How much debt is a relationship dealbreaker?
New research from personal finance site finder.com found people do put a price on how much debt is acceptable in a potential partner.
Got more than $11,000 in credit card debt?
The finder.com survey of 2,000 Americans found that’s the benchmark ($11,525 on average to be exact) that is deemed unacceptable. Just over 77 percent of survey respondents consider credit card debt to be reason to kick someone to the curb.
Payday loans averaging $1,830 were deemed bad, and student loans at $51,000. Interestingly, millennials were the least accepting of student loans.
Business loans were the most tolerable type of debt.
Here’s the survey: “What types of debt do Americans consider unacceptable in a partner?”
“When it comes to gender, there isn’t much difference between the types of debt each consider unacceptable in a partner” according to the survey results. “The top three most unacceptable debts for both genders are consistent: credit card, payday loans and student loans.”
“Roses are red. And debt is too. But if you owe too much money, I’m not dating you,” writes Quentin Fottrell for MarketWatch giving his take on the find.com survey. “Given that many people are finally getting back on their feet after the Great Recession and now looking at an eerily familiar sight of a stock market gripped by turbulence, it’s probably understandable.”
As I have written in my column, I don’t think that you have to dump people just because of a heavy debt load, whether it’s education or even credit card obligations. If you’re dating and want to know when debt should be a deal-breaker, here are four signs.
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How much debt would make a person undateable to you? Send your comments to firstname.lastname@example.org. In the subject line put “Dating and Debt.” Please include your name, city and state. All opinions are welcome but please keep your comments civil.
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For last week’s question I asked you to help me help folks who think they can’t afford to invest. I asked: What have you gained from investing? Dennis E. Quillen of Hattiesburg, Miss., said he can often get the attention of potential investors by noting the following:
1. “Rule of 72.”
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Investopedia explains more in “What is the Rule of 72?”
“A simplified way to determine how long an investment will take to double, given a fixed annual rate of interest.”
From Kiplinger: How to Motivate Your Kids to Save and Invest: The Rule of 72
2. The power of compound interest, “or even better, provide online site for interactive monthly investments in different amounts.”
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