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Carolyn Hax: What kind of friend gives a weight-loss book as a gift?

What possesses a friend to give a weight-loss book as a gift? This letter-writer wants to tell her how much it hurt.

By Carolyn HaxFebruary 3, 2023
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Ask Amy: Grandma-to-be doesn’t want to host baby shower for unmarried couple

She thinks her son and his pregnant girlfriend should be married and doesn’t want to throw them a baby shower.

By Amy DickinsonFebruary 3, 2023
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Miss Manners: Solo diner feels shamed by host’s ‘just one?’ question

A frequent solo diner doesn’t like it when restaurant hosts ask him, “Just one?”

By Judith Martin, Nicholas Martin and Jacobina MartinFebruary 3, 2023
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Ask Sahaj: He wants kids, but I don’t. Should we break up?

She has two kids already and isn’t interested in having more. Her boyfriend initially said he didn’t want kids, but now he’s changed his mind.

By Sahaj Kaur KohliFebruary 2, 2023
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Ask Amy: Veteran struggles with PTSD, addiction and wife’s affair

A veteran struggles with the affair his wife had during his struggles with PTSD and addiction.

By Amy DickinsonFebruary 2, 2023
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Miss Manners: Landscaper is always finding clients’ hidden house keys

A landscaper is always finding clients’ hidden house keys and wonder if they should say something.

By Judith Martin, Nicholas Martin and Jacobina MartinFebruary 2, 2023
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Carolyn Hax: Caregiver is publicly blamed for father-in-law’s death

Sister-in-law didn't visit her ailing dad, and is now blaming his death "nonstop" on the in-law who cared for him.

By Carolyn HaxFebruary 2, 2023
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I’m looking for hope after my husband cheated. Carolyn Hax readers give advice.

He had an affair and threatened divorce. Carolyn Hax readers advise his spouse, who's looking for hope that "he can muster love for me again."

By Carolyn Hax and Haben KelatiFebruary 1, 2023
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Summer camp conundrum: Let them play or send them to educational camp?

The answer is ... yes. Children need to play, and even educational camps should allow for that.

By Meghan LeahyFebruary 1, 2023
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Ask Amy: Should I invite my estranged cousin to my wedding?

A bride-to-be is conflicted about inviting her estranged cousin to her upcoming wedding.

By Amy DickinsonFebruary 1, 2023
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Carolyn Hax: No thank-you notes? Fine, no more gifts then.

Recognizing that thank-you notes are endangered doesn't make it feel any better to keep sending unacknowledged gifts.

By Carolyn HaxFebruary 1, 2023
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Miss Manners: My friend has a large nude painting of herself on display

A reader feels uncomfortable in their friend’s living room – where a “very large and very explicit and detailed” nude photo of her hangs.

By Judith Martin, Nicholas Martin and Jacobina MartinFebruary 1, 2023
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Ask Elaine: Should I change directions after being let go from my job?

A reader tries to figure out what's next after being let go from their job.

By Elaine WelterothJanuary 31, 2023
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Ask Amy: I’m dating, but I can’t shake the fear of getting hurt again

A reader got out of a terrible marriage a couple years ago and worries about getting hurt again.

By Amy DickinsonJanuary 31, 2023
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Miss Manners: We’re 3 years apart but she keeps saying how young I am

A reader’s friend won’t stop commenting on their age even though they’re only three years apart.

By Judith Martin, Nicholas Martin and Jacobina MartinJanuary 31, 2023
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Carolyn Hax: Dependent adult son pushes back against mom’s pressure

Mom wants her son to work full time and stop relying on his dad, but his response to her expectations is at times "aggressively defiant."

By Carolyn HaxJanuary 31, 2023
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The best Carolyn Hax columns about new beginnings

A roundup of the best Carolyn Hax columns about new beginnings.

By Haben Kelati and Carolyn HaxJanuary 30, 2023
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Ask Amy: 10 years after my affair, I have no freedom in my marriage

A reader had an affair ten years ago. Despite taking accountability and proving their fidelity since, their wife still treats them “like a grounded teenager.”

By Amy DickinsonJanuary 30, 2023
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Carolyn Hax: Spouse is not okay with husband’s disregard for risk

A husband ignores post-op instructions, just the latest in risky behavior that his spouse struggles to accept.

By Carolyn HaxJanuary 30, 2023
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Miss Manners: Can I refuse handshakes because of someone’s politics?

A professor wonders if they can refuse to shake the hands of parents whose politics are abhorrent to them.

By Judith Martin, Nicholas Martin and Jacobina MartinJanuary 30, 2023