Let’s be real here for a moment. We gays know who likes us and who doesn’t, especially when it comes to where we decide to spend our money. Same-sex couples yearning to throw their own fairy-tale wedding pretty much know exactly who would arrange their flowers, cater their reception, bake their cake and snap their keepsake photos. But those not living in a gay metropolis, where the options are limited to none, ought to have legal recourse for the indignity suffered simply because of who they love. And let’s not forget that there are indeed religious gays and lesbians who can’t abide their faith being twisted to condone discrimination against them.
If you think such discrimination against same-sex couples is theoretical, just take a listen to this outrageous radio interview with an Indiana restaurant owner who said his name was Ryan on the “Kyle & Rachel” show of Indianapolis late last week. “I understand people’s lifestyles and what they want to do, but I don’t want them bringing that into my place of business and make my other people that are there uncomfortable,” said Ryan, who also proclaimed himself to be a Christian. But what kind of Christian would do what he said he did when asked if he ever discriminated against gays?
“I have discriminated,” he said. “I have not really closed early, but I have said something is broken in the kitchen so that I couldn’t serve them.” When the incredulous radio host Rachel Bogle asked whether he was okay with doing such a thing, the owner replied: “I feel okay with it because it’s my place of business. I pay the rent. I built it. It’s all my money and my doing so it’s my place. I can do whatever I want with it. They can have their lifestyle and do their things on their own place or have people that want to be with them in their type of place not my type of place.”
This not only flies in the face of decency and morality, but it also flies in the face of an assertion by Indiana Gov. Mike Pence on “This Week” yesterday. “Hoosiers don’t believe in discrimination. …I mean this is not about discrimination,” he said many times in avoiding a yes-or-no question about whether it should be legal in his state to discriminate against gays and lesbians. “This is about protecting the religious liberty of every Hoosier of every faith.” No, it’s not, which is why the state legislature is now hustling to “clarify” the law.
The great silver lining in all this is that the loudest voices against what Pence has done are from private businesses. Discrimination isn’t just wrong. It’s bad for business. You’d think a governor would know that.
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