Emily Bazelon is a senior editor at Slate, the Truman Capote fellow at Yale Law School and the author of “Sticks and Stones: Defeating the Culture of Bullying and Rediscovering the Power of Character and Empathy.”

As the same-sex-marriage movement blossoms across the country, it’s become the civil rights triumph of our era — a big, beautiful story. Which explains, I suppose, why the fight over how to tell it has already begun.

David Boies and Theodore B. Olson are the superstar lawyers who last year won the case that cleared the way for same-sex marriage in California . To chronicle their work, they let New York Times writer Jo Becker — along with an award-winning photographer and an HBO film crew for a documentary out this month — follow them daily. Becker’s book “Forcing the Spring,” reviewed in these pages by Connie Schultz in April, treats the California case as the only gay-marriage story worth telling, shortchanging the work of the activists, thinkers and lawyers who preceded it for nearly two decades.

In case you missed the self-serving point, Boies and Olson have now published their own book. It’s called “Redeeming the Dream,” and that is exactly how they cast themselves — as twin redeemers who saved same-sex marriage from the veteran lawyers in the field who had the temerity to disagree with them on strategy. Never mind that it is the litigators whose handiwork has led judge after judge to strike down 14 state bans on gay marriage in less than a year. (In 10 of those cases, appeals are pending.) That fact is being steamrolled out of existence by Boies and Olson — who were paid $6.4 million for their work — and their giant PR machine.

Let’s start, as lawyers like to do, by stipulating to agreed-upon facts. Boies is one of the best trial lawyers in the country, and Olson is one of the best Supreme Court advocates. They argued against each other in Bush v. Gore , Olson for the Republicans and Boies for the Democrats . When they came together to put California’s gay-marriage ban on trial in 2010, at the behest of activist Chad Griffin and Hollywood director Rob Reiner, Boies and Olson had an odd-couple act with instant appeal. And at the trial in San Francisco, they shredded the rationale for California’s ban, Proposition 8, exposing the arguments used to justify it as bigoted and outdated.

’Redeeming the Dream: The Case for Marriage Equality’ by David Boies and Theodore B. Olson (Viking)

In the best part of their book, Boies and Olson expertly skewer the weaknesses and backtracking of their opponents’ key witnesses. Prop. 8’s defenders lost big and fell hard. Lead counsel Charles Cooper famously blurted, “I don’t know; I don’t know,” in response to a question about how same-sex marriage would harm the traditional opposite-sex version of the institution. Under cross-examination, expert witness David Blankenhorn agreed that “we would be more, emphasize more, American on the day we permitted same-sex marriage than we were on the day before.”

Boies and Olson observe that sometimes “a trial is important to prove what everyone at some level already knows.” They may be right that their case, Hollingsworth v. Perry , helped change minds. But nowhere in this book will you learn that Perry was not the foundational legal challenge to same-sex marriage or even the most important gay-marriage case to go to the Supreme Court in 2013. That status goes to United States v. Windsor , argued by Roberta Kaplan, the culmination of a painstaking, decade-long strategy crafted by veteran gay litigators such as Mary Bonauto and Evan Wolfson. Here is the truth that Boies and Olson’s hubris threatens to obscure: The same-sex-marriage movement did not need two straight lawyers to come to its rescue.

There were two parts to the strategy of Bonauto, Wolfson and their colleagues. First, they emphasized pushing for same-sex marriage at the ballot box, so that the drive for equality would take root among voters. Boies and Olson say that back in 2009, when they decided to take the California case, no such election had been won.

Since then, three states have legalized gay marriage by popular vote, and seven states and the District of Columbia have done so with legislation. This work is turning marriage equality into a democratically shared value, as the swiftly rising poll numbers show.

Meanwhile, gay rights litigators took a deliberately incremental approach in court. Their claim in Windsor was that the 1996 federal Defense of Marriage Act was unconstitutional, as a matter of states’ rights as well as equality, because it denied federal benefits (such as a break on inheritance taxes) to gay couples whose states had given them the right to marry.

Windsor is Perry’s plain sister, the unsexy one who gets things done. Last June, exactly as its strategists had hoped, the Supreme Court struck down a key part of DOMA. On paper, the ruling applied only in states that had legalized same-sex marriage. But writing for a majority of five, Justice Anthony Kennedy made rousing statements about equality and dignity. In the months since, judge after judge has relied on those stirring sentences to strike down same-sex-marriage bans in the 14 additional states.

Boies and Olson also won at the Supreme Court, and their victory is no small thing. Because of it, gay marriage became legal in California. But the court based its decision on a technicality, saying that because California and its attorney general had declined to defend Prop. 8 on appeal, the appeal itself was invalid. That’s why it’s the ballot box plus Windsor, not Perry, that matters nationwide for the future.

Boies and Olson are understandably proud of the role they played. Who can blame them? But it’s patronizing and completely wrong to insinuate that they got the strategy right while the movement got it wrong. And it is just asking for trouble to exaggerate their own importance at the expense of Bonauto, Wolfson, and all the gay rights groups and activists who stood with them. Where is their book? As the writer E.J. Graff points out, it has yet to be written. Enough already with the credit-hogging straight version of gay history. I want to read the story about gay marriage that gay parents will tell their children.

Emily Bazelon is a senior editor at Slate, the Truman Capote fellow at Yale Law School and the author of “Sticks and Stones: Defeating the Culture of Bullying and Rediscovering the Power of Character and Empathy.”


The Case for Marriage Equality

By David Boies and Theodore B. Olson

Viking. 310 pp. $28.95