By Jessica Zucker and Kimothy Joy January 18, 2018By Jessica Zucker and Kimothy Joy January 18, 2018ShareText by Jessica Zucker. Illustrations by Kimothy Joy. Jessica Zucker is a Los Angeles-based psychologist specializing in women’s health. She is the creator of the #IHadAMiscarriage campaign.Support our journalism. Subscribe today.arrow-rightKimothy Joy is a Denver-based artist who partners with people and organizations on social-awareness campaigns to inspire thought and action. She is the author and illustrator of the upcoming book “That’s What She Said.”Follow On Parenting on Facebook for more essays, news and updates and join our discussion group here to talk about parenting and balancing a career. You can sign up here for our weekly newsletter.More reading:I had a miscarriage. Talk to me. Losing a speck of a child, surviving a tiny tragedyA pregnancy ends, a nameless baby is lovedToday's HeadlinesThe most important news stories of the day, curated by Post editors and delivered every morning.