at Haven of Northern Virginia, 4606 Ravensworth Rd., Annandale. 703-941-7000,

· Widow and widower bereavement support group. 7:30-9 p.m. Tuesday.

· One-on-one grief support, by appointment.

Grief support group for adults. 7:30-9 p.m. March 1, Church of the Nativity, 6400 Nativity Lane, Burke. Free. Call Carol Mack at 703-455-2400, Ext. 17.

Educational and Self-HelpTake Off Pounds Sensibly, a support group with weekly weigh-ins and educational programs. 6:45 p.m. Thursdays, Bruen Chapel

United Methodist Church, 3035 Cedar Lane, Fairfax. Year's membership, $24; monthly, $5; first meeting, free. 703-205-9041,

Breast-feeding mothers group discussion, led by a maternal-infant nurse and lactation consultant. Weekly prize drawing, free parking, baby weight check, resource information and refreshments. 10:30 a.m.-noon Thursdays, Inova Fairfax Hospital Women's Center, 7 South Dayroom, 3300 Gallows Rd., Falls Church. $5 a session. 703-776-6455.

Mental illness, psychiatrist David Goldstein discusses mood disorders at a meeting of NAMI-Northern Virginia, 7 p.m. Monday, First Christian Church, 6165 Leesburg Pike, Falls Church. Free. 703-525-0686.

"Natural Solutions to Fibromyalgia, Chronic Pain and Fatigue," Kathryn Thomas of New Life Wellness Center discusses causes and solutions to this illness. 7-8 p.m. Tuesday, Vienna Community Center, 120 Cherry St. SE, Vienna. Free; registration required. 703-255-6360.

"For Men Only! Learning More About Breast Cancer," gain a better understanding of breast cancer, common treatments, pathology and lab results, how to support your partner, how to be an active participant throughout treatment and tips learned through experience. A light meal will be provided. 6:30-9 p.m. Monday, Life With Cancer Family Center, 2832 Juniper St., Merrifield. Free; registration required by tomorrow. 703-776-2841.

Support GroupsObsessive-compulsive disorder group, 7:30-9:30 p.m. Mondays, St. Andrew's Episcopal Church, 4000 Lorcom Lane, Arlington. Free. 703-250-1126.

Survivors of clergy abuse peer support group, sponsored by the Voice of the Faithful Northern Virginia affiliate. 7 p.m. Wednesday, Dolley Madison Library, downstairs meeting room, 1244 Oak Ridge Rd., McLean. Free. 703-538-6128.

Mental health peer support group, focuses on recovery, career goals and strategies for reconciling work and mental illness. 7-8 p.m. Wednesday, Laurie Mitchell Employment Center, 6295 Edsall Rd., Suite 175, Alexandria. Free. 703-461-3886,

Northern Virginia epilepsy group, sponsored by the Epilepsy Foundation of the Chesapeake Region, for adults with seizure disorders and their caregivers. 7-8 p.m. Wednesdays, Falls Church High School, Entrance 1, Room 100, 7521 Jaguar Trail. Free. 703-425-6660.

Life With Cancer Family Center offers the following free programs at 2832 Juniper St., Merrifield. Registration is required for each group. 703-776-2841.

· Young adult group, for ages 18 to 30-something to discuss work and health insurance concerns, dating, intimacy, body image, treatment side effects, fears of recurrence and sustaining a normal lifestyle. 7:30-9 p.m. today.

· Colorectal cancer group. 6:30-8 p.m. today.

· Living with metastatic disease, from any type of cancer. 2:30-3:30 p.m. Tuesday.

· Gynecological cancer group. 5:30-7 p.m. Wednesday.

Caregivers' meeting, for family members to discuss coping strategies, support, information related to cancer, its treatment and more. 7-8:30 p.m. Wednesday, Inova Fairfax Hospital for Children, Radiation Oncology Conference Room, 3300 Gallows Rd., Falls Church. Use Blue parking garage. Free; registration required. 703-776-2841.

-- Compiled by JEAN MACK