Be sure to study the bill given to you closely. Look for the security features built into it: the color-shifting ink on the bottom right corner, and the watermark.
For online sales, meet the purchaser either at a police substation or at a bank — anywhere that has lots of cameras, and where you can verify the authenticity of the bill.
Dear Heloise: Please warn your readers about the online practice of "catfishing." The victim is seduced by a glossy, too-good-to-be-true dating profile and biography, and a stunning picture of someone (maybe a model), not the perpetrator.
A relationship is established, with promises of a lavish lifestyle and gifts. Then calamity strikes. The catfish claims some dire circumstance where she or he is in need of a large sum of money. Don't buy it.
The Federal Trade Commission has some hints to help:
● Never send money electronically (wire transfer) to, or load money on a cash card for, someone you don't know.
● The catfish will inspire a sense of urgency — he or she wants you to rush out and get money. Slow down.
● Contact the dating site AND the FTC at ftc.gov/complaint.
I hope these hints help your readers avoid this common online fraud. I wish I had known about them sooner.
Robert in Chicago
Dear Heloise: I feel for people whose homes were destroyed in storms. My thought is to build a dome-shaped home instead of the traditional structure. I don't think that the high winds would have the same destructive power.
Frank S., Orange, Calif.
Frank S.: You might be on to something. Stand a box on end and note that it’s able to twist and bend. So can a conventional house in a natural disaster, and then it could potentially collapse. Flip a large bowl upside down and it is much harder to change its shape. So it probably could be for a dome-shaped house in a high wind, rain or earthquake situation.
Dear Heloise: When I retired, I needed something to do besides housework. I joined a porcelain doll-making class for 12 years, and I also joined a memoir-writing class. I've published two books!
Three years ago, I found a guitar class, which I love. The class performs at the county fair every year, and we often perform for the senior center and other places that request us.
Keeping Busy at 84 in California
Keeping Busy at 84 in California: Love that you’re keeping busy and enjoying life — so important!