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George H.W. Bush ‘has patted women’s rears’ but never meant to offend, spokesman says

After two women stepped forward and said that former president George H.W. Bush groped them, he apologized for "what he intended to be a good-natured manner." (Video: Reuters)

A spokesman for George H.W. Bush did not deny recent groping allegations from two actresses, saying in a statement that the former president had occasionally “patted women’s rears.”

But the 41st president never intended to offend or be inappropriate, Jim McGrath said in a statement. Instead, he said, the actions, which were usually paired with a joke, were an “attempt at humor.”

Two actresses, Heather Lind and Jordana Grolnick, said this week that Bush had groped them as they posed for pictures at previous events. Both actresses said the former president’s wife saw what happened. In Grolnick’s case, Bush joked that his favorite magician’s name is “David Cop-a-Feel” as he grabbed her from behind, she said.

Bush, through his spokesman, has since apologized. In a statement Wednesday evening, McGrath said:

At age 93, President Bush has been confined to a wheelchair for roughly five years, so his arm falls on the lower waist of people with whom he takes pictures. To try to put people at ease, the president routinely tells the same joke — and on occasion, he has patted women’s rears in what he intended to be a good-natured manner. Some have seen it as innocent; others clearly view it as inappropriate. To anyone he has offended, President Bush apologizes most sincerely.

Lind said the incident happened when she met Bush four years ago during a promotion of a historical television show she was working on. She played Anna Strong in AMC’s Revolutionary War-era drama “Turn: Washington Spies,” which premiered in 2014. She said Bush “sexually assaulted” her as she stood next to him during a photo op.

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“He touched me from behind from his wheelchair with his wife Barbara Bush by his side. He told me a dirty joke. And then, all the while being photographed, he touched me again,” Lind wrote in the Instagram post, which has since been deleted.

Lind said Barbara Bush “rolled her eyes as if to say ‘not again’ ” when she saw what happened. McGrath said the former first lady has no comment.

Lind also said that a security guard later told her that she shouldn’t have stood next to Bush.

After news of Lind’s allegations circulated online, Grolnick talked about a similar experience. She told Deadspin that she was working on a production of “The Hunchback of Notre Dame” in Maine in August 2016, near the Bush family compound in Kennebunkport, when Bush came backstage during intermission and grabbed her as they posed for a picture.

“He reached his right hand around to my behind, and as we smiled for the photo he asked the group, ‘Do you want to know who my favorite magician is?’ As I felt his hand dig into my flesh, he said, ‘David Cop-a-Feel!’ ” Grolnick said.

The other women in the picture laughed uncomfortably while Barbara Bush made a remark like, “He’s going to get himself put into jail!” Grolnick said. Grolnick, who posted a photo of the moment on her Instagram account, according to Deadspin, said she had been warned by other actors not to stand next to Bush.

Dozens of actresses have gone public with allegations that Hollywood producer and former studio executive Harvey Weinstein sexually harassed or assaulted them. Reports by the New York Times and the New Yorker detailed previously undisclosed allegations of harassment and criminal sexual abuse that spanned several years. The Post found three more similar cases.

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Millions of women and men have since taken to Facebook and Twitter, using the hashtag #MeToo as they post their experiences with sexual harassment or assault. Lind also used the hashtag on her Instagram post.

“What comforts me is that I too can use my power, which isn’t so different from a president really,” she wrote. “I can enact positive change. I can actually help people. I can be a symbol of my democracy. I can refuse to call him president, and call out other abuses of power when I see them.”

Lind said she decided to talk about the incident after seeing a photo of Bush and former president Barack Obama shaking hands at an event last weekend. The two, along with three other ex-presidents, appeared at a benefit concert Saturday in Texas to raise money for hurricane victims.

“I found it disturbing because I recognize the respect ex-presidents are given for having served,” Lind said. “And I feel pride and reverence toward many of the men in the photo.”

It’s unclear when exactly Lind shared the Instagram post or when and why she decided to delete it.

Managers for Grolnick and Lind did not immediately respond to requests for comment from The Washington Post. 

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