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Carolyn Hax Pan-Hootenanny 2021 (Aug. 20 | 12 p.m. ET)
Advice columnist Carolyn Hax answers your questions about the strange train we call life.
- Aug 20, 2021
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Carolyn Hax: A year post-breakup and still plagued by one question: ‘Did I quit too soon?’
A relationship that seemed destined for marriage derails over unresolved childhood pain.
- Aug 14, 2021
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Carolyn Hax chat: I live in California. I can’t handle the constant fear of fires. Should I move?
Advice columnist Carolyn Hax answers your questions about the strange train we call life.
- Aug 13, 2021
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Carolyn Hax: Friend RSVPs yes — unless wedding conflicts with concert she’d rather attend
When a friend opts out of your milestone event, do you say how hurt you are?
- Aug 13, 2021
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Carolyn Hax: Cousin got engaged at your wedding. It ended your friendship. Now she has covid.
Woman who stole the spotlight — literally! — at her now-estranged cousin's wedding has covid, and would like her apology now.
- Aug 12, 2021
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An update on off-topic comments on Carolyn Hax columns
We want to update the Carolyn Hax community on an upcoming change related to off-topic comments. Beginning on Monday, August 16, The Post moderation team will remove off-topic comments from Hax columns and chats.
- Aug 11, 2021
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Carolyn Hax: Gay teen is not here for Grandma’s disappointing lack of support
Dad can't see why gay child refuses to visit unsupportive grandma, and Mom can't see why he can't see that.
- Aug 11, 2021
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Carolyn Hax: What’s left of a marriage when a spouse moves three time zones away?
Career snags and personal struggles drive a couple shockingly far apart.
- Aug 10, 2021
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Carolyn Hax: A beloved mother’s sudden death and the grief left behind
How to handle the grief after a beloved mother’s sudden cancer diagnosis and death.
- Aug 9, 2021
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Carolyn Hax: Up-at-dawn worker silently resents partner with (apparently) cushier job
How to respond to a partner with an easier job who thinks a half-day's work counts as 'busy'?
- Aug 8, 2021


