From Maggie Bayonet who distributes food  at the Dar Al-Hijrah Mosque in Falls Church to Maryann Tolbert who prepares hot meals at Greater New Hope Baptist Church, there were plenty of soldiers from the front lines  of compassion Friday at the 2014 Capital Area Food Bank Hunger Summit.

But purpose became entangled with frustration at the food bank when some of the providers attending the summit were asked to play the game “Face Hunger,” acting out being someone in need who must navigate the same social service in the D.C., Maryland and Virginia area that other poor people have to deal with every day.

“It is  so hard doing this,” said Bayonet, after about half an hour in which she had been denied food stamps because she wasn’t eligible, was unable to fill out an application for assistance because the form was in Russian, and had left a bank frustrated because she had only about $5 in her account. In many ways, Bayonet said, the exercise reminded her of an earlier period in her life when she was poor.

Bayonet works at the Dar Al Hijrah Mosque food bank in Falls Church Maggie Bayonet works at the Dar Al Hijrah Mosque food bank in Falls Church. (Hamil Harris/The Washington Post)

Marian Barton Peele Sr., director of partners and programs at the Capital Area Food Bank, said: “This ‘Face Hunger’ session allows someone to have empathy with those who are in need. It is hard to know what people are going though If you always have been able to go to a grocery store and get what you want.”

Peele said that the 300 food bank partners distributed 37.5 million meals to more than 478,000 participants last year. During the summit, people from churches, community groups and nonprofit organizations heard a range of speakers talk about the connection between diabetes and poverty,  the challenges to urban school nutrition programs and the intersection between health and hunger.

John Mills, who operates a food bank in Brandywine, said, “This is very enlightening because it shows what I could be going through,” and Susie Harris, who works with a food bank at the Paramount Baptist Church, said that taking part in the role-playing game showed her that trying to make it on the streets “can be very stressful.”

Tolbert said that having a door slammed in her face was insightful because many people don’t realize how hard it is for the poor to make it. “We give people food, clothing and hot meals on the second Tuesday of the month, but its hard to get people to volunteer,” she added.

Lilia Torres and Beysith Lagos, the Virginia regional coordinators for the Food Bank, said that things are even harder in the Virginia suburbs, even though they have about 180 providers, because people in need are so spread out and some immigrants are reluctant to even say they are in need.

“There is a stigma,” Torres said. “People don’t ask for help.” And when it comes to some immigrants, Lagos said, “Some people are afraid that we are going to turn them in to the government.”