What’s dinnertime like in your house? In our house, it’s chaotic, rushed, harried ... anything but relaxing. We’re working on a story about how to take the stress and guilt out of family dinners, and we’d love to hear how you handle everything: the planning, the prep, the conversation, the picky eaters, the time crunch, the setting (television or music or no background noise?) and the chores.

E-mail me at williamsmj@washpost.com, and tell me about dinner in your home.