Advice Columnist Carolyn Hax takes your questions and tackles your problems.

  • Oct 26, 2018

A reader’s spouse wired the house — inside and out — and plays loud music all the time.

  • Oct 22, 2018

Don’t stay quiet about your feelings, but also don’t assume the friendship won’t survive.

  • Oct 21, 2018

Tell her that keeping her paternity secret would damage her son’s marriage.

  • Oct 20, 2018

Even if an introverted spouse ducks out early, the host can still have an successful soiree.

  • Oct 19, 2018

She misses her sister-in-law, who has a child. But it’s been hard to talk to her without feeling like she is resentful.

  • Oct 18, 2018

A former colleague who moved an hour away talks about getting together, then goes silent.

  • Oct 17, 2018

Their decision is probably meant to avoid her irksome mom. Try to go with it graciously.

  • Oct 16, 2018

It’s an amazing thing you’re doing. Let him know there’s more love where that came from.

  • Oct 15, 2018

Excluding a child cruelly tips the gender-politics seesaw too far in the other direction.

  • Oct 14, 2018
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