Jessica Zucker, Ph.D. is a Los Angeles based psychologist. She is the creator of a line of pregnancy loss cards and the #IHadAMiscarriage campaign. Find her online, Instagram @ihadamiscarriage and Twitter @DrZucker.

Ryan Alexander-Tanner is a cartoonist and educator based in Portland, Oregon. His comics work is focused on making underrepresented ideas and ideals more accessible. You can find him at and on Twitter @ohyesverynice.

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